₦airaland Forum

Ghost8889:
What are the things that you did or stop doing that changed your life
Me:
1. I stopped masturbating.
2. Deleted my Facebook and whatsapp account, and started reading books.
3. Started fasting.
4. Stopped going after girls, and started going after my dreams.

Share yours

Some people do all of the above habits you quitted and are still successful and happy.

The earlier people learn life has no guideline or rules and should live life to it'd fullest the better for them.

ModestGal:
Hmmn, this can never happen in my town

Shut up, , with your shitty holier than thou attitude .

To those girls Make una enjoy na life jare.

Palema007:
This isn't cool, you should have allowed op to finish it up. Spoiler!

The op was bull shitting around. Kudos to Article beast.

"Soldiers never die, they rest." R.I.P to all our fallen heroes

I pay my respect

VEXT:
Worst porn actor ever

Is he the guy that wears mask while in stage?

phreddie:
Just do it bro.

When you see a girl you fancy, walk up and say hi and follow up from there

It's perfectly normal to feel nervous at first, you just have to push past that impulse and walk up to her.

Most girls are attracted to confidence so it's not really about what you say but your body language.

Communicate confidence by subtle things, like walking up to her immediately you make eye contact, looking straight at her when you talk (with a smile o), keeping hands in pocket can work too.

Also, don't be bothered by what to say, just say whatever come to your mind.

The worst case scenario is that she will say No, and that's okay cause not every girl would want you (which is normal)

In the end you'd be happy with yourself, that you overcame your weakness regardless of the outcome.

Bro I think after saying like hello/hi, next thing is to tell why you approached her, this I think saves one the stress as ultimately it's a matter of acceptance or rejection.

melodyogonna:
The difference between r/sex and r/socialskills on Reddit and this romance section on Nairaland be like trekking to heaven from Nigeria

Been hearing of Reddit, never took it seriously. Recently out of curiosity I decide to takee a glance, I stayed glued and finally decide to sign up. Great decision, great app. On par with Quora as most fantastic sites on the internet.

Timekeeper:
Nice one...

Tecno is moving forward Sha. Who wud have ever imagined tecno will have a phone of 8gb ram and 128gb..

No body will believe it.. Now it is competing with iPhone 11 pro max and Samsung s10... All at the same level now

Tecno is advancing


Tecno IPhone Samsung.. Same level


I use iPhone 12 pro max and I use this tecno camom 16. So I know what I am saying..

If you doubt me, then pls check my signature for avoidance or doubt...

Techno, iPhone in the same sentence? Is this a joke? Haba bros, even huawei ( best Chinese brand) can't compete with the Almighty iphone

DjRicky:
I dnt suport jungle justice but d only justice any1 killed by dis political thugs(NG security angents) is JUNGLE JUSTICE.

Jungle Justice is never the way to go bro.

Deborah98:
See her as a distraction and focus on why you are there...

Easier said than done.........

Madibah:
Damn it man ...
I'm above masturbation and I've vowed never to do it again..
Masturbation is a crazy thing
It's makes u loose confidence
It brings badluck to you (6month I didn't catch out 1 naira)..

Bro please stop masturbation o..
But I'll leave it to you, it's ur decision to make

So masturbating brings bad luck? Its no wonder Africa as a whole is still backward .

ChingaOne:
Can you explain what masterbation is in plain english

.
The act of stimulating ones genitals in order to archive pleasure.

Instead of you to give him sound advice you are here asking silly questions

Anyone knows where Mikel lives?

MENZPRIDE:
I guessed you've not been following...

Really? Please tell me more

Or11:
Olodo Aussies are from Australia not Austria and it's as cold as most countries in Europe.

Austria has a decent weather compared to its European counterparts - Nordic countries, Siberia and most eastern European countries. So its not really among the coldest.

So educate yourself before calling anyone olodo

Mumu guy

Or11:
Olodo Aussies are from Australia not Austria and it's as cold as most countries in Europe.

Oga must you insult him?

"Nigerian form of discipline is the best" so they say, but all I see is ill-mannered and impolite people.

OhBiafra:
These so called developed countries are not helping is at all, why do they keep receiving these idiots? Is it because of the money they bring?

What stops the Nigerian government from investing in its health sector?

seborrhic:
SR?
Rather wait for a reputable medium to carry the story rather than make a fool of oneself with a comment based on more likely to be false-than-true news from SR.

Can you pinpoint exactly the falsehood in the article?

kokakola:
I have been watching this guy closely and I discovered he is a perfect gentleman. He has some good attitude and he surely know how to react without cheap publicity, Infact, he hates publicity.
I just like his personality and this is why he has achieved this much.

But I think he shouldn't have raised all this saga when he knows a well he won't be allowed to leave, ya know at the end he comes across like more like a drama king to me . As a professional player of his caliber he ought to have consult expert opinion before making his decision public.

ModestGal:
At 20, I was in NYSC.

I have known everything I know now since 20, no regret no mistake. I'm just growing in those knowledge now.

[/b]What can I tell you to do? Nothing, life is unpredictable many times, just make sure you scrutinize before taking decisions [b]

Exactly, this life is unpredictable, very dynamic, always changing. You just don't know what may or may not happen. Sometimes, the best way to enjoy this life is to "be as fluid and formless as water". And sure, the decision one takes today has consequences and repercussion, either good or bad.

Ayemileto:
Well, nobody told me they were poor. I know that have the highest numbers of billionaires in the world, more than any other country.


The reason why I made that statement is because of a previous video OP made that I watched, he was literally taking the food to people on the street and some of them were eating it like

But someone (who probably watched that video) already quoted me and clarified that it does not necessarily mean they are poor, rather, they are eager to try new things, and they don't have the typical Nigerian mentality. A typical Nigerian will never accept food from just any random person on the street

Your last paragraph says it all

pansophist:
I won't hit first, but I'll hit last. Thats my rule concerning domestic violence. My gf witnessed when I beat the shit out of a racist trying to attack me, so she knows surely that its not a matter of if I can't beat back, but a matter of not provoking me. Life no hard.

I know you are a real gee from day one. Chop knuckle.

I absolutely share your sentiment, and it remains my stance on this issue - whoever tries to physically assault me(with malicious intent), regardless of gender or age will be met with appropriate response.

As other people have suggested - cream, butt-enhancing exercises are your best bet. Surgery is expensive and may comes with risk.

That said, you are just like me "I love them thick and curvy"

Ayemileto:
Baba, stop adding too much pepper to your foods. Not all Nigerians love spicy foods, before they start thinking all our foods contain lots of pepper.


[s][/s]Also, it seems many Russians are poor and hungry.[s][/s]

This video is better off though, unlike the last one where you were taking food across the street, and they were eating it gladly. It's very awkward .

In General, thank you for representing and promoting Nigeria out there.

Their GDP per capita says otherwise. And whoever told Russians are poor people lied to you. You know if you look at their GDP per capita its way higher than that of any African country but lower than that of wealthy countries like Switzerland, Germany, US, Qatar, Sweden and do on. The bottom line is they are not poor and not rich, maybe average.

Eagba:
ode, if you like go n browse n come here n be like" Karl Benz yen yen yen". ode it still took Benz time to become the brand it is today and with support n patronage from from their people first , they became what they are today. ode nobody gets it right at first. n ode stop quoting me

Ode is that all you can pull ? What a shitty moderfucker .

Let me school you a bit. Mercedes Benz is infamously well known for ages as a reliable and premium automobile brand, it cars were never mediocre, always ahead of its peers - innovative, classy and luxury. It seems you are very ignorant and stupid to understand basic information .

You don't expect me to patronise crappy "made in Nigeria" goods simply for the sake of it. That's not how life works. Even in Germany not everyone buy German cars despite being of high quality.

So Mr ode , make some simple Google search and stop disgracing your moronic self

Eagba:
Benz became excellent from day one, low self esteem is your middle name

OK clown. :DKindly know that Karl Benz invented the automobile, and till date no brand does better than benz

Yeah, "live and let live", a simple concept you find difficult to understand. See, its quite simple really, guys like wounded lamb and authority have done a great job in enlightening you regarding this, but for reasons unclear to me you seen not to grasp it.

So long as people actions doesn't affect you steer clear! Unless if they pose any harm to you. Else mind your damn business, as you live your life in peace also let other people live theirs . And beside who are you to judge? , And where did you get that moral superiority that gives the backbone to sit in the comfort of your sofa and be casting judgements.

You talked about morality and all that but that's a subjective matter. What have you got to say regarding legally nude beaches in Europe and elsewhere? Go and preach the your actions affect one bla bla? People will be like who's this silly dude?

I somehow feel this argument is a bit silly and a waste of time as I can't understand why a full grown adult will fail to grasp this simple concept.

paul100:
A real friend will always be there forever.My friend traveled abroad,2yrs ago but we do talk steady,do video calls at least 4times a week.
The guy said no matter the years,he cannot forget his true friends in Nigeria.

That dude is a legend.

He has my respect.

Sarmiz24:
Naija wise up nothing good about any state in this country all are over rated slump, expcially Lagos and port harcourt... if y’all don’t wake up and fight for your future, ur future will fight against u so y’all need to wise up now

They will soon label you unpatriotic citizen. Wait for them. Na their way

[quote author= post=93585396]God bless you all for the good wishes.
Thousands of people will be there with you and for you on the day of your success and celebration which is coming very very soon.
Again, You are all blessed in Jesus name.
Insha Allah.

This beautiful and lovely song is for y'all......

*singing*

My blessings come now
Favour fall down on you,
Goodness and mercy follow you, everyday
Everything wey you touch
For this life, anything wey you want
Shey na mansion o, shey na porche o
Na you get am o
If dem dey doubt you, no mind dem
If bad belle come, make you bind (blind) dem
Your time don come oo
Ayo wa ba le o

Ire ooo – ire
Ayomide o – Ayomide
Everyday ooo showers of blessings rain on me

Shey na money wey u want - Oya o
Abi o fe ra moto o
Time don come o
Oh Ayo wa ba le le o
Happiness knocking – wole wa
Prosperity something – l'on gbe wa
And blessing calling
Oh Ayo wa ba Lemi o

Sing till fade........


Chai!
U don slaughter all the children of hate and frustration patapata.
U harsh o Oga Edu.
#PepperDemGang.
Dem MANNA personal person [/quote]Your asslicking is legendary

Temmy6236:
Life has never been balanced, not yet balanced, and never will.
As many people dey complain and suffer for the country at these times, these ones are stinkingly rich and doing wedding.

No matter how long you rant, these people are wealthy and will continue to have more. So better face your hustle so that you sef go dey alright.

Any way, I'm facing my own hustle here with this book wey I dey read all night.

Correct gee! Life was/ never ever be balanced. Face your hustle and change the tide. Naso baba!