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YoungandDepress:
I regret my past daily. I think about it all the time but it does me no good. I have accepted my fate and moved on but like they say the evil that men do surely lives with them.
I'm suffering from the consequences of what I brought upon myself and pray life gets better for me.

Thank you for your advice.

"The evil that men do surely lives with them". I'm skeptical about that statement.

Epositive:
Mr younganddepress,

Being in 300L at 23 shouldn't make you feel bad. I'm in 300L too, after spending 4 years at home. I thought my case was bad till I gained admission. When I saw mamas and papas dragging queue with me for screening in the faculty. I just calmed down.

Again, you said you are broke. Lol, ain't we all broke? You can hook up with the hustlers in your streets even if it's car wash, waiter or any available job, try and engage yourself. You can't make money by mere crossing of legs and reminiscing. That you are intelligent won't automatically make you a fortune if you don't act on it. What's your talent and area of interests, what are you doing to develop them?

Look, it's not easy anywhere. Now that you have overcome the gambling habit, the next best thing is for you to look out for yourself. Bros, look for work and do. It's not advisable that you learn trade based on your narrative, but try and engage yourself. You seems too optimistic rather that staying in tune with reality.

Stop comparing yourself with others. It only breeds low self-esteem and self-loathing. Don't be a victim of peer pressure and juvenile delinquency. Reduce your expectations. Reorient yourself and you will be fine.

NB: All the religious talks are inconsequential. Get over it and be realistic.

I hate it when people say "its not easy anywhere". That is erroneous phrase and very untrue.

I am literally in the same shoe as you - same age, similar predicament. Yours is even a bit pretty than mine : supportive mum, an affluent elder bro, currently in uni. These are feats I can only dream of. So you see, its not all that bad, though I perfectly understand your legitimate concerns one thing I will tell you is you are not alone.

However, I suggest you look for a job(however little the pay is give it a try, at least it will keep you busy and you will have something at the end of the day, you might even make one or two friends ya know). Get a girlfriend, i know this sounds counterproductive but man I know what I am saying, the love, affection, bond you will share is good for your wellbeing and who knows it might lead to opportunities, ya never can tell. And lastly stick to hope, happy days are ahead, I feel it, this hardship won't last, it's a phase we are passing through, it will pass some day, I assre you.

I dedicate the song "you'll never walk alone" to myself, you and struggling youth out there

"When you walk through a storm
Hold your head up high
And don't be afraid of the dark

At the end of a storm
There is golden sky
And the sweet song of lark

Walk on through the wind
Walk on through the rain
Though your dreams be tossed and blown

Walk on , walk on
With hope , in your heart
And you will never walk alone
You'll never walk alone

Walk on, walk on
With hope, in your heart
And you will never walk alone
You'll never walk alone"


*cheers and whistles " You ain't alone man!

Lots of modafuckers here , he said his friend I don't know why you lots are skeptical.

Brandstudio01:
Another Courtroom drama in coming days
#RevolutionNow
Abeg jare , I will Design a Professional Logo for your product or Business for 2k Only

Proponents of revolution like you have no idea what an aftermath of such a course of action looks like. In developing countries its rarely effective - Sudan, Philippines, Egypt and a host of other nations come to mind.

What you fail to grasp is odds are people who are spearheading this cause is as corrupt and dishonest if not more than the current leaders they are challenging. Just give them an opportunity and see wonders.

In my humble opinion, the best way to bring about good change is through electing credible people who have the interest of people/nation at heart.

dayleke:
Are you for real?
50 pple?
Just a bus?

Fall for this bollocks at your own risk.

Some of the most "immature and silly people are found on Twitter". Most of the stories are just some cooked up bull shit , by arrogant fuckers who think they know it all.

OlawaleBammie:



See this one brain output

In bold " IDIOT OF THE HIGHEST ORDER"

mumu

Fmlao:
Na that dey amaze you.
I opened a fake female Facebook account with the picture of a dead far distant relative. The lady was 22 prior to her demise.
I get engagement like mad. Likes, messages. As a sharp guy behind female account, na so I task these guys for airtime. As i type now, I have 4,350 naira card on my phone.


Weak guys forming woke everywhere

Seriously, I think its wrong to use a picture of your deceased sister as a tool for your experiment. Its absolutely wrong in so many levels.

OlawaleBammie:
If U can support the creation of universe, sun, moon, temperature, oxygen, water, human, beasts, vegetation and all by Ur stupid scientific and empirical evidence den I will take U as god...Olodo oshi.

What a shitty moderfucker! so instead of you to buttress your points in a reasonable manner you resorted to childish name calling and insults? What a total idiot

Cousiim:
In Nantes or Paris?

Nantes

K by a country mile. Hmmm has meaning. But k is all shades of disrespect.

Not exactly, "play your cards well and you will bang variety of pussy"

Money ain't everything.

"Jumbo-size black dick" oh boy you funny die. , fuvkking hilarious.

Seriously, I have never experience such but I do not deny their existence.

Bollocks! There is no such thing as blood oat/covenant. Its a superstitious belief that has been debunked ages ago.

The fact people still hold this belief is the reason we are collectively backward as a country/continent.

Funkyswagzz:
Will try to make the story short so I won't bore you

During my school days I love to party alot or go out for a drink. So one fateful day I and my friends were invited for a birthday party about 4 of us. So on arrival we were served with a whiskey and a bottle of coke. I took two shots of the whiskey and coke i got pumped up for a dance. One of my male friends didn't like the taste so he gave me he's to drink making it 3 shots. So after the dance I ordered for two bottles of heineken. M.I(miracle) a female friend of mine bought cigar as we were going to the party so I took one from her to smoke. You dont inhale the smoke cos it's very strong. I got a little tipsy at this point.

So we all decided to go clubbing. On arrival I quickly went for a black bullet. So M.I(miracle) gave me her samsong phone so she won't misplace it. After taking that black bullet my God I can't describe how I was feeling buh I was full of energy. So I started dancing and I'm a good dancer. Like literally ppl gave me space to dance and entertain them. Along the way a voice in my head was like.. dude do something crazy ur dance is really boring. Mehn I jumped on the couch and started dancing next thing I know a bouncer picked me up and took me off the club. I was shouting at him that I have the right to be here. When he dropped me I just realized what happened. At the process I lost M.I's phone. . That babe was on my neck all day cos she bought the phone brand-new.

Please share yours if you have one.

Am I the only one who dislike alcohol for moral reasons?

I entirely disagree with the first.

yanabasee1:
[s][/s]Oga, anybody is better than anybody in life.


I don't struggle with people, I just set my face straight and do my best to live and to give the people around me the opportunity to live as well.... But I thank God say, I no the beg to survive and I am very comfortable with the things I am blessed with and I can't count them all. I am utterly grateful to the Almighty God.


But, stop walking around looking for unclad mad ladies to fit your eyes....Go and appreciate your woman or you let her to go find a man that will love her the way she is...


How will a sane man compare an insane woman with his girlfriend? You no just normal for everything.... You gatz locate yabaleft special hospitals, your genes full that place.... Na inherited something, Na follow come.[s][/s]

Such a compilation of rubbish!

light099:
While it's completely normal to be surprised about this, surprisingly i don't find your strange infatuation surprising.
When you're the type who always try your best to make sure you satisty all your sexual appetite whenever it arises, a day like this is inevitable, when your body demands for more than you bargained for.
When you fail to tame your sexual craving, it would one day maime you.

Having a dck or a pssy comes with both the pleasure and the pain. The pain is the self control, those days you act against the dictate of the intense pleasure you have within. It's hard and feels like you're hurting yourself but it's necessary because this is the only way to stay in balance and not end up as a slave dragged around by your own emotions.
Unfortunately, the society has been doing a good work in passing the wrong messages to people, telling them owning a dck or pssy doesn't come with any pain. Telling them it's all a pleasurable cruise, telling people not to have self control, telling people to satisfy all their sexual cravings to the maximum. Sadly, this is how it always end. It ends in premium tears. A day like this when your craving you have kept on grooming becomes a monster that can no longer be tammed.

Since you already found yourself at this level, there's no point turning back anymore. Continue dancing to the drum your weird feelings beat for you. Afterall, you only live once.
Enjoy yourself son. Enjoy your mad damsel. You won't be the first nor the last person to do this. Since your brain inside your dck head no longer knows what to fck and what not to fck, then go ahead.
If to you, once your eyes see sweet bress and body, you must fck, then wait no more. Go fvck her already.

With this comment I know you are already feeling like a philosopher

GerraMeh74:
Another Mad person spotted.....

Explain to me what is wrong for one to be an atheist/agnostic?

And remember to support your stance with scientific and empirical evidence.

revenge001:
there's no Lord, I get mad when you dummy mention that name, where is that you lord or whatever his name is, I challenge him or her to fight.... Let him come wrestle with me if he's strong.......

What nonsense?

For someone like you whom by his comment
I presume to be nonreligious should I tell you a secret?

History555:
2050. Largest population on which resources. I think you need to learn to shut the Bleep up

He is right man! According to most projections by researchers not only would our population be the most populous in the world by 2050 but as a matter of fact by 2100 Nigeria will be the 2nd most populous country in the world with around 732 million people.

Keep ego aside Let people who know school your ignorant head

Rossikki:
All the more reason why the Biafra idea is STUPID.

Who will be the primary market of this expansion in Anambra State?

NIGERIANS.

Africa's biggest market, and the world's 6th largest consumer market.

Secessionists imagine that they will be able to sell these wares to the world, and don't need the Nigerian market. But they are seriously deluded. Countries are putting up protectionist barriers to build their own local industries. Others like China, have comparative advantage in manufacturing, and will leverage that to start price wars if need be, lowering them to stave off any competition.

Many buying countries would simply prefer the familiarity of Italian or even China made products, and would shun new, unproven stuff from some little African country.

Bottom line: For these Eastern industries to thrive, and take off to the next level, THEY NEED THE NIGERIAN MARKET.

Secession kills that immediately.

Nigeria is projected to become the world's THIRD most populous nation after China and India by 2050.

That is MARKET on a world class scale which Igbo manufacturers can have FIRST ACCESS TO BEFORE ALL-COMERS, if they play their cards right, and remain in the federation.

That FIRST ACCESS to the Nigerian market is already happening slowly, as groups like INNOSON and others get government supply contracts. INNOSON even supplies the Nigerian Airforce with equipment now.

As we approach 2050, the Igbos could become the richest ethnicity in all Africa, and among the richest on earth, if they remain...Nigerians.

A word is enough for the wise.

The difference is the population is poor, as a matter of fact its increasingly becoming poorer, just a large population doesn't show the whole picture. For example, Germany population is 83 million while Nigeria 205 million, auto companies make a thousand sales in the former than the latter, I hope you get my point.