₦airaland Forum

Pierocash:
it is you that have comprehension issue. There are help reserved for those that are part of your life which includes training a woman. The reason any man will train a woman is simply because she is your woman. What is the selfishness there?

If you don't want to marry a man,don't accept his proposal don't accept his proposal with selfish and ulterior motives of using him and at the end you shifted from the relationship after achieving goal. Who is selfish here, the man who trained you,or you who got trained?

Have you seen any man who will just go and start training a stranger of a woman in school if they aren't in any serious relationship? He trained you simply because you are his woman, what is selfish there. But if he refuses to train her,many of you will call him wicked,or call his love fake.Ewu.

Dpharisee:
All the while that we have been pan Nigeria where has it taken us? Awolowo promoted free education in the West not Nigeria and Yorubas are better off with it and they celebrate him till date. Why didn't he do like Zik? Is Zik widely celebrated by his people today?

Dpharisee:
I tell my people who are the biggest contributors to Oyedepo's Living Faith and Adeboye's Redeem to rather patronize Odumeje, Mbaka, Okunerere etc. These preachers can use the offerings to build universities like Covenant or Landmark etc in the East and create more jobs for their people.
Please don't join to castigate and bring down your own, even though I don't believe in what Odumeje does or his style but this is our own, Aku ruo Uno
How many times do you see Yorubas castigating that illiterate Prof Akintola of MURIC for his Islamic extremism? But here you find the Mods goading us towards loathing our own, it will not be allowed.

Dpharisee:
I tell my people who are the biggest contributors to Oyedepo's Living Faith and Adeboye's Redeem to rather patronize Odumeje, Mbaka, Okunerere etc. These preachers can use the offerings to build universities like Covenant or Landmark etc in the East and create more jobs for their people.
Please don't join to castigate and bring down your own, even though I don't believe in what Odumeje does or his style but this is our own, Aku ruo Uno
How many times do you see Yorubas castigating that illiterate Prof Akintola of MURIC for his Islamic extremism? But here you find the Mods goading us towards loathing our own, it will not be allowed.

Pierocash:
In other words what this implies is that you shouldnt help the one you love to attain her dreams by educating her?.

So it is now a crime to try to better her life,instead marry her as an illiterate and both of you should die as illiterates.

I think I agree with you at the bolded.

tobechi74:
The uneducated man who sponsors a girl throughout school to marry her should examine his conscience.

A selfless lover would notice a potential in her and desire to develop such talent via educating her.

The moment he begins to guilt-trip her into marriage, he becomes a selfish lover. His generosity no longer counts as an act of kindness. He is only using her to satisfy his desire to own (marry) an educated person. He desires to improve his perceived status among his uneducated peers for marrying one of a higher status. He is no different from the rich man who gives while making a public show of it.

The lady on the other hand desires a man to help her achieve her goal to be educated. She had to pretend to be in love with him to achieve her goal. There was no love. Each person only desired to use the other. The lady only outsmarted him in the selfish web.

Some readers said he would have married her first before spending a dime on her. It changes nothing. It does not guarantee a happy union. Who says she will not catch feelings for another person? Who says she will not seek divorce later? It only transforms the problem.

We need to examine our perception of love.

Martini101:
As far as you don’t encounter a prolonged hard time during the course of the marriage to her, this one shouldn’t be an issue if the earlier mentioned qualities are maintained and improved on.
NB: Don’t expect to meet a perfect person.

Edyice:
Buhari has actually achieved alot


Lifeless dullard till 2045

TMSMedia:
https://igberetvnews.com/1375531/lawyer-pregnant-wife-brutally-killed-suspected-fulani-herdsmen-benue-graphic-photos/

Tripitaka:
There are some though who I believe are honest with their age. What beats me is why a footballer will retire around 34 to 35 considering they have everything to enable them play into their 40s. Unless age is against them, you know one can't cheat nature.

Nb: I wonder why my OP was edited to add a picture that doesn't even strengthen my argument

Dat2jo:
If you remembered the worst beating your parents gave you, tell us your offense let's laugh together.

Mine: I accidentally fell and the pap I went to grind poured away and the plastic bucket broke into pieces. Hmmm in short dat was how two of my front teeth cracked because of the beating my momsy gave me.

Esseite:
Aisha is leaving all the clues...you dont expect her to come out outright..

Which first lady throws away all the accolades of being a first lady beside her husband while relocating to Dubai..

Just thinking out loud.

urchcoded:
you sound more like a terrorist than an intellectual. i asked questions because I watched an interview with an army officer and I wasn't satisfied with what he said. I have gotten a few satisfying points by from you especially the fact that the operation was carried out in the midnight and in an outskirt area, but still not good enough that more than 500 students will be marched a long distance to a certain location, speaks more about the hopeless situation of security in this country

faste:
Boko haram is not sophisticated bro,it is just government lukewarm attitude that have enboldened them down through the years.

Mokason288:
I know you want me to tell you that you’re foooooooolish ...
you are a very very foooooolish person
Had it been the American soldiers came in and rescue 300 of their citizens it’s still foooooolish Yoruba goat like you will say to rescue 300 is easier than to rescue one

In the first instance be honest with your foolish self how did criminals by passsss soldiers and other heavily armed security agents to go kidnap over 300 students?
What do you know about element of surprise? Yoruba Goat like you

Kolisky:
The world could have possibly been a better and safer place if ASIA CONTINENT had not existed

urchcoded:
the military said this bandits came in motor bikes, no trucks, how the fvck did they move over 500 students on foot to an undisclosed location, nobody could see them, how long will it take them to do that. in Nigeria no matter how you shoot sparodically people will still get footages of what happened, how come nobody could even get a glimpse of this. it doesn't make sense at all just yet

ikorodureporta:
source: https://dailytrust.com/crowd-that-besieged-makurdi-stadium-for-ponzi-scheme-reward-disappointed

LeeSantos:
my questions are;
1. how many gunmen did it take to move 600 boys to their hideout?

2. how many hours did it take them to walk to their hideout?

3. how did they gather n organise the crowd of 600 boys

4. how did their hideout fit the 600 boys kidnapped

5 finally how are they feeding 600 boys.


if this questions are answered with proofs I will stop saying evrybody in this country is a fool[b] my questions are;
1. how many gunmen did it take to move 600 boys to their hideout?

2. how many hours did it take them to walk to their hideout?

3. how did they gather n organise the crowd of 600 boys

4. how did their hideout fit the 600 boys kidnapped

5 finally how are they feeding 600 boys.



MODIFIED. ALL THIS HAPPENED WHILE THE SECURITY PERSONNELS WERE HAVING A GUN DUEL WITH THE BANDITS NOW TUNRED BOKO HARAM.

How will they feed their captives, when some repentant Boko harams claim to have said there is hunger in their camp mixed with choleria

if this questions are answered with proofs I will stop saying evrybody in this country is a fool

Mokason288:
American Soldiers came down to Nigeria without proper knowledge of the environment they rescued just one of their citizen and it didn’t take them this long

Imagine the audacity these Fulani boys have to even send warning to our Nigerian soldiers

I’m sure if the villagers are allowed to mobilize vigilantes this kids will be rescued...

Are you pondering what I’m pondering

I smell a rat shit here


I HOPE I MADE SENSE

Arrewa:
Those children were probably kidnapped by this Administration.

They would soon free them and claim victory.

The real Bokoharam has been defeated what we have now is government machineries playing script.

Most of you don't know the billions of dollars the government is generating in the war against insurgency.

From both international and our local fund.

Ask yourself why does Bokoharam only strike villages that's even once in 2 to 3 months.

Why is it that they no longer bomb or attack Borno cities as they used to do? What is now stopping them from taking over local governments?

Why the sudden stop of bokoharam attacks in Adamawa, yobe, bauchi and Gombe?? Why only villages in Borno?

Everything is now politics... North east is currently one of the richest region in Nigeria.

Nigerians don't investigate and are too lazy to critically think and ask questions.

Why is Borno state rapidly developing despite years of insurgency??

Go through this thread and see things for yourself.
https://www.nairaland.com/6071980/borno-after-11-years-insurgency#93130778

The Government staged kankara kidnap.


Nigerians are just too dumb to smell lies and fallacies.

SilverNorGold:
We have unscrupulous southern elements pretending to be Northerners just to mock us, even here on Nairaland. Members like Kaduna1stSon, Yenefer, etc are examples. They start by praising our beloved father, President Mohammadu Buhari and Northerners and then subsequently unleashing their anti-North agenda.. They don't mean well for us. So they can continue to fool themselves..

That said, I strongly condemn the Kankara GSS attack. The government should do everything possible to arrest the situation and bring the perpetrators to book! More military personnel should be deployed as a matter of urgency to ensure that all civilians are safe and sound. Nothing must happen to anyone otherwise the repercussion may not augur well for the government.. But I strongly believe in the leadership/capability of President Mohammadu Buhari and I am 100% sure he'll handle this issue professionally and intelligently, being an experienced, brilliant and intelligent retired General.

While we await the outcome, I appeal to my brothers and sisters in the North to remain calm and patient.

God bless Nigeria.

SimplyFacts:
Well, I never knew they are bad eating habits until my colleagues, at Corpers' lodge, began to condemn each of them. They include:
1. Soaking or dipping bread in the tea: They think the good habit is sipping/taking the tea while chewing the bread. "Seeing the broken pieces of bread in the tea could make one throw up", one claimed.

2. Picking eggs with yam in the plate: They said the good habit is picking the eggs & yam separately. "Littering the eggs with broken pieces of yam would make the food look irritating", another said.

3. Picking eggs with bread: As in 2 above.

4. Eating meats/fish after emptying the plate: This act has caused controversy between me & people many times. I am used to eating the meat last. In fact, I can take meals without meats or fish. "People who don't know you well would think you're stingy, not knowing you just don't mind", some friends would say. Even at occasions, friends do help with the meats. Weytin we gain if we no finish the meats,,,, lol. Hopefully, I'm gonna change this habit when I get married

5. Taking yam with vegetable oil or red palm oil: This is a no-go-area . I bluntly told them I can't sip or take the oil while chewing the yam . I think they have no excuse on this because some of them claimed they don't take such combination.


What's yours?

DontTradeUrSoul:
Try and see a Dermatologist, cos I don't know much about body odour but this guy's story below really shocked me.

Confirmed Initiation! You were having sex with that the demon possessed and think the mixing of your both blood would not grant the demon legal Access into your Life? Demons love to have many humans enslaved under them, same demon has brought your roommate under his influence through you. One thing we should all Take Note here is the fact that everyone that testify as "Sleep Paralysis" Victim always say they still vividly remember the first time it happened. All over the Internet, they say they see or fearfully feel humanoid or dark Force grabbing or Pressing them downward. It's a decending into demonic dimension or lower spiritual plane where by the demon used your Soul's Energy till it has finished whatever he wants to do and release you. Someone passing through this can never fully fulfill the Original Glorious Purpose for which he or she was created. Locate the closest MFM Church their 3 Days Deliverance program during which you yourself have to verbaly fervently Pray by decreeing that the Blood of JESUS Son of YAHWEH should forgive you and permanently destroy the Authority you gave the demon and restore your Life's Legal ground that you lost to the demon through the Sex with the girl that was his property. Chase the demon out of your Life and ask HOLY SPIRIT to permanently take Control your Life and thoughts so that he shall never have space to return into

TooMuchStuff:
Mamipapiwata

I cast away to abyss every marine spirit colonising that body of Idris .....GOooo away

dignity33:
I understand that many Nigerians like taking the law into their hands when thief or arm robber are caught but do you also know that many have died for wrongly accused of certain crime they do not commit. This are some of the reason you should aviod Jungle Justice.

1. Many can accuse someone wrongly out of hatred or sentiment and as a bystander you may not know the actual story of thing and before you realised what you have done the person is dead or in critical condition. It happened in 2019 somewhere in South Africa when two Nigeria was accused of kidnapping a young girl who turn out to be the daughter of one of the victims . And Nigeria with the type of hatred they have on another tribe I have no doubt that it can happen here.

2. Thiefs can turn to accuse their victim of being the thiefs and before you know it the person is dead by mob and the actual theif will find a way to escape . I have read a story of youngmen who stole from someone ran away and while the victim was shouting ole ole, they get to a corner hide and once the owner entered the corner they started beating her calling her thiefs and people gathered without letting the woman to speak and those men sneak away letter it was discovered that the woman is innocent.

3. killing a theif by mob will create more radical arms robbers than those soft robbers who can have a little empathy for their victims and it will also make the work of police more difficult during there investigation for that certain crime because the evidence is dead.

4. Jungle Justice make the killers no different from the robbers or thiefs. lastly our law enforcement ageny should try and be proactive in fighting crime because I'm sure if police are honest in there work of protecting life and property this jungle justice will be a things of the past. Add your comments.

MaxInDHouse:
@ bolded!

You should understand by now, once a Muslim where we are highly temperamental whenever anything is called "God" apart from the most high a Muslim won't take it lightly, so that is still somehow in me, but with time i'll surely get over it. As for bravery or fearlessness, well i also served as an agent with the military intelligence agency so try to imagine what can bring fear in the mind of a combatant soldier.
So i didn't only cross from one religion to another i also crossed from being a soldier who depends on physical weapons to disarm the enemies to a soldier of Christ where we disarm enemies with spiritual weapon (Bible).
I'm just happy that i'm still doing what i enjoy most "disarming armed opposition" but instead of doing so using force, weapons or records of casualties, Jehovah's Witnesses have taught me how to disarm the enemies without all of those rather i now use psychological warfare and it's most effective because back then we still need to keep an eye on those we disarmed but now victims voluntarily vow never to pick up weapons again for any reason whatsoever! Isaiah 2:1-4

Thanks it's a pleasure chatting you my friend, may God bless you as you take the necessary steps to stand with Jehovah's people! Zephaniah 3:9

XOGBADO:
Buying a condom and taking a girl for abortion; which is more shameful?
Lol... Why would I even be ashamed of buying a condom.

YorubaKinging:
The end is near

Righteousness89 thinks Donald Trump is God's sent

Sent to do what exactly

To recognize fake Jerusalem and fake Israelites?

He will die in office and you'll be ashamed

iamyemiakins:
After performing my car washing morning duty today, something just came to mind that washing a car can be very easy and quick atimes based on different conditions and features of the car.

The size of the car, level of dirt acquired by the car, interior design of the car, usage level of the car, topography of routes most plied by the car regularly etc., can in one way or the other determine the level of difficulty an individual might experience in washing a car/vehicle.

I finally came to a conclusion today that, cleaning/washing the interior of a car is more stressful than cleaning/washing the exterior of a car.
The exterior of dispatch bike is very hard oh....lol
What's your opinion?