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Jennifer hudson does not look half as good anymore
Big head, small body

What a shame. Rest in peace.

Ujujoan:
@ Tracy

First of all, you need to know that you are getting it all wrong!

Looking for a man who 'deserves' you? What are you, a God? I know you believe in yourself and think you are the best, but I have news for you, you are not! There are women out there who are younger, prettier, more intelligent, more resourceful and more everything you are who are willing to play ball with these men. I'm not trying to put you down but you have to understand that you are not gold!

The problem is that men are begining to judge you the way you judge them! Unfortunately for you, you are aiming higher than your status and like you, no man wants to compromise on his standard. Besides, who are you to say who is good enough or not? Don't you know that true love only comes when you accept people for who they really are and not who you want them to be?

You need to STOP. You know life is full of surprises. I once dated a guy who I thought was everything I wanted and in the end, it turned out he wasn't. You know what that taught me? That maybe what I want is NOT what I need!

Nobosy's gonna hand the perfect man to you on a platter of gold. At 25, you should have learnt that lesson. What you need is a man that loves and respects you. That fairytale romance you dream of  is just not gonna happen.

I know there are a lot of jerks out there, but you say you are intuitive and you can weed them out. But a good man is who you need to spend the rest of your life with. A man who'll be there to hold your hand through the rough times that life would definitely bring your way. A man who would respect you even when you are not so 'cool' anymore. A man who will be a real father to those children you want so much. Such men don't come with glamour that you seek. So girl, wake up . .  the clock is ticking, and ticking, and ticking . .  

So so so true.

Orilee9ice:
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OMG!!, @ all "Justice's of the peace " (including Vanitty, and others like your honorable self, NO PUN INTENDED!) i think it is time i broke this down to ya level as i don discover now see "ori yato s'ori, please read the highlights
MY OTHER SIBLINGS,  (not the poster oh!)
DEVISING A PLAN,  (for project managers like me, project plan (b4.project initiation document), doesnt mean project has been executed oh!, )
THE PLAN IS[i], (not the plan has already been concluded oh!)[/i]
STAY WITH OLDER SISTER, HAS OWN LIFE IN 9JA TOO, (The Posters older sister is IN 9JA ALREADY!)
MY OTHER SIBLINGS, BUT I AM WORRIED, (This shows the Poster is not part of the plan to send her to 9ja, its her siblings and naturally the poster is worried which is why she is on here to ask your advice, )
Advice only oh!!!!!, Pleeeezzzzzzeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeee! a haaa ABEGI!!!

Dolt
If she wasn't devising with them or even thinking about it, she won't be asking how much £350K will last  or must people use all their mouth to talk before you understand . Mr project manager. Let just hope your job requires little or no common sense at all

Anyway na me get time sef.
Unless she has signed the deed of her house to you, you cannot sell it legally.
I hope you are not going to court to declare your mum legally incapable because of this "devising" you guys are talking about.

First of all the woman is 67 years old not 97 , why should you even control her finance at that age so you are busy devising to sell her house, ship her to Nigeria without her say-so. How bloody ungrateful are you lots, are you the only one in Britain with aged mothers, so because una get live off your own, your mother is now a nuisance
Olorun maje ki ni omo oran. shior. Shame on all of you.

Anyway since your question was how much time will  £350k actually last- I will say not a lot, by the time you guys have bought the property, make her comfortable enough by the standards she is used to, the money will properly be zero, but since all you want to do is work work work, you should be able to maintain her lifestyle. Good luck

That 9ice is a very stupld man. what sort of a grown up man o goes on twitter or whatever and start blasting his child's mother. Weakling of a man. Does he even know what being a man is all about.
The girl (toni) is very emotionally unstable, quite understandably - a bitter divorce at a young age with a child to boot. What 9ice should have done was ignore the rant. 0de was now replying one by one.

That silly toni_payne should just shut up, face her business and child

Foolish bush pikins.

LMAO.
God bless Nigeria Amin

Good luck with it.
Hopefully it will be a very successful one

Hehe Nakele, oro oloro wa se ka e lara bayi na wa o

Team Aniston

Awww bless. Cute baby
Congrats

Brings back memories. My school daughter was just a year younger than me. Good old boarding school days

kokobaby:
On the bright side, you have a lovely new material that you can use to sew something hawt  

My thoughts exactly

Tiger Wood is a very silly man. Very silly man but truth be told, the $100 million is too much. I wonder how his lawyers managed to mess that up

She looks like most nigeria ladies
The lips, the face shape.
Quite lovely.

Congratulations

Good progress

First thing first, how can size 12 be called fat   be realistic people jare. Toccara Jones is that size, most Nigeria man I know want that kind of proportion not just a bag of bones.  Jennifer Hudson was even bigger than you before she decided to slim down and I personally think she looked better big bodied

The guy is just nit-picking dear, you were even bigger when you first met him so where is he getting his ideas from?
You are "settling" for him, as he is not up to par by your standards
He allows his friends to disrespect you. Most sensible people even the ones on this thread would not even let their own mother say anything mean about their girlfriends not to talk about mere friends to fiancee
All this is your fault I am sorry.

fred4alabi:
i dont see anything embarassing in what you have done. anyone who is confient enough to buy condoms shows the person is modern and in vast with his environment. you could by a condom for several reasons.

i dont see why your husband is laughing as its not funny. i expect you to;

1. give that bloody cashier a bloody slap for his dirty comments (customers should be respected)
2. or ask your husband to go to the store and give the guy a dirty slap for you
3. or give your husband a dirty slap for not knowing what to do when his wife is embarassed by another guy.

LMAO.

Love Nnaji black dress. Very cute

Too much money to [i]waste  [/i]on a $2.1 million dollar luxury car or ability to speak some silly language

mckaycee:
[s]They believe immorality is synonymous to smartness[/s]

Define "immorality"
nothing is as immoral as sleeping with a lady who is ripe for marriage without giving her d hope of a future.
U sinned, she sinned, she's married, u r not!
For crying out loud, STOP CRYING OVER SPILT MILK AND MOVE ON WITH your LIFE, BRO!!!!!Q!E!D!
Haba! e don do!!

GOD BLESS YOU.

@ poster
So you even knew after 5 months into the relationship that you were not going to marry her, so for the remaining four years and 7 months you were stringing her along. Is that not wickedness? and here you are whinning while the new wife in town is enjoying her honeymoon and you think you are the smart one boohoohoo pele

You were with her for[b] 5 years[/b]
she was pressurizing you to marry her but you knew you were not going to because as you said "you knew her ways" so you were wasting her time, stringing her along and now you are here lamenting on how "a guy will accept a girl you had hot sex with for five years". Shior on you sir.

May God not bring shame on the girl, I sincerely wish her a very good and content marriage Amen

I honestly don't understand this deep hatred for gays

lol

sammytb:
Nigeria is going places,

Yeah. Good progress

LMAO

Very irresponsible of the man to cancel the wedding. So will he run away everytime there are crisis in the marriage.

I think the first girl is gorgeous.

she said "From"

With just a little common sense, only small is even required, all this frictions can be easily avoided.
That area is a very sensitive place for millions of people and understandably so.
Is there no other site to build the mosque