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@Mariangeles

Don’t you think it is better a man buy his own shorts, so that he can get himself what he’s most comfortable in?

By the way, what shorts do men prefer? The tight fitted ones that pack up everything or the loose ones that let in some air?


@me
Loose ones jare.... I need some fresh air. Pls sis. Maria buy for me.

@KNOWMORE56

"...If the "young school" claim that the "old school" ways are wrong, why are we having more broken marriages in the young school era than the old school era?"

What a thoughtful question!
But unfortunately many people look away from this...


@me
Don't mind them.... the young school does not realise that Satan is an expert in counterfeiting. He makes his counterfeit to look better than the original from the outside. He is ever busy and he's not on holiday.

Intimacy should be treasured. Nobody uses what is treasured anyhow. Marriage is abused so much today because of free sex prior to marriage.

I don't know the need for honeymoon these days when the honeypot has been overused before marriage. Most marriages crash so early because everything that ought to be done after wedding has been done before wedding.

If the "young school" claim that the "old school" ways are wrong, why are we having more broken marriages in the young school era than the old school era?

It's a standard rule in RCCG. You can't be beard and be a worker. You can't have beard and we wed you. We have had to send the groom just before the commencement of a wedding service to go and cut his beard. He did it and came back but we were not satisfied and we sent him back until he came back fully trimmed. If it can be done for groom how much more the best man.

During training the intending couple were told. In fact the latest instruction is that pastors must examine the dresses before the wedding. They must go further to influence the type of drinks and music that are played during reception.

If you are not satisfied go to any other church that will accept what you want. After all there are churches that wed pregnant women.

Baby mama or daddy just like lesbianism and homosexuality are devil's invention. Satan is a master at counterfeiting. He paints it so well that the world will love it but the end is destruction.

The op has drawn his conclusion. I wonder why he is still asking us.

You guys should leave Mr&Mrs Marriage alone. They are not begging anybody to come and belong to their club.

I will only take anybody that derides marriage serious when the person will avoid bleeping totally (even self help), no child, no devil's marriage (lesbian and homo), no opposite sex friendship.

Your body is telling you that it's time to get married. God is not a fool. He made all things perfect. Human invented their own ways.

That's why the world is so imperfect.

If you do this type of bush wedding in naija snake go come out and scatter guests

There is cheating tendency on people that love adultery. Shame!!!

Scarcity of ladies. They can't find me and I can't find them.

A president working for 6-8 hours only. This man is idle. No wonder we are in a mess. Mr President go and find out the average working hours of a CEO.

@Sunday2021

go and learn more.pls or you can just google it.

@me
Oxford advanced learners dictionary - voluntary - "working, done or maintained without payment"

Volunteer - "a person who works for an organization but is not paid for what he or she does"

Are you ok?

@Sunday2021

you are an ignorant or an illiterate or both. Military work is a voluntary work, you can decide not to join and you can decide to resign at anytime.


@me
Mr man a volunteer is one that works without pay. Is military work one?

You have been this, you have been that: what did you achieve? Nigeria gave you all opportunities, what did you give to Nigeria.

Did we not tell you that you are too old to be president, Why are you complaining?

You no like me. But I still come as you dey cut dudu oshun soap. Na him i dey use. Employ me as your accountant na.

Don't go and tell him. He might think otherwise. Spend days to stand in the gap for him.

@princeeze1
Are you now born again seeing that God has used simple prayers from a pastor from one of the churches that you guys mock so much in social media. You spent nothing there but you went about spending so much on false prophets, pastors and shrines.

Nothing bad about it. The bane of blackman is that everyone wants to lead. Some people are born leaders while others are made leaders.

There are others that are not leaders but they are the backbone of leaders. You are one of them. They don't like spotlight but they prefer doing what they know how to do best quietly.

Those behind the success in advanced economies are not too popular. No leader succeeds without them. The most brilliant consultants don't usually own businesses but no business does well without their input.

Some years ago I used to be invited by some middle class in my church. I taught godly business and financial principles. They appreciated the delivery and gave me gifts. In one occasion my mind started telling me that I should look at my car and the big cars of those that came. That if I was that good why was I not rich.

I almost lost interest in the program until the Holy Spirit reminded me of the old testament prophets. They were not rich nor kings. But no king ever ruled well without the backing of a powerful prophet.

So who is greater? The king or the prophet that he depends on.

@greenie77

Tithe wetin, my Parish Priest here no dey ask for am . I say Amen!!! to the " more £" make my hourly pay increase o!


@me
Leave oyibo matter to oyibo. They have coded ways of collecting theirs ..

Your hourly pay will increase this year. When it does send uncle's share. Send it in hard currency and I will receive it in soft currency. I love soft currency

@greenie77

Uncle Vision101, happy new year o!


@me
Happy new year my beautiful sis. More £ into your account in 2022. You have saved me from nairaland man/woman matter.

You didn't send tithe to uncle this season.

This man/woman matter go cause civil war for nairaland ooo. Thank you @greenie77 for converting me.

I leave in peace.

Any serious Christian should please ignore Kobojunkie. He creates confusion in his understanding of the scriptures and still claim right.

He dabbles into every thread. I think something must be wrong. Save your energy.

This year will be a year of great change. I took time to read through and see @Mercy's reactions. No anger, no hard word. Very much unlike her.

Your words betray your looks. Good looking. Love the fitting of the trousers. If it was when men were boys I would have softened you

Happy new year.

Why are people afraid of marriage but happy with free ride relationships?

@Mariangeles
Your husband is deceiving, defrauding and emotionally manipulating you.
Shine your eyes and refused to be deceived.
I will not be surprised if he already has some kids stashed up somewhere.

Also, pay no attention to those deceivers up there.
They're enemies of marriage.
What if when he's finally ready, you find it difficult to conceive, what then?


@me
Smart and very smart comment. Absolute truth.

I'll add: is the engine working? If it is, can it produce good products? Or is it only bye products that it produces.

This is the danger of credit marriage. You pregnanted a lady and she had a baby but you did not make any effort to own her.

Now you want the boy. Did the boy fall from the sky? Is this lady in life to produce babies and give to men?

Let nobody come here to teach me Western ideas. I'm as Western as you are. Is an issue of morality. Fair is fair.

You wife's action shows that your marriage is still young. If it is then it's understandable. It is expected that your wife outgrow it.

If your marriage is above 5 years then it means that there is a danger. Your marriage run the risk of damage from external one sided interest.

@greenie77

Sighs....


@me
Happy new year to you. Higher grounds for you this year.

You don forget your friend.

The new law is this: if you beg her it's inappropriate begging. You touch her it's inappropriate touching. You go outside to have it, it's inappropriate going outside.

Either way you are in trouble. So park your third leg permanently and have peace of mind. Eve's daughters will cause trouble one day.

@Lamanii22
I never wanted a degree educated man anyway, I have always wanted to be more educated than my husband I don't know why....



@me
So that you will dominate him and be making shakara for him.

Average cost, how much to budget, pricing....all for marriage? Is marriage a commodity?

@ImaIma1

So much sense and fact in one post. Apt.
People are the problem, not marriage.


@me
Hey hey.... compliments of the season my sis. How are you and everyone? You forgot to send my rice and stew very plenty.