₦airaland Forum

Are you enjoying the oza room?

Abroad life is like bitter kola. It's not as sweet as it sounds. Life is a jungle anywhere.

Funny enough you have never declared that you belong to God. So don't blame God. One leg in Alfa, another in spiritualists, another in herbalist etc. So where do you belong?

If you are not for God then you are against him so says the scriptures. Declare for Jesus fully and burn every other bridge and you will see God in action in your life.

Your case is not irredeemable but you have a major decision to make. You and you alone will make that decision.

As an accountant I studied British tax. It's one of toughest in the world. Tightly knitted. Sometimes I wonder how they practice it.

Britain. Britain, Britain.

Just finished discussing with my son now. He told me how Nigerian students in UK are being asked to go back as a result of inability to pay their tuition fees.

A particular friend of theirs has managed to gather the amount through black market but the authorities have told him to go back and reapply.

Too many of them with carryover and that means that you can't graduate with your set.

A guy that studied project management couldn't get professional job so he had to settle for sponsorship by a care home to be able to change his visa status to Tia 2. This means 5 years of shit packing after Msc.

Abroad life is like bitter cola. Not as sweet as it sounds.

Husband wey scarce like dodo person come dey play betnaija with the one wey she manage get.

Continue.

Cash and carry university. Mtcheeee

The school fees are relatively low. The course is less demanding. In most cases only course work but no exams.

@Orukomeno
You are pastor supporting a man who feel no Christian in a country of 220 million is good enough to be his VP.


@me
Yea....this is the problem of Nigeria. Exploitation of ethnicity, religion and tribal sentiments. True governance in advanced nations has no place for the above.

I will rather have a competent Muslim-muslim government than incompetent Christian-christian government.

I'm an Ibo and a senior pastor. The liberal mindedness of tinubu is shown in the fact that he's a Muslim but his wife and children are Christians.

@Okoroawusa
I just love this man!

See articulated points and agenda.... it's only an enemy that will see such a man and say bad about him.


@me
I'm a professional and pastor. Age and sentiments aside Tinubu is very sound and very professional and experienced in governance. He's the best of the three but buhari's performance is demarketing him.

Money good oooooo. God help me

I have emptied everything that I have to send the handsome young man and his wife abroad for postgraduate studies.

No money in my pocket again ooo to buy buhari's expensive pms.

It's very common with all these private secondary schools. A child that attended fgc for example any grade that he made I will say that he truly merited it.

Private schools use the false grades to market their schools.

This is a sign of a man that was raised and spent some years living in face-me-I-slap you apartment. He's used to it.

Send a text to him reminding him of how bad it is.

Or immediately he pees enter the bathroom in his presence and start washing it with disinfectant.

You want to set up someone's daughter. God no go gree

Marrying a wicked man and into a wicked family. Wicked + Wicked = double wicked.

All these for one woman. Life no balance at all.

Enjoy your winning

You want to destroy her and move to the next one. Community destroyer. No shame

@Shalommy
Op, since you can't get a wife for yourself, they're doing it for you. As a good friend. Chaii


@me
See finishing!!! Five gbosaa

except for northern Moslem Ladies and maybe Indians, waist bead is no no for Western oriented men.

If it's worn by a southern Nigerian lady then she may be a suspect.

You live abroad. I can understand. That's how Nigerian women abroad think.

The man has given you two options....invest in family name and you have your marriage....invest in your name and you have a divorce.

Choose one and case closed.

Too many sex coaches. Very simple....tell your husband what turns you on. Tell him the trigger in your body.

The pastor heard from the devil.

He must have been digging one lady all this while. Ewu pastor

@BATified2023
so tell us d difference between this woman and a goat?

At least they both breastfeed their young ones outside.


@me
Is there anything wrong with a woman feeding her child in the open? If her child is hungry then she must starve the baby until she gets to a hidden place?

FYI a nursing mother's breast is nothing but a feeding bottle. It's no longer for denge and posing.

Don't human eat in the open and goat too do. Relax my denge sister.

It will be stupid to take such decision. The government is very sensitive because of influx of immigrants.

As a student your fees must be paid timely. You are only entitled to 20 hours per week work permit. Jobs that you can get are menial jobs that pay average of £10 per hour. Only your spouse can work 40 hours.

Accommodation is over £600 per month for two bedrooms flat excluding energy costs. With your large family most landlords will insist on three bedrooms flat which will cost more.

Your children must attend schools with the attendant costs. The upkeep cost is another factor. You can now see that it is suicide mission.

The only possibility is if you can raise enough money that can pay 50% of your cost in the UK for the duration of your studies.

Is she not better than those that show us the fallen London bridge for free. At least the breast is productive and she's proud to be a mother.

The baby is seriously enjoying. I'm envying him

Is abroad not rated higher than naija? So anything abroad too should be rated higher than naija.

FYI abroad nobi India oooo

She is on strike. Negotiate with her or sue her to National Industrial Court

@missimelda01
Marriage counselor isonu

All you did was blame her and saw nothing wrong in what her husband did. Did you provide a reasonable solution? No

You can give your opinion but stop deceiving yourself by saying you're a marriage counselor.

@me
My friend read carefully and comprehend well. By the grace of God I'm a senior pastor of one of the largest churches in this nation. I handle regularly very complex marital issues.

Op's problem is that she married early. She does not know the value of marriage. She did not bind and cast before she got a husband.

If I were your husband i will consider it rude that you should ask me to get a property that you will buy in your name. If you don't believe in the concept of ours in marriage then you can go ahead and source your property and buy without me.

Your husband lowered himself the most by taking a cut from the fee you paid. From your explanation he appears not to be doing badly. Why should he lower himself.

All your steps showed that you don't believe in this marriage. Within months you have moved to your sister's place, hired your own accommodation and packed your belongings.

As a marriage counselor this is one of the craziest action that I have heard from a married woman.

Accept everyone's apology and move back to your family. There are so many hawks around ooo.

@Racoon

Largest IGR, largest debtor. Alpha-Beta Burdillion conduit pipe corruption.



@me
In finance it means that the debts are sustainable. No danger to repay.

@Slynation
This annoying old preeq should just rest already, As if the Lagos of then he was talking about wasn't the Lagos I knew...

Using Fashola and Ambode's legacy to campaign can only get him the President of Lagos state... :

@me
I'm apolitical. I have lived in Lagos since 1977 and I'm still living in Lagos. Jakande did so well and had solid plan for Lagos. The military destroyed it. BAT took over a decayed Lagos, layed the foundation and trained disciples that continued to carry out the vision. There's no comparable former or current governor with such record.

Managing Nigeria is a different proposition though. If he can do this for Nigeria he would have set a mark for generations.