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If you must marry her then put extra studs on your neck because the load will be heavy.

You are a standby generator husband. When NEPA is on you are forgotten but when it's off you are remembered.

Super Simpson

Electricity bill. No value received at all

This is the season of excavating all manner of stories concerning domestic violence. Whether true or untrue.The most trending story line.

At least this will take us away from the lies of the politicians.

So your girlfriend uses two charger.

Food don done for ladies that hate or failed in marriage. Oya come and attack.

I'm a married man. Either in dating, courtship or marriage I have never raised my hands on any woman. I hate any man that abuses his wife.

But the current events are very good opportunities for those that hate marriage and those that tried and failed through fault of theirs. Women that are not settled in marriage are using the events to paint marriage as negative.

Nobody talks about men that are in abusive marriages. Are we encouraging them to quit?
When we face the wave of divorce that will come out of what we are encouraging, the society must be ready to face it.

All our statements appear to suggest that everyone should quit every marriage at the slightest provocation.

Let's be cautious in our statements concerning the current events.

You are surrendering your life, respect, time, privacy and future totally to a daughter of Eve that can change her mind at any time and remind you of how she is your God.

Son of Adam think... think brother

Akara once eaten by a woman under the influence of love cannot be vomited.

Sorry bro

This confirms what we have always said: you can't go far without a force behind you. It can be positive or negative force. Those that say that Europeans and Americans pray less but they are rich should come and see.

They are the dominant members of occultic societies - free Manson, Rosicrucian order, eckankar, grey message, ogboni, etc.

They understand that the spiritual controls the physical. They don't want to make the sacrifice of denying their flesh and live a holy life but they want spiritual power.

@ImaIma1

For a moment there, you sounded like Nwaamikpe :


@me
Longest time. How you dey?

@Klass99


@ The bolded, I honestly think this is part of the reason/problem why people go from one spiritual house to another in pursuit of deliverance.

The moment they buy into the notion that there are ancestral or spiritual forces working against them, the sojourn commences.

However, that is not an issue I want to debate though and your feedback on my questions is appreciated.


@me
I have taught Christians that there is no need to move from prayer house to prayer house or to move from pastor to pastor in pursuit of deliverance. The greatest deliverance anyone needs is the deliverance from ignorance.

Go close to a sound pastor that is gifted. Examine yourself if there are personal errors that you need to correct. Examine your relationship with Christ. Check trends and pattern. If it's one off then it's not a deliverance issue. If you are the only exception in the family then it's not a deliverance issue.

If it runs in the family and/or it's recurring then it's a deliverance issue. If it has a particular time that it occurs then it's deliverance issue. Etc. etc. Identify the entrance and close it. Create constant spiritual fire around yourself. Ensure that you maintain your deliverance.

Are there demons.... yes. Is deliverance real... yes. Can you practice and pray yourself with little or no assistance.... yes. What is most important is knowledge. I agree that there are layers of anointing. Some stubborn cases require gifted people but much can be done by the person with guidance.

@Klass99

Vision, pls what was the source of your problems and how was it destroyed?

Who was behind it and how did God show you all this? Through a dream, vision or some other way?

It's an interesting story but indulge me and provide clarity.


@me
I would have been happier if the above was asked by the op as my intention is to assist her.

Regarding you:
It was an old uncle who felt that I was too young and rising too fast. What he did was shown to me in a vision. There was physical evidence as he sort the assistance of his colleague at work who happened to be a relation of my wife(unknown to him). By a casual discussion between my mother-in-law and the relation he (the relation) got to know that I was the one and he told my mother-in-law.

The story of how God destroyed it will be too lengthy. He was alive and he saw me rise again.

His death is one story and what is happening to the children now is another. I even gave money for his burial.

I think the op's case is ancestral (I.e. foundational). There appear to be a recurring pattern.

@JoyousFurnitire

Wouldn't you want to metion this type of prayer?

@me
1 I declared a three-day dry fast.
2 I moved to the church to do it alone.
3 Within these three days I didn't bath, change my dress, brush my mouth.
4 I maintained a three hourly prayer through out the three days.

I'm not advising the op to follow the same pattern. Let her practice as she is led. I can offer guidance if needed. By the grace of God I'm a senior pastor in one of the major churches even though I render my service for free.

Life is mystery. There are too many things that happen to us that we can't understand nor explain. Between 1991 and 1992 I did extremely well as a young man in my late 20s. I was in the financial sector. But I was not born again and I didn't patronize the devil. I just believed in brilliance and hard work.

Then the attacks came. Everything crumbled like pack of cards. I told my wife then that the issue was not whether I will get job but whether I'll get the job that I liked.

I started applying for jobs. Invitations were coming and I attended interviews. Offers were coming. None of the offer letters ever got to me. Mind you I used personal letter box and not street address. Each time I got to the companies they will show me copies of the letters they sent to me. They will tell me that after waiting for me they decided to take the next person.

I became born again. Went for deliverance and prayers but no result. One day I attended a service and preacher preached on ASK - ask seek and knock. He said that if God shows you that your destiny is in a room that is locked up, if you knock and the door refuses to open, go back and throw your whole body on the door. The door must open and God will understand.

I told myself that my problem has gone beyond traditional deliverance and prayers. I decided to embark on a type of prayer that I had never done before. After it God opened my eyes and showed me the source of my problems and how they were destroyed.

I applied for an accounting practice job and I got instant favourable consideration. I worked there for only one month and I got an offer from a foreign construction company. I worked there for 17 years.

LESSONS
1 life is full of mysteries
2 No one can go far in life without a spiritual force behind him - either positive or negative.
3 The spiritual controls the physical.
4 Desperate situations demand desperate action.
5 When you read the Bible or listen to messages look out for the life in the word. This can only be shown by the Holy Spirit.

THE OP
1 Your situation is redeemable in Christ.
2 Give your life fully to Christ not because you want solution but because he is all that you have.
3 Don't focus on Christ giving you husband, child or job but just love and serve him.
4 If what you wrote is true, there's definitely spiritual reason behind your problem.
5 As you get closer to Christ begin to refocus on your career. God can only bless the works of your hands.
6 When testimonies begin to arrive, don't relax but get closer to Christ. Don't allow the devil to deceive you that you have arrived.
7 One by one lines (husband, children, prosperity etc.) will begin to fall for you in pleasant places.
8 You must be ready to fight the good fight of faith. This doesn't exclude "physical fight".

I have the same issue. I will like to read from people with first hand experience and experts.

Smile and thank her

Sex, sex, sex everywhere.... what is in sex? I don't understand

When he done chop everything inside marriage while not married. Na wetin he want again.

Go to a close and trusted friend. Explain everything to him/her. When the craving starts go to the person and let him swing you to another activity.

If he is not close get in touch through communication - call, chatting etc. This will take your craving away. It's a little battle.

Sorry, I wish I could be of help.

Borrow money to a woman and cohabit with her and expecting refund. What a "good mix" and "wonderful expectation"

Brother all your senses have disappeared.

@Mercychen

This kind thing make Marriage nor even hungry me again. Na house boy I need now.


@me
House boy? Can I give you a personal advice?

Hahahaha....my sister Mercychen I am married. How do I look?

Why is it that majority of the comments are coming from the daughters of Eve?

My advice on your post - run run run. Remove your shoes and run

@doggedfighter
A beautiful busty lady.





Team big boobs will go for her.


She's a virgin too and reserved.

A total package here.


@me
We dash you

@Iyaebe

Useless man.


@me
Useless man ke...... correct man jare. No more chop and run for ladies. Money hard for this country.

This type of man will only know how to blow big English and tell stories about foreign countries. These are their only achievements.

I have one like him in my church. Powerful American accent. Always wearing baggy trousers. He depends on the wife's small pension. Daddy Americana.

@Mariangeles

Don’t you think it is better a man buy his own shorts, so that he can get himself what he’s most comfortable in?

By the way, what shorts do men prefer? The tight fitted ones that pack up everything or the loose ones that let in some air?


@me
Loose ones jare.... I need some fresh air. Pls sis. Maria buy for me.

@KNOWMORE56

"...If the "young school" claim that the "old school" ways are wrong, why are we having more broken marriages in the young school era than the old school era?"

What a thoughtful question!
But unfortunately many people look away from this...


@me
Don't mind them.... the young school does not realise that Satan is an expert in counterfeiting. He makes his counterfeit to look better than the original from the outside. He is ever busy and he's not on holiday.