₦airaland Forum

Issues:
The wife and the husband agreed to buy properties in the name and for the benefit of their yet to be born child.

The child did not arrive.

Mr dotun fraudulently suggested this name because it's the name of a child he had with another woman.

Mr dotun died intestate.
There is the case of fraudulent misrepresentation.

Question
If two parties agree to perform an act that is rested on the happening of an event is the act or decision valid if the event did not happen? The answer is no.

Conclusion
The basis of the decision between morenikeji and dotun was that they would have a child together that will bear the name and inherit the properties.

The none arrival of the child renders the decision nugatory. Therefore the property rights reverts back to the original investors. Hence dotun died intestate and the marital agreement between the couple does not recognize the child dotun had outside wedlock, morenikeji effectively claims complete ownership.

To dotun.... Cunning man die, cunning law burial am...

The two most common problems in marriage are issues that are either money or sex related. Where money is available and the man meets the financial needs of the family but cheats, most of Nigerian women will continue to stay in the marriage.

There are very high chances of divorce where men lack money and cheat.

The epistle on this topic is too long jor.

My wife's load has filled her wardrobe and room. She has fully occupied the wardrobe in the lobby.

She has moved to my room and occupied the wardrobe. She now sleeps in my room because there is no space in her room. Assuming that we live in small apartment how would I have coped?

Abeg.... tired of women uwahala

@Smartford

Thanks a lot bro for the advice.
The bank isn't able to give me cash that will cover both the debt and extra to start business,

The house is sited on a 50 by 100 plot and it did not have much land remaining, the house is currently valued at about 10million.

The source of my money is not fludrant. I sold a land in the village and used it to buy the new land and build, also opened a game plaza which was swept empty by robbers at night just after 4 months of operation.

@me
If you are sure of raising #10m from the sale of the property and you are owing #2.5m, I'll advise you to sell.

Before you sell research to find out if there is any good land you can buy for #2.5m and a viable business that you can invest #5m. Don't sell before determining the above.

The business must be a low risk high turnover and small profit business. Ensure that you don't expand your personal expenditure so that your capital is not encroached. If you have a car, sell it and add the money to your capital. You can replace the car when things get better.

Good luck.

Very pathetic. Definitely a spiritual issue. Do you have such issues in your lineage from your father's and mother's side?

You need to be calm and forget the history that you listed here. Believe that God can solve your problem.

Which church do you worship? Are you born again? If not, get born again. Avoid fornication no matter the temptation. Don't jump unto any man that comes your way because many will like to take advantage of you.

Which state do you reside? Are you ready to make intense sacrifice i.e prayer wise?

I will like to help but I don't know how you can contact me. I can't release my number here. You don't need to meet me face to face but you must be serious and desperate to change your situation through prayers.

With God all things are possible.

Don't attempt to borrow from the bank unless the money that you borrowed can pay off your debt and there will be a reasonable amount left to invest in a business that you understand very well.

The return from the business should be capable of servicing the loan from bank as well as meet your recurrent needs.

What is the size of the land on which the building is built? Can some part of it be sold without selling the building? How much can you realise from this? Can it solve your problem?

On the spiritual side... what was the source of money that you used to build the house because you mentioned Yahoo? Proverbs 20:17 (KJV) "bread of deceit is sweet to a man but afterwards his mouth shall be filled with gravel"

Finally if the source of the money is illegal, sell off the house, pay off your debt and be a free man. Repent and start a clean life all over.

There is a time to be spiritual and a time not to be spiritual. This one na physical. Even the bishop know this. One dangerous agege rat has entered that bag. Just put rat poison inside that bag.

Everything is project. He has chosen his preferred project which has led him to no graduation. Congrats

That's why you should not lay your hope on man but on God because he doesn't change.

Rubbish.,. Paying three months out of thirty months. I learnt that the governor borrowed the fund from commercial banks which the polytechnic is liable to repay.

So the problem is still there.

I don't get it. Is it that he's not attracted to you or you are not attracted to him?

Happy birthday to you. Glorious nairaland years ahead. Congrats

35 years ke. There's still hope na. A lot are heading towards 50 years and still hopeful. If you like call it hopeless na you sabi.

Son beware. Big poo tank can become big problem. Inside that tank are the troubles of men.

Oversized rib can kill. Run for your life.

Every gambler knows the secret to surviving. To stop addiction get addicted to a positive thing. Reading your Bible, writing etc.

@Davies25

Thank you. The complications brought me here.
About the loan, I don't have a lump sum to pay. The entire loan amount will be due by next month. Or can you explain the bullet payment further?
Thank you.

@me
Discuss with your creditors with a view to making one off payment which will stop the compounding of the interest.

@Davies25

Your requests are complicated. I'll help you with one. Regarding your debt discuss with your creditors to do bullet payment.

I'm writing because you said that God failed you. God didn't fail you. Your emotions and walking by sight failed you. From your explanation, you are from a good Christian background but in taking this decision you didn't allow the Holy Spirit to lead you.

You judged him based on his looks and outward expression. If you had prayed and the Holy Spirit tells you to reject him you would have doubted because such instruction will not align with human reasoning.

For a Christian, marriage is one of the most critical life decisions to make because there's no second chance.

Now that you are in it my advice is for you to pray and if need be temporary separation. Threaten him that you are not coming back unless he changes.

Hia..... not raising mouth after brushing isn't brushing anymore.

@buckeyemedia

Ask your selfish egotistic Christian Brothers like Wike, why they chased secondus a fellow Christian like them away as the Chairman of pdp?


@me
The above is not the issue. The issue is if the presidency has been zoned to the north the south should naturally produce their party chairman. If secondus was chased away he would naturally have been replaced by another southerner.

The summary is that atiku is desperate and greedy.

@dessey

The truth is that, it's northern turn to produce president according to PDP constitution .



@me
If the above is correct, why did they choose a northerner as the chairman?

What do you do for a living? When efcc come for you eehh

Three poisonous drugs. None is safe. Run, brother run

He's looking for a saviour. As simple as that.

How did you know? Are you married? If yes, show us evidence. What is the size of your sample? How did you draw your conclusion?

Show pisture or we will not believe it.

Op and his friend are bloody civilians.

Anytime the man misbehaves she will knock his head. Dangerous to marry oversized rib.

Job and free enjoyment for Lagos boys. Carry them at your back to tap current as well as collect your fee. Dignity of labour.

@Chidi2022

Get big onions... cut into four or more, and throw everywhere..... and watch magic happening... Typing from experience.... you can thank me later...



@me
Really? Will it kill them or drive them away?

What a write up. Oyibo and their weird way of life. I'm sure that if the corpse is close by he can pull gun at it.

Please ooo African pikin don't follow them.

Allow dead things to be dead.

You have reported your mother to us. Have you reported yourself to us?