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Then let them marry one another.

Anytime a woman and man comes near each other for any form of business, NL boys will start thinking of sex.

This is obviously a joke but yeah, women bashing can thrive in any environment.

Good.

Of course, the government would eventually take over. That's the ideal thing. I only think they should have allowed the people go with the ones they had harvested before the arrival of the police.

Walkee:
there's no male living thing on this planet earth that will call security on his wife because she came to have sex in his office. If a man tries that he will be publicly ridiculed and almost every human being who hears the story will declare that the man is impotent.
Your perpetual victim mentality and the desire to cry couldn't let you notice that this is the hallucinations of a lonely menopausal lady or a 16 years old boy whose brain has been fuccked by excessive consumption of pornographic contents

Your argument is so narrow and almost unrelated to my submission, sir.

I said narrow because saying "no male would call security on his wife" because this particular case is about a woman who called the security on her husband makes it look as if calling the security is the only way one could harm or ridicule his/her partner. Don't husbands beat up their wives everyday? Is that not worse that calling the security to escort her out? Does the fact that such men abuse their wives in private make it better? A man is generally stronger than a woman, he doesn't need to call the security. If you want to make my statement about this particular story, then calling the security shouldn't even be the climax. The man wanting to force himself on a woman in her office despite the fact that they have never had sex related problems before is the climax here. Jumping that part to capitalise on the security part which was the woman's only resort is really hilarious.

And I said almost unrelated because I had nothing against blaming both parties or the idea that the story was cooked up. I made it clear in the post you quoted that all those submissions could be valid. I only pointed out that if the case was reversed, this thread would have been more of an avenue to bash women regardless of the fact that the story could be cooked up. NL boys even use comedy skits as an excuse to bash women. In fact, they don't even need any avenue as you see many of them typing "women are useless" on threads that have nothing to do with women. We can't pretend this isn't happening, and that's was the crux of my post. I wasn't debating the validity of the story but if against all odds, the story happens to be true and the man wanted to use his masculine brute force to have his way, I wouldn't blame the woman for using the force at her own disposal to stop him. You don't blame people for using force against force.

Meanwhile, I'm not a victim. I am man, a logical one.

Lol... I've learned that regardless of what a man does in Africa, he will still be supported or, at least, be given a soft landing. Some are saying it's not true, some are saying the woman went too far while others are saying the two are to be blamed. The commenter in the pic who only sees white people on his TV was already on about how he prefers white women (as if most white women can put up with the excessive desire for superiority/dominance African men are known for). All these could be valid but we all know that if it were a woman that did this, we would have been telling tales of how women have issues, how they have fish brains and behave like babies, how their heads are full of sex, how they are illogical, emotional and difficult to please or how the man married an active olosho.

Back to the post; you walked into a lady's office to demand for sex and she denied you that for a good reason, and you dropped your ring? Lol... this better not be true. Otherwise, my only problem would be that the wife didn't drop her ring first. For all we know, he could be one of those who believe in rituals.

Good! I don't why most African men like excessive dominance as if their lives depend on it.

trailblazar:
This should be read in the voice of that dude that does animal documentaries.

Lol... I don't know if this is a good thing or a bad thing. I'm more interested in that dude that does animal documentaries, and if we're both fans of the same narrator, then you must be talking about Sir David Attenborough. Dude can give life to the lifeless!

In the video below, he was asked to narrate the beginning of Adele's Hello video and in less than two minutes, he gave the video "a new life".


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=enu-qR0H_uk

igboarenice:
What about Lyta without the vibes
simply lyta

I love this. The "vibe" sounds so cheesy

Why can't you help your sister carry her baby? If you're married and your husband is OK with it, there's no better person to carry the baby than you. I'm sure if she could, she wouldn't be asking you to do that.

Reading the front page and I wonder where people keep their sense of reasoning when they want to support discrimination. They are all saying "toto is sweet". Guys, no one is disputing that! You can't force people to like what you like. Gay people pose no harm to anyone. Let's stop this discrimination in Africa!

I'd like to believe there's something these people did/do against the law. Maybe a part of their belief system that arguably endangers lives or something. Otherwise, why hurt people for their choice of religion? This is like the persecution of gay people in Africa. I've always maintained that the discrimination you condone because it is doesn't affect you or because it favors you will render you voiceless when you become the target of another. Equality/tolerance can never be partial. Though I don't subscribe to the teaching of JW, if their activities don't harm people and don't obstruct justice, I see no reason why they should be jailed for it. People who celebrate this today would have nothing to hold on to when it's their turn to face oppression.

DuBLINGreenb:
She dey sleep dey open mouth

You sure say she no dey snore too

In that position, most people would have their mouth open as well.

It killed someone ?!

By the way, there's nothing strange about the adolescent lion.

Hhmm... Choosing a life partner is a very serious business and it's not really easier for any gender. We all have our shortcomings. We don't see them cause our friends and family have normalized them. But the moment you let another party into your life, these limitations are revealed. It's up to us to search for a partner whose limitations we can condone. I don't subscribe to the idea that any gender is particularly shallow. But some people are definitely shallow. You just have to set your priorities. Many not-shallow-girls might not have the physical looks you want. And considering the fact that physical looks are the first thing that usually attracts one to another before other features are observed, it's possible that you aren't even looking at the girls with the personality you desire. Again, some of the girls you'd have liked to have (those with the attributes you desire) might have slipped through cause you aren't their spec. It's not like women sit down like goods in the market waiting for anyone that wants their type to pick them. They're also actively searching for what they want. You friends found what they want. Don't use your spec to grade them. Just keep looking for yours and be ready to make compromises.

Good luck.

And people will tell me it's better to raise a kid in such a jungle...

Men threatened by aspiring women have gathered to call her names as usual. Lol

SarutobiEky:
Lol
Seriously I thought it weird too... Too random for normal. Who programs these things..what's in it for them?

Lol... welcome to the research, bro.

Here: https://www.nairaland.com/6075415/strange-accounts-appearing-nairaland-every. This thread will introduce you to the topic.

In case you're in a hurry, just jump to: https://www.nairaland.com/6075415/strange-accounts-appearing-nairaland-every/1#93566142

In summary, sources have it that the Chinese Communist Party is aiming to change the narrative online for reference purposes and possibly influence public opinion. The internet will be a great source of data for generations to come, and the idea that China is the source of a deadly virus that led to a pandemic doesn't go well with a country hoping to become the world power some day. So they are selling the idea that it originated from the West or, at least, became a pandemic due to the carelessness of the West.

rexlims:
@op, imagine Ur brother discovered he isn't d father of all 4 children cos d wife has been cheating.
He then decides to execute a carefully thought out plan.
I am just saying, don't mean any harm.
Go watch d movie- A perfect murder by James Douglas

You boys don't know when to give it a rest.

RedpillAnalyst:
Interesting. However, this should be in the politics section

Replying a Chinese bot? Lol... I take it you're new here.

nubiangod9:
It is finished! c'est fini entre nous est Nigeria.

C'est fini entre nous et le Nigéria.*

Lol... keep replying yourself till you develop multiple personality disorder.

Sorry, we can't tell if you're telling the truth or not. But if you are, you will have to tell your friend and both of you will figure out a way to be ahead of the robbers. You guys might need to leave that area for a while.

Lovethaa:
Pls guys beware of guys that come around you....some are armed fckn robbers.

Lol... What does "your guy" do?

Interesting... So what is feminism that they should hate with their last blood? It would have made more sense if you had defined it so they'd know exactly what you're asking them to discard.

Lol... African men giving women advice.

samyj2477:
very nice clean blog. video download was one click. keep it up

I had to click because of this. If it was a deliberate attempt to get people to click, you got me!

On a more serious note though, I agree with your comment.

This one is propagating hate in God's name... shameful.

He is an F boy, a sincere one. And I think the message is very clear. He's saying "I don't want commitment, I just want to have fun. Are you in??". Find a way to respond too. If you stop chatting with him, it would mean "no, I'm not in for that. Thanks for asking". If you keep chatting but without ever flirting with him again, it would mean "ok, bro... what do you say to the idea of staying as just friends?". If you keep flirting with him while sharing some of your own sexscapades, it would mean "bring it on boy, I'm so gonna take you for a ride!".

None of these responses is invalid. Everyone takes decisions like this every now and then.

Lol... everything is threat to the fragile masculinity of an African man.

Mindlog:
The marriage has ended, the woman should go back to her family to have her baby while the man can go re-marry if he still wishes to be a married man.

There is no issue of paternity fraud here as the woman herself informed the man about it and refused to abort it.

I agree with you.

I feel the woman didn't want to die without having a baby. That's more important to her than keeping a husband. Before she did this, she was already aware of the implication and she was prepared for it. I know a man would naturally look elsewhere if he felt his wife was the reason behind their childlessness but that still doesn't make it ideal. To me, the ideal thing would be for the couple to discuss their alternatives together and agree on the way forward before any action is taken.

May the new child be blessed.

fados4sure:
I teach mathematics in secondary school sir

No wonder you missed the joke. Lol.