₦airaland Forum

segunednut:
Wey your own girl?

I no get. U get sister? I will be nice to her

lovelygurl:
Whaaat? I accepted that you were right about the year!

Besides it was low in Nigeria for both sexes but the figures of the girls was waaaay lower than that of the boys till the 1970s!

I don't understand the 'choice' you mean because that was based on the father who decided for the female child because it was expected of her to just stay at home

Well, we've established one thing: Nigerian women were not denied education pre-feminism. Anyway, women decided for their daughters too and men also prevented their sons from getting education. From what I read about the period, most of the people who were educated defied their parent's wishes to attend schools, hence my mention of choice.

lovelygurl:
OK you are right I got 1790s and 1970s mixed up

1790s was Napoleon's time


BUT the girls enrollment figures were extremely low until the movement started in the 1970s

You women eh. Una no dey like admit defeat sha.

Were the figures low in Nigeria or Western countries? I know that enrollment was low for both sexes in Nigeria. Besides I think the poor enrollment figures boils down to choice. The same could be said of present day women and numeric courses. Who is to blame for that one if not choices...

This girl no fine at all

lovelygurl:
Oh really? The first wave of feminism started in the 1790s. And I am sure your great great grand mother was NOT born then just as I am 90,99% sure that she was not able to read and write!


Slavery started in 1619 and ended in 1863, meaning during those times they were SLAVES. Meaning that even the men could not read and write.

Now you can say before Africa was colonised they were able to read and write but before going gaga on me and shouting lie I want FACTS!

Another lie. First wave feminism started in 19th century and 1790 is no where near the 19th century. There are methodist schools exclusively for girls in Nigeria as far back as 1870s

I don' t get the bearing of your last two paragraphs. But nobody could read or write until the white men came and established schools which both men and women attended before the first wave of feminism.

lovelygurl:
EXACTLY that fool of a lady should be happy because it was cos of feminism she can read and write and even have the right to talk and in fact not be in the house 24/7 smhhhh

This is pure lie. Nigerian women were educated even before feminism was invented

fiizznation:
The source of this silly news is not even credible. Which one is truenewsgist again.

The report said this, the report said that is all I'm even reading up there. What a trashy nonsense.


Well if for anything, the fake report only indicted NNPC, no where did it said buhari have any firsthand knowledge of the gross corruptihon that is happening there.

Nawah o. Who is the minister of petroleum. No be Buhari?

Thought Bokoharam was history according to FG. If they had shut their mouth for ones the army wouldn't have bought into the false security and would have been on guard

alphaconde:
I just taya my brother, who is she anyways?

Probably a refugee who just escaped from camp

Where is the sizzle?

DarkRebel101:
Guys/Men do not think about sex all the time. Speak for yourself alone.

The research that claimed men think about sex every seven minutes got latterly debunked as a hoax. And men certainly do not become unfocused, moody, irritable, tense, impatient, or suffer physical pain for not having sex as you so claimed. Do you have scientific proof of this other than anecdotal narratives?

If anything, denying the body of the orgasmïc bliss of carnal pleasures keeps one's senses in the pink and awakeningly conscious.

Why do you think athletes abstain from sex while a sporting season is underway? Why do you think many of the World's greatest all took sabbaticals from sex before they made crucial inroads in their work? Abstinence from sex improves focus.

Lack of self-control and inactivity are what causes men to think about sex all the time. You forget an idle mind is the devil's chimney.
If a man has a job, an avocation, a pastime that keeps him preoccupied, wanting to have sex wouldn't be primal on his to-do list.

Plato once posited that humans have a tripartite soul. He said we have three sides to us:

I.) The logical side.

II.) The emotional/spirited side and,

III.) The appetitive side.

The appetitive side of course encompasses our desires to have sex, to eat, to cavort and frolic etc.

Plato went further to say that the quintessential man is one who has transcended the appetitive realm and taken residence at the core of the logical aspect of his/her personhood. He claimed those governed by their appetitive hankerings are beasts and are no different from pigs and goats.

You see, even as far back as the time of Plato, men with self-control abounded, and have always dwelled on a higher plane of existence unlike men who are viscerally-fain and whose sexual needs dictate the complexion of their lives.

The mind of a man is not in default mode to constantly think about sex. An atavistic trait no doubt, but men have evolved.

I don't know about all you wrote but I usually have waist and back pains anytime I haven't ejaculated for a long time. And some throbbings too on my groin. I also seem more focused after sex than without it.

And Plato's philosophy is outdated. Humans don't deny their impulsis. They embrace it. It's what makes us human

Pierocash:
Yes u nailed it!bt on the issue of,guilders,i disagree.they contribute nothing different frm what an ordinary participant contributes,what is their contribution?i dnt knw who my guilder is except my referrer and so it is to millions of other ordinary participants,yet he earns frm my donation reaping whr he didn't sow.mutual aid can survive without guilders,yes,i belong to so many other mutual aid communities that are equally doing wel more than mmm yet without guilders.the money each guilder is earning should be within the system to service everyone,bt that is what one person takes and yet contributes next to nothing because there is nothing they do diferent frm ordinary referrers to justify such bogus pay they take.
As for me,if u want mmm to keep running without pause modes,guilders should be scrapped.

I get your point. But before MMM can stablize next year, the system needs fresh participants and the guiders are the ones to do the convincing right now. That's why they are important. The only problem with it, is that some of them are nonchalant, which MMM is trying to fix by including the option of changing guiders. With that they will be able to sit up

I have read with keen interest the postulations, analysis and arguments surrounding the pause mode of MMM. Of particular interest to me are the opinions of those against the scheme. They seem to operate like a clique on Nairaland. One of them would open an inglorious thread filled with mis-information about MMM and his/her partners will flood the comment box with praises for the OP and debasements for MMM participants. The next day it will be the turn of another person and their partners will rally around the person. Like that they keep donating attention to each other and the Mods keep pushing it to front page, because like MMM, Nairaland needs the active participation of the citizens to survive.

Even when it's being pointed out to them that MMM operates like a standard bank with an added advantage of gaining 30% percent increase on your deposit, they refuse to listen because it's difficult to snap out of the illusion created by these banks.

I happen to have first hand knowledge of both financial systems so I feel I'm qualified to lend a voice to this simmering topic. I will attempt to do these by exposing the similarities between the two systems and leaving you guys to judge for yourselves.

Both system guarantees no safety to your money: To me, banks are the greatest illutionists to have ever existed. Their illusions are so strong that the average depositor actually feels their money is safe with them. It never occured to them that that fireproof box in their dungeon guarantees more safety than the banks. Why? Because only about 30% of your money is issured with NDIC. What this means is that if you have 100k with your bank and later the bank folds, you will only get 30k back.
This measure was even introduced less than 15yrs ago. But the banks would never want you to know this. It's bad business for them if you do. You would think with the way these institutions claim to have your best interest in mind, the NDIC would have embarked on a public campaign to let depositors know about it. Or at least pass an injuction to the banks to disclose it to their customers?

But on the page of MMM website is a warning written in red for all participants to see. Also, when you place a PH order the same message pops up and asks you to consent before you are allowed to place the order. So, between the two systems, which of them is more ethical in their dealings?

Both systems basically circulate money around: There's an unwritten saying in the bank: your deposit is another person's withdrawal. It's more noticeable when a particular bank is going through liquidity crises. Of course, they give out your money to borrowers at roughly 30% interest, the same amount MMM promises its participants. But where does the 30% go to since you barely notice an increase in deposits. It's being used to cover overhead costs which somehow eventually ends back into the system. MMM can afford to promise the participants 30% because they have less overhead when compared to the banks. If half of Nigeria's population become involved with MMM that 30% will simply be revolving within the system and it would be as much sustenable as the banks. Of course banks trade with your money too, which poses more risk for you because you get next to nothing as returns.

Both systems are being saved by the regulators Just as MMM has the CROs to thank for preventing the system from crashing, depositors have CBN for that. CBN conducts periodic tests on banks to determine when such bank is about to have liquidity issues. They have measures in place, which they will set into motion immediately they get a less desirable result from one of their tests. This is what happened with Skye Bank and may eventually happen to two other banks that I know of. For Skye, CBN replaced the top management of the bank and lent the bank billions of naira to shore up their liquidity. For MMM, there measure was the pause mode. Ever wonder why banks promise outrageous amount of money for every deposit you make during the festive period. I know Fidelity is currently promising a chance to win 5million for 100thousand naira deposit. It's the same system with MMM. Infact, for banks they close their books in November. There's literally no business in December.

The top guys earn big in both system I have read complain that MMM guiders take so much money from the system. But do you know how much MDs and EDs of a bank take home as annual salaries, yet you get next to nothing for depositing money in their banks. Guiders are doing a lot of work for system just like the MDs and EDs of banks do, so it's only fair that they reap the fruit of their labour.

I think I'll stop here. The post have grown too long. Ever wonder why bankers are the easiest people to sell MMM to?

MMM is simply what it is: an alternative to the traditional financial system. If you live long enought to witness it, it might become a major competitor.

Uchihaitaci:
Hmmmmm, dummy I am 100℅ Igbo, born and raised. From Anambra state, from Ogidi, that's after Nkpir and Abagana then you go past saint Philips Catholic Church then you are in Ogini...That's Nkwele Ogidi.

Born and raised and guess what my best friend is an Afonja... Because I am not some semi illiterate dummy who has his brain twisted .

I don't base relationships on geographical origins I base them on character and in my best buddy who is an Afonja I have a beautiful soul of a man.

While I won't trade my origins for anything I do recommend you get some form of formal education, it will help broaden your horizons

Oga no dey describe where u serve. There' s nothing like Nkpir in Anambra. Oya translate this: atulu ma evu omulu ako

As long as she hasn't aborted a baby before and she doesn't deny you sex, you have no qualms. But if she did any of these run like a demon is chasing you

Potbelly and a sexless life

Chai and the the thing big o. What a waste

OP, I'm available but on the condition that we must date for at least one year and you must not deny me sex more than seven times.

1. Have lots of protected sex now. You will get less of it when you get married and you wouldn't want frustration to drive into doing s/th negative.

2. Make lots of friends. Join a political party, attend community and alumni meetings. The people you forge relationship with now will be very instrumental later.

3. Make very high risk decisions now whether it's business or relationship decision because this the only time you have less to loose and more to learn in risk management.

4. Create s/th and start marketing it now

5. Be stingy to women but help them with every other thing that won't inconvenience you.

6. Visit a grave yard once a month

7. Smoke weed for two years and party a lot for four years.

8. Don't ever turn the other cheek

I don't tire

Not in this era na Op. The only important skills is driving and investment skill. Every other thing you wrote there ma Oyo.

That is how one man was forming electrician at his house and got his wife electrocuted to death in the process. No be me and you. The tie own ma another matter. In fact the person that invented it needs to be castrated.

bukatyne:
Oya start

:DD
That's women's purview. Men are novice when it comes to invention of labels. We just determine which one still holds water or not

Me, I abhore feminists. I have always been anti feminism. If that makes me an oppressor, I wholeheartedly accept.

I think a new label should be invented. This feminism label no longer holds water

[quote author=jedaii post=50662942][/quote]What's wrong with that? Is it against the law?

Lies. There's no solution better than divorce. Ask the divorcees and divorcers, they will tell you

That's just about 2500 pounds. Average earnings of a British is about 27,000 pounds per annum. He can afford it jor. Make ur papa taste pounds small na...

gatiano:
Everything is existence has undulating motion.

The rising and setting of the sun and rising again signifies one complete rhythm (rise, set and rise) on the earth revolution. It is also one complete rhythm when the earth had complete one rotation around the sun which makes one year according to gregorian calender.

To complete a cycle means that the sun would have to end at a specific point. How long would that take?

What is the birth day? Is it when we get out from our mother's womb or when we are conceived in our mother's womb?

When then the pap turned into sperm and acquired some swimming skills

ItsQuinn:
God is neither

So God is a haemophrodite? I knew I wasn't crazy.....

ItsQuinn:
God created women not man ....I don't know why Nigerian men potray themselves as God...are you for real? ....you cannot even create a common dust particle talk more of a woman ....I just laugh in Swahili

Ha! Is God a female?

And to think that albino smakes get hearing problem like her father