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FamilyRe: Of Shocking Sexual Advances From Men by YourCoffin: 8:42pm On Sep 13, 2016
Freedom of expression I guess undecided undecided
FamilyRe: Benefits Of Marriage For Men by YourCoffin: 10:34am On Sep 12, 2016
They die early. At least vultures don't get to eat their flesh
FamilyRe: Help! My Husband Keeps Saving His Ex-girl Pix From Watzup On His Phone by YourCoffin: 9:35am On Aug 27, 2016
AZeD1:
My phone.
All phone do it. How do you think you can view the pics without it being stored in your phone first? And even when you' ve switched off your data? Some phones keep theirs in a temporary folder though.

Op I don't advice married folks so kpele.
FamilyRe: What Men Really Want From Marriage by YourCoffin: 12:54pm On Aug 24, 2016
A wife that doesn't nag and happy kids. Finish
FamilyRe: My Wife's Siblings Are Breaking Us Apart And I'm Mad Right Now by YourCoffin: 9:07pm On Jul 05, 2016
This whole thing is beginning to sound too real to be unreal. I know what good story tellers are capable of. Op I hope you are not toying with people's emotions here?
FamilyRe: My Wife's Siblings Are Breaking Us Apart And I'm Mad Right Now by YourCoffin: 9:22am On Jul 05, 2016
This's damn crushing. So sorry bro, I don't advice married folks.

Just know that I have a nice coffin waiting for you if you don't follow the advice of the first seven comments.
FamilyRe: Why Do Men Change Their Character After Marriage by YourCoffin: 8:04am On Jun 29, 2016
Cos change is constant
PoliticsRe: Current Epileptic Power Supply, How Is The Situation In Your Area? by YourCoffin: 12:23pm On Jun 28, 2016
For my area nepa dey get zero revenue. Infact 5000 wey I load since March still dey campe
FamilyRe: His Wife Want Him To Stop Working On Sunday by YourCoffin: 6:40pm On Jun 11, 2016
Make she follow you dey go work. Problem solved.
FamilyRe: How Did You Know Your Spouse Is The One For You? by YourCoffin: 3:42pm On Jun 06, 2016
[quote author=ivyT post=46309776][/quote]Continue...Opolo eye
FamilyRe: How Did You Know Your Spouse Is The One For You? by YourCoffin: 3:39pm On Jun 06, 2016
Welcomme:
It seems u work as a mortuary attendant ryt or a cemetery store keeper. U and ur babe dey wild mehn
I own a world class mortuary and yep, that's how we roll
FamilyRe: How Did You Know Your Spouse Is The One For You? by YourCoffin: 1:47pm On Jun 05, 2016
Four years ago, I and my babe were travelling from the east to Lagos. We drove into a restaurant somewhere close to Ore. Five minutes after we walked into the restaurant, we heard loud crash and we ran back out to check it out.

Alas, it was an accident. A commercial bus collided with a lorry. Come and see dead bodies na. Mangled ones, headless bodies, dismembered limbs. They were everywhere and blood was flowing like a river. While most people there couldn't tolerate the sight, my babe whipped out her Iphone 4 and began taking pictures of the scene. That was when I knew she was the one for me.

She was not afraid of dead bodies just as I'm not
FamilyRe: Your Greatest Fear. by YourCoffin: 8:37am On Jun 05, 2016
Peeling onions Injection And not making hell fire
FamilyRe: How Much Of Arguments Is Unhealthy In A Relationship? by YourCoffin: 5:55am On May 21, 2016
laraoge:
u must also be a good arguer.its clearly written in ur tone
Na. Don't argue much. Most times I just keep quiet and do my mind after. When I do argue, I'm passionate about it. The tone though was used here for a purpose.

I think Mindfulness has elaborated on what I was trying to pass across. Frequent arguements are actuall healthy. At least from my own point of view. It's how constitutions are born, reviewed and maintained. It how great ideas are examined, even down to the smallest details. It's through such arguments that one gets an immense sense of clarity on things. You might not know it but one little argument on something trivial today can influence one's perspective on something important tomorrow.

The problem arises from the method used, which is why I have a problem with your mention of 'spiritual' because that standpoint rarely deals with facts and for arguments to have positive outcomes they need examination of facts. For instance, you mentioned he has started saying sorry to you. Now compare the method you used to get him to do that to the one used on choosing the name of your kids. I'm pretty sure you didn't go spriritual on that one. You might have told him: this is what happens if you don't say sorry often and he got you because he saw the facts in what you said. Not the mumbo jumbo on destiny, which strays far away from realism.

Smart people are stubborn but also very quick to learn. They can't learn if they don't argue. Your guy learns by arguing. I can't say the same of you though. If what you're saying isn't clear to him, he will dump it as fast you dump a hot pot.

I'm tired of typing jare. Thankwhoever that sleep has finally come. Just tweak the way you argue and you guys will be fine.
PoliticsRe: JTF Releases 5 Chevron Workers Held Over Pipeline Bombing by YourCoffin: 9:24am On May 20, 2016
Where is Idris Abdukareen? We need to release a collabo this time...
FamilyRe: Exclusively For Your Family. 2 In 1 Gas And Petrol Cab. For Your GENSET by YourCoffin: 8:59am On May 20, 2016
How economical is it?

A breakdown of the comparison between gas and fuel will be helpful? These are hard times and people don't want additional expenses
FamilyRe: What Is African Marriage About And What Is It Values? by YourCoffin: 8:48am On May 20, 2016
How can s/th that's a farce have values?
PoliticsRe: Hilarious Photo Of Jamaica's Parliament Members by YourCoffin: 7:27pm On May 19, 2016
:DGovernment of weed smokers by the weed smokers and for the weed smokers. I wish I was a Jamaican cheesy
FamilyRe: How Much Of Arguments Is Unhealthy In A Relationship? by YourCoffin: 6:52pm On May 19, 2016
[quote author=laraoge post=45777023][/quote]And you expect him to? You reason because he's in a relationship with you, he should? Smh

I asked you that question to guage the smartness of your arguements. With the mention of 'typical and spiritual', I already have an opinion.

Madam, there's no practicality in your arguments, that's why he will never get you. To you, you are 'spiritually informed' and therefore he should agree because you said so. If my suspicion of the kind of person the man is, is right, the journey won't be easy for the both of you.
FamilyRe: How Much Of Arguments Is Unhealthy In A Relationship? by YourCoffin: 6:05pm On May 19, 2016
Just divorce na

You sef like argument walai. 'I bluntly refused' smh. Btw, what do you think is the man's destiny? And how did you know it has no relation to his son?
FamilyRe: Married Guys; How Did You Cope During Your First Year In Marriage? by YourCoffin: 12:02pm On Apr 26, 2016
OP, no more marriage and relationship nonsense from you please. Those are frivolities and should be left for those who are designed to engage in frivolities.

I like the way you think- even though it's rigidly one-directional, which I suspect is a consequence of your consulting firm's engagement approach, it's satisfactorily holistic. Write s/th Marxx like jare. Dissect s/th other than marriage and relationship. Even how to cut cost while browsing Nairaland sounds fun embarassed embarassed embarassed embarassed huh huh huh
FamilyRe: Why Do Women Love Living In Denial? by YourCoffin: 9:12am On Apr 13, 2016
It's all red-herring. Has nothing to do with them being emotional. It's simply an act of creating mystery by inventing confusion. A great manipulative tactic.
SportsRe: Former Italy And Ac Milan Legend Maldini Dies At 84. by YourCoffin: 3:39pm On Apr 03, 2016
I don't know the first Maldini but I know Paolo. He and Thuram were my favourite defender when I used to play PS1. May the dead rest in peace
FamilyRe: I Feel so Angry With My Husband. Help! by YourCoffin: 3:30pm On Apr 03, 2016
Ujoan:
So now it's her fault? ?
Did you miss the part where he said he was only pretending to be cheerful to get her to marry hin??
Where did I say it's her fault? To solve a problem, you begin by asking questions.

What I saw was that he had to give her everything she wanted cos he didn't want to lose her and that the pressure of providing for a new family is getting to him. He practically told her everything in just two sentences and if she hadn't had the brain of a goose she would have started by asking the same questions as I did.
FamilyRe: I Feel so Angry With My Husband. Help! by YourCoffin: 12:42pm On Apr 03, 2016
Find out how much debt ur husband has accrued. Do you even have an idea of how his comapny's cash flow, profit/loss statements look like or abi ur own na 2 just dey collect, u no mind where e dey come from? Can u trully discuss his business with him? What do you know about his business and I don't mean face value? How many times have you given him insights on how to improve his business? What topic do you bring up when you try to converse with him? He's almost 40, what do you think a man in that age bracket would like to discuss?

If you find out his books are ok and he continues that way, just kill him
PoliticsRe: Buhari Talked Tough On Nigeria’s Problems. Now He Must Deliver–The Guardian UK by YourCoffin: 9:31am On Mar 31, 2016
Chai! Buhari, abeg shame your critics for one. You can do it. I know you can do it. Start by providing uninterrupted power supply
PoliticsRe: APC Declares Fayose Threat To National Security by YourCoffin: 9:50pm On Mar 28, 2016
APC, I know say una president no go school but make una try dey talk like people wey go school

Na so Tinubu say make Kachikwu no dey speak the truth

Thunder go soon fire una
FamilyRe: My Husband Beat Me Up And L Collapsed. by YourCoffin: 5:15pm On Mar 28, 2016
You no give am child
you get shop but u no dey buy foodstuffs
you dey jealous sey him ask house maid whether she don eat
you dey go vigil for easter
you dey argue responsibility of feeding with him when he thinks you've failed in your own responsibility
he beat u until u collapsed yet u don't want to listen to ur father.

Nothing concern me where married people dey o but I don't fail to point out stupidity. Madam use ur tongue to count ur teeth. Ur life depends on it
FamilyRe: My Relationshp Is About Crashing... by YourCoffin: 9:22am On Mar 28, 2016
First, how much is in the list?
PoliticsRe: Why Was There No Pogroms After Murtala's Murder By Dimka? by YourCoffin: 7:21pm On Mar 27, 2016
The british was the missing factor.

They took special interest in the 1966 coup because if it had been sucessful, the coup leaders would have dismantled the system of extortion they built. So they used the media to spread the propaganda of Igbo domination.
FamilyRe: Nigeria:a Nation Of Wife Beaters? by YourCoffin: 2:23pm On Mar 22, 2016
I stopped reading where the OP described men as 'literally pulsating bags of sex hormones' and 'women as naturally beautiful'

If men are not human beings to women, why should they act like human beings?
FamilyRe: Help: This Depression Is Killing Me. by YourCoffin: 2:02pm On Mar 22, 2016
Short-term cure: m.a.s.t.u.r.b.a.t.e, then open an MS Word and starting typing whatever that's coming out of your head. Don't stop until you go blank then start arranging them to something meaningful

Long-term cure: read the topic below
www.nairaland.com/2616963/correcting-misconception-depression

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