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slawomir:
Damnnn niggar

Just relax you are not the only one in this situation

Someone told me am not mentally ready for that life style

And I accepted...




I Just got some few baby girls I bang...nothing serious
My own situation is even worse...the last time I asked a girl to spend more than one week with me after about three days I was no longer getting that excited..so i don't even understand how married people live together for years and still get excited maybe probably they are tired of each other but they are pretending just because of their kids and what society will say
Me personally I don't think marriage is for me

People have a misconception about marriage and married people. Married people are not boyfriend and girlfriend obsessed with just sex.

Married people have deep conversations not just about emotions but about kids, future, money, hope and aspirations.

Married people have kids to raise, they are occupied with homework, housework and their professorial work.

You only get tired when all you do is think of sex and you peoples feelings. I expect that singles who grew up in a proper two family home would have studied their parents and have an idea of what marriage entails.

Any married person fed up of their partner did not marry for the right reasons. There is enough me time in marriage. That you are married doesn't mean you are tied to your partner by a string and you can't do and enjoy your own thing and time.

Finders keepers right? It's something I'll never do, even if it's a $100. I'll never blame those who do, our circumstances are all different.

Good write up even if it's obviously fiction.

The people get what they deserve. Vox populi vox dei. They've chosen, the only option now is to support their choice with their 'full chest'.

First time of hearing about a 'wise' young thief. Most boys who steal spend it on clubbing, betting and carrying oloshos.

The parents should have a heart to heart talk with him. Something obviously went wrong. Seems like dude just wants to better his life.

graceilina:
aaah easy o

You're wise, you'll enjoy your old age if you choose wisely. Don't join the association of miserable old hags. Those ones are dead already and are always looking for people to join their association.

If you're not engaged then you're just having fun. Nobody wants to be tied down to another who will not take them seriously. I only take infidelity amongst the engaged and married seriously.

When I was still a single man, one unserious girl can't be tying me down when she has nothing to offer.

There was a time blacks took pride in their culture and heritage like the Asians, Indians and the Arabs, whilst immorality was the forte of the whites.

Today, blacks have thrown their culture and decency away to foolishly follow their white masters whilst the Asians, Indians and Arabs still strive to preserve their culture and dignity. What a shame.

ravensckar:


It's not a contest brother! This one be like Man City Vs Sampdoria. If Man City overscore, them go call them 'Agbaya'.

Show action, the time for talk is over. She's waiting patiently for you to use her as a rag. Nor fall hand o, don't be like that brother that claimed he'll do 4 rounds but only lasted 39 seconds. Men are rooting for you.

ravensckar:
Whilst I don't know the 'night school' that you graduated from, I'm sure of one singular fact; you barely passed English Language (especially the Comprehension aspect). Everything about your reasoning is antithetical.

You not a worthy adversary at all! Go and look for your mates to bandy words with. Exchanging words with you is tantamount to arguing with a brain dead. It's just not worth it!

You're not showing any action, I was actually waiting for your TKO but you ain't doing much, just going round in circles. I may have to switch teams because it seems the lady is doing a better job at trying to take you down.

Posh2018:
Is another skill (maybe just Grace) to identify a good lady. Especially if you are young and still dreaming.

Maybe a bit of luck, however, most people marry for the wrong reasons. Marry for the right reasons and see yourself getting luckier than others.

Reminderz:
when it comes to social relationships, most women are smart and not intelligent, while most men are intelligent and not smart...

women are brutally manipulative, cunning and powerful... underrate them at your own risk... a man without the redpill is a dead man walking... it only takes a predatory female to finish him off... dear awoken men, you have responsibilities to carry out on your sons and brothers to avoid them treading the same path of fallen men...

if the story is true which I believe it is due to a even more crazy scenarios I've experienced and seen, then I would say a man who let emotions override his logical ability will pay dearly for its consequences when it comes to dealing with the opposite sex...

the woman said the baby was born prematurely and he believed her... smh... and can anyone tell me? what is that route that she doesn't want to go through again? murder? bro when we warned many men here on the red flags to look out for, some foolish men and women commented that it's nothing to be worried about... well I hope they end up the same way as those fallen men... one lesson in life is to never try to save anyone who doesn't want to be saved.. life will surely deliver a very painful lesson to them, that's if they are lucky to be alive...

dear men, after speaking on some red flags to watch out for some couple of weeks ago and why it shouldn't be taken slightly... this is another set of red flags to look out for which I got from one of my divorced male friend who found out his wife was cheating on him...

1) always note down the last time you slept with your wife...

2) dna test is a must and most especially if you didn't meet her a virgin... try as much to find out and most especially on your first child...

3) her survival comes first and her child second... you're never considered or treated with less importance..

4) a woman will go any desperate lengths to get her secrets covered...

5) women will cheat on you and you may never find out till you die..

6) women will give you the craziest sex style and cook your favourite food, send you the best love letters and still be cheating on you...

7) a man who relies on a woman and believes everything a woman says is a man destined to fail...

8 ) your purpose and mission should come before any woman...

9) women are not going anywhere...

10) you can either love or understand woman, you can't do both... if I'm to choose, I will choose the latter because I've understood that women don't love men...

finally, save yourself man.. no one is coming to save you...

A man who worries so much is usually the easiest to scam or die of hypertension.

Solve this problem easily by marrying a good woman. You only have sleepless nights and worry so much when you marry a hôe.
Many men are married to hôes all in the name of marrying a woke or happening chic.

That's life. Sometimes we find our siblings annoying, sometimes we even wish the "nice and cool" neighbours were our parents.

What matters is patience and tolerance for those we love. The grass is never always greener on the other side.

Like joke, bible prophesy loading. We are tired of the wahala of the world. Let the end time come.

slawomir:
Damnnn niggar

I know say him nor go dey the movie


I download the movie on my Netflix yesterday and watched it

It was a nice movie I must confess
The death of yaz pain me
Stupid child cast their hidden location give he uncle...
Anyway I nor blame the pikin sha..blood is thicker...every son got this loyalty to their ancestors and their fathers family

This dude doesn't understand the meaning of a spoiler?

Men should be smart. Small items should be ignored, bigger items like cars and houses should be in the buyers name.

If it is in my name, it's not a gift, just a loan to you.

Meanwhile, men should ignore the rants of entitled girls on nairaland like the OP. If you see them in real life, you'd spit out of disgust. They're ain't shit. Don't take them seriously.

I've seen men in their 50's who can't do without sex every time. Even after having it for decades, I'm surprised they can't control themselves. These men are ready to do anything for sex, even kneel and beg small girls. Honestly, I don't know if it's genetic or they are indisciplined.

Personally, I've turned down sex a couple of times. I've never had problems controlling my sex drive. Again, maybe it's genetic or I'm just disciplined.

Morals have gone to the dogs. No shame anymore in washing their dirty linen in public. Next news please.

This is arm chair statistics. However, people calling Edo don't realise that the Igbos are mostly the hookers you find in Edo. Same thing applies in Delta and even Lagos.

Is the stats by state or tribe? The tribe being promiscuous is the issue. I also think the reason why we have many Igbo hookers is circumstantial. The igbos believe in giving birth to multiple kids irrespective of their income. That's what drives their girls to promiscuity.

dont8:
Close to a decade you say? Remind me what a decade is again!

More, actually.

Can't hate the boy. Wizzy is super talented and has been doing it for close to a decade. Upcoming? What upcoming?

Gerrard59:
It is money. Go and make yours and use your Oxford English to marry such women.

We know it's the money but it doesn't stop the women from sleeping with men of their own intelligence level and class, and passing on the kids as their husband's. It's foolish people who think money solves all problems.

Brush yourself up as a man and be desirable. Being a scumbag with money wouldn't solve your problems. After a while, the women will get bored with you.

akinmobola2019:
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Where is the alloy? Everyone is now a car dealer, if you can't identify an alloy rim how do you intend to explain the features to a potential client?

When you see some of our couples from the East, you can't logically explain how they're together.

A shapeless, local man who can't string two sentences being married to a beautiful, educated and polished damsel. It baffles.

Prettygirl200:
E pain am ooo 😂😂😂 What do u have that will even want me to stare at you in the first place? If I look at you I might become senseless like you, so it's better I don't so your senselessness can remain in you and continue from your generation to generation. Foolish thing!!!

Bastard kids are easily spotted anywhere they go. Consequences of loose women opening legs randomly for men. No parents, no home training.

Prettygirl200:
So stories from women here are lies, while the ones from men are true right? Can u see how stupid and senseless you sound? U are an idiot in a human form.

You're obviously referring to your worthless parents who made the mistake of bringing a wretched being like you to the world.
Imagine this imp who can't stare at me in real life.

What exactly do some men think? All these girls you pay for hook up will end up marrying someday and it's a man that is obviously going to marry them.

A person will not change just because she's married. Men and women should do their screening properly.

There are a lot of yahoo boys and olosho girls out there whom are ready for marriage. If you end up marrying one of them, it's a pity. Men and women see quite and responsible people, but ignore then and go for the flashy ones and then come back tomorrow and start lamenting.

PS; if the story is true, why would they hire an MC that can barely string correct sentences together?

Never seen a king with a period.

OtuologyProf:
You are a good student.. but I should correct some things
Inexperienced people are the ones who believe married women don't also want material/money in return. The age of the man doesn't matter

Go back and read. Most women want to be spent on and are not interested in spending on men. Women date up.

People have the notion that married women who are unsatisfied are looking for a small boy to give them sex and they'll be spending on him. That's a big fallacy. Go to offices and see married women dating married men, both for money and sex.

The 'sugar mummy' narrative is a scam that has gone on for too long. Rich women still want rich men to cheat with.

Mumu boys and their imaginary married women.

Only foolish people believe the concept of sugar mummy. Only very very few women will pay you for sex, women are naturally selfish and would even expect a 'sugar boy' to still get her gifts and treats.

Women date upwards, when a married woman wants to cheat, she'll likely cheat with a fellow married man who has a lot to lose. Inexperienced people are the ones who believe married women go around looking for small boys to cheat with.

Pelumitimi:
I don't pray wat happened to me should happen to any of ur sisters or relative .....
Cos that's wen u will understand better....I only shortened the whole tin.....not to waste peoples time.....

I didn't doubt you, I only said every story has 3 sides. We've only heard your side and we sympathise with you. However, your version alone is not enough to pronounce judgement on your lover or help you cook up a revenge.

My advice is to lick your wounds and move on. Don't force someone to love you. If you're not being treated right, have some self respect and move on.