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A country introducing N5000 note, actually needs more help than a country whose currency is pegged at 1 to 1 with the US dollar.

The men are having second thoughts. Too many face palms. The ladies are praying that the jazz on the men doesnt come off before the pastor seals the deal. LMAO.

NA WA OOH!!!

A lot of people are not mentally stable. OP, are you sure your husband has never been institutionalized before? People should pay attention to their spouses mental health before marriage. I think this is the only way i can justify all these stories on NL. Nigerian's always hide mental problems. A lot of people are bipolar or schitz, and without help they behave like this. Some people are just strange. At least if you know his mental status, you know you are not battling with a normal person. This is very strange. WOW! You married for real! . And you have accepted this even before marriage. Your mentality that all men are polygamous is a lie. You are too damaged

Ok first, I will like to say, because a person is a pastor doesn't make the person human. I know people who are being battered daily and married to pastors. This is why when people put all their life decisions on a pastors hands I just SMH. Now unto the real issue. The guy is not legally married to the other lady. He just needs to break the engagement. They are only engaged. Even Nigerian court system does not recognize traditional rites as marriage. We only try to interprete it that way for our selfish needs. She could have confided in the senior pastors who may have helped or intervened. As for the beating, that is taking things too far. However I don't know the true story. I know women who raised the first finger to slap the husband and got thoroughly beaten, but interprete that as being abused at no fault of theirs. If you are being sincere, then this is my take on the issue. I also think this story has been posted before, but with a new twist.

When I go clubbing I HATE people who know where I am stalking me. Like what is so important that you call me constantly on my time to just enjoy myself. If it is not an emergency, fall asleep! Or just text. Who can pick up a call in the club? You married a man that likes clubbing, and you are complaining? Quite frankly from what you wrote, clubbing is the least of your problems. Not to even talk of a call in the club.

Wow! . This is crazy
Simple wake him up every night to pee, and if he has been drinking make sure he pee's before entering your bed. So your adult bed smells like piss. The irony is its not your kids stinking up the place but an adult.

You saved up all that money with absolutely no plans. I think your first point of call will be to buy very affordable, cheap land snd build something small on it. It is very important to have your own house. If you already do, kudos. Also try to get a car. You can never rely on any human being, so don't be deceived that anyone will accomodate you for long. Make sure you have a job offer before you move!start looking for jobs in nigeria. Or get a contract to launch your move. Don't touch your savings except to settle basic needs.

Interesting. No one admitted. . This shows a lot of married couples are on NL. They all know their ID's

Uh oh! .

God gave you gifts to survive in this life.God made you, you are his creation and none of us is more special than the other. So why would you think he will go through someone else to tell you about your future and life? 5yrs with the right person is better than 100yrs with the wrong person. Make your own decisions in life and stop asking people for devilish consultation. You are old enough to decide you want to marry, and old enough to know who will make the best partner for you. All these consultations are very dangerous. I once had a pastor that made a "prediction" about a friend's fiancee. This prediction was based on the high level of chances of it occurring. But the pastor was exposed because unfortunately for him, the fiancee does not fall into that statistic. The fiancee passed with flying colors. This was a test that I would have failed.These guys are psychologists and well trained scam artists.A lot of people have been scammed into marrying the wrong person. The pastor out of selfishness may have someone he can remote control in mind for you. Give yourself brain and be a man. If you want to know what God thinks, you have direct contact with him. You can go on your knees and pray. Never let anyone choose your life partner.

You may want to share why you are getting divorced. Advise on how to raise your kids and arrangements after divorce can be determined by this. At least we can understand income ability, living arrangements, and temperament of each spouse. We can also advice to see if it can be salvaged.

Dis Guy: pass me the sick bucket!!

lol naija man not wanting something back hehe
its like saying Nigerian politician not wanting to benefit from some largess

It is possible. I have ex's that i am not attracted to anymore. They are friends because of a certain quality they have. So yes, it is possible. Some relationships may end, but you gain life long friends from it. I have ex's i will help without gaining anything from it.

Straight forward, life is too complicated to be guessing with your spouse at home. When you are supposed to be comfortable, free and stress free with the spouse. I dont like unpredictable people, they cannot be trusted.

I agree OP has insecurities

I also agree OP's insecurities are further fueled by the lack of a job

I further agree that the wife is WRONG! for doing this

OP, i want to ask a question. How long have you been out of work and how is your family managing? Has it been really tough for you guys? Why i ask is because wifey may be trying her best to help out in the family. She sees you cannot get paid employment fast enough, and in her mind is desperate for help. No matter where the help comes from. I think you should try to calm down and invite the Ex to the house. Let him know in a respectable way, without making yourself look foolish, that you appreciate his help. But you are not comfortable with this closeness, and as a man you hope he understands. If he is helping, he should be helping as a brother, and not because he wants something back. If he has a wife, invite them as a couple. Goodluck.

miteolu: TRUE REFLEXION OF NAIJA GOVERNMENT - DISABILITY

This is very wicked. Just pray to God you dont become disabled one day. I wonder if you will even be able to roll off the bed.

Congrats to Yakubu for putting naija name on the map for something competitive and positive.

Yes it is. Some families are genetically predisposed to some illnesses that may shorten their life span. E.g some cancers, HBP and Diabetes. See President Carter's family history for reference. There are some families who genetically have excellent health and long life. We should all find them and dilute their genes.

OP also mark on your calendar the day you did the Marathon. In a month follow her to antenatal and put your ears down for everything the doctor says including approximate age. In 5months follow her to the scan. They should tell yo the approximate age of the baby. Then go back to your calendar and calculate. . You should also go for STD tests.

debrief08: What gets me laughing is that the guy wanted to kill the poor girl, used a whole packet of con-doms in one night still he wasnt satisfied, haba. What kind of greed is that? Gluttony is a sin, Now after that he is coming to ask if he can be responsible for her pregnancy

SMH. OP must be jobless. Now you are jobless with a kid on the way. If you were hustling up and down will you have time for Marathons? Sit her down and accuse her first. Let her know you heard stories and let her know you are sure of yourself. That you will suport her if its not yours. Let her know you are doubtful, so you are not getting married till a DNA test is carried out. This will separate the wheat from the chaff. Good luck future popsie.

Unfortunately for you, you both accepted to help. Not that, that gesture is not appreciated i think it is. Since mama is complaining about how boring it is, maybe you should ask her what she wants to do. Does she want to work, or go to naija and start a business which you will both support and help her start? Maybe a shop with little provisions. You can ring this into her ears constantly to convince her it was her own decision. Also, try and help the other siblings look for stable work so that they can move out and maybe share one flat with their mum. The Economy right now is very bad all over the world. Everyone is adjusting and taking up a lot of responsibility to survive and scale through. Come to an agreement in your own way and try to help to settle everyone. Goodluck.

Am quite speechless here. This is a case of damned if you do, and damned if you dont. Since you want 2 kids in your life, i think you have achieved that. It will be in your best interest to move out, and leave him to get his life together. Have that kid please. It is not a bastard or unwanted. Just save your life and secure your kids future by having some self respect. Goodluck. Both of you are surely unstable and insane. I dont think anyone will abuse you in any way if you dont create the environment for it. We all teach people how to treat us.

I fully support this. Each state and citizens should feel like they can have control over their states. Nigeria is too big for federal police. State police will cut out a lot of ghost workers and fraud in the pension scheme. Policing will be more structured, controlled and have more quality. We cannot put a premium on human life. As for funding, take the money out of the federal allocation. The billions politicians are stealing everyday can go to the police. The federal government will also improve and support state police, by providing them the equipment and a head start. State police is the way forward. As for those talking about Lastma, they will always be traffic police. They already are anyway. OPC will be state police. . They already do a 100times better job than the current police.

"[size=18pt]I just started my pharmacy internship at 'Oxpharm', a pharmacy in Festac about two months ago[/size]. Last week Monday (20/08/12), I was doing my job when a middle aged man walked into the pharmacy and made complaints of persistent generalized body pains and difficulty with sleeping as a result of an accident he had some weeks back. The individual then specifically requested for the drug Rohypnol® (Flunitrazepam). [size=18pt]I then asked for the Doctors prescription. The individual said he had none but begged that he really needs the drug to help his condition because all others did not give him relief.[/size][size=8pt][/size] I still refused but after much begging and after profiling the individual as one who was not at risk to addiction to the drug, I sold the individual 1 satchet of drug and counselled him to see a doctor. After which I recorded the purchase of the drug in the Pharmacy's register.

This is where the guy killed his case. He cannot claim ignorance about the drug, or the fact that it required a doctor's prescription. he has confessed this with his own mouth. The police are only guilty of nollywood acting. The burden of proof is now on Nonso to prove that he did not conspire with the killers or does not belong to this syndicate. . The bolded also shows he was working there at the time the girl was killed. The police did all this to catch him and make his prosecution swift. Now he cannot deny selling to those guys.

[quote author=Chyz*]Illiteracy will soon eat you people up if time is not taken. The Ijaw are found in Ese-Odo LGA and part of Odigbo LGA in Ondo.


Here are the Ijaw communities

[b]Adolesemo I
Adolesemo II
Ajapa
Akpata
Agadagba-Obon
Amapere
New-Jerusalem
New-Ajapa
Tuweigbini
Whygeria Zion
Bekeweigbini
Obontoru
Opugbini
Tebugbini
Opu-Orugbini
Fiyebrasintei
Tabugbini
Ebibotei Zion
Pububogho
Pubilebu
Koropolo
Gunugunugbini
Ebiweigbini
Opubabilebu
Tukpatubu
Jebegbini
Tubukiri
Aseri-ama Zion
Buboghogbini

Ukpetubu
Sea-never-dry-gbini
Bighipri Zion
Tabatimigbini Arogbo
Beleowo-Zion
Biagbene
Gbekebo

Opuba
Ajapa
Akpata
Ebibotei Zion
Amatibi
Agalakiri
Tubugbini
Tamaraubotei Zion
Ugoububogho
Ojujojho-amah
Ajaowougbini
Opu-akpatakubu
Ulagbini
Biagbini
Okaminiweigbini
Urousou-ama Zion
Ogogbini
Shekegbini
Adoloseimo I
Ogonoh-ama Zion
Yeyegbini
Adoloseimo II
Gboinbohgbini
Itaitagbini

Luh-gbini
Tamaraubotei Zion
San-gbini
Gbayegbini
Seisuwogha-ama
Asahi-gbini Igbotu
Ikpoki
Kiribo
Igbobini

Otuwokubu
Morogbini
Dababulebu
Meshack-gbini
Akinah Zion
Jacob-gbini
Rachael-gbini
Akah-gbini
Panu-gbini
Boukiri Zion
Ojujojho-amah
Ajaowougbini
Opu-akpatakubu
Ogidigba II
Ekpuruke-gbini
Ogidigba III
Ipiteikiri Zion
Olomopupa
Ewerebubogho
Gbaraungbini
Ebiayegbini
Awodikuro
Dibigbini
Sfaugbo
Shabomi
Taribo
Arogbo Township

Blessing-gbini
Okologbini Oboro
Ojuala
Opuba
Otuokubu
Adaungbini
Idhiarhigbini
Kurukurugbini
Kpombagbini
Jeribeni Zion
Pelebosou
Egbeleuba
Kuetegbini
Agbedigbaraun
Panghankumo
Ijoujoukubu
Ebiamah Zion
Bolowou Zion
Pinah-ama Zion
Ukpe
Asere
Karaugbini
Tunfaweigbini
Donjeigbini
Ogidigba 1
Israel-kiri Zion
Paranikure Zion
Abigben-gbini
America Zion
Igan-ugbo
Osari
Abarikogbini[/b][/quote]Settler and indegene... You are a funny guy. Keep grasping at straws and chasing shadows. Ondo state is a YORUBA state. Nothing you can do about it. pele.

[quote author=Chyz*]You must be a fool. Calling the coastline of the Ijaw area of Ondo state "Yoruba offshore oil".[/quote]LMAO! Ijaw area? huh! . Funny shite.

Fashola is not smiling. I like this. Some people prefer to play dumb and blame the devil when they kill others. The devil is on vacation today. Comeback tomorrow.

jude33084: Before U̶̲̥̅̊
go talk wetin U̶̲̥̅̊
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we all know Ŧħåϯ Wђɑ̤̥̈̊† H̲̅€ did was wrong Ť☺ charge him with murder?!

When you are an adult and can wrtie in straight English, come back and argue. Dont let me tear his defence to shreds. If you read the article, it clearly states his hesitation at selling the drugs. That sting operation was probably carried out because the police were tipped off by the killers on which pharmacy sold what to them. For him to sell to the undercover cop is a criminal charge. It is obvious the drug requires a prescription otherwise he would not have had to keep record or request a prescription. He has killed his case by giving interviews, and solidified the police's position. It will help him to shut up from now on.

This is ridiculous ass kissing. I think there are many more qualified people that can help LAUTECH in a very positive way. If Tinubu wants to save his name, face and the reputation of ACN, it is best he politely rejects the honor. All these goons need to start focusing on important things. Especially Oyo, OSun, and Ogun states. SHAME!

I believe he is culpable. That is why as a professional you are responsible, there are certain ethics and guidelines you must follow. Otherwise you will face criminal charges. It even says it on the bottle, that you need a prescription. Are we saying he is blind? Or he cannot comprehend English? He has been criminally negligent and an accessory to murder. Will he tell people he did not know what they wanted to use such a drug for? As a pharmacist, why did he not ask them to go and bring a prescription from a certified doctor. I am sure these guys consulted him on the type of drug they were looking for. How many young guys can know this type of drug without consultation. Did he do his job by alerting the police when these guys probably consulted him? Forget story, he is culpable. Just like all those murdering quack doctors are also culpable. The ones that give fake diagnosis, kill people in their hospitals and advice them to go and die at home. smh. I believe we should bring back capital punishment. Too many people getting away with murder these days. . We have many professionals that collude with criminals for financial gain.

Is that Lagos to Kano route direct? . Is there no stop in the MB/SS/SE?