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your wife sounds like she really wants to be around you all the time. perhaps the travelling up and down is making her worried and making her cranky. i think you should try and cover the distance between you two by establishing your business somewhere around her or trying to get an assistant that will do some of the traveling so you can spend some time with your family. i think you guys are lucky to have found love and stayed in love dont let distance and the search for daily bread take this happiness away. please try to find a balance.
sometimes a woman needs her husband around her, in these times the money or phone calls wont be much consolation.

and hey, while you are trying to sort things out, can you get another line?it wont cost you much you know.

all the best and keep us posted.

@ poster,
this has happened to my sister at diamond atm at the palms. she lodged a complain with her bank (gtb), filled a form and in about 48hrs she got a mail that her money has been credited. so go back to intercontinental and complain(try not to be rude oh). it will be sorted out dont worry.

aylala thanks again for the info. wats up with ccnn and mutual benefit assurance? whay are those shares depreciating daily?

@aylala, thanks so much for the info. please do you have any idea bout 1st bank?do they have any major projects in sight? do you think their public offer will be the investors haven like dangote sugar?

hope you'll keep posting these tips!!!keep it up pls

Unity Bank and Ecobank have signed a memorandum of understanding, a major step geared toward merging. what do you guys think about their engagement?is their marriage going to work? nairalandesr lets hear your views.

my dear, take it easy. how old are you? you need to be at most 26 to meet their criteria. not to worry cos when one door closes, many others will surely open. perhaps that is not where God wants you to be. look on the bright side my dear.

is it a full time job or contract?or are you a corper? whether or not you take the job depends on how long you've sat at home, or how long you don't mind staying at home. besides what kind of bank is dat?na community bank?

i think if you have plenty of connections, you can reject this one. but if you have people looking up to you and parents tired of picking your bills, i would advise you start the job.some times you need a humble beginning to jump start you in life. that 20k may bring you more than you bargained for sooner than you expect.

so instead of sitting at home its better to wake up in the morning and go somewhere, believe me it brings some respect too.

lacasera and gala or yoghurt on a hot and traffic congested day is a relief. but my shopping list in traffic is a no no.

morning fresh na fake, books na photocopy, clothes na okrika, mirror go soon break, electric shaver, hand drier no go work when you reach house, wristwatch probably stolen from wharf. e.t.c, bottom line dont try it cos its more expensive at the long run.

chuddy, so wats going on? have you been able to release your tongue? try to move close to her (pretend your meeting is a coincidence) and try to strike up a conversation, anything intelligent. gud luck.

@ poster,

my friend almost went deaf cos of a slap from her fiancee!!!believe me that was his 5th chance!!!!!!!

if you like your self and your fine face, you had better run like the devil is chasing you. my friend left when she found her load outside (despite all the chances given to the guy, he still kicked her out of his house at 11pm).

a word is enof oh,

hi landers, a friend of mine serving with Access Bank says they need corpers. Corpers must have a 2.1 and be in Lagos (u dont necessarily have to be posted to lagos). so if you are interested or know anybody interested, call Toyin on 08020376884. i think they pay above 20k and your chances of being retained are high. so if you are game, then goodluck.

congrats. all the best in your new job

orjigga1:
u all should pray 4 me oh! made it to the interview bt stil servin though wil be through august. don't know if i'l mk it.
d pay interestin if it remains @ 2.2 per annum. i love money
. safe everyone

dont worry, you'll make it cos we are praying for you.

144k, take home after tax 120k. a friend works there so am sure of my info. unless it was reviewed yesterday.

@ poster,
please face reality (your boyfriend) and leave fantasy (Mr Universe) alone. A word is enough cos I know you are wise.

dont hate seun (dont know him personally so cant hate him). i think he has done well, if only he could be a bit more humble about his success. a lot of people on the forum and in life generally are intelligent and successful, but the greatest success is having the humility to accompany achievements.

not saying he should not be proud of himself (he can climb mount everest or any mountain higher and brag for all i care) but he should learn to be a bit more humble about his success

otherwise, i think he should fall in love, it will make him more human.

@ poster,
maybe once upon a time guys were not materialistic, but these days guys are even getting more materialistic than babes. they want to date a gal that travels like mungo park, hot as eva longoria, rich as oprah winfrey e.t.c. some just want to live off rich women or dont want the financial burden of taking care of the gal. and like i always say, such materialistic guys end up marrying statues and 2 yrs down the line, they want out cos life is a living hell.

bottom line, your friend is right.guys are becomming too materialistic for their own good.

@ cute-ass you know how to say it all!!

@ poster, look no further, cute-ass has said it all.

@ poster,

maybe you should stop offering her limca or goldspot and mamaput food

@poster, you said she was from a rich home, maybe the things you offer her (like goldspot or limca instead of irish cream, mamput instead of chinese) is way below her class.

just my 2 cents.

uyai dear, you have to make up your mind and be firm about your decision. from your last post, you still care about him and somewhere at the back of your mind you want the relationship to work.

but what does your heart really tell you to do?if you feel you should move on, then take the step one day at a time. someone said"he who has the heart to love should have the heart to suffer the bruise of it" that means not all 'loves' are meant  to be. please my dear dont fuss it. think of what will make you happy and try very hard to do just that. i know its not so easy that is why you should take it one day at a time.dont settle for less out of sentiments, matters of the heart are not easy, but try to be strong. you can do what you set out to do, trust me.

@ poster,

6 years is a lot of time for you to be able to read your boyfriend and know his psyche, my dear proposing to him will not make him appreciate you more, it will only make you sound desperate and that may put him off.

but if after all this while, he is comfortable and seems in the right frame of mind to settle down and yet he hasn't said anything to you about it, then i think you should start shopping for another basket to carry your eggs in cos he may not see you as wife material and may not know how to tell you.

so look inwards, do what your head and heart tells you to do

try to go to mfm and untie your drooling tongue

on a serious note, you could start with a complement, something like "i like your hair" or "nice shirt" or any simple complement. that should get her to notice you esp if she hadn't noticed you before.always say hi when you see her. dont overdo it though.you'll be fine dont worry.

hear the take home for phb is N166k. someone that works there said so.but i think you should wait and see what is on your letter cos a lot of people are not truthful about the amount they take home.

jesusfreak, sorry oh but while your boyfriend is waiting to further his education, what is he doing?is he financially bouyant or living off his friends?do you think his priorities are right?

have you tried taking him to the kind of places you like to eat?have you tried writing him a poem or telling him how much he means to you since you hardly have time together? in short, have you tried doing all the things you want him to do for you?

the problem with your relationship is certainly not buka food, but a lot of things only you know about. so incase you decide this one is doomed, try not to be hungry anytime you visit the next boyfriend so this buka issue doesnt come up and like seun said, find a guy that shares your taste and likes. take care .

may their souls rest in peace, and their families be granted the fortitude to bear the loss, and chelsea fc, the fortitude to bear the 'double' losses.

IBB Fan:
it's rather unfortunate. may their souls R.I.P. and i pray the Manchester United fans do not behold any calamity after the loss of tonight's game to AC.

you wish!!! just watch man utd whoop ac milan's ass.

starcomms. cos their internet is not so bad and its cheaper than multi links.besides there are a lot of people on the starcomms network so you can get to make free weekend calls also.

dont know about 'o'.

please accept my sympathy.try to sorround yourself with people that will uplift you instead of those that will make you sad.may God heal you and give you the strenght to go thru this trying period.

did you check your bulk mail too?what number did they call you with?have you tried calling the number back to report that nothing was in your box?

hi uyai, how are you feeling? since your heart says you should move on, then i pray God gives you the strenght. not to worry, you will catch a bigger fish sooner than you think. take care and most importantly, have fun.

pls how did you apply?am interested in p&g.

also, prepare well for the test, hear they just reviewed their pay.so read hard and pray hard.