Travel › Re: Living In The Uk-life Of An Immigrant (part 2) by bigtt76(f): 9:51pm On Apr 16, 2023 |
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Travel › Re: Living In The Uk-life Of An Immigrant (part 2) by bigtt76(f): 6:55pm On Apr 16, 2023 |
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Family › Re: Is It Bad That I Dress My Daughter In Boy’s Clothes? by bigtt76(f): 6:01pm On Apr 16, 2023 |
Clothes does not make a gay or lesbian or tomboys. Live according to your means. If you look at the Royal family, their children are dressed in recycled clothings of nephews, nieces or cousins u till such a time when they are grown enough to be bought their own fitted dresses. Kids grow too fast and at that rate you can't afford to buy new dresses every week or month. Obavoh: Out of my 4 children, it is only the first born I buy clothes for and he passes it down to his younger ones once he outgrows them.
It saves me a lot of money s children clothes are expensive.
I bought few girl clothes for my only daughter but most times she wears her brothers clothes.
A lot of people say it is very bad and it will make her a tomboy. Please is this true? |
European Football (EPL, UEFA, La Liga) › Re: West Ham Vs Arsenal (2 - 2) On 16th April 2023 by bigtt76(f): 3:32pm On Apr 16, 2023 |
Arsenal dropping points steadily these few games ...not good really. |
Travel › Re: Living In The Uk-life Of An Immigrant (part 2) by bigtt76(f): 11:53am On Apr 16, 2023 |
Yes ooo  Lexusgs430: Nah investment, wey must yield dividends.........
Make we give Oga kudos...... He did it well, madam first enter, madam don settle........😁
Time for the battalions to troop in ........😂😁 |
Travel › Re: Living In The Uk-life Of An Immigrant (part 2) by bigtt76(f): 11:05am On Apr 16, 2023 |
Super strika  nor bi small pouns don go down to get this project to the level it is now Lexusgs430: Get a letter from your wife + copy of her biometric page + visa page ........
Those over zealous immigration officers in Nigeria, might give you agro( without them)......
Only you..... 5 children...... You be chairman o.....😂😜 Oga @ezegold ...twale sah ezegold4we: Good morning honourables, Pls apart from intl passports,what are the documents a male dependant travelling with his five children to UK should hold whose wife is already in UK with work Visa?
Finally,what are the likely questions at the point of entry in Heathrow airport?
Dependants already in UK,pls help in answering these question,
Thanks. |
Celebrities › Re: Not Getting Government Seat Shouldn't Stop One From Community Service - Banky W by bigtt76(f): 9:33am On Apr 16, 2023 |
E don go do hair transplant  onthehill: Bankole Wellington, popularly known as Banky W, has said service to community should not be dependent on being in government, IGBERETV reports.
The singer, who was the PDP candidate for the House of Representatives election in Eti-Osa federal constituency of Lagos State, lost to the Labour Party candidate.
Taking to his Instagram handle, Banky stated that not getting a seat in government shouldn't stop one from serving the community.
He wrote;
https://www.instagram.com/p/CrBCrrIOC9l/?utm_source=ig_web_copy_link |
Travel › Re: Living In The Uk-life Of An Immigrant (part 2) by bigtt76(f): 7:36pm On Apr 15, 2023 |
Still valid for those hustling in our youkay  bigtt76: Many are afraid to borrow because of the experiences back home where you are hassled if you default paying or the shame you are put through. With CC it is different... You repay what you spend at a fraction of it (if that works for you) or you pay in full. But I agree with you, if you are not financially literate enough to understand the advantages or disadvantages of owing a CC, it's best you get educated on it than be sorry for it later on. Life here can be better if on CC.
Having said this, if you ever decide to give it a try, you can start here with my AMEX referral
https://americanexpress.com/en-gb/referral/tEMItOhbvx?XL=MNMNS |
Investment › Re: Lazerpay Shuts Down, Withdraw Your Funds Before April 30 by bigtt76(f): 5:34pm On Apr 15, 2023 |
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Investment › Re: Lazerpay Shuts Down, Withdraw Your Funds Before April 30 by bigtt76(f): 5:33pm On Apr 15, 2023 |
A lot of startups especially fintechs were only setup as conduit to raise funds for their founders to live large, they are never profitable. The only winner is the founder who keeps diluting his/her shares until they clean out and leave behind a jackass company. Why would any startup need millions of dollars in funding claiming they are building to scale to countries that don't need dem. You never finish for your home country you wan enter Philippine or Mexico or Uruguay ....African company ooo  |
Crime › Re: Human Traffickers Go Wild As Uk-based Madam Writes Shrine, Vows To Destroy Victi by bigtt76(f): 12:29pm On Apr 15, 2023 |
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Business › Re: Regulatory Compliance: CBN Grants Fountainpay Commercial License by bigtt76(f): 12:23pm On Apr 15, 2023 |
No lies spotted 😂 othermen: Emefiele may be the owner of Arowolo.
If you don’t think the powers that be have massive stake in the fintech they are licensing, well, you are not losing anything by your naivety. |
Health › Re: Slept With Her And Discovered Bruises On My Pen:s by bigtt76(f): 3:28pm On Apr 14, 2023 |
She never de shave ni?  Sticooooooo: Normally I am a guy that really fancy women. I used to sleep with a lot of them. Although I have a very big pen:s, 7 inche. There's these two particular ladies that when ever I sleep with them I will notice some small bruises on my pen:s.
Yesterday I sleep with one of them, but before that she told me that she wasn't fine and she's on drugs. But as conji dey do me, I didn't listen I went ahead to fire, since I have gold circle.
In the process of inserting my thing in her I notice a whitish something on her pus;y unlike before, I didn't hesitate, I went straight.
After the do, I discovered that condom burst and I discovered bruises on my thing just as usual
Later I discovered that the drugs she was using is STD related drugs.
Please, which drugs can I use to neutralise the possible infection 😫?
Is it normal to experience bruises on a pen:s after sex and yet condom didn't burst or it burst?
Please help a brother fast |
Health › Re: Addicted To Coca-Cola by bigtt76(f): 3:27pm On Apr 14, 2023 |
Worse ...avoid caffeine to protect your kidney ooo chinchum: switch to coffee. |
Health › Re: Addicted To Coca-Cola by bigtt76(f): 3:18pm On Apr 14, 2023 |
How did you conclude your Blood sugar is ok? Do you go for regular checks? The symptoms you highlighted are mostly those of a type 2 diabetic patient. I would suggest you slow down on coke but if you must take it, go for the diet coke or no sugar version. Go see a doctor for proper check don't rely on those roadside pharmacies checking blood sugar for you oo Fryx: My works require a lot of creative thinking, but for some reason, complex thoughts hurt my heads so much that by the end of the day, I am more tired than a person hewing trees in the bush.
So, about two years ago, I discovered that if I drink coke, my head does not hurt at all.
I believe my brain was able to use the "Sugar" in coke more effectively than the ones processed by my body from carbohydrates.
So, I limit my consumption of Carbs and eats more junks and cokes.
It really helped me since I can work tirelessly for long hours without my brain tiring out. But then, some of my body sensors stop working correctly.
I won't know when I am thirsty or hungry. Infact, I struggle to eat many times since I rarely have appetite for food ---I just drink sugary stuff to regain my energy.
But I have been noticing some tingling in my legs and can sometimes get worse during sleep (I can wake up in the middle of the night to see that my leg is dead)
Unknown to me, Coke produces cholesterols , and since I am an indoor person that rarely goes out or exercise, the cholesterols are clogging my veins and preventing proper flow of blood.
Although, coke produces less than other harmful junks I eat----Yogurt, buscuits, sweets, licking pure sugar, etc.
I do not mind the consumption of these junks because my blood sugar level is Ok, and I believe my brain needs them.
But about five days ago, I did some jump and hit my big toe on the floor, causing some internal sprain.
Usually, the sprain should go early, but I was surprised to wake up the third day to some excruciating pain. This mean the wound is not healing at all, and as far as I can remember, I experience some tingling in my leg during the night. So, it is likely that blood is not flowing properly to my legs again, and wound cannot heal without good supply of blood.
I decided to massage the leg, and in the process, I mistakeinly touch the toe next to my big toe (I can't recollect the name of this toe as the moment, so just take it as "the next big toe"
My "next big toe" was soooo painful to touch, and I was surprised because I never felt any pain from that area.
When I inspect it properly, I discovered my "next big toe" is dying.
There is something called Gangrene, it is the death of body tissue when blood stops flowing to that area, and in severe cases, the body area will need to be amputated.
My "next big toe" has started dying due to lack of proper blood flow to it.
Luckily for me, no other toe is affected.
I did some research and discover that bad cholesterols can block blood vessels, and since I am an heavy "Sugar" eater, I am likely surffering from that.
I decided I won't take sugar again.
I massaged my toe to life, and decided to eat healthy yesterday. I went out during the day to eat at a restaurant, and cooked at night (unlike me)
That single changed in life style really cause some changes in my body. Yesterday night, I feel many veins in my body coming to life, especially in my leg region. And by this morning, my "next big toe" is no longer grayish in color. It is not as painful to touch as it was either.
Encouraged by the improvements, I decided not to take any form of sugar again.
But there is a problem----my brain.
Without Sugar, my brain was so slow and thinking was sooo painful. I struggled to complete my task yesterday, and I have been avoiding work since morning (today) because I was just feeling pains in my head.
I don't understand it. It seems my body got issue with carbs cause even if I eat excess of it, I may feel sick. I am also slim because my body don't retain fat or carbs.
I have been struggling since morning, trying to adjust to a change in diet. But since I have works to do, I have no choice but to get another bottle of Coke.
Expectedly, my brain becomes really cool a few seconds after taking the coke.
Although, I have resolved not to take any other type of drinks or junk, to eat properly, and take Coke only "one day on, one day off." I honestly want to do without every form of sugar.
I'm afraid I'm addicted to coke, and I don't know how to overcome it.
Below is a picture of how Gangrene looks, so it's something scary.
Check Scary Pictures Here. |
Politics › Re: Simon Ekpa Writes UN, Names Self As Prime Minister, Lists Other Officials by bigtt76(f): 9:20am On Apr 14, 2023 |
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Travel › Re: Living In The Uk-life Of An Immigrant (part 2) by bigtt76(f): 9:34pm On Apr 13, 2023 |
I see Llyods bank app allows you to cash a check by taking a photo of it and send....they don't need bank branches but again, for the elderly who are not tech savvy. Lexusgs430: How long would it take to convert a teller, to a telephone customer service agent.........😂🤣
Agreeably, not all of them would be absorbed.... Some would accept redundancies, others would move on ......😜 |
Family › Re: Help! My Sister In-law Is Seducing Me by bigtt76(f): 8:34am On Apr 13, 2023 |
Nack if you nack joooooor stop disturbing us. nicej2: Dear Nairalanders, i am not really good posting my issues online. But this time i need your advise.
I have been married for 9 years now and my sister inlaw has been living with us( I, my wife and the kids) for the past 6 years now, although I am not always around. I have never imagine any negative thoughts toward her. I always see her like my younger sister, i have been taken care of her. She is 28 years old and I can't really says if she have a boyfriend cos I haven't see one around her. She is a boss in her working place but yet i foots all her bills in the house without bothering anyone, including my wife that is also a boss .Until of recent she started wearing seductive clothes around the house, Some how i started developing feelings for her As if she knows, she continues wearing those clothes and started showing more caring towards me. I can't believed that i am having feelings for my sister inlaw cos i am a disciplined man to the core. Even during university days girls do come to my apartment passed a night without molesting them. I am well brought up. But is like that disciplined man in me started degenerating as i began to see this girl in my dreams. There was a night i returned from travelled, i started feeling the urge to go to her room. My wife almost cought me that night cos we lives in 3 bedroom, I have my own room, my wife have her own and my sister inlaw have her own room. So we sleep in separate rooms except some occasions my wife decided to stay in my room. That night i was pimping through her door. I have been trying to control my feelings and I believed the reason why I have not sleep with her is because i am not always around and I also the fear of traditions implications of sleeping with sister inlaw . And my wife is not helping matters, she can leave both of us alone in d house and go to all night church program and the children will be sleeping.
I don't really know what to do. Should I tell my wife so that we can get her accommodation or just let the sleeping dog be. Though I don't really want her to leave cos is my wife and the children are alone in the compound. I just want to kill that urge before I return from travel.
Sorry for the long episode ..😀 |
Politics › Re: Orji Uzor Kalu Holds Open Casket Viewing For Late Ex-wife (photos) by bigtt76(f): 7:13am On Apr 13, 2023 |
I believe so cos she was never in the picture as first lady during his tenure as governor. Rather his mother was the prominent face. drake2: Please I need clarity on; "His late ex- wife" statement.
Were they divorced before her death? And for how long if yes? |
TV/Movies › Re: The Gangs Of Lagos: Indigenes Petition NFVCB Over Defamation Of Isale Eko, Eyo by bigtt76(f): 7:08am On Apr 13, 2023 |
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Celebrities › Re: The Weight Of Cubana Chief Priest's 5-Year-Old Son, Obinna, Causes Stir Online by bigtt76(f): 7:04am On Apr 13, 2023 |
Kids are prone to feed like their parents if they (parents) don't watch their eating habits. It may also be hereditary ...no fault of both. ExclusiveBet: Pascal Chibuike, popularly known as Cubana Chief Priest, sparked outrage online after posting a video of his five-year-old kid.
Chief Priest posted a video on his Instagram account of his youngster attempting to swim.
Cubana Chief Priest shared the video to celebrate his son, who is now five years old today, the 11th of April, 2023.
According to him, Obinna is his next of kin, and he is excited to mark his birthday.
He wrote,
https://www.instagram.com/reel/Cq25rQEoDWR/?igshid=YmMyMTA2M2Y=
Netizens dragged Cubana Chief Priest over the shared video as they note his son’s plumpness.
Some dragged him for not cautioning his son, while some mocked his little boy. |
Politics › Re: Tinubu Won Presidential Election - INEC Tells Tribunal by bigtt76(f): 10:37am On Apr 12, 2023 |
Simple question to INEC on the embolden - If FCT is recognized as a state, have you conducted gubernatorial elections in the FCT before? Werey On the issue of Tinubu not winning the FCT, INEC argued that going by the provisions of the 1999 Constitution, “the FCT has the status of a state and ought to be recognised as one of the states of the federation.” Praxtech: https://punchng.com/tinubu-won-presidential-poll-inec-tells-tribunal/?amp |
Health › Re: Pictures Of Ogun State Tricycle Ambulances by bigtt76(f): 7:31am On Apr 12, 2023 |
This is the issue ...when roads are bad you don't buy an SUV to alleviate the effect but rather repair the roads. Using a converted tricycle as ambulance is just sheer arrogance by the politicians. Would the governor enter one of those during an emergency fit? But he sees this as the best option for people who voted him into office. Sad and nothing to applaud. Funkyswagzz: This is a good development ambulance can now move into village were the road is bad. This is the best idea ive ever seen in a long time. Kudos to ogun state government 😂😂 |
Family › Re: Frustrated With My Wife by bigtt76(f): 10:14pm On Apr 10, 2023 |
She's ruing her lost teen life which climaxes at 25 years of age for most females. You married her at 23 years old when life was just starting for her. To come add injury ...2 kids within the 6 years ....knacking don end for you be dat ooo  Look for another smallie jooooooor. Jokes apart, embolden is the issue, try and rekindle those lost days ...indulge her with clubbing and other fanciful things girls her age enjoys doing. Free her to go on girls date with her friends etc. tomi4life: I am 35 and my wife is 29, we have been married for 6 years now, we have 2 children a boy and a girl. We didnt court much during our courtship because of long distance.
I really have a problem with my wife and not sure what can be done to address, now I must be very honest am not sure there is anything I can do I just want to use the platform to vent my frustration.
My marriage has not been very good, lately myself and my wife leave like room mates and not lovers, despite the age difference between me and my wife she doesnt really respect me. For the 6 years we have been in marriage 3 things have caused all our fights: cooking, Sex and finance
My wife rarely cooks in the house, things around welfare are not taken seriously, actually in a week, my wife can cook for me just 1 time. She cooks for the children and baths for them daily, we also have a help who does alot of cooking. She rarely askes me what I will eat, honestly I always have to go to the kitchen to sort myself, sometimes I buy food outside from eateries and bucker. Sometimes when she cooks it usually very late 10pm. I have complained severally and what happen is she tries to change, after a week, we are back to the same state. My wife can do without cooking for me for weeks. It really really pains me cos am a foody and I knw hw my mum treats matters of food. she is this person that forms busy, either she is busy with work or some church activities, she always has an excuse. She goes to work only ones a weeks the remaining 4days are remote. To address this issue I now order soups from major restaurant outlets, An example is today easter sunday, I had to tell our maid to prepare rice for myself and the kids, cos my wife was in church, we all went to church but she decided to stay back, knowing fully well no food was prepared.
Sex: [/b]our sex life is very boring, when we got married we always fight about sex, cos anytime I ask for it she always complain she is tired, so what I now do is ask for it only sat morning, brethen this is only day I get sex. If I miss that day, it is still next week. We sleep in different rooms, she sleeps with the children in the master bedroom while I sleep alone in another room. I can tell most time she doesnt enjoy it and never ever askes for it, I always ask and initiate it. She just lays like a log, even kisses is a no no, except she is really on, which rarely happens. [b] Finance: I have always earned more than my wife, when we got married, I was earning 3 times what she was earning, but she changed jobs and got promoted severally and we were earning the same amount. she also does alot of side runs where she gets 200-300k monthly as side hustle, there was even a time she was earning more than I did. I dint let it bother me I continue to foot the entire house bills. 95% of the enitre house of comes from me, she only pays the maid , buys cooking gas and my sons diaper. Every other thing in the house is covered by me, house rent, school fees, project, all the bills. I give her 75k as food money monthly. I have continue to question her why I should give her food moeny if I still have to end up going out to eat. I think the only reason she sometime listens to me is cause i still provide the finances for the house. The time she was earning more I could see how she belittle some of my decisions. I just prayed to God, cos I noticed the respect was gone, when I talk to her about her role as a mum and mother to the home, she says she is working, she is busy, I mentioned to her that the money she works is for her, she doesnt share with the house, I have never asked her for it and am not against her working, she however should not neglect her responsibility as a mum. That my role as a father, God helping me is to provide, and this is why I work. I also noticed when I got a new job and my salary increased she kinda off felt jealous she didnt tell me but i noticed it, she began to aggressively look for jobs.
I really dont think we have that initmacy, we are just there, my wife cant come to tell me anything bothering her, she keeps to herself. Funny part is she is a very religious person, my wife will sleep with bible on her hand, wake up with bible pray and serve in various church unit, I however dont think she really understands what she reads. She also has a very bad temper sometimes when I raise certian issues, the ways she talks sometimes I have to hold back a response if not the whole thing will escalate. There are days I will raise certain issue up, the next things she mentions is " let just dissolve this marriage as it is not working" sometimes , I just refer her to her bible cos the utterances that come out of her mouth makes me doubt her understanding of Christianity.
I have never assaulted her, we have nt had any physically fight, what happens is most times when we have issues, I dont speak to her for days, then she come back apologizing. Sometimes when am wrong I also apologies.
Am not saying am perfect, I know there are areas I can do better, like in the buying off gift, I rarely buy her gift, not cause I cant but Cos she earns well and I believe she should buy whatever she needs with her money my wife earns approximately 800k monthy.
I expect my wife will support me but it like she is stressing me. when we go see my parent or our parent, it is all smiles, they dont knw hw stressful their daughter is, she even forms trying to serve me food and all.
Dont get me wrong she has some good side, but this thing is really getting into me. I dont drink, smoke or womanise, divorce is also not on the table for me. |
Romance › Re: She Goes To The Kitchen Naked by bigtt76(f): 10:06pm On Apr 09, 2023 |
Isn't she naked in your home? Flat? Or you're sharing with someone else? It's a sign of total submission to you except you're thinking of hitting and running away on her. I don't understand what other motive she could be harbouring. 🤷🏿♀️ DeJoeee: My gf just developed this recent habit of going to the kitchen with only her panties and shower cap leaving her breast bare.
Sometimes she will wear my polo(which is long on her cos I'm much taller) with no panties This is a girl who is naked shy as recent as december last year.
I'm not supposed to suspect her cos she's from a very responsible home and possibly my wife to be but the experience of others have thought me to suspect any new move of the other gender no matter how innocent.
Do I need to worry about this?
Please mods help push to front page for more mature advise . This issue is of big concern to me |
Politics › Re: Prince Bola Ajibola Is Dead by bigtt76(f): 6:03pm On Apr 09, 2023 |
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Travel › Re: Living In The Uk-life Of An Immigrant (part 2) by bigtt76(f): 4:01pm On Apr 09, 2023 |
Many are afraid to borrow because of the experiences back home where you are hassled if you default paying or the shame you are put through. With CC it is different... You repay what you spend at a fraction of it (if that works for you) or you pay in full. But I agree with you, if you are not financially literate enough to understand the advantages or disadvantages of owing a CC, it's best you get educated on it than be sorry for it later on. Life here can be better if on CC. Having said this, if you ever decide to give it a try, you can start here with my AMEX referral https://americanexpress.com/en-gb/referral/tEMItOhbvx?XL=MNMNSrinzylee: Baba.... I no just like to borrow money. Some nasty past experiences still give me PTSD, even though na Naija factor cause am.
Maybe next year! |
Travel › Re: Living In The Uk-life Of An Immigrant (part 2) by bigtt76(f): 12:48pm On Apr 09, 2023 |
Good credit card limit. justwise: When you say credit what are you referring to? |
Travel › Re: Living In The Uk-life Of An Immigrant (part 2) by bigtt76(f): 12:26pm On Apr 09, 2023 |
You can have your credits though. All you need is show that your guest would not have to resort to public funds for accommodation or feeding. justwise: That will not work, how will take care of extra person if you have nothing in your account? |
Travel › Re: Thinking Of Relocating Back To Nigeria From Canada by bigtt76(f): 8:31pm On Apr 08, 2023 |
Toh.... POF wahala 🤣🤣🤣 OP look for online remote customer care jobs. You're better placed than many back home to score these jobs. Don't give up 💪🏾 justwise: This is what happens when you cheat yourself during visa application and claimed that you have the money to see yourself through your studies. |
Sports › Re: Guardiola Allegedly Had An Affair With Pique’s Girlfriend by bigtt76(f): 4:43pm On Apr 08, 2023 |
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Politics › Re: CBN To Remove Up Tier-1 Accounts Not Linked To BVN by bigtt76(f): 11:10am On Apr 08, 2023 |
Financial inclusion sonature1: Why does the CBN allow banks to open account without BVN? I thought this country has grown beyond that stage. |