The only sister i and my other siblings had met a Man around 2008. He's from Imo state, a deportee from Germany who was in his late 40s when they met. My sister was just out of high school then and struggling to secure admission into any of the tertiary institutions. Luckily, she got admission to study law at Unilag after her second attempt. Sadly, there was no money to process the admission, she lost it. She was the first and only daughter of our parents. My parents were incapacitated financially to support her dream
My father never wanted her to work then, for guys not to take advantage of her or something. Having lost the admission, she insisted to work inorder to raise money for her studies. My dad got no option than to obliged
She met this man barely a year she started working. She was in her early 20s and full of dreams. Lest I forget, she was staying with our grand mother due to distance. This man got my sister pregnant and we got to hear about it. My dad got the man arrested and beat the hell out of my sister. He wept bitterly claiming this isn't the life he envisioned for his only daughter
He beseeched her and talk sense into her but she insisted, claiming she loved the man. This man was deported after spending almost half of his productive years outside the shores of Nigeria. He came back home with nothing and the next thing he could do was to got my sister pregnant claiming he loves her beyond words
My sister moved in with him and they started living together. We lost our grand parents (paternal and maternal) Yet, this man and my sister never stepped their foot in our house to commesorate. I lost my eldest brother, same thing happened. They never showed up. I was the 4th child of five children. Though, only four left now. She hardly call our parents nor we her siblings. To cap it all, my sister had stopped using phone ever since she moved to pourtharcourt with this man
This same man always attend his family function and very much into his family but isolated my sister away from her family. My sister never called throughout my days in the university just to know how I'm fairing, despite knowing our family condition. A very close friend of mine noticed this while in school and i did explained everything to him. He felt so bittered. He asserted the man might be diabolic, he's from the same town with the man in imo state
My parents are in their early/late 60s respectively and aging gradually. They couldn't felt the presence of their only daughter. Interestingly, family members got suspicious and they kept asking after her but my parents are bent on covering up, claiming she's fine. Yet, they goes to their closets to cry bitterly for the life of their daughter. I asked my dad why covering up, he claimed to have known his family pretty well, that they would do nothing
I'm just a young graduate, still job haunting. While my elder brother is gainfully employed with 50k as his monthly take home. He's being supportive with day to day running of the house and that of our last born studies. A friend suggested myself and elder brother with any of our uncle should go and treat the man's fvckup for eloping with someone's daughter without paying her bride price nor any other marital rite. I told him that isn't feasible for now due to our poor finances.
Nonetheless, we can't continue folding our hands and watch this man get away with this. She is the only daughter of our parents. Her presence is highly needed in their life, especially my mother
Please what can we do to make things work for my family back? I can't imagine having a sister who's more like a living dead
jaybenugo: Nigerian singer, Eniola Akinbo, better known as Niyola, has opened up on why she left Empire Mates Entertainment (EME) headed by Banky W, IgbereTV reports.
Niyola, in a recent chat with Chude Jideonwo, faulted the defunct record label for marketing her wrongly because of their business strategy.
Might be a case of 'God wey give me wife, go provide for us' and 'God wey give us di belle, go provide for us and the pickin dem' ....booom pickin con enter 3 now baba de wan sell hinself.
It takes 9 months for babies to be made, in between then, you can find out the sex and how many to expect ....baba should've started auctioning himself before then naaa if he were truly serious
jobportng: Good afternoon guys, so straight to the point guys.
I met this girl few months ago and we started talking, ended up asking her out, we started dating, at that time she told me she was single, honestly me too I was.
Fast forward to somedays back, she came to visit and we were cool and all suddenly she started having mood swings and all, I was worried, kept asking what is wrong and she always said nothing, surprisingly someone texted me on whatsapp and was telling me that she was dating her and many other talks, that night i almost had an heart attack. I was beyond surprised till now I am yet to recover from the shock.
When I asked her about the guy she first said that she doesn’t have any other person, when she knew it was very serious she then opened up to me, and told me she and the guy had issues and he broke up with her and that now the guy wants them to come back. I saw her chat with the guy, telling the guy she loves him and will never stop loving him bla bla and telling another person that she misses him but she has decided to stick with me because I've shown her so much love that no one has ever done, and honestly i love 10000%. I treat her like a queen.
Right now i am confused, i asked her now what do you want and she said she wants me, but then she still keeps communicating with the guy and the guy is in same state with her while me i'm far away from her, i don’t even know what do i'm so depressed i have never loved like this before and this is what is getting to me. I can’t even eat or sleep when i remember all of it, i confused if she wants me really or she’s just considering the fact that i'm wealthy.
Guys please constructive criticism are welcomed, please i need advice on what to do I’m madly confused.
This can be managed without allowing the operation of a domiciliary account but by using a bank's internal account tied to your normal naira account.
We have no business withdrawing dollars or pounds to go exchange outside a banking environment. BTA/PTA should only be collected at the airport departure environment after checking is all done.
When CBN introduced the Naira for dollar promo and allowed withdrawal locally in dollars I knew this would happen. The market would never be saturated enough to bring down the rates in Nigeria. We are a different specie and those kind of policies don't work here
SmartPolician: The part of not going to a Western world to open a dorm account is FALSE. I know many Europe-based freelancers (they call themselves digital nomads) who own US dollar accounts in their countries.
Lastly, this is a good point. 3. "Autonomous Sources" are the primary source of forex inflows into Nigeria. In the Q4 2014, inflow through autonomous sources amounted to US$15.43 billion, which accounted for 65.4 per cent of the total inflow through the economy.
Clout chasers. It would make sense what the law maker is saying if the CBN prevents local funding of the domiciliary accounts from within Nigeria (by cash or electronically). It should be tied to receiving inflows only. The only exception would be for banks tying outflows approved to the account but not lodge it in.
Allowing it to be funded locally is the reason why many hoard forex. Trust me if they do this, rates would drop drastically.
Mama GO de wait for oga to send the 'helper' in form of tongue of fire
Nomorelove: The wife of late founder of the Synagogue Church of All Nations, Temitope Balogun, popularly known as TB Joshua, has said the church can only be reopened by the leading of the Holy spirit.
Evelyn Joshua disclosed this during a closed meeting with significant members of the church.
She said they must first be guided by the Holy spirit and hear from God before taking any step forward.
"We have to allow God reveal to us what next to do. We cannot do anything outside his will.
"Also, I am still mourning my late husband so the church cannot be opened yet till I am done mourning," she added.
Mrs Evelyn said that the church will be stronger and better than it was when it will finally be reopened.
Metalman: Good morning nairalanders. I caught this snake this morning in my back yard. Anyone with ideas on what its food is because I intend keeping it. Maybe rear it and learn the business of rearing snakes. I heard it is a very lucrative business. Thank you guys.
Video: Youth Corps Member, Ezeiruaku Ifenyinwa, Explains what caused her Altercation with Lt. Chika Anele.
The said event happened on 28 July 2021 in Eburutu Barracks Calabar.
That the issue happened when they corp members went for drilling competition at the Eburutu Barracks, organize by the commander of the brigade and i was one of the ushers for the event.
On the said date i got to the venue early and while i was there, i saw one of my Captain friend who arrived quite early to the venue and on seeing him, i tap him and then we exchange pleasantry, only for Lt. Chika Anele to shout on me that i shouldn't touch an officer on uniform. After scolding me, I went back to my position and I was standing there, another officer came and he was offering me an handshake, I told him that they said we should not shake an officer on uniform, so wen the started sharing small chops, and Lt. Chika was in charge of the small chops.
I went further to share the small chops to the invited guests and some officers, so one major now called my attention and said that he mistakenly pour his small chops on the ground that I should change it for him, I told him that it was finished and that the ones he's seeing there are for the umpire but he insisted, and me not knowing what to do, I now went back to Lt. Chika and explained to her what the Major request was about, she started insulting me that I was senseless, that was I not there when she told me that the reserve ones are for the umpire??
Before that, she had given me one to keep that when ever we were hungry we could eat, she now ordered me to go and bring that one and change it since I don't have sense, and go and give it to the Major, I quickly went and changed it for him.
After the event ended, she called me and started insulting me again that she doesn't know why I'm behaving like I don't have sense and that, is it that I'm senseless So angrily I went to the other side of the barracks where I met an officer who saw my countenance and requested to know why my face was that way.
So I explained to him that the way some officers are talking to the corpers I don't like it, and he insisted on knowing who provoked me, I now told him that Lt. Chika insulted me, that I don't like the way she spoke to me, He now said to me that he was sorry and apologize on her behave. So we left.
On the 28th day of July, Lt. Chika called for a meeting that we should all assembly at the basketball court, which all of us did.
She now brought me out and told corp members that I was the reason why she called this meeting, that me I went to tell a senior office that if not for Nigerian Army uniform if I see her outside will she talk to me??
She now started comparing and she asked me Which school I graduated from, my CGP and the Course I graduated from, I told her, she now asked my fellow corpers "is there any comparison between a graduate of Unilag and Madonna University?? Nobody answered her.. She now asked me to go and put on my NYSC Uniform, we call it 6 over 7. She said I should go and put it on.
When I got to my room I found out that my menstruation just started, so I had to washup before dressing up, I now went to washup, when she waited for me she now called one of the corpers to come and check on me,
So the girl came and I told her that I was coming that I was washing up, the girl went and told her that me I'm bathing, angrily she came to my room were I was dressing up and she was like, " I told you to go and change and you where using it to bath, she order the corpers to fetch water for her, when the got the water she asked them to get sand..........
Go joooor! How old is the boy that he will destroying all these things. But again, she might be one of those parent that would be saying'leaving him na nor bi your pickin ...when their kid is playing with expensive things like this
Alexxxxadrewv: ‘My Life Is Getting Too Expensive’ – Tonto Dikeh Says After Her Son Damaged Her 2 Mac Laptops, 4 iPhones & 2 Smart TVs
Popular Nollywood actress, Tonto Dikeh expresses frustration as her son, King, destroys smartphones devices worth millions of naira.
According to the mother of one who is currently in the middle of drama with ex-lover and ex-friend, her son broke the screen of her Samsung Zfold estimated to be worth N600K, and another tablet worth hundreds of thousands.
Usky fought like Fury ..well deserved victory for the Ukrainian. Joshua was like a chicken leg Bronze Bomber this night . When i saw Klitchko there I knew it was over for Joshua ...they found him out.
Sad and when you call them out now, they will insult you join on top your money
nairafame: Angry Pharmacist expressed disappointment at the food sold to him for N2,500 was packaged with Ponmo and Egg.
See the phamercist post below:
DON OF LAGOS @RowlyDaDon:
"I feel bad about the fact that vendors try to play smart You can do anything to me but not to think of cheating me I asked for food plug, I trusted the recommendation & ordered without doing much vetting See what you now brought to me for 2,500 This isn't fair...egg & ponmo?"
What did he buy for that amount or what was sold to him for same?
obembet: A young creditor identified as Oluchi Okoye aka PACA has been arrested by policemen attached to the Denton Police Station for tying his debtor, Reuben Alozie, to a stake over unpaid N4.6m debt.
The suspect tied the victim to a stick with ropes at No. 29, Abeokuta Street, Ebute Metta, Lagos from 22nd September to 23rd September when he was eventually rescued by the police.
According to the suspect, he resulted to self help after several efforts to recover his money from the victim failed.
The arrest of the suspect was made possible following a complaint lodged at the station by victim's wife, Angela Reuben who reported that her husband was deprived of his liberty by the suspect who held him hostage.
Following the arrest, the Commissioner of Police, CP Hakeem Odumosu directed that the suspect should be transferred to the Command's Tactical team for diligent investigation and prosecution.
The Commissioner of Police uses this medium to warn people against taking the law into their own hands instead of taking legal actions to seek justice.
You just showed you are the greatest illiterate in here with the lowest IQ because appears you have problem reading and comprehending else you would've seen my comment where I mentioned its wrong to use sarcasm.
Don't try to insult me in the future cos I will give it to you back ...idiot!!! Have a lovely day
Nasri100: Sarcasm for a very big and sensitive issue like safety and security?
You are a big illiterate. You don’t have sense no disrespect. Your IQ is also very low.
Some people don't know when to use sarcasm or understand when one is used.
The security personnel who put together the pamphlet apparently tried to warn corp members against traveling without permission especially when going through those routes mentioned by using the sarcasm of informing relatives and prepping them to paying ransom ...this is wrongly used.
The people who flagged the clause forgot to think that was sarcasm used before rushing to social media to chase clout ...wrong!
Update!! Please read to understand my comment especially bolded part of it before trying to insult me.
Where was the presidential order stated in the letters? Also, I read where the minister said he will be accepting the order without payment... I pray point me to where it was stated otherwise?
Charmingrascal: You appointed someone a Professor because of Presidential order, bastardizing our education system. Professorship is now something that can be gotten through Presidential decree under this government that don't have single regard for scholastic education.
A Professor that is calling Owerri a State. Owerri is the state Imo is the Capital What a shame!!
He is collecting salary and allowances as a Minister he will still be collecting over Five Million Naira as a "Fraudfessor" by Presidential decree. Yet you think Niger area is not a scam
That's Acne ....let her use a mixture of honey and shea butter (ori) and apply on the face after washing clean each time. If she wants orthodox medicine, she should look for Neomedrol but you have fake ones now. The best thing to do however is go see a dermatologist to investigate the root cause of the issue.
Stanweezy: My sister sent the attached picture below for me, according to her she said the chemist she went said its bkus of the water she bath with.
Please I need answers on what could be the cause of this boils.
For the past three months now Google has been deducting US tax from my YouTube earnings. That's after I filled the tax form. I don't know if I didn’t feel the form properly. They deduct as much as 24% of my earnings and it's really sickening.
They don't deduct any Tax from my Adsense earnings, but they do on YouTube earnings.
I just want to be sure that I'm not alone on this. Has Google been deducting US tax from your YouTube earnings?
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Family › Re: I'm Losing My Only Sister by bigtt76(f): 10:25pm On Oct 09, 2021
So angrily I went to the other side of the barracks where I met an officer who saw my countenance and requested to know why my face was that way. 