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TripleDdotcom:
I don't think there can be a definite overall answer for this. I think it depends on different factors

- The nature of the matter to be discussed: Perhaps the wife is not in best position in knowledge and experience to answer. But it may still be good to tell her on the basis of love and sharing your problems with the one you love. You never know what support she could give you out of love. Love is powerful.

Or it could be about something dangerous for the wife to know. Like if the man's side chick ran away with his money or possesion. He definitely wouldn't wanna tell his wife cause that'll mean telling her about the side chick.

- Another factor is the kind of woman the wife is. If she's proven to be intelligent, wise and useful in solving problems, then he'll likely tell her. If she's proven to be a problem agravator, then she's a no go area.

- Another factor COULD be because of a mentality the husband grew up with that women are only all about luxury and cannot provide profound insight and solutions to problems. Or that they're only for breeding children and taking care of the house.

And so on...

So it depends on different factors....


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EOD.

Those who live in glass house should not throw stones.

KosiGee:
I don’t see him as an alpha male. He preys on vulnerable women in their 40s and above.
Dude has got problem. He is foolish and has lost his bearing.

For those calling him G boy, the man is an idiot who doesn’t know what he wants...for all his troubles and efforts, he only made £665 from presents and cards... it’s a penny wise, pound foolish scenario...was he not spending or giving these 35 women cards and presents as well?

If he wasn’t, he’d be a big failure. No matter how stupid the women were, the man cannot be too poor as not to afford gifts or cards during the women’s birthdays. He’d be the one to lose eventually even if he wasn’t arrested.

...sex, there’s no way he’d cope with 35 women. The man is a loser.

@bold:

How are the women 'vulnerable'?

saphiere:
https://www.dailymail.co.uk/news/article-9503305/Boyfriend-dated-35-women-arrested-fraud-Japan.html

I was wondering how one man would successfully 'date' 35 women concurrently till I saw their ages.

I believe they were desperate and would latch on any man who indicated the smallest interest in them without doing any checks or processing any of his actions/inactions through.

Anyways, good for them that they formed an association to deal with him than deceiving themselves that they are the 'main' chics to drive away competition aka 'side' chics.

It would be interesting to see how their law treats his case though; is dating someone under false pretenses a criminal offence?

Citizenshelm:
Singer Peter Okoye says that he makes more money as a solo artiste than he did when he sang with his twin brother Paul Okoye, Igbere TV reports.

The 39-year-old said this in a recent interview with HipTV.




https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=fX5VI1OmV64

Peter went solo after years of fighting his brothers Paul and Jude Okoye over the management of P-Square.

He now performs as Mr P, while his twin brother now bears the name Rude Boy.

https://www.instagram.com/tv/CN-PJ4tJb1D/?igshid=13ya8wmb3liry

Post absolutely unnecessary.

sirmustyla:
Yeye cannabis smoker. He wander me how Davido happened to meet all these kind people - ugly, dirty and morally bankrupt.

@bold:

Because they are all one of a kind.

Pastor Joshua Selman, about the only Pastor I actively seek and listen to his sermons online.

lilije:
Stressing him you said?

This is a guy that did not show much care after telling him I lost my elder sister. The news of my sister's death was broken to me a Thursday, I called him that Thursday evening after telling him about what happened earlier that day but he didn't take my calls. I was down just needed someone to console me since I wasn't home but he wouldn't take his calls.

In fact, I don break up finish

Then what are you doing with a man who has not proven any usefulness so far?

He is not there emotionally, not reliable physically, can't be counted on mentally...

What does he do for you?

Maybe he has money sha.

Goodluck.

Proper due diligence helps to avoid demons like this.

Very sad situation as regards the kids.

pierreojo101:
Hello peeps,

I need Advise. I try to be a nice husband to my wife but recently I started noticing characters that scares me.

She is often secretive and many times I get to know her plans from strangers or after it has been carried out.

For instance, according to her ( cos I don't take note and I didn't give in one lump sum ) I gave her over 2m for her business. Unfortunately when she was to start the business she got pregnant of our second born and when she was to start again coro came and again she got pregnant.

After that she made up her mind not to do the business again. I was not informed I only heard from someone in the church who is a mother to both of us.

All of a sudden she started selling the stuff. Whatever she does with the money I don't know all I know is she is always needing money.

Each time she is on phone with her relatives and I enter the room ( she goes inside to receive her calls ) she immediately ends the call or change topic or speak In a way that you know she is not comfortable.

Many atimes I have had to excuse her from the room.

Ever since we got married it has always been one issue to the other. My friend was telling me moments ago ( I started seeing my old friends again due to the fact that she is never available for me ) that I am in a sexless marriages.

Two years ago I discovered her father is her next of kin and till date.

Her siblings will be rude to me she will look away. When it turns to fight she will apologise and when same thing happens she blackmails me with me not being forgiving and Christ like.

1. Do you guys think I am overreacting expecting that my wife feel confident to discuss any family issue in my presence especially as I do the same?

2. Am I expecting too much by thinking she should carry me along in her business decisions especially as I do the same. She has all my passwords both for bank and emails. Only recently I changed password for phones cos she keeps reading my messages while her own phone is password.

3. Recently her friend's sister was rude to me which I told her the reply is the girl insulted me and I insulted her no issue. This is someone who I had to because of relocate from the state I have lived all my life for simply because she was rude to my mother and my mother chose not to be forgiving ( Mumsy hardly ever forgives ).

I don't know how your friend diagnosed you are in a sexless marriage without your input

If I were to take the OP at face value, you are married to a 'Nigerian' wife: a woman to whom gentility and love is stupidity and an invitation to 'ride' their husbands.

Don't mind what they say about the 'ideal' husband or a loving man; they cannot handle him.

You can 'explore' becoming a 'Nigerian' husband aka thoughtless, insensitive bully who thinks husband/wife relationship is slavery.

Like my people say: if you put a floor child on the bed, he will still fall/crawl back to the floor.

faithfull18:
A lot of things would have been avoided if everybody maintained their chastity.

I very much agree.

@OP: extremely awkward situation.

At this point, it is your friend or your babe.

Goodluck.

How did the OP's wife fall to marry him?

Omo o ki n pe dagba.

Money is important in marriage.

So is contentment, love & peace.

If there is love & contentment, you can start small and grow together.

You can always grow your income; you cannot always get someone who geninuely loves you.

Impactful Higher Education is still the way most people would climb out of poverty.

They might not be 'rich', they would however get by and have chances to grow.

Save the structure of the sentences, the student is actually correct and thought outside the box.

@OP, the student and teacher's '8' are miraculously the same.

@missjo,

How far?

dangotesmummy:
my son is doing very fine thank you

It's because of that s+up1d girl I warned him about that's why this issue is on going but we're fine in Jesus name

Amen o!

The English gift of description.

I believe lack of proper management made her a shooting star.

If you are with someone especially sexually, can't you sense when they are not with you in spirit?

crackhaus:
Bro, there are good looking ladies who will give you good sex for half of that 12k and everybody will go their way afterwards without stress.

Since you like to spend money which you don't have just to get sex which you don't need to live, then please consider olosho...

And please, don't pay attention to anyone who will try to shame you for considering having sex with a prostitute.
We are now in an era of pro-choice and don't judge.
Have the time of your life...

OP:

You better pay attention to me

The story is ridiculous

Borrow money to sub for your sexmate?

Foolishness chapter 1: 20.

Liposure:
Since she's still intact, the presence or absence of nectar is secondary.

Not according to the OP.

RedpillAnalyst:
1. I am sure you know the church has changed if you know how the churches were run in the past 2 decades. In the 80s and 90s, you never see women dressing scantily and unclad in churches like whores. Homosexuality was chastised now they are accepted with open arms and allowed to run affairs of churches and even be singers, women were not allowed to teach men in the church because they will usher in chaos and I see that today.

2. Red pill is not Anti-christ. It is pro christ. Feminism is a branch down the line of Marxism and it is a close ally to homosexuality, trans-movement and these have ushered in the most chaos in recent time.

3. Mind you, there are 2 kinds of red pills. The offensive and the defensive. Every man at least needs to know how to defend himself from manipulation that and most red pill teachings are biblical one just has to use discretion. A man can have more than one woman if he has the means, but it does not necessarily mean every man should do it.

4. A lot of women will gladly share a high-value man than managing an average man to herself. Case in point celebrities like Tuface, Burnaboy, Davido, Ned Nwoke e.t.c these women know they are sharing these high-value men and they do not give a damn as long as they are in the queue.
Polygamy is okay and it is not for the average man and women know this.

1. There is NO update to Christianity. NONE! What was wrong in Jesus' time is wrong today & would be wrong forever.

2 & 3. Redpill and all its versions are anti-Christ. The Bible can be twisted to suit anything. Even some feminists claim the Bible backs up their thought process.

4. I don't understand your point, I want to assume it is a redpill something. However,
a. Biblically, it is one faithful man to one faithful woman. A high value man is one who is godly and leads his family right. I am sure it is different from your definition of a high value man.
b. A Christian woman would not share.

angelfallz:
Same to you bukatyne. Hope you and your husband are enjoying the Easter break.

We are, thanks.

crackhaus:
They are learning...

Even they did not understand what gender equality actually implied. E easy?
Na only to dey shout and repeat whatever they heard is reigning dem sabi. I've never seen a group of people so incapable of independent analytical thought about what they want to support.

Wasn't there another thread the other day where someone shared an article about how some feminists are of the opinion that patriarchy isn't really a bad thing?
It's toxic masculinity abi na toxic patriarchy that's bad... I can't even keep up with their phrases anymore.

See Bukky, lots of these modern feminists simply don't have sense.

They have finally realized they can't cope when it comes to standing on equal footing with men in EVERY aspect of life.

As for Pete Edochie, I do not hold brief for him.

They have stolen my phrase 'Nigerian' patriarchy

Let's see how the 'gender equity' plays out in future

People have forgotten the interview sef until these clowns brought it up

bukatyne:
P.S.: A conversation with GeneralPula on another thread has given me the corresponding of nectar for men: passion/strength/drive.

@dangotesmummy:

The above extract from the OP answers your question.

How is Dangote & his lawsuit going?

Hahahahahaha @ so ara e; the tread was on Friday so the Easter warning does not apply.

angelfallz:
Nice. But I'm afraid majority wouldn't listen. Our world has been corrupted.

Happy Easter.

demmymoney:
Liar!

For an acclaimed man of vision, you are very presumptuous.

NoToPile:
1. I might be wrong bukatyne but your write up seems to be referring to only those who engage in multiple sexual relationships as having nectar depleted.

2. One sexual partner in just one incident / over time can also deplete gradually or zap out the "nectar" at once .

3. I do agree with the poster who said you should have just used the word virginity, but then I am a strong advocate of NSBM( for both sexes) maybe that's why I feel that way and I can't relate with a lot of things I read.

4. As I am seeing nectar it is virginity that is coming to my head.

1. That is a major/most common way

2. True

3. Things you read such as?

4. If nectar in the OP is virginity, then it cannot deplete over time nor can it be restored (except by surgery). The OP describes it as freshness/sweetness of body, soul and spirit.

There are virgins without nectar

BLOODYSPERM:
Madam hope as a Christian you are not supporting Feminism

Nope

I have retraced my steps