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Yusufisraelj:
@bukatyne

1. O dear writer, on the surface you write up is great, wonderful and life changing, but judging from the stand point of your faith, there seems to be a challenge!

Are you saying older ladies that have been tremendously active in the other room, have nothing to offer? Could there be a chance if they submit completely to their Creator?

2. Am never an advocate for careless living, in fact I hate it, but you see my observation and conclusion about life is subject to the "original manual", bkos everything that is not captured from that stand point cannot stand the test of time. It is only truth that liberates, any other thing will fade with time.


3. On the other hand, that Chau for your picture, e no go bad if you show person the way to prepare that stuff fa? I day wait.

1&2. This nectar is not only about sex; it is freshness and sweetness of body, soul & spirit. While a woman in multiple sexual relationships might have lost it, there would always be exceptions.

@Faith: the OP says a nectar lost can be regained. One of the major ways of that restoration is by salvation. So yes, any (wo)man is a new creature if he/she would let the redemptive work of Christ on the Cross work in their lives. The OP is general; if a lady affected by the above asks for restoration, it is a different ball game.

Also, I am a 'prevention is better than cure' person.


3. It is pancakes & grapes.
https://www.marthastewart.com/338185/basic-pancakes

DontBullshitMe:
Just type virginity. Nobody will scold you.

Virginity is a part of the nectar.

It is not the whole thing.

And I am not afraid to say what I mean

The worst is a derailed thread.

GeneralPula:
Unfortunately, this nectar is gradually lost per sexual relationship and if not deliberately kept, is dwindled when the lady (grown girl) is ready to get married. She is no longer the sweet, warm, trusting, fresh girl anymore; she is now a woman carrying the baggage of several wrong relationships and have no nectar to offer her husband who is the right recipient of it.
You finish talk for here, no be small[/I]

She is not in tune with herself anymore and can’t choose a good man. If she unfortunately chooses a good man, she does not have that nectar to offer anymore. She has become bitter, mistrusting, and unable to provide warmth to her man (husband).
[I]Hmm..
Nah them full feminist association[/I]

[i]Women's nectar is a natural sweetener that once it's gone, it can never be recap, right?
If men's nectar is in their passion(A controllable emotion), then it means you can loose your passion today as a man, and then boom, you're back to it again the next day...Isn't?

Women have nectar
Men have passion/strength/drive

I mean passion as per life force not only narrowed to 'sex'.

If he has been around the block, he loses the ability to be marvelled or passionate about his woman. His woman wouldn't be able to 'thrill' him. He has seen it all.

Because he is not marvelled by her, he loses the drive to impress her to make her happy. If he is impressing her, it is to massage his ego.

He can get it back if he works for it.

GeneralPula:
I notice something about them though; they don't have series of past relationships so they are able to give their all to their women. Their strength, drive and passion have not been wasted on other women in the past.

It is a wonder that the Korean lead actors are almost feminine (I suspect some of them share lipstick with their girlfriends) yet manage to simmer with masculine energy just waiting to burst.

Perhaps that's where they differ from 'Nigerian' men who has slept with too many women and no longer have any passion to give (I am shaking too many tables ).

You know just the way you've watched and noticed was the same exact way the movie producers are wanting it to be. It's their own unique style of entering competitive movie market. Their single motive for making movies is to make money..

But Korea reality lifestyle is different. Infact they're more dominant than Nigeria Men..

Korean men more dominant than Nigerian men:

Please explain the above.

I said Korean actors look feminine however are very masculine in Energy.

angelfallz:
Okay oh. But I'm speaking from experience. MTN is the network that has given me the least trouble ever. It's the most reliable.

It is your coverage area and perception

Blyzz:
It a Christian feast, the resurrection of Christ Jesus.

Which Christian Church does not celebrate this?

crackhaus:
Answer me fess...

No comment

thorpido:
I have always been of the opinion that teenagers have no business with boyfriend/girlfriend relationships.It should just be a period to get to know about the opposite sex.

Starting to keep a sexual relationship too early might wear you out even before you are ready to settle down.

@bold: I agree.

@pinkydaisy,

I am glad I waited till the end before commenting.

Your last post is extremely refreshing and I admire your ability to make decisions of what is important to you whether politically correct or not.

If you are the corporate organization type, you can explore moving to a more central location so that is another opportunity comes in future, you can pick it up.

Whatever your husband does, he needs to double his hustle so he is not thinking of sacrificing a warm home for money.

May all your efforts on your kids and family not be in vain, amen.

Blyzz:
To celebrate by honouring the custom of Easter.

What is the custom of Easter?

AishaYesufu:
This is why is is advisable that young men should settle for young girls (18-25) for relationship/settling down. Majority of ladies within this age range come with little or no baggage.

I get your point bet....

25 years is no longer young if we are measuring baggage wise.

Besides, a 28yr old lady might be a JJC when compared to a 20 yr old who have seen thinggggggggggggggs.

I also a fan of young/few relationships.

RastaJack:
This thread isn't surprising. Saw your comments in the "Chioma deletes all Davido's pictures on Instagram" thread. The comments there were fire and are enough to make any female (even a runsgirl) think twice.

In a few days, you'd all get over this and go back to the multiple sexual relationships you have with several men. This sudden self reflection is momentary and induced by that thread.

Save the philosophical takes. That ship has sailed. Women have become too sexually uninhibited. Men are taking advantage of the uninhibition but would remind them when this same promiscuous women turn around to demand commitment. Too late. Too late, Bukatyne.

You think I created this thread because of Chioma and Davido?

I laugh in Japanese.

Liposure:
Unfortunately, where there is nectar there is bees and the bees won't rest until the nectar collected. Because without it there is no honey.

That is why the nectar generator needs to guard it with all seriousness.

angelfallz:
Nope, they positioned themselves as the network of quality

We did the analysis once.

It is not their quality that speaks for them (almost all networks are at par now), it is the image/ brand perception.

sirabbey:
Unfortunately, practices like this date back to the 14th century or earlier even in Yoruba land, we have eru and iwofa (slave and a person hired out to another person to work for a period of time in order to pay back debt) Culture being dynamic saw the eradication of this barbaric practice by 18th to 19th century. The annoying thing is that 200years after the abolishment of slavery and iwofa, a section of Cross Riverian still manage to hold on to this practice even in the 21st century. How resistant can a people be to civilization and decency?

Hired out to work is different.

Shebi the person is exchanging time ( a resource) to pay for the debt

These babies are sex slaves for N2k?

Chatflick:
No competition that's why

There is GLO, Airtel and 9Mobile.

MTN studied the Nigerian society well and positioned themselves as the network for 'high class people'.

That image has been hard to dispel several years later.

anthonyuncle:
una don come again

Father, we have come again;
Holy Ghost come and take control;
Amen.

crackhaus:
Bukatyne, were you having sex before marriage?

Na juss question oo, nor vex...

This really cracked me up

Why?

GeneralPula:
This OP is intelligent, not cuz her post, but the way she respond all critics..

Ever since the beginning of time, truth was never a women thing. That was why satan had to deceived EVE to chop the Apple..

OPs message was simple. She was referring to responsible girls / guys. But some irresponsible damaged old cargoes appeared from no where to bash her. Not cuz what she’s saying isn’t the truth, but because it’s like a woman’s thing that whenever they hear the truth, they do get bite by it..

From ma experience, set of girls that gets attached to you quickly are the ones you’re telling lies or faking things for...
Like baby, how much did you buy your ride? Maybe it’s 2m, tell her 4.5m completed it..
How much did you buy your wrist watch, maybe it’s 35k, tell her 175k..
Tell her that ever since you watched titanic, you understood love perfectly and you will surely give up your life for your woman..(I’m sure not many people knows that titanic love never existed, it was all a movie script)
Tell her how you’ve planned to travel to Fiji island in certain time to have a romantic moments with your woman. Next thing she will do is google search Fiji island and she will like it..

Pram pram! (Maybe the guys that are real to her messaged).. Baby(M), you have a message! Baby(F) will check and say don’t mind those disturbance...I already told them I got a man but they won’t let me be, then baby(M) will smile and say that’s my girl..

Movies like Zeeworld and all those Korean movies have brainwashed a lot of our girls - hence why they’re so easy to brainwash once you’ve got the necessary scope..

So if you want to get a naija girl easily, with much attention from her and without you stressing much with less spending...Lies, real deceiving words are the keys to it...She won’t detect you until you dump her!

If satan(F) can deceive her fellow woman to achieve what she wanted, how much more a man?

It may sound heartless, but women(Satan) introduced lies and deceit into the world..

Thanks at the compliment.

What touched me was the Zee-World and Korean Drama reference...

Zee-World is about love trangles which are really not my thing; with a lot of nollywood type of sister-husband-motherinlaw-uncle scheming. (Zee-World Fans, wayo wayo abeg)

I discovered Korean drama recently and I love the series I have watched so far; short (one season with max 20 episodes) and their male leads are refreshing.

I notice something about them though; they don't have series of past relationships so they are able to give their all to their women. Their strength, drive and passion have not been wasted on other women in the past.

It is a wonder that the Korean lead actors are almost feminine (I suspect some of them share lipstick with their girlfriends) yet manage to simmer with masculine energy just waiting to burst.

Perhaps that's where they differ from 'Nigerian' men who has slept with too many women and no longer have any passion to give (I am shaking too many tables ).

The combo of nectar in their women with passion in their men is awesome! They can depict sexual passion and energy without touching themelves.

@lies:

Words are to women what appearances are to men. (Generalization)

The way women 'fall' for lies is the same way men fall for Amaka with bone straight and fake hips and start lamenting when she wants to update the bone straight to marrow curved.

Disclaimer: This is Bukatyne's thread

Nectar is a sweet liquid that is secreted by the nectaries of a plant (flower) and is the chief raw material of honey. https://www.merriam-webster.com/dictionary/nectar

Every girl has nectar inside of her that is supposed to ‘sweeten’ the life of the man she marries. It is the freshness of body, soul, and spirit she brings to the table in a relationship. That refreshing laughter that echoes in one’s mind after it is over.

Unfortunately, this nectar is gradually lost per sexual relationship and if not deliberately kept, is dwindled when the lady (grown girl) is ready to get married. She is no longer the sweet, warm, trusting, fresh girl anymore; she is now a woman carrying the baggage of several wrong relationships and have no nectar to offer her husband who is the right recipient of it.

She is not in tune with herself anymore and can’t choose a good man. If she unfortunately chooses a good man, she does not have that nectar to offer anymore. She has become bitter, mistrusting, and unable to provide warmth to her man (husband).

Sadly, this nectar is hard to replace once finally lost or depleted and takes very conscious effort to replenish. Unlike other qualities (I will call them ‘what qualities’ e.g. education, career/job, physical comportment, home keeping, etc.) that are tangibles and can be easily worked on, this nectar (‘who quality’) is part of your make-up or your core from birth.

Keep your nectar for your husband, it was put in you to bless him!



On a lighter note, this thread should enter the contest of one of my shorter threads yet

P.S.: A conversation with GeneralPula on another thread has given me the corresponding of nectar for men: passion/strength/drive.

pimper24:
It is normal to share family lands among male children who are of certain age. There is nothing extraneous attached to it. It is expected that you develop it at your pace. It is unusual to mount pressure for such because the land rightfully belongs to the family member beneficiary.

Ok, thanks

So why is your family pressurizing you?

Are they comparing you to contemporaries? What input is your wife supposed to have in the development?

@pimper24,

Eku ede geesi

Before we see avarice and avabeans,

Were you aware of your responsibilities/expectations upon getting the land? Is there someone who could have gotten it and bypassed because they thought you would 'develop' it faster?

What is the precedence of such allocations in the past?

We need to understand the basics before we can advise on an approach to resolve.

Jmw2kblogposts:
I think i should also share this here, [url]www.nairaland.com/6484585[\url] because i need to know if i should also hit her back HARDER if she hits me again for this same reason, i hate this useless woman of a mother that i have!

I have gone through the short thread and you have a lot of bile inside of you.

You have to let it out and heal, else, it would hinder you and not your mother.

You are the one carrying the pain in your heart and letting her live rent free in your head.

Look at the recurring issues with fresh eyes, know you leverage per situation, your tolerance level and resolve.

Goodluck.

Romanoff:
Yes I do.

My friendship is separate from my marriage.

My two besties are still my besties, male and female.

Female bestie getting married next weekend.

Congratulations to her.

Maybe we have different interpretation to the word 'bestie'.

saphiere:
It will never be well with Davido if he does not do the needful.

This is for every girl out there to learn a lesson


Davido has daughters. May this he has done to Chioma and many more be upon his daughters in Jesus name I pray Amen.

Davido, I redraw peace from you wherever you are. You shall have no peace until you do the needful.

What exactly did Davido do to Chioma?

Mecka:
i know you as an advocate of early marriage. What do you have to say. I want to learn from you.

Good evening Mecka,

In what areas do you want to learn? Specific questions would help.

Romanoff:
I don't get it.

Do you still believe in opposite sex besties as a married woman?

OK. When you do get married, I'd like to know probably in a year's time if you still hold to your conviction. God will keep us till then.

@Romanoff, do I like trouble if I ask about male besties now?

It is a year

How do you sell a child for N2,000??

What kind of madness is this?

Use an unborn child as a collateral for debts?

Oga lender, how does sleeping with the girl recover your money back?

What exactly is the thought process of the people there?

Some things humans do baffle the devil.

Seniorwriter:
Really? What & where is it recorded as such? All I know is it's the day a final sacrifice was made for Mankind Salvation.
In another news save yourself and next generations to come from poverty or average livelihood.
Create a residual income investment that will outlive you.

Proactivity Leads To Productivity!!!
@Seniorwriter

Read your Bible to understand the significance of his death and resurrection.

If he did not die, he could not go to hell to break the power and guilt of sin.

If he did not die specifically by crucifixion, he could not break the curse at the beginning

Without the shedding of blood, there can be no forgiveness

If he did not resurrect, there would be no hope of resurrection for we the adopted children of God

Hebrews 9: 22, 1 Corinthians 2:8

Blyzz:
I think not every Christian celebrate this good Friday. Winner's don't, Redeem and other Pentecostal Church don't. But they celebrate Easter , at least I'm glad they celebrate Easter!

Celebrate as per ceremonial or acknowledge the importance?

What is Christianity without the cross biko?

stubbornman:
.... For real, pocohantas, I am not sure they know, my younger siblings till they grew up I never flogged them for once, always scolding, advising and chilling , growing up I was the messenger of the family, I never complained or got angry but Mumsy has seen me a bit after flogged someone shovel on the face that insulted her.

So she's the only one who can give that advise

If they are good at reading people, they would know.

When you are angry, it is noticeable for the first few seconds no matter how you try to suppress it. The people/person you are angry with would get the vibe.