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fidelitystrs:
Is this true presently in the society??

Kind of noticing this now in men.

Hmmm

Examples?

How do you define strength for men? For women?

Ivebeenbanned:
Because you're stupid, bro. You don't get to decide whether women get freedom or not. Remain in your house typing rubbish. I blame religion.

Sister, what is there to celebrate in freedom to smoke?

Missionaire:
Just now now that they gave them some freedom, these are some of the things they have begun to do publicly.
I dare say that they have been doing these things secretly.

This is what happens when people live secret hypocritical lives because they are forced to live in a contrary manner without a good understanding of the reasons and the willingness to.

People should not be forced to live a certain way without the liberty to decide based on conviction.

Same with conservative Christian families who force their wards to go to church without a letting them understand why. They end up doing worse in secret and when they are where nobody knows them.

Very very much on point.

One of the reasons I am not a fan of religious universities.

The heart is where a man's thoughts are which is the root of behavior.

If you can't capture the heart or train it to think aright, you are wasting your time.

See these Saudi women, despite the strict laws of the land, 65% smoked secretly.

They were smokers even before the ban on public smoking was lifted.

Seetto:
I am afraid the world is finally coming to an end,

Saudi now going the way of marlians,

The prophet warned, don't follow shaytan in small sins so that he will not lead you to a bigger sins,

The only country believed to hold the highest level of modesty is turning to something.

@Bold:

More like the only country that held hypocritically held women on different moral standards.

Men smoked in public, not so?

Besides, we are told that 65% of the women smoked in secret.

So it is more of 'they have brought inside behavior outside.'

miki1:
So how is this emancipation?

I was going ask that.

Hopefully, they do not go to the extreme and asking for rights 'to sleep around like "men".'

truthsayer009:
Oh really, please can you explain to me what gives respect then.

Sincerely i want to know.

Nigeria that I know is a classist society or let's say classism, every one is faking lives so they can demand respect. I really don't understand which part of Nigeria that money doesn't equate respect.

Even your very own Nuclear family will respect you when money starts coming in. The only people who are respected here by default are parents, guardians or older citizens which is out of necessity as I wouldn't be disrespecting my parents or others in old age. Apart from that nothing o, absolutely nothing.

What gives respect: When you respect yourself.

Belafonte:
Now, you’re just stunting on the rest of us.

I officially dislike you for rubbing it in

Awwwwww!

In another news, my Ozil just scored a goal!

Gosh! see the pure joy on his face.

I am so so happy for him.

Plead:
Is that why she’s always pregnant I’m sure have born upto or more than 5kids already and still pregnant again

She is just pregnant for the fourth one and she is capable to care for them.

crackkhaus:
Nah your own you dey talk..
No be your boyfriend.

The girl obviously does not think he is bad rubbish, else she won't be crying.

If she has her head screwed right, she would realize in future he was a waste.

Sometimes, it is painful to lose some stuffs. Years later, we look back and laugh.

If her cooking or lack of was an issue, he could tell her and if she is teachable, on his birthday she might surprise him.

Anybody not interested in investing in their partner is bad news.

Nobody is perfect, we only look for teachable/coachable people who are willing to acknowledge they do not know it all and learn.

crackkhaus:
See examples of why women will always be their own problems...
Professional side-chics.

Bukatyne, do you still think most naija girls don't know when they are dating married men?
Lol, they just don't care as long as money will be gained.

One of them is even calling men weak who allow their wives beat up side-chics... Lmao..

So a man with small sense is supposed to stand by and watch a side puccy disrespect his wife, mother to his children, after he has been caught?
You must be dreaming.

Some of una go just siddon dey use una own hand curse una self.

@bold: some ladies are truly victims.

However, any lady who dates a married man is in it for the money.

And I agree with you that an average Nigerian has selective morals. They don't see most things as wrong until it happens to them or relatives.

I was going to say the wife lacked class fighting the side chic till I realized the crazy girl was actually camping with the man in HIS HOUSE.

She deserves whatever she gets.

Only a man married to a non-entity would fight the wife for the side chic. You want a man to fight a wife (who stereotypically cooks, cleans, cares for the children, manages whatever left over he brings home) for his side chic he recreates with?

A recreational partner costs less to replace.

And at the wife 'higher' than the side chic: that is just gimmicks to console the cheated wives.

One of the major benefits wives get from marriage is recreation with the man (attention, spoiling, love, romance thoughtfulness etc etc). Marriage/life comes with a lot of responsibilities that recreation time is cherished.

The cheating husband recreates with his side chic and the wife does all the work. A terrible situation if you ask me.

It is like toiling at work and when it is time for leave, they give it some else because you are so 'indispensable'.

Na wash.

TundeKorede:
Thank you, sir.

Sir ke?

Catchfirez:
Gbam !!! Straightforward. One bottle of moet and pepper soup on the way for you.

Keep the moet and send the pepper soup.

Preferrably fish peppersoup.

I don't want catfish: it is usually hard to spice.

crackkhaus:
Perhaps he's already married

Well divorce is neither easy nor cheap.

It might be the best option in certain situations when all else has failed.

Bukden16:
It looks deeper life.

The lady that looks so sweet especially if she wears heels and a matching bag?

@TundeKorede,

Very very nice thread.

Amanda4life:
Problems we have in dressing are coming from women.

Just look at British royal family "Meghan marckle and and the other lady, also Melanie Trump, people always appreciate their out fit, not that they expose their body, I think its more of a good shape thing.
If ladies can always get themselves in a good shape, any well covered thing you put on your body will fit you and you will look good with it.

@bold:

I will modify to any lady who knows how to dress her body shape.

Not every lady has figure 8.

Blisplendor12:
Guys don't really have issues with dressing, but we Ladies! God help us. If you don't expose some parts of your body they call you "Mary Amaka". The conclusion is BE DECENT IN YOUR DRESSING

Guys also need to dress decently.

Bukden16:
No nah...
Even Jesus know that; I can't go for or marry a lady that dresses like this...

. What is wrong with thus dressing?

Don't get married

crackkhaus:
Please, where's the dinner in those photos?

I see wine, I see flowers, I see protein bars, and two canned dog food...but no dinner.
Where's this romantic dinner?

No wonder he ditched her for someone who can cook real food.

Which means the guy was two-timing.

Good riddance to bad rubbish.

Hopefully, he doesn't ditch the current girl when he sees one who can wind her waist better.

@OP:

Nothing new or extraordinary

Plead:
She is and I’m quite surprised.... she’s always pregnant,smh.

Trophy wife ,maybe?

Mercy Johnson a trophy wife ke?

Miarose:
Both genders have failed the society. The men are entitled to promiscuity but they don't sleep with themselves, do they, they sleep with women. Are these women imported from China?
When you fetch ant infested firewood into ur house, it will bite everyone including the children. They are the biggest casualties of this self entitled generation. Women today are more educated, more opinionated, more empowered... They will not stay and cower like our mothers. The men of today have no shame, they can't even open their mouth and speak against their flag bearer that die in hotels. Right now, anything we see, we take.

Until the average Nigerian man understands this, this is just the beginning.

Let them keep wailing instead of bracing up to raise morally upright men and teach them how to choose good women.

healthserve:
My dear artist. No one gives a hoot about a vagina. It's disloyalty that worries people. Having sex with an external party while claiming love to another or giving one's self out without caution to one while acting all sanctimonious to the other eptimozises wickedness to it's peak


While you make make a wonderful exception shouldn't Mena it's an attack against womenfolk or ladies or women but against the spirit of the generation, you can fvck it all and still get rewarded in the end. This is the moral of the story

And is this disloyalty 'unique' to women?

Men don't cheat in relationships and marriages?

Why do we redpillers churning thousands of articles on women cheating like men do not cheat?

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emmaodet:
Hmmmmmmmm
I think Life is Unfair especially to Good, Nice and Quiet Guys.

But from my observation, all the bad things our parent, family and community warn us about which they claim are Sin are what makes you Virtually an Alfa.
Does it mean all the warnings and threats of going to Hell fire are false? Because the right thing and normal thing to do in a relationship is to respect a lady and treat are like a queen but it seems you need to go the opposite direction for you to be appreciated.
It is a Crazy world out there, things are not the way we think it should be.
Fuvk Nature and the Creator for turning everything upside down while still threatening you with Hell fire if you go the wrong way which is the right way anyway.
Fuvk All the Gods, Fuvk them all for playing with our intelligence because what is normal is not normal at all.

Life seems unfair to entice people to do evil.

We were having a discussion on why the 'runs girls' seems to marry quickly and have better marriages, how the unserious students are ogas in top places etc.

Like David said in the Bible, he was tempted to join the wicked until he saw their end.

What is the end of these people especially if they do not repent?

I believe that's one of the reasons I am a pro young love. You both are 'betaing' yourselves and grow at your pace in your world.

Also, people should know the value they carry. That way, you don't just marry anything if you are not divinely instructed.

Kennedyiheme02:
Lol what this simply means is, its the alphas that use women and aren't ready to commit to a woman, then the women run to the beta's for a committed relationship cos she knows he's a simp and would quickly oblige... just take a look at ciara and russell wilson... She's being seriously rammed by future, had her slutty days with him, even has a kid for him, 50 cent had a piece of that pie too... but poor beta rusell wilson was the one that took the bait and settled for her used pussy.. damn.. betas are the providers.. .. I'll keep bringing that knowledge.. i know alot of people get informed from all this...

1. Humans change.
2. The 'Beta' provider of today was the 'Alpha Bleep' of yesterday. It is more of a stage than a personality. Basically a married man vs. a single mature bachelor.

Kennedyiheme02:
Lol what this simply means is, its the alphas that use women and aren't ready to commit to a woman, then the women run to the beta's for a committed relationship cos she knows he's a simp and would quickly oblige... just take a look at ciara and russell wilson... She's being seriously rammed by future, had her slutty days with him, even has a kid for him, 50 cent had a piece of that pie too... but poor beta rusell wilson was the one that took the bait and settled for her used pussy.. damn.. betas are the providers.. .. I'll keep bringing that knowledge.. i know alot of people get informed from all this...

1. Humans change.
2. The 'Beta' provider of today was the 'Alpha Bleep' of yesterday. It is more of a stage than a personality.

Strange pose for an innocent child.

LiftedMan:
A twitter user narrated how he saved his friend from his manipulative and violent wife. I hope someone learns something form this story .

Hmmmmmm

Luckily, he got delivered.