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LewsTherin:
Isn't it obvious?

ibkayee:
He may have some ‘uninformed’ views (don’t we all at a point) but he sounds harmless, plus at least it sounds like it comes from a place of love and concern.

Now the part where he’s adamant on sticking to his points, maybe it isn’t being explained to him properly/well? Maybe he actually has valid points? Lol. Or he could just be stubborn and irredeemably ignorant? Who knows

Funny

ahnie:
I sense you babes .
I think I share some similarities...am I also achaic?

1---i bought a microwave that am so scared to use!
2___i hardly sleep on foam..I preferred sleeping on cold tiles!
3__i detest sleeping with the lights on!
4---i buy shoes that I do not ever wear,Las Las I always give them out.
5--i buy close clothes that I hardly wear,I eventually gets to wear them several months after buying them.

Back to the topic....I think the op's husby z not achaic..it's apparently a psychological issue.

Ezeanna:
When you as a grown ass man, with a job, a house and a car, start chasing an undergraduate girl in her late teens or early twenties, in the name of marriage, biko what else do you want her to bring to the table aside from her good character and support towards your goal?

So, you want a girl that you are older than by almost a decade to bring a car, a house and a well paid job to the table at that age?

Did you as a man, have a car, a house and a well paid job in your late teens, early twenties or even mid to late twenties?

You guys would look down on ladies in your age range that can pull same financial weight as and be running after very young girls, and still have the guts to come online to ask what they can bring to the table.

Brother, you didn't see that aunty in your neighbourhood that is not only bringing things to the table, but is the table herself?

crackhaus:
Bukatyne, generally speaking, what should a woman have before marriage?

I fancy questions like this because it is such a proof of a woman's inherently inferior nature (due to her own perception of herself), and it is exactly why a lot of women will keep receiving the short end of the stick in every society on earth.

This thread can get to 50pages and I bet NL women will not list anything different from good character, support, etc - it will always be intangible things, never anything of substance.

It's embarrassing.

crackhaus:
Even a blind bat would know this without having to read a thread of this nature - this shít is common sense.

crackhaus:
Relax, I wasn't even trying to defend him...that comment felt like she was advising him to do what he already wanted to do - which is to spend time with his wife and kids.

Personally I wouldn't make this a big deal, as long as she's not forcing me to go with her.
Heck I'll probably welcome the free time if my woman decides she wants to be with her family during the festivities - maybe I will just end up with my own family & siblings (or friends too) if I get bored, afterall everyone has their roots & I'm no bastàrd, lmao..

yenereal:
It is a joyous thing to behold and great feeling of ecstasy when one gets married. However, some certain things do prevent guys from getting married apart from getting to find the right person to marry.
Some girls say a man must have everything (job, car(s), house and money) before they get married. My question is: if a man must have car, house and job before marriage, what must a woman have before marriage?


Mods push to FP please.

Cc
Lalasticlala, mynd44.

Hardeybaryor:
Advise Needed!!! This Happened In My Neighborhood

Good morning Nairalanders,

Some strange things are happening nowadays.
There is this man in my neighborhood who is having carnal knowledge of his own daughter. He has been cautioned some time ago to which he denied and after some confrontation he confessed to it and promised never to do it again.

This girl in question was then taken away from his vicinity to avoid repetition of such only to find out few weeks back that she has returned.

Now the problem is that the man has started again and this time around the wife caught them in the act but pretended not to see it. She reported it to my brother who told me about it and we called the man immediately to let him know what he is doing. He found out that the information was revealed by the wife and then started beating her.

Please what do you think we can do to help the poor girl and savage the situation.

PS
Pardon my way if reporting.
Mods please help loud this.

truthsayer009:


Hey God, whats all dis now. After the will say we dont help people.

truthsayer009:
Hmm OK. Is it Gtbank?

mysticwarrior:
yes now, for the other thread, no be you the quote me, abi you don forget?

Thunderblasts:
The best liars in this country are girls.
You were raped and yet you be runs girl dey follow man sleep for hotels?..
Did you tell your mom you got raped?_ NO!
Can I confirm from your people if it's true you once got raped?_ NO!
You think rape is not a serious word abi?
That word RAPE sef have suffered..
No be only rape na KREST

ussv:
You are not listening and you are definitely not reading. Who mentioned anything about being a victim ? The topic was about believing a lie was actually true while you were in love. I never claimed to be a victim.

jaszplus12:
James Bond 007 or Jason Statham

LewsTherin:
Ha ha ha ha ha ha!

TheRedpillguy:
There are no good or bad people. There just people

merahki:
I can go on and on oo
I want and get periodic breaks but would want to skin my sister in-law alive if she ever suggested this to my brother
I don’t cook but how dare they not cook?
I don’t like vows but she must be yoked to my brother
And many more
I am simply, just terrible. I just said that sha, I am simply too honest and wild
I am a good person oo, I guess, but my sister in law has to be a saint
Well, I never do gender wars, have never been inclined to too. I do people not sexes

truthsayer009:
Yes, its wrong. You are suppose to break the bank for those kids. They are tomorrows leaders

funmisticqueen:
Chee! Let's see where the problem lies.

The husband is boring as Bleep,and is just a child in an adult body. Babe needed a real man, and she got it. I'm sure that gym instructor has abs that the husband, doesn't. He probably screws her better too.

Let him kick the wife out if he wants to. It's not like he can stay single and bitter for long. Chances are, his next wife will be worse off. Or he can decide to be a good Lil boy and keep his family shit together. Like a man.

Biglittlelois:
She shouldn't have commented publicly?

mysticwarrior:
how far na you find me reach here again?

mysticwarrior:
from the way you are sounding there is no way you won't cheat on your husband.

catwalq:
True....People are wary of phenomenons they can't interprete. You can't blame em.

abiolamitodun:
well.i think that's true Sha...that's how I heard a rumour that Im a cultist..just because am a quiet type and don't make friends..and I hardly talk

truthsayer009:
LMAO last last its exercise books you are planning to give them as Gifts, not even big note books oh. 2B exercise book

Mightyhaiz:
When are we going to start organising pageantries for brains ,talents and gifted kids.. To start taking home cars,houses and millions..

The last birthday of my daughter,my criteria for winning expensive prices were answering difficult questions and speaking local dialects..then very small gifts for dancing and other games..one particular calabar girl from a poor background won gifts over 30k including cash prices(this child for no win pin if the criteria na who dance pass, who fine pass or who dress pass)Guess what almost all the kids in my neighborhood have been preparing (academically)for the next birthday and giftings for brilliance. The side effects of this is improved grades in school and general awareness and seriousness in academics.. Let's encourage brains and talents among our youths..