Family › Re: Deadbeat Father: How A Nairanlander's Quote Ended My Family's Rift. (photos) by ChiefSweetus: 11:05am On Dec 13, 2019 |
obamartins: @op don't allow anyone discourage you from reconciling with ur dad and getting him a gift. I had a very terrible experience with my dad that made me drop out of medical school at 300level, my brother got locked up in the cell bcus I reacted by seizing my dad's credentials as a way of protesting his neglect. He tot I conspired with my brother to seize his documents. Cut the long story short, the DPO mediated and asked us to go home and resolve the issue since it's a family issue. My dad threatened to shoot both of us if we step foot in his house (he has a gun). So we both went our different ways. I vowed never to have anything to do with him and for seven years we were not on talking terms. I started hustling and went back to school, did part time and graduated. Yes, I graduated with a 2:1, but those seven years were hell, nothing I did seems to work. Even after leaving school I was stagnant until someone told me to reconcile with my dad if I want doors to open.
Hell No! There is no way I will reconcile with that heartless man. I had all justifiable reasons not to reconcile with him. After a couple of months, I gave it a tot and called him. We reconciled and since then I have never known a better yesterday. Doors began to open. Today, I was able to reconcile him and my elder brother and also placed him on monthly allowance. There is a spiritual implication when you have issues with your parent. I witnessed it and I had no option than to bury the past. The truth is that they will never apologize to you no matter what, just eat the humble pie and make amends. Then things will start working again. We need their blessings b4 the leave earth. So orphans that lost their parents suddenly are hopeless for not getting blessings?  a child molested by her dad too must still seek his blessing before he dies?  |
Family › Re: Deadbeat Father: How A Nairanlander's Quote Ended My Family's Rift. (photos) by ChiefSweetus: 11:01am On Dec 13, 2019 |
blank: I'm just wondering. How will the expensive gifts you want to buy for him make up for the parental neglect you suffered from him? He had a disagreement with your mom and decided to take it out on the kids by not providing for them. Sounds like a douchebag. But what do I know? The OP has daddy issues  |
Celebrities › Re: Lucia Feubodei At 70: Bisola Aiyeola’s Mother's 70th Birthday Party Pictures by ChiefSweetus: 11:53am On Dec 12, 2019 |
Mama fine pass daughter Daughter fine pass grand daughter Lineage Degradation. Make I no talk why  |
Celebrities › Re: Dabota Lawson: "Razz Men Are Better Spenders Than Rich Kids" - Ex Beauty Queen by ChiefSweetus: 11:49am On Dec 12, 2019 |
MrBrownJay1: what a pile of nonsense from useless women who value men by the amount of money they can spend on them.....useless hoelosho mentality!
whether a man is poor or rich, spends or not, his CHARACTER as a man is what is important..... nothing else! no wonder so many of these useless women are treated like garbage (when they act like garbage). MBJ, na men dey cause dis nonsense. If all man stop dey put these basic bìtches on pedestal......... |
Celebrities › Re: Bovi Celebrates His 'Darling' Manager, Ann Obaseki. Gets Blasted, He Fires Back by ChiefSweetus: 1:59pm On Dec 10, 2019 |
When you have zero respect for your staff or her partner.
If Remy Tinumbu was his Manager, will fear (for her or her husband) allow Bovy call her darling? |
Politics › Re: Admiral Ibas Launches Keel Of Nigeria's New Warship. by ChiefSweetus: 10:36am On Dec 10, 2019 |
Naptu tha gawd! My favourite man on here  |
Romance › Re: My Lady Is Showing Signs Of Unseriousness by ChiefSweetus: 11:06pm On Dec 09, 2019 |
You sound stupid
I mean very very dumb. Irredeemably dumb.
No offence. Carry your cross of everlasting foolishness and magadom. Cheers, fool |
Crime › Re: Man Found Dead In His SUV In Agbara, Ogun State (Graphic Photos) by ChiefSweetus: 10:58pm On Dec 09, 2019 |
Terrible for his loved ones Bad death indeed |
Politics › Re: Kema Chikwe And Husband, Albert Chikwe Celebrate 50th Wedding Anniversary by ChiefSweetus: 12:25pm On Dec 08, 2019 |
Broke people always have an opinion. - summary of the many salacious comments on this thread Naeto and his wife look like twins  their kids are very very cute. |
Family › Re: How Can My Parents Evict My Troublesome Uncles? by ChiefSweetus: 11:14am On Dec 05, 2019 |
cRobo: You will have to involve the police and customary court
Do this ASAP
If your Dad is late there is nothing you or your mother will be able to do to evacuate them
Probably they are waiting for you Dad to be late so they claim the property
Evict now that your Dad is alive by all means Listen to this advice! |
Family › Re: How Can My Parents Evict My Troublesome Uncles? by ChiefSweetus: 11:09am On Dec 05, 2019 |
Lmao are you guys broke? Your dad does not know any AIG? Or Colonel? Wow. |
Crime › Re: Pastor Benjamin Akinsanya Hires Assassins To Kill Janet Ogunshola by ChiefSweetus: 11:07am On Dec 05, 2019 |
This story has to be fugazy... Amongst other incredulous details, Bail is set at a paltry 100k for attempted murder  |
Car Talk › Re: Mercedes Benz W124 Popularly Known As 'V-Boot' Is 35 Years Old (Photos) by ChiefSweetus: 7:35am On Dec 05, 2019 |
Sigh! My grandma always hoped for my dad to have this car. The man sha managed to drive Benz sha  Really a status symbol in the 90s. Even it's less illustrious sister, the 190 was highly regarded. Good times. |
Properties › Re: How To Know When An Agent Is Lying by ChiefSweetus: 5:15pm On Dec 03, 2019 |
My Agent right now....  |
Career › Re: Should I Recommend My Best "Team Member" For A Higher Position Off My Team? by ChiefSweetus: 10:42am On Dec 02, 2019 |
Choice - Give him that much.
You'd be surprised what'll happen when you give a man options.
He might not even want the promotion. This may be his comfort zone. He might misinterpret your kindness as wanting to get rid of him out of insecurity. But if you tell him about the opportunity and ask if he's interested......... |
Celebrities › Re: Winniefred Nwoko: My Eyes, Boobs Get Me The Most Attention by ChiefSweetus: 10:52am On Nov 29, 2019 |
Any "actress" that journalist asks sexual questions is secretly perceived by her interviewer as dumb.
The actress that indulges such silly and frivolous questions by actually answering is confirmed as irrevocably stupid. |
Health › Re: Share Your Experience(s) With Nigerian Doctors by ChiefSweetus: 12:15pm On Nov 27, 2019 |
Segkem2013: Hmmmm....
I had a surgery sometime in 2015 in a federal hospital at Abuja, on the surgical bed the doctor meant to fix the drip on my hand kept puncturing my hands and he did so in a very mean manner. A colleague of his asked him to calm down and he started ranting about how someone brushed his car and pulled out the bumper. After that, I needed to go for post surgery treatment. On that particular day I was having this severe headache that ran through my spine and couldn't sit for long as a result Anastasia administered on me. I pleaded with this same premature doctor to allow me see the consultant as I was in sefia pains. This dude was so rude and asked me if I'm the first person to be in pains. I just told him that ''guy even as I am in pains, if I hear Pim from your mouth again, I'll gather my last strength and beat you up'' the guy just waka jejely as me ma don mean am since the day I had the surgery when he used my hands for acupuncture practice. Eventually I saw the chief consultant who told me to drink more water to wash down the effect of the Anastasia and spend more time lying down as against sitting up for the mean time. He also scolded him for not knowing what to do to relieve my pains. I just thank God he wasn't the chief consultant.... I for no see my breakthrough in life. lmaoooooooooooooooooooo |
Family › Re: How Can I Stop Helping My Cousin Without Feeling Guilty About Her Kids? by ChiefSweetus: 4:43pm On Nov 26, 2019 |
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Properties › Re: Lagos To Relocate 400 Jakande Estate Residents by ChiefSweetus: 9:20am On Nov 26, 2019 |
Big boss Naptu2  |
Romance › Re: My Fiancee Betrayed Me: Should I Go Ahead With The Marriage Plans? by ChiefSweetus: 4:00pm On Nov 25, 2019 |
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Romance › Re: I Had Sex With My Fiance's Friend, Please Help! by ChiefSweetus: 3:13pm On Nov 25, 2019 |
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Romance › Re: I Had Sex With My Fiance's Friend, Please Help! by ChiefSweetus: 3:12pm On Nov 25, 2019 |
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Romance › Re: My Fiancee Betrayed Me: Should I Go Ahead With The Marriage Plans? by ChiefSweetus: 3:06pm On Nov 25, 2019 |
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Romance › Re: A Lady Is Four Months Pregnant For Me And She's Hiding It From Me. by ChiefSweetus: 10:38pm On Nov 24, 2019 |
Mood11: Happy Sunday my people..
Let's settle this once and for all.
Likes for OP, Share for his Unborn Baby   |
Celebrities › Re: Taiwo Ajai-Lycett: I Was Robbed & Raped At 65, Dropped Out At 16, Widowed At 52 by ChiefSweetus: 10:36am On Nov 18, 2019 |
A lot of ignorant comments asking "who rapes a 65yr old widow" are subconscious and diabolical projections. So it is okay to rape, as long as the victim is young, and not a widow??  |
Car Talk › Re: 7 Fantastic Ways To Keep Your Old Car Running Strong by ChiefSweetus: 7:17pm On Nov 16, 2019 |
gonkin: It's not really advisable to change your transmission oil if you've been using it for a long time. If it ain't dark don't touch it. If the transmission is fine don't change the oil. Otherwise you'll have transmission problems if u change it cuz it will start slipping.
If you haven't changed it for years and the color is not dark, and the transmission switches fine LEAVE IT ALONE OOO.
Every other oil can be changed but not the transmission Thanks bro. Toyota camry claims their transmission is for the lifetime of the car. There's no outlet sef to top up or drain as it is sealed. I haven't changed in 5yrs and transmission still shifts like a dream. |
Crime › Re: Man Kills His Blood Brother For “Disrespecting” His Girlfriend In Onitsha (Pix) by ChiefSweetus: 5:43pm On Nov 13, 2019 |
And that's how one family lost two sons in a swoop. Damn. |
Car Talk › Re: My Experience With A Passat 2.0 (This Whole Thing Happened In 2008) by ChiefSweetus: 10:20am On Nov 13, 2019 |
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Romance › Re: Hypocrisy of men claiming Alpha male online. by ChiefSweetus: 5:18pm On Nov 11, 2019 |
MrCork: .....are u one of those feminist women from lagos wit base voice? (No oofeense)   |
Politics › Re: Ibijoke Sanwo-Olu Runs 10km Race (Photos) by ChiefSweetus: 5:16pm On Nov 11, 2019 |
Born2Breed: I pity all these DSS sha. Because madam wan run dem must run with suit.  |
Celebrities › Re: Nadia Buari Shows Her Husband's Face, He's A Lebanese by ChiefSweetus: 10:46am On Nov 09, 2019 |
lmao obviously a simp-ass beta bish boiiii |
Celebrities › Re: Nwanneka Nkumah Brutalized By Policemen, Lands In Hospital by ChiefSweetus: 2:06pm On Nov 08, 2019 |
gLmao! Dey no even beat am well well. Stupid story from someone that wanted to show she is connected. NPF change am for am! You are not better than the people you look down on  gerrarahia mehn.. shii |