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Don't marry who you don't know friends so that their smile won't annoy you.

Let her finish her HND. Her parents are making sense.

There's no problem in dating a single mom but NEVER enter such a relationship expecting the men to assume responsibility for your children just like that.

Of course there were gay people. However, the numbers are much higher in all boys schools as opposed to mixed schools. Regardless, the number is nowhere near 90%, probably closer to 10% in all boys schools and less than half that in mixed schools.

Casalindal:
Hello guys, hope you all are safe? Please let take safety precautions... so I had this conversation with my male bestie today. He is gay and I don’t have any issues with his sexuality because aside him been gay he got a good heart, well he told me that most men who were at secondary school (boarding) were fucking themselves and even tho the all claim straight and most are married now. But 90% men who attended secondary (boardinghouse) had Bleep a guy at some point at school. Be it playing or body touching

1. Who's financing the party lifestyle? If she is, okay.

2. Do or Can I pay with her?

3. Do we share mutual trust she respect?

The answers to these 3 questions are important.

medTechworld:
Hello Nairalanders, I will like to hear your opinion. Thanks!

Very stupid title. Be happy if and when you meet someone who likes you for you.

Never pay for sex.

Talk is cheap. Seeing is believing.

Of course.

How will she talk to you when she's laughing and annoyed that you wasted her time.

blockgeek69:
That day shock me mehn... Funny thing is that we really haven't been talking like we use to talk before now

Please help me to ask her.

Leoniine:
Will excessive tasting not happen in marriage?



How stud and futurism take enter now?

Both spouses can and do all the time.

Jman06:
Both spouses can't shoot their shots at the same time. One "shoots the first shot" by proposing and that should be the man while the lady "shoots her shot" by either accepting or rejecting

This is an evil comment. Please delete. Wallow in your misery alone.

Poverty induced love.
What this dude is clearly doing is called "leveraging",born out if desperation and the "not meeting up" syndrome.
The girl looks like someone who would have a good future no doubt and this one is already looking for who would support him.
Else tell me why someone would come out and be calling an ugly girl pretty?like I don't get it.
Also,the same lady that talks carelessly is the sapiosexual here?
How is she business savvy when she just finished medical school,haven't ever done or be involved in any business and is finding it difficult to raise money to move into her first ever rented apartment?does this work?
Give this guy 20 million naira and he will start to see funmi for who she really is.A fat,no level,big lips piece of flesh.
Poverty fit make person profess love to a live Turkey.
Continue to mumu and embarrass your ancestors,no go find money,
Shit!

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Your father is illegal.

kestolove95:
Any child conceive before marriage is an illegal child

Some guys have dated some virgins with terrible experience.

justnock:
We appreciate it, absolutely. Most of the guys just want to chop and clean mouth. They know it will be more difficult to have sex with a virgin. They're searching for the ladies that will give up their cookies, sharp-sharp.

You're painting all the ~ ,100 million Nigerian guys with one brush.

Petyprincess:
No,it's not a crime dear,those guys aren't meant for you!! When the right person comes he wnt question your decency!!
This proves Nigerian guys are confused set of humans! If a lady is not a virgin they will call her names nd when she is a virgin they still can't wait What do you guys want exactly?

Since guys don't care about virginity, dine even actively and virgins


You seem to feel strongly about your chastity or virginity so for compromise it for a guy.

blessingchinny:
I am a lady of 28. Pretty though, but the issue is that every guy I come across would always want to have sex with me. And once I say no, it is break up I have really gone through a lot to keep my self... I don't know if I should give up. Doesn't it mean that guys no longer appreciate virginity? Is it a crime to keep oneself till marriage. I am tired already, I am at the verge of given up. Please I need someone to talk yo me before I make a drastic decision. Am confused....

Won't both spouses "shoot their shot" and pay for these things TOGETHER??

Jman06:
If you shoot your shut by proposing to a man, would you also shoot your shut and pay for the marriage, rent a house for the family, take the man home and provide for him

Only a man should propose marriage when he is ready to meet the marital responsibilities of a man.

What is the full story? Maybe she did what many guys do: they chest on you or do something terrible them come with yeye proposal.

Chi59:
See the guys who say "I wish a bold girl will toast me" foaming from the mouth. Most Nigerian men have a terribly fragile ego, and extremely wicked if they want to be. Confused males.

It is our world?? What does that even mean??

It is now a 'right' to propose??

Randy100:
Idiotic generation. Nobody should be proposing in public and moreover, women have no right to propose to a man unless you are marrying the man. It is our world, the woman should pray and wait.

Bride price is a nonsensical concept.

1StopRudeness:
Please, ladies what’s the rationale behind proposing to a guy?? It’s not like u will carry your parents to go meet his parents and pay his “bride price”....how Does it even work...? Will u put the ring on his finger or give him the ring so that he can give it back to u to put on ur finger??

Are you sure she didn't do something terrible and then is trying to cover that up with a yeye proposer??

Gus do that all the time.

If I were your brother and I found out, the hit shall I will land on your face well rearrange your thoughts.

What is your business with her boobs??

Marrying young is not a problem in my opinion. It just seems that the average Nigerian is ready to marry later.

Negligible difference in actual sex.

Oreofepeters:
At least make she Sha get small curves and ass. Though I'm not a fan of boobs, small one is okay.



I'm sorry I can't be dating a flat screen TV

Who big boob and ass help??

I date people not their boobs or ass.

These rules 'when' with Prime that play games.

Be yourself. If you want to ask him it, all. If you want to kiss, kids. If you were disappointed in him not asking you it out kissing you (and you two are already relatively close), tell him.

Chi59:
The same way you guys contradict yourselves.
Tell him, don't tell him, flash green light, don't flash green light, take him out, don't take him out, give him sex, don't try that.
Confused male homo sapiens.

Nigerians yet again proving that we are the most racist to Nigerians.

Chi59:
Still a foolish comment. Stop disgracing yourself.

Cheating isn't usually about someone more beautiful out better. Sometimes it's someone weaker than you, someone who's there at the time whilst your partner isn't, etc.

Just look say Jay Z and Beyonce. The person he charm with is no where as fine or 'good' as Beyonce.

Chi59:
On a lighter note, any man wey get mind to cheat on gorgeous Adesuwa, I fear am.

Who actually told people that non virgins have an unruly kitten?

Abi address their puppies not thick enough?? �

Chi59:
A sensible post riddled with silly comments from narcissistic, small - minded simpletons whose only aim in life is to remain buried between a tight kitten.

Sad to hear that especially since it's probably from experience.

I'd like to say keep the faith and an open mind. Apologies as well if that is an annoying comment.

Chi59:
As much as I'd like to believe this, it doesn't work in the Nigerian context, especially if you have a genetic disorder like mine. Few people want to have something solid with you, the rest see you as a means to an end.