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I hope she eventually finds her peace.

I need to buy a used laptop for someone in Port Harcourt.

My budget is 20k to 40k.

Preferably at least 4 GB RAM, Bluetooth, 5+ hours battery life.

Lots of spaces, little content.

kc4christ:
greetings....


bros Weldon u try


marriage is not for children,you need to calm down and apply wisdom in all you do when it comes to in-laws.



finally don't forget to invest in your children's future.

Stop reporting yourself.

Read to understand, not to feel triggered.

mutter:
Nothing wrong in people asking.
If you can't give say no.

Conjure up the courage to cut contact.

I heard that people abroad use banks to build houses. If in PH, I could link you up.

I'm not yet married but I hope even after that, this won't be a problem.

I don't mind cutting contact with toxic people.

Thankfully, my parents aren't this way.

Also, no curse will work. Tell that dad that if he curses anybody, he curses himself.

badmusatari:
I was convinced by a topic on this thread https://www.nairaland.com/6433385/how-saved-brother-marrying-into/1

I went to Nigeria to bring my wife some years agom ever since we arrived it has always been money, money, materials, materials especially money. At some point my wife accused me of trying to separate her from her siblings. I told her that a time is coming she will be begging me to help her stop them. It has happened and is now happening. As a matter of fact I even brought her dad for a visit from Nigeria. Her dad was a God fearing person but the moment he started living with his oldest shameless and jobless son he has been brainwashed that her daughter and her husband owe them especially me. It's always about money, money, money. The oldest son is a jobless and shameless irresponsible man that impregnated a woman and they now have four kids. I have even got a job for him from here but he refused to go and work there in Nigeria.

Not minding the fact that he even have other siblings in abroad. One of those in abroad is always in support of this stupid irresponsible oldest guy but the other one is a very intelligent person and knows the whole truth.

If you send money to the dad now trust me he will request another in less than a week which obviously the irresponsible was the one telling the dad what to say. There was no time my wife or me or we call the dad that the irresponsible will not pretend he's not there but will put the phone on speaker so he can listen to our concert with the dad. All he's doing is yahoo and Yahoo. The second born there with him is a little bit fair but they all the same.

They always have this strong believe that their sister who is my wife owe them because they always says they took care of her. This is one of the reasons their sister who is my wife and the other siblings in abroad are yet to build a house for their dad. The oldest irresponsible always cause trouble, tell lies and create issues that the dad will be telling his children abroad that he's gonna curse them if they don't build house for him or send certain mount on so so so date. I am really tired and confused. Enough is enough because I also have my own family to look after. Even a bike I never buy sef. I am beginning to regret getting married in the first place. I love my wife and we have been together for over a decade and half even before we get married. But my wife is now their enemy because she always turn them down now. Infarct of I mention the irresponsible man's name or talk about se don't a penny to them she will go mad for days. Everythinf about them is money, money, money, build house for our dad, etc. The guy is now a yahoo + man over 40 yrs with no future and still unambitious. My wife and I have wasted a lot of money on his travelling but he doesn't even care. Imagine all the siblings in abroad have been sending money for their dad's house rent only for the landlord to tell us that this guy's has never paid a kobo for almost two years. All he's about is to drink fvck and club.. very dirty hungry looking guy. They never appreciate anything indo for them, instead it's always more more and more. There was a time this guy tried to fight me but I just ignored him.and since then I never talk to him again till now. But they are bullying my wife emotionally that she cries almost everyday now uptill this morning when I asked her what happened and she told me that her brother the irresponsible man sent a nasty message to her. But the other ones in another will always tell her that she and them need to take care of their dad and must send him money regardless of who highjack it as long as God knows they did the right thing, please how does this make sense? I need opinion on this in particular. How could you be sending money to the dad when you know that the idiot is the one that will collect and spend the money because he's with the dad's ATM card? Does that make sense?

I only pity one of the two siblings in another country that always support him and that one's wife have started complaining to my wife too because they gist a lot.

Sad

This is why I can't judge people who do runs.

I know the family requests some people have. The expectation of magic.

I just hope they do it codedly and get out as fast as possible.

Zanxx:
My dear, it's not easy ooo. Sometimes I feel like running away. My case is worse because I live with them. I am so frustrated that for over a week now I have been giving them attitude, I don't talk to any of them. I just drop money for food and any other thing that needs to be paid, then off I go. The rent is almost due and they are all waiting for me to conjure the money from the sky.smh. The burden is just too much

That's the spirit!

meobizy:
Okay. I guess I have to level up then.

1 million is small but not impossible.

If you have a sponsor, consider Canada. However, the studies you will be able to afford are relatively limited.

Are you ready for the work visas that are readily accessible?

In Canada, before you could say healthcare, they would have already completed your visa.

Looks risky to do business with such a new account no?

GraphicsProf:
Pay me 25k I do do everything for you and draft the agreement between all parties

What many forget is that this wealth is based on stock valuations.

Neither will have $100 bn sitting in cash in a bank.

Writers seem capable of handling 12 - 24 hours.

My focus is on quality and I have not been disappointed so far.

Fixey:
The problem is always the pressure you heap on writers. That's why they run away from such jobs regardless the pay. If you need jobs so badly in a such extreme aggressive hurry, order them ahead and not put people to work under conditions where after they work their body system breaks down. They then end up using twice the payment for treatment

Lol. 12 - 24 is okay.

meobizy:
That time is too short. Give me a week or two.

Lool.

My point exactly.

ivolt:
The phone you are using to type already has a backdoor or a weakness to exploit it.
The NSA should also call for the ban of the internet to keep Nigerians safe.

Nne stop discriminating against us wey only take 1 yoruba class for sec school.

Biko translate.

bukatyne:
Iyawo buruku se fe, ana buruku o se ni.

The only sense is that 5G products will be vulnerable to the countries from where they come from China & the USA.

It is entirely possible for them to keep tabs on sensitive national equipment with 5G.

China did this when they built the AU building. America has been spying on every one since time immemorial.

Does that mean that we should not (continue to) have 5G in we country??

Are we going to wait for Innoson to do 5G??

GamalNasser:
The NSA is making sense but what can he do about it

Senseless destruction.

Makes one question how the money to build was attained.

Sell it.

Did you get any sensible options? I have the same question.

Are you looking to invest actively or passively?

Indigbo:
What can I invest 7m and turn my capital to 10m in December 2021. With legal backing.

I am not interested in crypto and betting

Lol. It's back up to $50k.

This is not the first time that the Feds have come for bitcoin.

They can't control it. It has a very important place in the financial sector. Including for people who cannot bank through the US.

Monogamy:
It's already $45k.

If you have bitcoin, you better sell now cos the price will still come down further

Y'all are acting like credit is safe in Nigeria.

Debt recovery is low compared to many other countries.

They have to be vicious to ensure payment.

The problem is the crazy interest rates. However, I understand the CBN is trying to force interest rates lower.

Some Southern people are setting up ranches.

Rather, talking about setting up ranches.

Part of their problem is supply chain: who will they supply and at what rate? It takes time and money to raise cattle up to the point that you can sell them for meat. Worse still, the dairy processing industry uses powdered milk and doesn't need raw milk. Butter and cheese are not big in the country as well.

People who refuse to pay will not pay because you say please.

Learn to take what is yours or people will take from you for the rest of your life.

Home service is very common in PH.

Is it possible to do business in Bayelsa with only online transfers?

The only way he can control the flow of money is if all money is digital. If cash is changing hands, he will have little control.

My understanding is that the margin is not huge, are you sure he will have enough money left over after staff costs to recoup his investment in less than a year?

BigDick70inch:
Never had bout home service for gas filling......ain't that gon be too risky to get u or anyone involved in.......

U just have to take so many precautions....... If u wanna start gas Biz..........

These are the kind of news we like to hear. However, given how far they've gone per the pictures, this project must have started before 2015.

Thank goodness they plan on selling the TCN. That is the only way to improve electricity in we country.

Nice video. Been looking at Dubai for the next vacay. The visa-less requirement is a huge draw!

Did you get this through a travel package?

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A conviction for immigration fraud will scupper his chances.

jirehUB:
With his level of education, it shouldn’t be hard for him to get another country ready to accept him.

Better not to have a country than this contraption where a terrorist Sheikh has the audacity to tell us that Bandits are not criminals but victims of their victims

ON is HUGE. Toronto has a high cost of living but pays a lot better than elsewhere.

generationz:
I heard ON has a high Cost of living?

I've lived in QC & ON

generationz:
What province do you reside in?

We can be certain that the killers will not be found, arrested or brought to justice.

New car loading.