₦airaland Forum

Dtruthspeaker:
I believe you are lying about not being afraid of old age but I can not prove it, so I zip up!

For I have searched all over and I see the fear on everyone's face.

Ishilove:
Like sands in the hour glass, you cannot stop the tides of time from washing over you. Rather, you must embrace it and make your peace with it. Make each day count for something worthwhile. Na the reason why I no dey too answer mumu posts again. They are a waste of precious time and energy. They are useless in the scheme of things.

So many dreams unfulfilled? You and I both, bro. It is well. Let one leg follow the other first. That suffices for now.

I saw my first grey hair when I was 17

Testimony988:
They are not stupid but lazy... They don't want to hustle only want to depend on the guy when they are not even sure if his money is genuine or not... The want to sell me just because of money.

Zzor:
mine should be earlier at least before 30

trailblazar:
God help us in life so that the numbers favor us more times than not, where and when it matters.

eyinjuege:
Then don't wail when you are called out on your hypocrisy.
It's as simple as that.
If you dislike someone enough to troll them when alive, keep the same energy at their demise.

NextD18:
You are on point. I've always been a fan of "Prevention". If it's in your control to prevent anything that will bring hurt or damage to yourself, kindly prevent it. It shouldn't be difficult.

You can't insult people and also tell them how to return the insult, it's not done. There's no rule of engagement when it comes to brawls on social media. The earlier people understand this the better for them.

eyinjuege:
I don't know much about her and never heard of her health issues until someone posted the insults and mocking given her because of it.
Disagreeing with someone is perfectly normal, but we all should learn some decorum while at it (myself inclusive).
I know some people on this forum can at times bring the devil out of you, as I've had my own fair share of throwing gbas gbos, but stand your ground and just move on afterwards.
There are some people here I can never respect because we have very opposite values and I don't respect their values. That's absolutely fine.
But if it becomes a case of always deliberately attacking someone online when they were alive, you can easily just ignore the thread put out about their demise or perhaps even come on there to throw more gbas gbos.
Trolling is very different from disagreeing with an opinion

NextD18:
Chii is very toxic, mannerless, disrespectful and always quick to form victim with her health when the favor is returned.

I don't know much about the cause of her deactivation, but I've seen that very lady curse and insult people here UNPROVOKED, and when they return the insult, she'll switch to her health bla bla bla!

That lady has personally and countlessly insulted me, dragged my mum just because i aired my opinion on a front page topic, but I had to ignore her because I don't like her and I don't reply mentions of people I don't like.

If any of you had loved and cared about Chii when she was active, you would have called her to order and advice her to stop attacking people, not forming motivational speakers when people insult her. That's how it should be.

trailblazar:
Love is not the only solution to being single, having kids etc, just like money doesn't solve all problems. IIRC,OP never described the kind of love that is clouding your judgement.
For many people love happens along the way not before. Don't get it twisted. There's space for everybody: Those who want to go in head over heels and those who want to go in eyes wide open. Take your pick.

NextD18:

budaatum:
Sorry, but not all of us see what we want to see. Some of us first make sure our eyes work properly before we even look.

budaatum:
Trump who was stuck battling on twitter is seen by you as "able to keep his sanity and handle the criticisms" than Biden whom despite the criticisms is just getting on with the job?

You are funny, lol.

lekki1444:
Well i have to admit giving out my phone number is silly but i am not the type to say no to poeple to their face, and no i am not a hard man, and no i am not a redpiller based on misogyny and bad experience with women, I am just someone seeking a higher spiritual path and i find being in relationships is hardwork in itself and i am just not ready for that kind of hardwork in my life. i love my own company and doing things at my own pace. i dont want to dance to another persons tune. yu get me ? so i am not one of these angry i hate women dudes. for me its just that my lifestyle as a solo guy is very convenient for me right now and i want to keep it like that for a while.

bukatyne:
@bold: correct.

I have seen Yoruba name kids in a way that it is 'easy' for Westerners to pronounce.

As in!

ABCthingx:
constomer care can be super polite and that doesn't mean that the handler is moral

ABCthingx:
xactly. They are having this problem abroad too. They want to the do away with God (the originator of morality) and still have a moral, lawful society at the same time.

Tell me, how can that work?

theFilmtric:
Of course, yes
Why not?

theFilmtricsay

bukatyne:
I agree with herd thinking in the society. And almost all societies are alike at its core.

Humans are same; just different laws curtailing their behaviors.

You are comparing 'home/unit' level treatment of widows: outlawed widowhood practices, their in-laws stealing their properties etc. To the societial treatment of sympathy they get.

In my initial post, I said women 'manage' the home/family hence are judged harshly there; men 'manage' the society hence judged harshly there.

Widows get men & women who want to help them (some at a cost); widowers do not even have helpers at all.

If not for man placing a premium on his sexual need, how is sleeping with a woman (who might also enjoy it) for help in cash or kind a fair exchange?

theFilmtric:
its all the question of official language
Assuming Nigeria was a 2,3,4 language country
It would be the same
Nigeria is just too diverse
That causes us to lean too heavily on English
Those I cancelled have their language as their official language
While India has just 23 languages
Nigeria has 543 only 250 are recognized

theFilmtricsay

WoundedLamb:
So would you send your kids to Africa like my friend plans to do?

WoundedLamb:
But these aside, what's your take on sending kids home at thier teenage age? Does it really make them better?