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Oyindamolah:
Property 1 Ogun.

Oyindamolah:
Thank you but completing property 1 is very expensive. The cost if completing property 2 is cheaper compared to Property 1 but mum says it will be unfair:
1. to my siblings because if their schooling
2. Dad because property 1 was his plan for us
3. Property 2 is very far from town with infrastructure especially for her medicals.

Leezah:
This is a financial security and survival issues.
She should check the cost of completing the property 1& 2 then do a cost benefits analysis.

SweetCunt97:
How d fvck should I know

Leezah:
She sighted reasons why the mom wants Property 1.

Ovie56:
The way the media potray him you'd think the US will be at war with at least 5 countries by now.

Vulcanheph:
Good one ....watch how sudan will start rapid development.

Oyindamolah:
Good morning Familanders!

I lost my dad a few years ago. It's been very difficult but we having been pushing through. I am in my early 20's with 5 sibling.

Dad left some properties for us. I happened to be the first female child.

Property 1
Is almost completed to decking level no windows and doors. It has not been plastered or floored, JUST sand filled. We currently occupy group flat in this property.

Property 2
Is an uncompleted building with roof.

I have my mum with underlying illness and 5 siblings to cater for.

I currently work but the money is not enough to to even complete the current abode or property 2.


Please, What do I do?

yomi007k:
In the olden days, a man marries more than one wife, has multiple kids and rides on horses and donkeys..

You can apply olden days mentality on your life but don't recommend it for other people.

Thank you.

mariahAngel:
Hrhehehehehe...E better like dat ooo

SweetCunt97:
Well, it's d truth. Lolzz. Everyone needs someone to lean one but lean on Me no mean say u go press me die sha

mariahAngel:
Iffa hear...

I no like insensitive men

mariahAngel:
Heyiiiiiiiiiiii! So cold!

You kuku wicked

OkhaiAsein:
That won't change her attitude she would still think she has satisfy u even though u are angry with her...

OkhaiAsein:
Please before you embark on this journey, make sure to tell your wife that you may change because of her consistent bad attitude. This is to make her know that she is the one bringing out the stained colour out of you.
Tell any of your friends you want to confide in about your plans and what you wish to achieve. Let them know and help keep an eye on your woman.

It is note worthy to remember that these disciplinary actions are for the good men, for men who are on their own, disciplined and therefore capable of impacting others.
If you are a liar, a cheat, a barterer, an infidel, a stingy husband and father, please, these actions are not for you because when karma decides to take its toll on you, you may not find the mouth to defend yourself.

Do not beat somebody's daughter for any reason, find out a way to handle her mess or send her parking. Lots of successful women today were once thrown out of their marital homes, they left and picked up the pieces of their lives. Fixed their hearts and started rising, some have risen higher than the men who threw them out.
Sometimes, some marriages cannot be fixed, no matter what you apply to it, it will keep breaking and quenching.

merieam16:
Ensure u dont marry a hoe abi cutlass so dat all these punishments will pain her abi?

OkhaiAsein:
No. 4 - Deny her some bodily pleasures
One of the basic needs in marriage is emotional pleasure and satisfaction. If situations get so bad that your wife no longer listen to you, try this.
If you both share the same bed, then leave her side for her, if she won't allow you to sleep, go to the sitting room. Please, this measure should be taken with caution. Know the kind of person your wife is before you start with this no. 4. If she is an erotic addict, please don't try this, she may go out in search of it. Try the ones above but satisfy her on bed just for satisfaction sake.

Professorcplus:
All this one doesn't apply to *hoes disguised as house wife. If you like keep late night, they will also keep their, if you like don't eat her food and don't have sex with her, they won't care because they will get it else where. Las las na you go loose.

Uncle93:
Too bad most of them are like that, even if you spend 100k for her this month, in two months if you don't spend 200k she will start acting dull again .. Guys Abeg. Fck the hell out of this kinda girls either they are good or bad girls because at the end of the day , they'll start giving u attitude when they meet a new guy who is richer.

Deborah98:
you see what I don't like,cater for here means many things uncle, won't you have children, have a house,extend a hand to your email inlaws,why are you guys so quick to react when an average Nigerian gal mention money,if that's the case then you guys shouldn't marry ni

Deborah98:
Yeah that attention is what most women want,then secondly love and then thirdly ability to cater for them....

Zoharariel:
The "United States of Taliban" is a Terrorist Nation trying to bully other Sovereign States into submission with her cowardly acts.

If not for Mother Russia, we would have Amerikan soldiers dropping Tactical Nukes (like they did in Iraq & Afghanistan) on every Nation on Earth in the name of spreading democracy.

You are spreading democracy in enemy Countries but left out Saudi-Arabia, Qatar, Brunei & Jordan.

Land of the Free & Home of the brave - my black hairy anus!

SweetCunt97:
You should have outlined the business you intend going into, how much you'll need, add ur account number. Be grateful to that aunt of yours cos she gave u a roof over ur head... And you actually need a man, it's a tough world trying to be a superwoman without a man sha.

Ishilove:
You can suck my big black cock_

bukatyne:
Toor.

This thread still feels very weird to me.

bukatyne:
Whose job is it to host the husband's guests?

FirefliesSun:
I am so mad right now. I am so confused.
Today around 5:30, I had to visit my friend to pluck hibiscus flowers.

One thing led to another while at the flowers, I saw my friend's mother making eyes/wink and pouting to my friends husband. He just smiled back although he noticed I saw it but the mother didn't.

I can swear they are having a fling and it's shameful. I don't know how to tell her. I am just here, very confused and bothered. Even if I wanted to tell her, how do I even start?

bukatyne:
At least we reason, thanks for the compliments.

We leave you guys capable of empathy to work at it.

Together, we make the world colourful