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Why do people think that they can get such an outfit to begin with? Did you offer to pay the same price it took to make the original or you're trying to live a champagne lifestyle on a beer budget?

I remember how ugly I was between 12 and 16. I wore ill fitted skirts (grandma skirts) bulky shoes, I had zero style or swag. My hair always frizzed, and my edges were static standing strong.

This generation have everything on point. Their hair styled, eyebrows on point, jewellery, latest shoes, latest fashion, latest phones. Could this be the reason for this level of confidence? Imagine having the guts to want to rent a hotel with boys!

The guy is looking for a woman but look at all these men rushing his thread

Nl boys don't understand the meaning of: Ladies ONLY

I'm confused by this thread... comments retracted

Nvm

Razgas:
why? Cos I prefer medical line? Should I choose a girl wh complements me or one who will come and stress me?

All this grammar just means *work horse*

You're looking for a work horse not a wife.

That's a woman

Never comment before reading thread

Modified. Op this is your point of view and you're entitled to it. If you put your wife above your mother that's your choice. Those who opt to put their mothers before their wives are not wrong for their choices either.

I would prioritise my parents before my husband and my husband prioritises his parents over me. Some people are just loyal to their roots. I could never tell my husband that his mother couldn't live with us if she needed to. He would never turn away my parents if they needed us. If I had been with a man who would refuse me to look after my mother in our home then I would leave that relationship because I am loyal to my parents first.

Partners come and go... blood is forever. My parents and my kids before my partner and that's just my reality. My husband feels the same way and I don't resent him for it.

I live tou

BamideleLat1:
Uh

I can just see you're a fool. You can't make me regret doing this. I did this to help this woman. You must to make people feel I'm here for scam. You're evil its obvious. I went ahead to do a video with this elderly woman just to show how real the case is. I can picture your kind of person. You should be a small boy that don't know about life. It goes around. You're even a Muslim from your picture uploaded. And you should be observing Ramadan. Someone that's old enough to be your Grandma is scamming right? No issues. You'll meet your own in front.

I thought you're a sensible fellow that's why I reply your comment from beginning. Now I just observed I'm replying a kid. I bleeped up big time. Don't worry, more situations will school you about life... You're still growing

Lol. Cherry pick my comments and attack me but it doesn't change the fact that what you are doing although noble if true won't be sustainable.

The information you have provided is not for treatment but rather rehabilitation costs. This institution is a home and its an expensive home. All I told you to do is try and find a more sustainable solution but you jumped on any statement that you thought was an attack and you left the issue. Your behaviour isn't credible when all you want to do is argue rather than understand. This is why this is suspicious.

I've said my own.

And it's a new account opened today just for this... I understand your anger and frustration because you came to make a cool million

BamideleLat1:
Enough of this. Must you push people to accept your opinion? What do you mean format? If you can't help, rest. I will not blame you. How will you think a woman of that age want to use format on you. I even uploaded a video. Pele o... Mr format. Mr I know all. Pray not to have problems. So talking anyhow. When you get into issues like this you'll know how it feels. Ha ha. Format. What's your age? Look at the woman, is she not old enough to be your mother? Format? Keep your money. Not helper like you she needs. Stay away

Hmmm. I touched a nerve lol

You doth persist too much me thinks!

BamideleLat1:
Hmmmm. Chief. The situation on ground you will not understand. The boy is way sick also. Your little or more help can go a long way. If he can be taken care of at home why would she take him there.

There's more to the sickness. The widow is dispressed and sometimes feel suicidal. I know what I'm saying

There's no treatment on those papers. Everything on that paper is rehabilitation. There's no medical treatment being offered. Care workers, support workers, managers, physiotherapists, psychologists that's what he will be paying for not treatment.

This all sounds like a format to me! You're not here to help this guy because if you were then you'd understand what I'm saying instead of pushing this hard sell tactics.

I'm done... Best wishes.

BamideleLat1:

This is not a sustainable solution. Help them find another solution. This institution just cares about money. What they are offering is top of the range but a struggling person can not sustain this kind of care. Even if you succeed in raising these funds this will be just a very expensive 1 year holiday for the guy. People with cerebral palsy live at home and have care given to them. Half of the treatments this institution is offering isn't necessary.

It's a sad situation. The son's condition requires a lifetime of support. People don't recover from his condition it is managed over the course of their life. If 1 year costs a million plus and by God's grace you help in raising that amount, what happens for the next year and the many after that?

This is a high end institution offering every kind of support but who can afford to pay them millions a year to just house the young man?
Many people with his condition are taken care of at home because its cheaper... Best of luck though.

Nothing funnier than a stupid person talking with authority

Why do people on nl get this saying wrong

*Better the devil you know*

They remix this and include an angel. How can a devil be better than an angel? The saying compares two similar things *the devil you know and the devil you don't know* there are no angels in this saying.

I just had to clear that up because I cringe when people make up their own version and defeat the purpose of the saying *sighhhhhh*

Just dont quit your day job

Richy4:

<< Her mother was separated from her dad when she was young...( She doesn't want to disclose Why)
<< Her mother trained her aunt who later married a rich man ( the uncle)
<< Since the mother was separated and have no form of income, she expects the lady she trained to reciprocate the kind gesture and train her daughter in school..( the Aunt and the husband accepted to train OP since they are welloff)
<< The uncle have advised OP's mum to reconcile with her husband and she ignored the advice...
<<Now OP sent a message of Goodwill yesterday to the uncle and the Uncle replied with "Pls"
<< She's asking u what you think about the reply from the Uncle...

Thank you

Nvm

If only I understood your story then I could help you.
Can someone tell me what the problem is

So 10 years ago, boys have grown past this now because they're pill poppers

Op, Google: Learnt helplessness and understand what it is and how to unlearn it and rebuild self esteem and confidence.

Try this link:

https://www.betterup.com/blog/learned-helplessness

Animegirl:
Men are the most selfish species. Like how can you sleep with the woman you love and you don't know how to satisfy your woman sexually. Why fight for your own cum and let the woman fight for hers? This is an act of wickedness and selfishness.

A man who doesn't know how to satisfy his queen sexually and financially is a weak man.

Let me help your ministry. Learn where your G_spot is and get into position straight away. After he fires down on that spot for 10 minutes you should cum multiple times and then let him finish how he wants to finish. 15min later everyone is happy.

IamAsiri:
This thread is making it seem that only men are verbally abused as against majority of women being domestically abused and that was what I tried to correct.

I didn't see it this way... I read it as an awareness for men who are verbally abused by their wives. Unless you're claiming that such cases don't exist then there's nothing to correct here. IMHO!