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Females be ranting "Menascum menascum menascum" like headless chicken and yet they never hesitate to go this far just for just for men ....

Whether or not this is a skit doesn't mean girls don't commit atrocities of this nature and more ...

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Just as it is inherent in every woman to want the best possible man out there (hypergamy), it is also inherent in EVERY MAN to want as many women as possible (polygamy), it's man's nature ...

Now...
There are ONLY TWO CLASS of men who have been able to tame this inherent nature in them:

1. Deeply spiritual people (emphasis on deeply, cause even some so called pastors haven't tamed this nature) ...
2. Highly principled men

The problem is that, these classes of men are seen as "boring", "corny", and not worth being with by the average woman ...

And so they accept the life of the party and the likes, they accept men who haven't been able to put this inherent nature under control ...

It's their cross, make them carry am ...
And I see someone up there making excuses and I can't help but laugh ....

Blimey, even if a woman is 100% not guilty of all those things you mentioned, a man who hasn't tamed this nature will still sleep with other women who are prolly less "cleaner" than his wife ...

"An alpha male is not a guy who treats ladies anyhow. He is a guy who treats ladies based on their values.
He is not an heartless individual but he's someone who treats you based on your person and actions. So if you are good, he is good to you, if you are nice he is nice to you"

The bolded is EXACTLY why females mistake Alpha for Narcissist ...

You don't have any value as a woman and you're expecting men to value you, is that not witchcraft? ...

You treat men like trash and you're expecting an Alpha to worship the ground you work on, isn't that a proof that you're possessed with serpentine spirit? ...

Any lady who hates men who treat men the way she is being treated is VALUE-LESS ...

I can't even buy a house in my wife's name, talk more of a mere girlfriend ...

MEN NEVER BUY AN ASSET IN A WOMAN'S NAME (girlfriend or wife), instead get it in your kids names or in your name ...

Go and check ANY documents that has an option of "next of kin" and the likes...

A man most of the time will put his wife and prolly his first son as next of kin ...

But if it's a woman who is filling that document, that's a different ball game ...

You will rarely find a woman who'll put her man's name there, it's usually her kids most of the time ...

Is it that "two have become one" only applies to the man? ...

Any female who believes that she is doing the guy a favour during conventual s.ex is UTTERLY USELESS ...

And any guy who still hangs around females who think like this should see a psychiatrist asap ...

Right from when I was born till this moment, I have NEVER chased a female ...

If I ask you out, you say no, I pass, no stress ...

If you say "lemme think about it", I pass, no stress ...

I'm of the opinion that a woman who really loves you won't stress you or play silly games with you ...

So all these talk shouldn't even be news ...
There are two many women out there to allow one creature put your life on hold ...

Who life of the party help? ...
Does it pay bills?
Bring business deals?
If the answer is No, then you have your answer ...

First off...
I believe it is stupidity of the heighest magnitude to be giving another adult who demands for money like it's their right when they haven't offered you any service ...

Secondly...
You're giving her 5k out of 60k and not only is she complaining, she's also comparing you to other guys and you still haven't kicked her out of your life? Hmmmmm ...

I'm sure you still buy airtime for her & do sub for her once in while...

I believe you still take her out once once like that...

All this still from the 60k plus your expenditure inside...

Honestly OP, dump that girl... She doesn't love you and you certainly deserve better

Dump that girl for the following reasons...
1. She's ungrateful
2. She's entitled
3. She's selfish: if she wasn't, she wouldn't be putting you under this kinda pressure...
4. She's disrespectful and she's a destroyer: someone who has no qualms comparing you with other men to your face, is damn disrespectful if you ask me...

And her action is destroying your esteem and I hope you know that having a low self-esteem can impact your life all round negatively...

Now ask yourself, is this the kind of woman you want to have long-term in your life? ...

I don't think I've seen a more useless religion than this religion ...

This is no attack on any religion, but a religion that sees no qualms taking the life of a person all because the individual denounced that religion is nothing short of USELESS ...

I think there need to be a cleansing of such people/religion ...

Quite frankly, every woman forming "strong and independent" is useless ...

Every human being on the earth will come to a point where they'll have to be independent, IT'S NORMAL...

So coming online to shout "strong and independent" like a crazed goat is nothing short of stupidity!! ...

Abi are women still thinking of being a dependent even at 30? When your hands & legs are 100% functional? ...

Unless in cases of rape and loss of spouse etc, WOMEN ARE 100% RESPONSIBLE FOR THE RISE OF SINGLE MOTHERS ...

1. No matter how Hot a man is, if the woman says no, nothing is happening... So if women are getting pregnant and giving birth, it's because they are consenting to sex...

2. And if they were sleeping with responsible men that would even be acceptable, but they go about sleeping with ANY MAN that has small change to throw around, so pathetic!

3. Asides abstinence, there is only one thing that a man can do to prevent pregnancy from occuring and that's via the use of condoms...

Women on the other hand can abstain, use condoms, take pills, do an a.bor.tion etc, but nope, women refuse to take any of the above measures and when pregnancy occur they start claiming victims...

4. When a man wants a child and the woman doesn't, sheybi the woman will still go ahead and abort the child by claiming "it's my body so it's my choice"...

So now that the woman wants the child and the man doesn't, if she keeps the baby, it's her body and thus it's HER RESPONSIBILITY!!

5. Whether you agree with me or not is IRRELEVANT, all I know is that I WILL NEVER PAY HEED TO A SINGLE MOTHER & I WON'T ADVICE ANY MAN TO DO SAME ...

Let her deal with the consequences of her actions alone ...

First of...
MEN (for the most parr) DON'T NEED RELATIONSHIPS OR MARRIAGE, MEN JUST NEED SEX ...

It is women that NEEDS relationship/commitment...

That's why it is women who shouting the loudest amen when the pastor says "you will enter your marital home this year"...

It is women who give testimonies about getting married and rarely men ...

It is women who demand to be respected all because they have gotten married...

It is women who lord it over other women the fact that they are married...

It is women who suddenly become handicapped once they have a ring on, their right hand automatically stops functioning...

So if women stop getting married, women will regret it FAR MORE than men will...

Secondly...
Women want the richest man in the building (hypergamy), men want variety (polygamy), so if women can have what they want, why can't men too ... It's the season of equality right? ...

Thirdly...
The only kind of men that are monogamous are highly spiritual men: Pastors and principled people who have decided to stick to one woman...

But women WILL RARELY accept those kind of men because those men are "boring" and when the guys they go for break their hearts they start ranting like headless chicken just as the OP is doing now...

So blame yourself for accepting those men ...

OP...
All those questions you're asking up there, the "what ifs" are just speculations and we will NEVER know the answer for certainty unless it happens ...

Now...
That lady went to the school to write jamb...
There are laws governing every school, if she can't obey the laws, then let her go!!

This life is not that hard...

The problem here is not the school...
That's because every school has rules governing them and every school have a standard and a reputation to uphold...

So if you must use the facilities of ANY ESTABLISHMENT as a visitor, then you MUST ABIDE BY THE RULES OF THAT ESTABLISHMENT or you leave!!! shikineh!

The problem here is the lady, for refusing to abide by the rules of the school... So the lady should go and sort it out with jamb so that next time they will post her to a place where hijab is allowed...

It's your money OP and it's your choice to do whatever the hell you want ...

They didn't give you money for you to keep for them, so why pay attention to their foolishness? ...

And besides, those people calling you stingy are just trying to manipulate your emotions so they can take advantage of you, DON'T GIVE IN!!!! ...

I have nothing against single mothers...
I don't hate them...

But unless God Himself thunders from heaven, I'd rather be castrated than end up with them ...

And I can't advice anyone I know to go down that path ...

If you can't obey the rules governing a place, then don't bother going there ...

When will all these religious fanatics have sense ...

Shedrack777:
it's her first year, we all know he'll stop next year

Not every dad out there is like your father ...

advanceDNA why are you like this na? ...
Please calm down so that some people won't deactivate their account ...

@OP...
First of...
There is no 1 box that fits all on this matter...
Everyone will have different answer depending on their on experience and those answers will be correct from their stand point (for the most part)...

Secondly...
If you don't understand the answers of some people ASK FOR CLARITY, don't go about invalidating people's response due to your lack of understanding...

Thirdly...
I see you saying that some people up there have a low IQ...

Well, in all fairness you're the one with the low IQ here, the phrasing of your question is the first proof of that but I won't go into much details ...

Fourthly...
Tolerance (amongst others) is the bedrock of every relationship that will lead to marriage...

If there isn't a certain level of tolerance between couples that'll give room for some things to slide without making a fuss out of it, then it wouldn't even lead to "mar" talk more of "riage"...

Finally...
There is no long lasting happy relationship without friendship, so if you're not friends with your partner, that relationship will feel more like a prison...

if you believe otherwise, then you're a QUACK RELATIONSHIP COACH...

lifenajeje ...

You said "I know lots of women that don't fall within ur sampled population" ...

So in your mind now, it is "Ur experience with women that is up to 0.000000005% percent of what most men have encountered?" lol ...

@OP...
Even if this doesn't apply to all women, there's so much truth to this, but you forgot to add the following...

1. Women are largely delusional especially when it comes to the subject of their "ideal man"...

They think that a 6feet man with 6packs who earns 6figures can be found at every turn of the streets ...

2. Women generally have an over inflated and unrealistic view of their place in a man's life...

Imagine a girl telling her boyfriend "it's either me or Champions league" ... Madam shift fess jareh make them boys see better thing ...

3. Women for the most part can't accept criticism or anything that puts them in a bad light EVEN WHEN IT'S THE TRUTH! ... Once they don't agree with you, they'll attack you rather than attack your message...

The responses of the above females has already proven this point already ...

Hahahahah ...

Some time ago some females were here on Romanceland, calling Regina all sorts of names for marrying a man old enough to be her father...

And I remember that some monikers here said that "All those females castigating Regina are secretly wishing to be in her shoes"...

Those monikers were also blasted as usual, but how far now? ...

See the results ba? ...
We have many more like the OP, them go confess one by one ...

@OP...
When Nairaland males tell y'all females to have something going for yourselves, y'all will be ranting like headless chickens, thinking men are after your peanuts ...

That girl Regina had achieved a lot before Ned entered the picture... She had her life in perspective...

So if you think beauty & manners is ALL there is to attracting rich men, then you must be delusional ...

Go and find something doing with your life...
Focusing on realizing your purpose...
And you'll increase the chances of meeting the man of your dreams ...

Until then...
Keep seething in envy till your pass ...

Talk to us OP, who serve you breakfast ...

If I was given a choice to choose between that religion and hell fire, I will GLADLY choose hell fire ...

What a useless religion ...

A religion that has no iota of respect for human life...

A religion that urges it's followers to kill people who are not of the faith...

A religion that cannot be differentiated from terrorism...

A religion that encourages pedophiles and enslaves female children all in the name of "marriage" ...

Blimey, hell is a much better option to being affiliated with that kind of religion ...

N/B: I didn't mention any religion ...
Not because I'm scared, but because it's a social experiment...

And if you've read to this point then I'm certain that a certain religion comes to mind ...

If that's the case, then it is proof of the success of my experiment and the validity of my words ...

EriMma1:
Your own excuses and argument are lame. You didn't even see her to know it not AIDs.
At least, there are signs and symptoms associated with AIDs that has been taught overtime that people should look out for that you don't need to go to the lab sometimes before you can tell it's AIDs.

You're the one who is sounding VERY LAME and making ERRONEOUS ASSUMPTIONS ...

First of...
What are those "signs and symptoms" you observed that made you conclude that she has AIDS? ...

Secondly...
Are you aware that an array of signs and symptoms can surface in different illnesses?

That is to say different illnesses can have the same "signs and symptoms" and only a medical test can point out for certainty which is which ...

Thirdly...
How are you certain that her husband ACTUALLY died of AIDS, did you carry out his autopsy yourself or do you have access to his autopsy results or is that what you were told? ...

Fourthly...
How are you sure that he transmitted the disease to her, abi is that what she told you? ...

ONE THING I KNOW FOR CERTAIN IS THAT YOU WILL NOT BE ABLE YO ANSWER ANY OF THE ABOVE QUESTIONS ...

And the fact that you can make this kind of erroneous thread is proof of YOUR IGNORANCE ...

EriMma1:
But its common among the men. Even worse.

And who did the men get it from? ...

virginprincess:
Even the bible is against broke men going into marriage, so stop blaming girls.

It is also against the bible for women to be who.res ... Non virgin in scriptures were stoned to death ...
Abi did you not see that in your own bible? ...

Also in addition to Deu. 22:20 - 21, read Prov. 31 and see what a real woman looks like ...

Not to worry Sha...
You're still a youngling, you'll grow ...

I don't believe in 50:50 relationship, it's utterly useless ...

Every relationship that ever worked, worked because both partners gave their best, in other words a 100:100 relationship ...

All this halfhearted attitude towards seemingly "serious" relationship is what has led us to this point ...

Rokiat:
Small girls yes but not grown women who knows their worth and have high self esteem.

Only kids with emotional immaturity love jerks.

Women loves a self assured gentleman that will treat them like a lady.

First off...
Every "grown woman" was once a "small girl" ... And the major reason why most those "grown women" can act the way you described is not because they are "emotionally mature" or have a "high slef worth" ...

But it's because they have they've come to the realization that they can't compete with those younglings ...

And so they have to do what you described to keep a man (I'm not saying it's bad, all I'm saying is that their actions are stemmed from a place of (dare I say) desperation most of the time ...

Secondly...
What the OP said is factual! ...
Women (in general) treat nice guys like trash, it's in y'all's nature, it's something that is deep rooted and it will take very nasty experience to uproot it most of the time ...

Clout ...

pryme:
Lol, seems you are still young in this thing.
There are people that want PRECISLY that.
No strings attached sex.
There is a level you get to before you engage in such, Where do you think the term "Booty Call" came from?

I think you read my earlier write up again, but this time do it sl~owl~y ...

I've always said this before and I'll say it again..

It is FOOLISHNESS of the heighest order to invest in a girl that isn't your mother, sister or daughter, it's sheer STUPIDITY!!!! ...

These girls are NOT WORTH IT, AT ALLLLL ...
Guys learn to put yourselves first!!!!!
Atleast for the sake of your unborn children, PUT YOURSELF FIRST ...

Look at how people were bashing the first guy and calling him all sorta names...

If that doesn't proof that men like the first guy are seen as fools when things goes south, then I don't know what else proves that ...

And for that rich dude, if he knows that the girl he is thinking of marrying is a single mother and he still decides to continue with his plans, then please tell him that we'll be here in Romanceland to also read his story ...