₦airaland Forum

englishmart:
You are very stvpid. It takes a dumb person to get married without conducting fertility test. Dumbass finished man.

englishmart:
This is a suggestion that I think makes a lot of sense. Most women will definitely change once the flow stops. Most of them are not genuinely in love with you, they just want to get married and kill the man with financial burdens.

Try this and see the kind of woman you call wife

Joseph77200:
For goodness sake how do people take side without hearing from both sides? You never even find out if this was all true or not and you've started castigated the real father and what of if the real mother sold fake narrations to the daughter and denied the father access because of her own selfish reasons? See don't take side until you know what really happened from both side because life is more deep that hearing from one side and the mother might be lying.

Smartguyboy:
Normal black people will always condemn they cultural way of life as evil 👿 but will want to do white supremacy wedding as the way of life.

Without our African tradition we are all doomed.
Reason why I don’t have white wedding on my list .

olasaad:
So it is the women you have to blamed here. What happens to all those men rejecting kids/ pregnancy and telling the women to go for abortion You don't have any words for them.

My take, you should talk to your fellow men that no matter how small they should always reach out and contribute something to the child/ children life no matter how small because of one of this days.

Creamypie:
paranoid? How can a man tell his family its only his mum in law they will meet, not her dad and his people. At least, make it official to them too. When something comes up tomorrow, na she go still meet them for one info. Don't carry too much hurt in your heart. It unconsciously affects what we say, and how we behave

Creamypie:
Oga, try locate him, no matter their explanation. Irrespective of his short comings. Tell them your family must acknowledge him. You will understand later. You have to hear from both sides. Your family have full right to meet him and his people.u may be surprised that she deliberately kept her father away from their lives after she met her husband, and us am to pepper the man when shes grown up.na so one wedding we attended in ogwashi uku, delta state, the girl mama no want us to meet her dad people ( dad is dead from stroke, cos of her mum wahala) even the man people were scared when we eventually went to meet them. Her mum made sure she isolated and seperated her late husband from his family, after which she frustrated him to b.p, stroke and eventual death. women

MetaBroadband:
Good morning mature men and women in the house. Please I need your help on this topic.

My Fiancee told me about how her biological dad abandoned her and her mum after getting her mum pregnant.

Her mum later married another man who adopted her as his child.

Now she's grown and I've proposed to her, I wanted to go for her official introduction and list collection.

Would it not be nice to hear the biological father's opinion? Should I just ignore the fact that the man is still alive and proceed with the marriage arrangement?

Although she said I should not bother about that, but this is Nigeria and as an Akwa Ibomite I don't think it's proper. Although she's against me trying to find out about the man's opinion. Should I care?

What can you say about this?

Note: she only told me that the man abandoned them, but what if it was her mum that actually took her away?

SultanOfAbia:
I began to get close with a girl I'm dating for months. She started spending night in my house recently.
This is the 4th time I'm spending night with her and I keep noticing something strange about her
Due to the fact that I am a night crawler work late till around 2am

I noticed that the smallest sound wakes this girl up.
She can be in deep sleep snoring, if you just drop pen for ground. This girl will wake up.
She can be sleeping long hours if I move chair, just small sound. This girl will wake up
The sound of slippers moving is enough to make this girl wake up from deep sleep.

Any small sound this girl will wake up
I opened a can of malt, the sound woke this girl up. She will wake up look around and go back to sleep.

Is this a sign of trauma??
I feel like she doesn't sleep at all.. it's weird how alert she is during deep sleep.

I'm even thinking of dumping her
It's scary that she can easily wake up if pin drop for floor. Any small sound she will just wake up.

Is this normal?

clearcrystal:
Just arrest the head of the TUC and NLC, no time for nonsense.
We can't keep shifting the evil day, let's fate reality and move on.

NIGERIA IS BROKE.
BUHARI MESSED UP THE COUNTRY ALREADY.

BUHARI IS THE WORST THING THAT EVER HAPPENED TO NIGERIA, HE'S A COMPLETE DISASTER

Hisbah:
Subsidy must go.

Focusmind:
Yet, the stupid DPR people are going about shutting down other filling stations. Even the government own is selling above the normal price.

It is not about Tinubu o - let nobody bring Tinubu to this matter - all the three main candidates supported subsidy removal.

MechanicMike:
M.O.D FRONT PAGE PLEASE...URGENT!!!

I saw my friends wife in church on Sunday for the first time & I fell in love the moment he introduced me...the problem is she is lightskin & he shouldnt hav bring her to church. I love lightskin women. I can't stop dreaming about her all day. How do I tell her I love her without letting my friend no?

Please help

JagabanBorgu:
Ur sènsè is not needed here.
No matter how much u thiñk u can reason with that sh*t up there, u cañ't change what's already said and done.

geedot:
That's even better, those getting married immediately their gf got pregnant is mostly a recipe for financial handicap. If you want to have a baby, be financially ready please.

It's annoying seeing a married man asking for urgent 2ks, and married woman disturbing her exes for money too.

Shigishege2:
Nothing anyone can do about that subsidy removal. It's been removed, period. And all of us know the negative impacts this unnecessary spending costs us every year, and once we get a president with golden ball, so courageous to deal with issue point blank, we don't have any problems in Nigeria again.

GeneralPula:
Buhari already removed the subsidy bro..
The affect starts by June!

nedekid:
Oga, it is more likely, a lady from a divorced home will tend towards divorce than one not from a separated home.
That is why parents ask questions about the families of intended in laws.
All those things have an impact on a child, in this case a daughter.

JagabanBorgu:
Ur sènsè is not needed here.
No matter how much u thiñk u can reason with that sh*t up there, u cañ't change what's already said and done.

JagabanBorgu:
Did u hear the speech he made about the subsidy?
He said there is no provision for subsidy in the current budget.

Autobot05:
Yeah im young .... early early 20's
I believe that your pattern of approaching women matters a lot . Why ask a woman out for years or months like you dont have a job or sth ? So inbetween those 7 years no other lady caught your attention[ ?
Youre wrong @the bolded im very picky when it comes to women . a materialistic or flirty lady talkless of hookup girl is an automatic turnoff for me ...just that in the end a woman is a woman... they lie they manipulate

Gangster1ms:
Crazy how this was the same fuel subsidy Jonathan wanted to remove that sparked the OccupyNigeria protests…

Today it has been marked for removal by the same person that spearheaded that protest LOL

Autobot05:
Only one lady made me ask twice . And i ghosted her after a month due to her silly behaviours.
Na once i dey ask out and they all agreed at once.

This one im seeing 2,3 and 7 years here im shocked .