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Oladapo3971:
Just tell him that dad have failed you
Simple as APC.

That may break his heart,

Kingsley123456:
I met my first love when I was driving from ikole Ekiti to Osogbo osun State in early 2012, we started dating and we loved each other, she always sing it to my hear that she was lucky to have me, but after about 3years in the relationship which I had relaxed and believed that I have found the mother of my children, she came up with a story that, her pastor said we are not compatible and that we will regret if we dare marry each other, I didn't force or persuade her, she left in 2015.

I got into another relationship in 2016 March, this one was really ready to marry cuz she advised me to rent a 2bedroom apartment she even gave me money to get a set of chair and put in the living room for us to start living together... She came back home with the same story in 2017 Feb on her birthday that her pastor said, I'm not the man for her, she left without looking back.

To cut the story short, I did an admission for a girl in 2018, and we ended up dating, I gave her close marking until she had to travel back home cuz of the Corona outbreak, she called me from home and told me that her pastor said, she should not marry me cuz it may not augur well, I begged and persuaded for about one month but she insisted...

I still didn't see it as anything untill last night when the girl I've been dating after Corona break, we met at the teaching practice, we spend most of our time together she literally lived with me ...but she went to Abuja, her parents place last week Saturday, she's been giving me attitudes until last night when she came out bluntly with same story, that her Mom saw it in the dream that her current boyfriend is not the person she should marry, that cries await her if she dares to..

What is going on with me... I'm confused, this one is affecting me.

Well check yourself, if there was ever a time you disappointed any woman while dating her of which you promised to marry her and left her

There is no smoke with out fire

Mylordmygod1:
A beautiful afternoon to all nairalanders.

Firstly, my greatest fear when it comes to things of this world is 'women', That's why i don't want to break a womans heart in a way that i will be the one to recieve the blame.

I've been in a relationship with my girl for about 3years now, and each time my mum or friends ask me if i'm gonna marry her, my answer is always a capital letter NO.

Now, my mum is warning me to better let her go since i don't have the interest of marrying her. But the hard part is that i'v been promising this girl that i will marry her even when i'm 100% sure i won't marry her, and i don't no how to go about ending the friendship now.

Recently, i've been picking offences for minor isues, getting angry with her for no reasons, trying to give her signal, but none seems to be working, and its now like my anger is her source of happiness these days.

I really want to end the friendship now, but i want the blame to be on her side and not mine, how can i go about it?

ADVICE ME WELL

Thanks.

For the fact that you deceived her for three years and keep enjoying her and you went on to use your mouth to propose her and she carried you on mind

Now you have seen her finish and wants to leave her

How do you feel planning all these emotional pains on her

If you leave her, whatever you come across in life take it

holocron:
A woman sacrificing the upbringing and well being of her children for career is nothing but a Faustian bargain with the devil whereby you end up paying a price far more in excess of the value of what you bought.

What's the difference between you and the devil

tonak:
My ex wife will be speaking at a singles program with the title romance and finance. I wonder what she will be talking about. I probably should attend in disguise. I just want to know how she thinks now. Same woman that gave me hell for almost 10 years. Same woman that was never satisfied even though I gave her my all. Same woman that constantly compared me to other men. I just wonder. Though I'm remarried with a son . I really would love to know. Same woman who had no ish going about with other men even while married. She's now a committed sister in a church in this Lagos and a lead speaker in a conference . What will she be teaching the attendees. I should attend.

You need to attend and gain one or two things too

Freestainworld:
baby and mother are now safe and sound, she delivered via C's yesterday morning, thank you.

We glorify God for her favour in your family

Ajakaiye83:
Folks, pls I need your advice.
I have been diagnosed of low sperm motility.
Can I use ferilaid and manix?

Anyone who has used both drugs before pls help out.
Thanks
My motitioty is 20%

You don't self treat such without finding out what has caused it

Check your lifestyle, do you frequently mastubate

Do you wear boxers constantly especially to sleep

Do you take alcohol regularly

Do you just live your life without an exercise

Find out from doctor what drug to take then look into the things I mentioned

Freestainworld:
Please guys, I need your prayers my wife has been in labour since yesterday afternoon for safe delivery, it has not been easy as the labour is taking too long and she has lost a lot of strength.

God will see her through do t let her get weak to push when she needs the strength

Doctor may recommend a CS and pls don't hesitate to accept it

holocron:
I put it to you that this is a tissue of lies and fabrication. OP sounds like an ingrate. You are serving/working for your family and instead of appreciating the results of your good works, you are grumbling, complaining and whining. Your husband struggles to do his part in upkeeping the family, you do not appreciate his role but you complain of your own role. You purposely abandoned your family and children for a fake independence and shallow ambitions and now you are regretting. You lost your cherished family for phantom degrees, career and independence. What shall it profit a man to gain the whole world and then lose his soul?

What's your problem naw, where you there to witness all she said that you are bashing her

It's cheaper and more of value to be a career woman than a house wife

Most house wife, works more than career women yet they are not appreciated

Lanrelagboi:
As Odumboni receives award



https://unilagefiwe.com/lawma-reopens-olusosun-landfill-for-operations/

I keep wondering for how long will they continue forever like this

Mofun:
Hello fellow-Nairalanders!
Please is it correct to conclude that most women tend to value their children more than their own husbands (I don't mean 'baby daddies')?
If it's correct then what could be responsible?

By nature, women are already bonded with children by birth that nine months bonding is just enough to glue mum with children

Secondly, when some married men starts acting funny, like neglecting their wives, hurting them emotionally and at times putting them through depression

Such women find solace in their children and before you know it, attention has shifted

No matter the situation or circumstances on earth, no child wants to see his or her mum tears or sad mood

Before you know it, she will tell her children what she is passing through and that's how the children will love their mum more and it ends up affecting her husband

Once she gets the heart of her children, that's the end

tolakush92:
Good evening nlders I’ll be very brief and precise .This thing has been bothering my mind and I felt I should seek for reasonable and experienced opinions from senior men them on this forum .

The issue is .. is it a bad thing to cook in my Brothers house (although he has a wife and kids ) .His wife felt bad yesterday cus I cooked small okra and Eba cus I was hungry . The only food she likes me to cook in her kitchen is indomie . I feel if there Is love what’s there if I cook anything I want to eat in the kitchen .must I always take permission to cook

Pls I want to know if it’s right or wrong

Front page pls

Understanding matters in every thing we do

Your sister inlaw is not just comfortable having you around, not just about cooking

Probably she is not getting enough recognition and respect from you

Or your brother pays less attention and gives her less audience

Or she just want you to come around briefly and go, not staying long to cook

Well, respect her kitchen

Iseddy:
no need for that, is a nation wide issue affecting a lot of UBA customers, i strongly believe his account balance is intact

Is alright

justified007:
Good morning , I woke up this morning to another debit on my UBA bank account whereas my atm and everything is here with me. It's been the third or fourth debit I will be receiving in about a week and it happened always around 11pm -1am when I must have been sleeping.
I am seriously suspecting an old staff turned Yahoo boy but I don't have evidence and the narration always shows ikeja POS or something like that.


Please how do I get to know this culprit?

He may have snapped your ATM card front and back and colon it
Simply go to your bank, block the card and get another one
Is best for you to pay 1000 to get another ATM card than to lose the remaining money in your account

Lamanii22:
Hmmmm.... Okay sis, thank you very much...

Thanks dear

indadi:
Why are you so bitter,?
Is it because of your small breasts.
Of course as a man I have my interest in breasts and I love them big to avoid swallowing bones

Since you love them big, deep yourself in it

Preciousgirl:
What is Love Wantiti?

What is the meaning?

Kind I get it's English synonyms and sentences

Thanks a lot

It's a word to describe two lovers who are not shy to show their love for each other publicly

Cogs:
Hi guys, I need help with what to do.

I recently just met a lady, we seem to connect on a major level. I am interested in her and intend to take things to the next.

While the thing is still unfolding and we are learning about ourselves. She opened up to me that she has a child.

I am getting to love her, but how do you think I should approach this matter?


Can I continue

Which of the matter is an issue.?

Loving her or her child.?

Her child is not a barrier, just ask her to explain what brought about that child

From her response, you will pick what will guide you

cutecommend:
Do you know how deceptive some weddings are?

Possible scenarios that may happen:

(1) A girl sleeps with her ex few days to wedding, now pregnant with child, but is crying romantically on the altar with her new husband about the "beautiful" marriage union.

(2) A guy sleeping around with several girls, even his fiance's bridesmaids, only to kneel down before her on the wedding altar, "crying with 419 tears of joy", while his fiance does not know that half of the bridesmaid have slept with him a month to wedding.

(3) A lady confidently saying I do with a romantic smile, but in her heart, she only came for wealth, and has zero love for the husband.

(4) A guy that is a gay, but just wants to marry a well-trained lady so that he can cover-up his identity...

Every action has its own reward

indadi:
Accept it or not I have said my piece.

Simply because you have a stunt growth and a small dick, doesn't mean that you should condemn girls with small breast
What's your interest in breast?

Didn't you suck enough in childhood

chinchonglee:
Madam go and rest its already 8, office has resumed.
I have plenty of work on my desk

Is alright

Kajaard:
Lol

That's good

chinchonglee:
Am that Jobless?

It's not even a job it's your hubby that am trying to help you out with

Since you have confirmed that ladies pants smells and the society supports women

Carry out a research on the two observations and find out why it is so

vickydevoka:
Reduces urge for both gender.

Yes but more on women
Men are ever ready, even under the highest tension of his life

Kajaard:
Nope. Once such a girl pulls her pant the atmosphere of the room automatically changes. Everyone will need to put on a GAS MASK then to having suffocating from the pungent fishy odour.

That means you are a regular visitor to ladies pants because you are talking from experience

chinchonglee:
He didn't kept her in chains.
If the girl is tired of staying, she can leave.

If lack of wants can make a woman a slave then she shuld go and hustle.

You women always try hard to change all circumstances against man even when you are at fault because you know clearly the society would support you.
Stop blackmailing op emotionally, he didn't do anything wrong. The girl can leave the house.

Don't also be surprised the girl is already f*cking another guy in her place of work.

Base of your comments, have you ever wondered why the society supports women

That's an assignment for you, make your research

jornwhite:
really ! Can anyone(man) understand a gender driven by emotion, i think the only thing a man can successfully understand is a woman's body relative to sex mode.

That's a good start at least

SmartPlug:
Ilara border side Ogun

Chai

Pimine:
Aswearugaaad

Are you pained that he's exposing your gender?

Funny enough real niccas already know that. He's just educating the ignorant ones so that when their babe pussy wey nor dey smell before start dey smell, make them know say something is fishy PUN INTENDED.

Is because you guys have been having cunnilingus that's how you know that it taste like smelly fish

chinchonglee:
Are you thinking at all?
She is not married to him, yet she brought herself to his house.
Madam apportion your blames to the girl instead

You too are are reasoning at all, he kept someone daughter in his house, as what ?
Who invited her and what for if not sex ?
Probably the girl parents are poor and needs food and she gets free food in his house, what do you expect her to do

Don't you know that lack of wants can make a woman a slave because she is helpless

If the girl have responsibile parents, would she be out of the home that long

jornwhite:
you can't downplay sex and becos he demanded for sex in a r/ship already blessed with pre marital sex ... he is only after sex
On another thread, you keep a woman in the house if you don't touch her, she goes "he does not love me", " he does not find me attractive anymore" e.t.c. its pointless asking what do women what
I don't believe any woman is tew tired for sex, when a woman mistakenly find a beta source of sex, she find it difficult to give sex to the existing man, hence excuse upon excuse.

Understand your woman and her sex mode, it really helps
Women love sex but they are not randy like men

seyz91:
not only women, its everybody

lagos stress and all sef no go let you reason konji at all

Exactly my point