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Omobabaemili:
My girlfriend gained admission into a university through direct entry.. The problem now is I'm scared of losing her

Is a simple thing, join her in partime

Go to her family and marry her

Get her pregnant

Do you need more options ?

How can you be scared of loosing what doesn't belong to you.?

OppyM:
I had to create a new account to seek you guys opinion. I’m a lady in my mid 20s I have been dating my fiancé for a while and it has been great. I see a future with him and I’m thankful I met him.

The issue is I’m a warrior(SS) carrier , that’s what we call ourselves. I look absolutely normal unless I tell you, I doubt if you would notice this. I live normal like every other person, my looks is fine I’m even chubby a bit although I fall sick easily which is normal if you a carrier
Lala please can you help push to front page

My boyfriend genotype is AA which makes us compatible. The issue is we are planing to get married very soon (next year December) but I’m not comfortable the way this man treats me. He doesn’t allow me do anything anytime I visit, even my own meals and laundry is forbidden it makes me look so lazy.

Back at home I do chores as a normal being. I cook for the family wash my own clothes clean the house and all. I do normal Chores although they don’t let me overwork myself but I still work.

The issue now is my boyfriend is against me getting a job saying he is scared because of my health. I told him if I can make it through strenuous uni days why can’t I work. I know when he is serious and he is very skeptical about this. I told him if he doesn’t want me to work he can get a shop at least I won’t do much and he said he is fine with that.

The issue now is the money he budgeted for our wedding next December is what he plans to open a shop for me thereby further shifting the marriage plans to December 2023. I told him instead of doing that why don’t he let me take a job and we should continue with the wedding and all instead of wasting money he doesn’t have

NB: I have an offer waiting for me for a paramilitary job and his fear is that I’m not strong enough. He is even ready to sell his car to set me up. He is a good man but I want him to understand I can take care of myself . Why set me up for a business when I can easily work on my own

This is how God butters someone bread and she will lose it.

People that are SS hardly get someone that falls in love with and here you are, someone loves you till death and doesn't want you to stress yourself and you are forming that you can't be idle, you want to work

Who told you that SS are employed into paramilitarys ?

Have you forgotten that you will be subject to medical fitness test

Pls stop delaying the man, plan fast in the wedding, get settled and get a shop

Marriage its self is stressful with or without kids

This is how you will be playing smart until he changes his mind and settle with another woman without a health challenge

Spark2:
Hello NL.
I'm going to keep this brief.

It started three weeks ago. my mum, who was walking normal with no problem suddenly could not walk. Her left leg began paining her severely that day. My mum was all in tears... She was rushed to the hospital where it was discovered that her sugar level was on the high side. The hospital gave drugs which stabilised it, at that point my mum was very weak, couldn't eat, each time she eat she throws up and also had some pain in the leg still. After a week in the hospital, we were then referred to a teaching hospital after a test showed that creatinine in her kidney was high.

The teaching hospital tried their best and I can say my mum is now okay. Except for the left leg. She can't still walk on it, the leg feels cold to touch with a little discolouration above the foot.

Doppler test showed that blood isn't really flowing through the leg. And they said they will need to amputate the leg to prevent the infection from growing to the other parts of the body.

Please I want to know if you know anyone who had similar condition and amputation was recommended but was later healed without need for amputation.

Please share your recommendations. I need my mum now more than before in my life. We are confused on whether to allow them to go on with the amputation or seek other alternatives.

Thank you very much.

Pls note that as at now, her sugar level, creatinine and other things are normal.

Sorry about the situation, quite painful

Why not take her to orthopedic hospital if you think the doctors you are using is not giving you the solution

For the leg to be cold, it's possible that there are no blood flow there and probably dead but still there

You guys all have to take one decision and make sure that's the best decision to save your mum's life

Greenbottlelady:
We are a baby who just clocked 1 few weeks ago.

Ohh dear, that's no problem, let people say whatever they want to say

But it's possible nothing will happen as your body system is yet to return to normal

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todaynewsreview:
It was a big surprise coming across this in a construction site today.

With all these warnings in the image below, why do people still smoke especially newbies?

They want to experience it and put their families in pains

ahnie:
Love is overrated.Dust yourself up and move on.

She is still an apprentice in the Job

Men breaks their wives heart talk less of a girlfriend

Greenbottlelady:
Guys, my husband condom just burst and the content emptied inside, please I need a confirmed preventive measure cos we're not ready.

My stomach is feeling somehow already, please help a sister, we are not ready! Not in this current economy!

Why are you reacting this way as if you had sex with a stranger

If you are not ready, you would have closed your leg, but the person involve is your own husband

If every one is considering the economy, no dick will rise

Kevv420:
I live with my girlfriend she has been staying with me for a year and 8 months now , sex was perfect 3 to 4 times a week . But ever since she started working sex has  become a problem , she will make excuses that she is tired that her back is hurting or headaches. For 3 weeks no sex she doesn't care at all and we are living like roommate and yesterday was worse I was in the mood for it and she bluntly refused so I had to forced her I ripped her pant but she didn't give up she scratches me on my face i slapped her so hard out of anger I didn't mean to and I left the house for afewhours. I apologise for forcing her and I told her I am not going to leave with her anymore if she will not give me sex . I asked her to leave so my next babe can move in she said she is leaving in 2 weeks.  Note I don't have any other babe except from her and I have never cheated on her before. I love her a lot she is my life but I just don't like her new attitude. What do you think I should do for her to be happy with me and give me sex without a fight because I don't want what had happened yesterday to ever happen again in the future.

Imagine ❗
So you just kept her in your house for sex purposes

Why not marry her and then settle down with her

Is it new to you that, work with Lagos traffic and stress have reduce the sex urge in women

I can see that sex is the only thing that is bordering you, it doesn't really end in sex.
Think straight

c0de007:
Hi,

Thank you for making out time to view my thread. I'm hoping I can get an advice from you.

I'm a 26 Years. I work in a company that pays me 85K NGN monthly.

The salary isn't paying my bills in any way, the company isn't productive, I feel stuck and limited each time I go to work. Also, the environment is toxic with gossips, cold wars, etc.

I've been applying for jobs elsewhere but I keep getting rejected. I've adjusted my CV several times but still the same.

I'm considering resigning even though I don't have another job offer yet but I fear my debts. I have some side hustles I use to support my monthly earnings but I fear it may not be enough to pay my debts monthly and fend for myself, siblings, and family generally.

The whole thing is making me lack motivation but I still try to be up for my family.

I want to travel out of the country and search for better opportunities but my resources are limited at the moment.

I have some skillsets, I'm considering venturing into entrepreneurship but I don't have the required capital to get started

I don't know what to do.

Kindly advise me on what to do. I'd appreciate it.

Your reasons for leaving your present job is better than staying idle at home

Avoid the gossip part and don't pertake in the gossip

As for low productivity, your are not the one paying yourself, gradually it will pick up

This man is one of the sensesless husband we have in this Morden age

How could your wife be supporting you with her sweat and you can't explain how you spend the money

Of course, he spent it on a woman

Let him face it

Boss29:
My heavy pregnant wife went for a scan on Saturday and the scan review that my wife suppose to be put on bed today(November 2) buh till now, I haven't seen any outcome ..
Please. Is there anything to be worried of

Pls calm down, it's a normal thing

With the date given by Doctor to you, its either two weeks before that date or two weeks after that date

Am very sure that Doctor told you that

Heartofluv54:
Pls I need help. I want to get married to a lady who have sacrifice so much for me to be a better person that I am now.
My wedding is first week of December, I have been fully committed into the whole process.
The source I wanted to take loan just disappointed me at the last minute.

My eldest brother who was also supposed to pay back some money I lend him, disappointed me. Non of them is supporting me financially and to refund my own money is a problem.

I have been a great uncle to their children, pay some school fees and offer help severally, but now that I need their help and support, everyone is busy fixing theirs.

Canceling this marriage at this moment, means great lost to me. We both have put in much efforts.

It will hurt her and her family so much. Especially after all these preparations and Invitations.

I have a job that pays me 80k in a month, I am not lazy. My cards are already out, our traditional clothes are with the tarlor already, all the necessary preparations have been made.

I need a loan of #400,000. I will pay back in 8 months time, i would love to spread it, to pay 50k monthly with the interest. Please, help me.

We have low budget traditional wedding, so think of how to reduce your cost by discussing with your inlaw to be

If you borrow to do traditional wedding, that means you will borrow to raise your family

Go back to the drawing board and reduce some unwanted expenses

If she refuses, let her foot the bill by herself

Just dress up and come for your own occasion

We must learn how to do just what we can and not what we can't

siofra:
This isn't always true though. My twin brother matured before me. He looks older than I do.

Waoo

Foodqueen:
They grow up so quickly.

That's women for you

If you have a twin that is boy and girl

You will see the speed of growth in the girl more than in the boy

They mature quicker than boy's

Bigpapi:
Broda because of your stupidity I must insult you, I swear na thunder go fire u because of hoelosho u loose guard

Don't blame him, he has a good plan but the woman has another plan that she has finally hatched

tunjilee003:
Most of my friends who are not schooling are into fraud, while chatting with them, they will always tell me i'm wasting my time and resources.... This always make me depressed.... I'm tired and don't know what to do....

And you still refer to them as friends

These are people that have no future plans
These are people that have taken the short cut of life struggle by going into fraud

These are the set of people without future ambition

OK let me ask you,
Why are you still keeping them as friends, is it for their money or to avoid you being lonely

Pls pack them one corner

At op, let sex not be the main reason of dating her

Teach her how to make the move for sex, by so doing, she will be on steady

She can run away for sex forever unless she doesn't want to procreate

Do 85% of romance steady on her, she will be the one to initiate sex

There are lots of romantic things you can do with her

Abfinest007:
Must you have sex with her

This it s exactly my question

Youngpo413:
She should get excess money instead...it's better than a boyfriend,money is everything.

Your mind set about love and marriage is simply wrong

Can money play the role of a partner keeping you warm ?

Anyway, they are two different things, playing different roles in one's life

Money is not every thing, get this right, unless you are extremely poor

BegAt40:
My dad is a highly respected well-to-do man but his problem was his wife; I wonder how they married!
She used to beat him in our presence and she'd lay curses on us if we ever plead that she stops. At times, she'd shout from night till dawn, making sure that no one sleeps and she'd try her best to call the neighbors' attention to tarnish his reputation. Not like he's weak, he just tried not to make things escalate and be a bigger issue. Now I'm grown up, I hate women die and she's begging me to get married.
Meanwhile, I just want to stay out here treating Nigerian girls in the language they understand.

Cc: lalasticlala

If you transfer the hatred your mum created on women, you will be the one to suffer it more

You should be thinking of how to stay far away from your mum and plan how to get a woman that will show you what real love is

As for your Dad, he is a weakly and is its too late for him to brace up

As for your mum, she will likely to be lonely at her old age because, karma may visit her, if actually what she did was wrong

FutureIsFemale:
Please I really need a guy that is good at trolling.
There is a Nairalander I want to be trolled until he deactivate.

He has been a pain on my neck.

I will pay if you want me to.

His moniker is lexy2014.

I have called the mods on him but it seems the mods of this forum are lazy about their jobs.

Haven't you learnt how to ignore idiots

He is a pain in your neck on nairaland, what happens if it was real life

Promzy99:
Last nite, I over-heard a heated arguement between a Father and his two female children. They are my neighbours, with just Fence seperating us. The father was insisting on the children leaving the house except if the children will contribute to paying the house rent and assist in providing food too. The first daughter, to the best of my knowledge is an SSCE Holder. She teachs in a primary school and in d evening, she would go to where she is learning fashion nd designing. My problem is, why would a parent be dependant on d children for survival instead of the other way round? Am somehow indirectly suffering the same fate too and so are many youths too. Is it not the parents who are supposed to set us up, untill we are able to stand on our own? How did we get here please?

Some parents have no plans for their children, they just birth them and leave them to find their bearing as they grow old

At the end, the children suffers but later made it and abandoned their parents who suffer more of their stupidity at old age

chikabmm:
What kind of action (legal and otherwise) can I take against my step mother who laid curses on me? The worst part is my that my father is not doing anything about it. Obviously he is on her side. I need good advise before I do something bad to that lady.

For the records, I didn’t do anything to this woman. We do not live together and my father hasn’t done anything for me since I was a child.

Mods please help me move to the right section and front page if possible. Thanks.

What kind of curse is that

How come you did nothing and she cursed you

What were you dragging or arguing with her

You father never had a firm grip on her, hence he can't do anything to her

Report the matter to your father family, including kins men, if you know that your hands are clean

onumadu:
Meanwhile, has the airport been approved for flights by the NCAA?
That is THE question.

For the fact that they met all the requirements, it will and must be approved, just that the crisis in the state because of the incoming elections has created so many set backs

Once that airport starts operating both local and international, the following airports will be affected, Enugu airports, those abroad will rather board a flight to Anambra directly rather than going to Abuja or Lagos from over seas

Havesomesense:
When your man discover you cheated, most times the relationship is over, unlike women.

Who is even 100% sure of any relationship ?

Does that their relationships ended, where they caught in it

No relationship is trusted, every one is just packaging

Pennywise:
When you deliberately tell lies and encourage others to perpetuate falsehood, before God and man what makes you better than a philandering husband? Are you both not committing sin?

If telling lies is a sin

For a fulfledged family man a D father to chase women in the presence of his daughter and to the notice of his wife is not a sin

What is it called?

When you get married and have children, you will understand the narrative

That's how you men go about hurting women and at the old age, they suffer it most

Chevrolet076:
Seriously?? But that should result to just one fold increase, the price has increased by more than 300% in just few months...


Lalasticlala, please help move to FP

Some greedy Nigerians must make good use of bad economic situations to create artificial scarcity and make their fortunes

Just because no one check mates all these people

Pennywise:
This is wickedness

Why not emulate him

Pennywise:
This is wickedness

Because he should have been allowed to trade his family for a piece of pussy
At the detriment of his entire family

Pennywise:
This is wickedness

You mean the pain and emotional trauma the man is putting in, wife and the entire family is good, then you will experience same in your own family

Pennywise:
This is wickedness

Explain what you mean by that and what makes it wickedness

The major cause of the increase in price was that, government exempted those that deals on cooking gas from tax for two years, now the two years has passed and they have started paying taxes, so the burnt is on we the consumers

It will keep going high until government interven