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Icon79:
Don’t mind him, he has found a sex doll


O pari

As in ehhh, he is not focused

SmartPlug:
I sell foreign rice in large quantities
I'm given it out at a give away price
Only serious buyers
Preferably Lagos,Ogun
DM let's do business
Xmas is near

Where is your location pls
I prefer the thiny one's

ProphetJeroboam:
I need information guys. I’m so pissed and annoyed and I haven’t been myself since yesterday.

I bought a German shepherd puppy less than a year ago and I spent money on her a lot, i mean a lot. Routine vet visits, expensive canned food, noodles and dry food, up to date on all vaccinations, I even hired a personal dog groomer to make her look really beautiful and attractive all the time.

If I calculate the amount I’ve spent on this dog, you’ll think I spent it on a girl I’m planning on marrying. Her parents are good looking German shepherds, in fact the dad is actually an imported GSD from the UK. The dad is agile, ferocious and will rip any stranger apart but my pup has always been too docile and can only bark when she’s inside a cage. That’s discussion for another day.

I never bought her with the intention of breeding her for puppies to sell, I bought her because I needed a pet and I swore never to mate her with any dog. Sadly I traveled out for schooling and I left her with a friend who I regularly send money to for her upkeep.

I noticed that my friend had the intentions of mating her for puppies because he really needed money and since I won’t be in Nigeria anytime soon, I reluctantly agreed on the conditions that he select a pedigree GSD stud for her. She came on heat 2 days ago and I discussed with my friend and gave him contacts of a guy with a good GSD stud. Yesterday night I was studying when he sent me pictures of her being mated by a Bingo!!!! A fvcking ekuke! A stupid 404 whose destiny and life purpose is to end up in the pot of a calabar man with pot belly. She had even achieved the lock position with the stupid ekuke. I was angry and I knew that if I was there, God knows I would have murdered that ekuke with my bare hands. How that ekuke entered the high fenced compound is a mystery to me.

How my friend could be so negligent to allow this to happen. The thing with male ekuke is that they don’t mate once and he was with her all night. Now I am thinking of telling my friend to take her for an abortion if she gets pregnant. No dog of mine is giving birth to pups fathered by an ekuke.

Honestly you get time, carry on

Rydermaverick:
Leave those weirdos to be commenting insensibly..I don't know why Nigerians have a low sense of humour..the guy is happy and he proposed to his woman some ignorant people are insulting him calling him simp..how does that even make him a simp..
They would never mind their own business rather pocknose into another man's affair..
Some nairalanders just old for age dey no dey mentally mature...
Thanks for pointing out .. enjoy

True talk, thanks dear

slawormiir:
Damnnn niggar

Who come get this pregnancy now

Looks like a bastard child of a thousand father

Funny enough maybe nor be boma or her husband get am self

Maybe na another niggar way we nor even know

And moreover nor be this same girl them say her kpekus dey smell like fish.....which means nor be only boma and her husband dey doke her....because once a baby girl kpekus dey get odour then just know say more than six guys dey doke her without condom

What exactly is your problem, you are just not a matured man

chatinent:
..to propose to his mother or did I miss a thing?

So far he is proposing to a female and not to a gay like you

Rydermaverick:
He is a troll..

Is alright

yommyk222:
She will not agree to getting pregnant before marriage because of her christian background.

Is alright, maybe you guys will be in friendship mode, but so far you are sleeping with her just do the needful

Ochason:
I will just go straight to the point because I don’t know how to write long stories. I am 33 years old, I work in a multinational company. I was in a relationship with a coworker three years ago and we were truly both in love. I thought we were going to get married really.
However, after two years of dating, this guy dumped me because he messed up with another lady at work, someone higher than both of us, a manager. He felt he had better chances with the woman cos the woman was giving him money and her car to use most times.
I felt really betrayed and ashamed cos people at work knew about us and were feeling sorry for me. However, I tried to put all of that in the past. In less than a year, he and this lady got married. Not up to a year, they were having issues. They were always fighting and it became an issue of separation which they did. Now, this guy is separated and moved out of their home. He is now trying to get back to me. I do not know if his intentions are genuine or he is trying to make his soon to be ex wife jealous. He comes to tell me how he feels the woman used jazz on him cos he cannot see what he found in her now that they are married.
He complains that the s*x is bad, she has bad attitude and she is lazy. When this guy started coming back for me early this year, I of course pushed him away. I was not going to be his second choice. He then got transferred to our Abeokuta branch in March. It was around that time he filed for divorce. That was when I heard from someone that the marriage was doomed from day one cos the man was always comparing me to his wife. The wife feels the husband is still in love with me cos nothing she does can match what I was to the man. They are divorced now. The marriage did not last up to a year.
Few days ago, I got a very long message from the man. He was basically begging me to forget his crimes against me and that I should consider him once more . He said he will move on if I do not respond to him after this last time. I am torn and do not know what to do.
There is somewhere in my heart that still has feelings for him..do you think I should give him a chance? Will the ex wife not think I had something to do with her marriage breaking up. Will it also make me look desperate …like I am going back to my vomit? What should I do?

It's not as if you are going back to your vomit, he is the one that bleeped up not you

He wanted a rich woman but he never knew that it comes with a price

You may forgive him only if you still have feelings for him

Men has been offending women since human creation, but the good thing is that, he has tested the two relationships and he understands the difference clearly

Just make sure you have seen the divorce papers

Special32:
Am a 24 years medical student in my fourth year of the university I meet her when we where in our second year I never knew she was even in our class until our second year at first we where only saying hello to each other than some school stuff brought us together in our third year ever since we became close as friends and now I am realizing that I really like her and I want more than just being normal friends with her.
I feel it wouldn't be right because we are in the same department same level in school I keep on trying to let the feeling go but everyday I keep on seeing her and my feelings for her keep on increasing.
I really need advice on what to do I don't know what to do about the emotions I feel towards her

Are you not bold enough to approach her

yommyk222:
I don't know how to resolve this, I m planning to get married soon but the problem here is that things are very complicated at this point.

Firstly it was one of my fiance brother who was pastor that keep saying i can't marry her until I get personal confirmation (in form of dream) from God. Mind you I have pray about it from 3 different men of God and they confirmed this lady is my bone. Later he said I m a yahoo boy because I said I work online after we sort out that one it was my fiance aunty which is the person in charge to give us the wedding bride list (Because her father is late). She refused to release the list to me, she insisted na until we do introduction first. But we having been receiving different messages to keep this wedding ceremony low (We should not expose ourselves) as possible as we can which is why we decided to run both introduce, court wedding and traditional wedding under 1 weeks but the woman insist we must do introduction first, that the wedding date will be picked on the introduction day.

Now the main problem now is that my mum family don't want to agree to do things codedly because they are trying to drawn my father family (My daddy is late) side in which I was avoiding right from time. Going to village to inform my dad family about my wedding mean I m exposing myself to some battle and that is why I left village right from time (The last time I went home was 2015)

Now I was thinking since my mum family are not ready to understand my worry and fear, is there any way we can do only the court wedding without introduction ceremony and traditional wedding.

Like if there is a way to collect the wedding list then get the necessary items on the list then go to court to do our thing. Because I don't think I can risk it.

Which kind wahala be this ?

Since her family knows you and your mum have accepted her

Both of you should just start living and making babies

These are my reasons

Your father family is an issue because you are running away from them

The girl's family are putting you on a ride, simply because her dad is no more

Your mum doesn't want to reason with you

As soon as she is pregnant, so far the both of you have agreed, every tension will come down

Then they will accept whichever way you desire it to be
As a matter of fact, the cost will reduce then

Dude397:
Good evening everyone. To cut the long story short my mental health issues started in 2012 when I tried weed in the university. It's not genetic. I've been in and out of psychiatric hospitals a good number of times. However I'm currently on medication and I've been able to manage the condition. I was also able to graduate and I've also done my nysc and my family is planning on opening a small business for me since job has not been forthcoming.

However my health condition has been kept secret by me and family and I'm currently dating a nice girl. Please should I tell her my secret. What caused most of my episodes was refusal to take my medication and all that but right now I'm very okay and for some few years now I've been going about my daily affairs without any issue. If I let the cat out of the bag I don't think she may stay cos the stigma of mental health issues is not a joke. Please I need your advice on how to handle this delicate issue. Thanks

Well, I think you need to tell her that, you once took drugs and it affected you, you have to go to hospital and got cured and since then you have been on medication to avoid a relapse

In this narrative, you have not mentioned that you have mental issues, so which ever way she understood it, let it be so

The essence of telling her this is because, incase it comes up at anytime, she will not be surprise, she will be there for you

After all, it's not hereditary. So if she loves you, she will not leave you

But you have a sacrifice to make, you have to love her deeply to the extent that she will find it difficult to love another man

Newsmic:
A police officer has stabbed his colleague, Sergeant Yerin Sapele, to death in Yenagoa, the Bayelsa state capital, IgbereTV reports.

IgbereTV gathered that the two officers who are friends had engaged in a heated quarrel prior to the sad incident which occurred on Thursday, 4th November 2021.

According to a source, the duo were at a marriage reception when an argument ensued between them over an undisclosed issue.

"We tried to separate them during the argument, to prevent them from fighting, but they refused. I and my friends took the deceased in our car to his house just to stop them from fighting. We were called less than 30 minutes after dropping him off that he has been stabbed to death," a source said.

The deceased was immediately rushed to the hospital where he was confirmed dead on arrival. His body has since been deposited at a morgue in Yenagoa.

A media aide to the Bayelsa State Governor, Bodmas Kemepadei who confirmed the incident on Facebook, said both had a minor misunderstanding.

He wrote;


https://m.facebook.com/story.php?story_fbid=1687441201453009&id=100005614362365

https://igberetvnews.com/1405399/police-officer-stabs-colleague-death-bayelsa-photos/

Because of anger issues, the wives are now widow and widow to be

We must learn to manage our anger for the sake of our family's

Raydos:
This morning while preparing for church, I almost got stung by this deadly Scorpion

We just moved to a new site and have been having problems with dangerous animals all months!

Pls get a snipper and keep for those reptiles they are common in new sites

Check your parents and siblings if anyone of them have similar finger nails like yours

kowasco:
Please nairalanders
I removed my teeth today and I was told to use warm water and salt on it
But I forgot to ask if I can use it on my teeth today
I want to start tomorrow but I'm really feeling pains right now
I was given some drugs though I have used it
I will have to use it again in the night
But this pains is too much

Use warm water and salt steady, especially when you eat, use it and wash your mouth then spit it out

Do so for at least one week or two

Nonli1:
It's not about food cos even before now we eat good food and I'm feeding her well. She just took drip for malaria and this started. Not pregnancy cos we've checked that and she's not pregnant. I'll try going to the lab. Thanks

What is she doing living with you

As a wife, meaning her family have her to you after doing the needful

As a girl friend without accommodation and you took her in and use her at will

Or as a stand by sex tool

Well make she no die for your hand, because that's when you will know that their is tradition in her family

Jaypreye:
I have a condition which makes it difficult to walk for 10years now.i have been to many hospitals, herbal. The doctors said it has to do with my veins and the blood moving through it. I do not know what to do! I feel like a burden to myself and those around. Please help me i am tired of living like this! I need a solution because we have spent so much on treatment. I need a solution!

Why not go to Orthopedic Hospital in Lagos at Igbobi, they are supper when it comes to bones and movements

Endsars007:
Though I respect the person that introduced her to me but don't like the country where she studied, I intentionally left that part so you won't have bad impression about her because of the honest advice I want from you guys.

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My dear, just follow your heart, because you are the one that understands the feelings

When a woman is ready for marriage a man will know through her attitude

2special:
wrong advice, absolute wrong counsel, if the O.P treasure his peace and sanity kindly ignore this advice

You are not the Op
Who do you think wants to be suffering or labouring alone

Endsars007:
There is this lady I met about two months ago, she doesn't live in the state I resides but her grandma is from my town. She was introduced to me by her aunt. I am very close with the aunt but more closer with the aunt's mother. We got along very fast through WhatsApp call because there is no dull moment between us.

I have gone to visit her in her aunt's place and she has come to see me and stayed for some days where I live. She was accepted by everybody close to me, in fact she was given money by everyone of them.

I'm a professional, age 32, within two years I started on my own, I have my own car, and a house but remaining finishing touches. A lot of people have been disturbing me to settle down, which I seriously want to settle but things are not just working out.

Being boss of my own I decided to travel two weeks ago to see my lady with the hope of knowing her better, we agreed to stay in my friend's house. She studied abroad and she's currently doing her IT. She normally stays with her friend from Monday till Wednesday or Thursday depending on her schedule and she will go back to her aunt. When I told her I will be coming over to spend two weeks with her, she was very happy, and also worried because I will be leaving my work.

We both agreed that the first week, her aunt won't know, and the second week, we shall inform her aunt about my presence because I will be attending a wedding of my friend in that state and she will follow me.

We both enjoyed each other presence, but one thing I have observed about her even before I left my town, there might be sometime like 2 hours, she could be incommunicado, if I asked her, she will give one excuse or the other.

When we started our relationship, I had asked her whether she's in any relationship, she said no but some guys are disturbing her which she has said she cannot date them.

I observed something about her while we were together, she normally delete all her chats with people, she deleted all the pictures we snapped together, we both saved our numbers with lovely names, she will change mine anytime she leaves my presence, I noticed that about three times before confronting her. She apologized and I told her to use my name if she's not comfortable with it again but will also change her number to her name since she's the person that suggested we save each other's name with lovely names. She said she will use the lovely name.

Just last week, we were together, when a number called her different from the people she has been saying have been disturbing her, that number has called her once while she was beside me, she didn't pick the number then. Immediately I saw the name, I told her to pick the phone and put it on speaker, she picked and told the person she will call back later. Immediately, I showed facial anger, immediately she said should we end the relationship and I said if she likes. She left my friend's place. Note she normally pick people's calls and put it on speaker particularly those who are disturbing her.

That very night, she sent voice note thanking me for everything I have done for her including money.

The following day I went to her work place, she attended to me very well and told me to go to my friend's place, that she will come over to see me there by 5pm. I waited but didn't see her.

I narrated the incident to some of my friends, they advice I see her the following day before leaving for the wedding, I got to her work place, I was told she's not on duty. I made effort to located where she stays because I have not gone there before. I was lucky to get there but was told by her friend that she left the house than usual. Her friend called because she wasn't picking my calls. She lambasted me on phone. Later that night I called the friend who told me she didn't come home that night.

I was forced to inform the aunt about the misunderstanding who doesn't want to inter fare in the matter.

I later begged her, she said it's over between us that she cannot live with someone that have bad attitude or anger issues.

My question have I really shown any bad attitude or anger issue?

These ladies or women that school's abroad loves their freedom and the men over there, don't check them the way our men does here

If you are interested in her because she was introduced to you by someone you love and respect and because she lives and study abroad, go on and endure whatever that comes out

But if you really know that, the word love is the real reason for dating her, you must be ready to tolerate her attitude, because she no send you

Ezendimmuo:
Good day guys...
I am done with school ..
I wanna go to Lagos next week make some money before service in February...
But the issue is that my girlfriend is really unhappy...
She says if I leave...we might not see each other for more than a year...
But I need money more than federal government right now...
What do I do!??

Take her along, that's what love does, making you unimaginable things

ZooCountry45:
I recently meet a young lady, though she is a single mother. Because of what happened, She stays with her family.
We got to know and I noticed she is a nice woman and am in love with her. I told her how I felt about her. (It's pure love). I then asked her out and she agreed.

Note :She takes care of the child with the help of her family. She doesn't demand from me.

Fast forward to some days, I asked her about her child's father. She told me the guy wanted to marry her, came and meet her parents. She had some belief of getting married soonest and the unthinkable happened. She had unprotected sex with the guy and she got pregnant.
Realizing she is pregnant, the guy left and abandoned her.
Co's of what happened, She hated men, never had sex for close to a year until I came into her life now.

One thing that has been troubling my life is :If she is good with her attitude towards me, why did THE GUY GOT HER PREGNANT AND RAN AWAY even after meeting her parents(My question though)

Please those who have dated single mothers kindly share your thought.

Note :I'm not after her for sex, I had enough during my Versity says and my Nysc.....

CC lalastical

Sex is the last thing on my mind when Btc dey close to 70k and I have None.

I just want pure love same way I would love who who ever loves me..

She is yet to tell you the truth

VickyELEFAN:
On Friday, me and my boyfriend and his sister planned a vacation and on our trip, we decided to branch an eatry in EKPOMA.

I was sitting at the back and his sister was sitting in the front seat. I didn't have any reason to complain since the car isn't mine and she's his sister.

When we got to LEO Restaurant & Bar, EKPOMA. We had to alight and get some food. Here in lies the drama. The sister came out and gave me her laptop bag to carry, while she walks empty handed with a high should. A shoulder as high as olumo rock.

As a humble lady, I didn't want to complain so I carried the bag. At the same time, I was trying to carry my own purse too, then the laptop bag fell down.

She insulted in the presence of many people and my boyfriend did not complain or caution her. Instead he frowned at me.
When we got into the eatry again, he bought his food with big meat but me I only got a rice with fish.

I didn't complain but I was hurt. The next I heard was the brother saying, "Vicky is your ATM with you, you will have to pay for the meal". Even though I don't have money, the bill is not an issues but my own mother and father are starving. My mother has been drinking gari and cold water for over 3 months now.
Why will I be paying for a rude girl and boyfriend who doesn't understand me.
I am going to dumb this guy.

Just cut him off, he has no regards for you before his sister and it obviouse you don't have a place in the family

Legendguy:
I'm on the verge of disowning my father.
The story is long but I will cut it short.
It all began last year when I was in service, I called my father informing him of going for post graduate studies. He bought the idea and when I came back from service he gave me money to purchase the form and I did and proceeded with the application.
Due to covid 19 restrictions we wrote the entrance exam March this year. So I was offered part time post graduate admission
Bfor I was offered the admission I was working as a sch teacher and the pay was very low and during d holiday I had health issues and I was at home recuperating. During that period there was a misunderstanding between us and a family friend came to settle us, and right in front of the man, his wife and my mother, my father declared his decision to sponsor and fund my post graduate studies. He pledge to take money from his cooperative to fund it along with accommodation. I live a state away from the school. He is a pensioner receiving steady monthly pension of 200k monthly after serving in the military.
So the following month I proceeded with the screening and I started lectures immediately. He gave me 40k which I used for Dept registration, pg screening and collected my degree certificate.
The problem started early October when during the screening period I declined job offers that I applied for so as to focus on the early part of the admission.
The problem started early October when I went to discuss sch fees because exam was mid way approaching but to my dismay he tolde bluntly that he doesn't have hands in funding my Masters anymore, meaning he want to have a uturn. I was confused because he can't jus Allow me start something and abandon me Midway, leaving me hopeless, dejected and frustrated. I called our family friend to come and beg him and to also know how I offended him. He began to open up by saying he hasn't see any usefulness in my education. He narrated history of my education from secondary school, company training, few years of writing jamb, one yr polytechnic before I withdrew to university and how I studied a useless course coming out with lower grade. I asked if he didn't know all this before he agreed to sponsor but he couldn't answer so we begged him even kneeling down and he succumbed to the pressure and he promised to see what he would do.
The following day I met him to discuss about fees and accommodation, he didn't say much then on Sunday he left home and went out and came back sweating, he said he went to a church his friend invited him to meet a prophet and he came with a written prophecy report. The report highlighted every one of us in the family but I focus on my own which reported that my father should not spend money on me until he do some certain things. My intuition told me that the man forged it jus to evade his responsibility. I went to meet the man that he says took him to the church and the man denied that he never took him to any church.
At this period I was not my self because we kept on calling people to come beg him even calling his relatives but he kept on giving excuses and always on the defensive side. He called me failure, lazy levelled lots of allegation on me and manipulated his way when I reported him to people and make them to be against me
Reality later Dawn on me that this man want to ruin my education. The worst thing is that I have already started even as far as attending lectures, assigned to a project supervisor and even loosing a job offer, and he's about to ruin my plans of even working because the place I currently live with him is very remote and far from City center.
Currently I'm stranded going to two months now, he hasn't giving me any money, I borrowed money to be attending lectures and getting school expenses
This same man is sponsoring some children's education in the community, two children I'm an expensive primary school, that's just the annoying part of it all.
So now I'm about to disown him, I would make life miserable for him. He must surely pay for the frustration and depression he has put me through.
Since he depended so much on monthly pension I wish federal government should jus stop it for him
Pls I need your contribution before I forget what's on my mind
Mods help me push this to front page

Sorry for the stress he led you to, he promised and later turned his back after you have already put yourself in to what he initiated

Go close to your mum, probably he can help you
Go close to people you reported him to to ask for money, by so doing they will know that you are not getting anything from him and, they may help you too

Just ignore him and his wickedness, a day will come in your life he will not even have access to you

Stop begging him as he derives joy from your begging yet he doesn't help

What's your mum stand in this matter ?

Lamanii22:
Good morning nairalanders, my SO's nephew came home from school for the holidays, he is a good looking and a very bright boy, but he is light fingered, I placed money meant for gas on my baby's shelf which I planned to buy later yesterday, he was there when my SO gave me the money, I didn't have any negative thoughts towards him as I see him as my family... Now the money got missing, I couldn't find it, I informed my SO, he called his nephew to ask if he saw money and he answered "no"....


My SO says he trusts his nephew that maybe I dropped the money somewhere else... But I didn't change where the money was... I knew the boy took that money but I don't like to accuse people, even if I have got proof, I just don't know how to accuse people....


I just feel the boy needs help before he does something like this at school, the other time too it was my Milo and milk that got missing, he was around then too.... Or is that what is called kleptomania?



How do I deal with this? How can I be of help? He is a kind boy, we gist slot, you'd think he is my younger brother, we vibe together.... I just don't want anything to dent his image...

Most people who pick people things are always kind and welcoming, simply because they want you to be comfortable with them while the work on you

Take the bold step, seat him down before your SO, tell him that you have noticed that anytime he is around thinks gets missing, mention those things

Then Let him know that any other time you observe such in the house that will be his last visits to the house

Leave the rest for both of them to tackle and just go your way

umehaam:
I will be concise and as straight to the point as possible and will appreciate people’s advice or suggestions especially married folks.
I got married first week of August this year. This is just three months of marriage.
We didn’t have long courtship because she’s based in a different location and hardly visits.
Now we are married, I’ve started seeing things I don’t really like and is giving me concern. I’ve called her to have a close heart to heart talk but each time I do that it normally ends in quarrels.

These are the issues, I’m a neat person and even before marriage I do my chores myself. I hardly eat outside because I cook all type of food and store in deep freezer and I’m the type that likes things to be neat and environment tidy.
But my wife is the opposite. My wife hardly wash dishes. If she does it she will be feeling like she has done one big job or so. For the past three months we got married I have been the one washing dishes most of the time. Plates will fill the sink she will ignore it until I wash and clean everywhere. Hardly will you see her sweep the room or even mob. I do cleaning of the room and the last time it was mob I was the one.
I made sure I got her stuffs she needs to be comfortable. I got her a washing machine but I will still be the one to load clothes in the washer and even when she does that, she will keep them for me to go downstairs and hang after washing and still bring them back when completely dried.
I do those things without complaining but recently it has turned to be my duty that even when I’m not around and she wash, she will keep them for me to come home and hang them downstairs.
For three weeks our room has not been swept. Just this night I felt really bad seeing many plates in the kitchen sink and she just ignored all.

Not as if she’s working. We are planning on securing a shop for her because she is a business person and still does business online currently and most of her reason according to her why she doesn’t do most chores is because she said she’s always talking to customers on chat. I’ve asked her what of people that manages several business so they don’t have time for their family? I’m just being skeptical starting up a business for her because since she’s doing this way when she has not started a full blown business, how will she do when she’s now managing big business.

I do cook well and most often she relegate cooking to me. Is either she cook one and beg me to cook the other. I’ve been so down and that’s not what I bargained for.

I complained bitterly about her action this night and she’s threatening me with divorce. We are just married for three months and the way it is going now I don’t think I can’t bear this going forward.
She got angry this evening because I told her that the way she keeps house untidy that just very soon my coming back here will be to just come home and sleep and leave the next morning because I’m tired. She got angry and started moving her things from our room to the visitors room with a threat of divorce. I don’t know what to do.

Divorce dey fear you ?

If you don't take time, you will be the slave of that marriage

Just domestic chores she can't do what other women does as daily chores

Her type will put to bed and her only job will be to breast feed the baby and she may even use breast pump, just to be free from any thing called task

She will make sure she dumps the baby for you to carry, you and the house help will be the one carrying the baby, she will definitely do so

It's not too late to divorce her but it's best to be happy staying away from someone that came into your life to give you heavy load

Just suspend the issue of opening business for her, like getting a shop, she won't even have time to be going to shop on a daily basis

Inshort, help yourself, unless you have taken that as a cross to carry

Felalucky8:
If you need advice on this you don't have sense and not yet ready for marriage

He has sense he would have brought this to his parents if he doesn't have sense
Imagine

KoladeChris24:
I have this girl who is the only one I love, but she said she can never attend catholic church.

I told her it's not an issue - that as my wife, she's free to attend any church she likes, but she insisted our family would have to attend the same church.

She won't marry me if i stick to my Catholic faith. Please advise me, she's the only one I love, and I can't start over anymore.

Obey her if you wish, that's the sacrifice you have to make

Be ready to obey all her instructions just because you are getting married

By the way, what do you mean that she is the only one you love

Are you just starting a relationship or you have finally denounced your family just to be with her

Benard5050:
I'm 29 yrs old, I had a breakup with the girl I've been dating for 4 yrs this year April. Since then it has been so hard for me 2 be in a relationship cos I think my ex could still come back cos I still love her.

I had a brief relationship with a lady last 2 months but didn't last long cos I'm still yet over my ex.

There's this lady that joined my working place and also my next-door neighbor, she's kind and her character has been so gud for d six weeks she started working at my place of work.

I think I'm loving her but I will not want what happened with d lady I had a brief relationship with to happen again.

Guys do u think I should go ahead and ask her out?

I'm scared of d negative that might arise cos we are working in d same establishment even though I'm a senior colleague to her there.

Guys is this advisable? I'll be on d tread to answer any question u might want to ask. Thanks.

If it is not against your work ethics, you can go ahead

But bear in mind that office romance doesn't usually ends well

Can you stand the shame and embarrassment of failed relationship in your place of work among your colleagues.?

If you can't then avoid it

Omobabaemili:
My girlfriend gained admission into a university through direct entry.. The problem now is I'm scared of losing her

Is a simple thing, join her in partime

Go to her family and marry her

Get her pregnant

Do you need more options ?

How can you be scared of loosing what doesn't belong to you.?

OppyM:
I had to create a new account to seek you guys opinion. I’m a lady in my mid 20s I have been dating my fiancé for a while and it has been great. I see a future with him and I’m thankful I met him.

The issue is I’m a warrior(SS) carrier , that’s what we call ourselves. I look absolutely normal unless I tell you, I doubt if you would notice this. I live normal like every other person, my looks is fine I’m even chubby a bit although I fall sick easily which is normal if you a carrier
Lala please can you help push to front page

My boyfriend genotype is AA which makes us compatible. The issue is we are planing to get married very soon (next year December) but I’m not comfortable the way this man treats me. He doesn’t allow me do anything anytime I visit, even my own meals and laundry is forbidden it makes me look so lazy.

Back at home I do chores as a normal being. I cook for the family wash my own clothes clean the house and all. I do normal Chores although they don’t let me overwork myself but I still work.

The issue now is my boyfriend is against me getting a job saying he is scared because of my health. I told him if I can make it through strenuous uni days why can’t I work. I know when he is serious and he is very skeptical about this. I told him if he doesn’t want me to work he can get a shop at least I won’t do much and he said he is fine with that.

The issue now is the money he budgeted for our wedding next December is what he plans to open a shop for me thereby further shifting the marriage plans to December 2023. I told him instead of doing that why don’t he let me take a job and we should continue with the wedding and all instead of wasting money he doesn’t have

NB: I have an offer waiting for me for a paramilitary job and his fear is that I’m not strong enough. He is even ready to sell his car to set me up. He is a good man but I want him to understand I can take care of myself . Why set me up for a business when I can easily work on my own

This is how God butters someone bread and she will lose it.

People that are SS hardly get someone that falls in love with and here you are, someone loves you till death and doesn't want you to stress yourself and you are forming that you can't be idle, you want to work

Who told you that SS are employed into paramilitarys ?

Have you forgotten that you will be subject to medical fitness test

Pls stop delaying the man, plan fast in the wedding, get settled and get a shop

Marriage its self is stressful with or without kids

This is how you will be playing smart until he changes his mind and settle with another woman without a health challenge