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rosebase:
I have seen 3 diferent scorpions in my apartment in d last 4weeks, a very tiny ones though. After blocking all d holes some days go I still saw one this night. What's d wat out pls

Check your bathroom outlets, scorpions crawl through that pipe to the bathroom

Check under your doors if there are openings

Check your surroundings if you have heaps of stone in the compound

Ask other people living around if they go through similar experience

nosmassam:
My wife Is NO 1.
She keep destroying all the charger and keep saying its me that damage the charger, I have to change my phone to type C phone.
Since 2 years ago that I have been using type C charge , am yet to buy charger while my wife have used over 7 charger.

Interesting, we must have sense bye force

My current phone comes with C11 charger so its difficult to use mine, its just that same phone products that can use it

I love it so because the regular BB charger ends up becoming Ashawo charger

WonderManly:
Now who are they celebrating? The Adult 12years old boy or The Adolescent 12years old boy?
Are they Rejoicing that their 12years old boy died ni abi wetin self? I'm confused oooooo!

Do you want them to continue crying
He must be remembered dead or alive

I don't need to tell you the pains they have been going through

Albertone:
What if he decides to use his hands and tongue on her?or that kind of pleasure is different from actual penetration pleasure?

There is a difference when you are eating swallow with a spoon and there is a difference when you decide to eat that same food with your hand

tim1256:
Thanks so much, this is appreciated.
I pity her husband, he loved my friend so much, opened business for her, told her to be keeping her gains.
This is a lesson to guys

It's a pity for him and she is nit ready to cooperate

franciskaine:
what if after the drama she's innocent and d said items all misplaced within the op's House? Wetin go happen? You can't be too certain without hearing from the other party and ascertaining the truth. A bait to getting her pick something else wud be better.

If that is the case, let the op search his apartments very well before confronting her

Jayzel:
Ur advice is mature enough for me to relie on
dear thanks once more
she called me 2 hour's ago if we can still hang out tonight i agree to go out with her, i only accepted to hang out with her cuz my girl travelled back to where she's serving (nysc) at ilorin.

Is alright at times is good to go for an adventure

Undilutedme:
Hey nairalanders.

A colleague of mine in school, I'm a student in of the the federal schools here in the west. A female friend here in the university told me she likes me. She's always been saying it, she says it often BUT she doesn't want to date me. She told a mutual friend friend of ours she likes me, she shows it quite well and it's obvious she does.

She goes out with guys tho, a couple of guys but I dunno if they have anything. She tells me anytime she's going out with guys, it makes me feel bad though, because I've got a little feelings for her.

We've had intimate moments but not s*x anyways. I know she does like me, she shows it but I asked her out, she insisted on going slowly but she keeps reminding me she likes me.

So recently, we had a fall out and I got offended and stopped talking to her. I barely call or receive her calls, I barely even chat with her now and I honestly have peace of mind.

But why do ladies behave this way?. I find it really funny.

They are drama queen's

Dat2jo:
But why do you think I have this sudden urge for a side chick? It's never been like that for the 4yrs I've been married

Because levels done change

Dat2jo:
I got appointed as an aide to my Governor (one of the Northern states), so we are always in and out of Abuja. Lately, I just have the urge to get a homely 18-22 year old girl (not a wild runs babe), to be taking care of her financially, then get her to keep me company in Abuja anytime I'm there. I just want to find her in my hotel room anytime we are back from our numerous meetings.

I have a lovely family, 2 kids and a beautiful wife. Wife is everything you can think of in a woman and the sex is great. But I just find myself chatting random girls with a fake account on Facebook, trying to find one that can fit into the side chick profile. Wouldn't mind an 18yr old I can groom.

Is anything wrong with me/that?

There is nothing wrong with that

Once a man's status increases, the next thing is to have side chicks

But when his levels are low, he remains calm and plan towards moving his immediate family

One of the problems in what you are about going into is, she may love you more than you think and wants you to marry her

She wouldn't mind being a mistress or second wife

The big questions are, after this your current Governors tenure, how do you sustain this proposed life

You are desiring for this because the bills are not your sweat but one of the benefits of working directly with government and your Boss does the same

Jayzel:
I've been dating my beautiful damsel for over 6 years now (2015), she has been financially supportive to me when things was so rough for me untill now things re a bit balance, since when our relationship kickoff we have never fought for once, we do argue most~times and later in the day we settle it inside our bedroom at night, she's so respectful and honest to both me and my family member's.
There's a pretty damsel working in a UBA bank close to my residencial area here in oniru lekki, when i do return every~day from my working place i do branch at the bank to save some money in my account, the lady is my favourite cashier so i do give her the money and take my leave, so later in the day she will transfer the money into my account without no delay at all. but yesterday she called me on phone that she wanted us to hang out together (today being sunday) that all bill's & expenses on her. i'm seriously confuse now i still love my current girl~friend and i don't wanna hurt her feeling's, plz help out peers.

Is that so, and you think this new babe is a good match for your girl

Is it not clear to you that, for the fact that you make deposit almost every evening has given her a green light that you are going to be a good catch

Do I need to tell you that, her offer to pay for the expenses of the hangout is the only trick trap she needs to pin you down

Why not tell her that you do pick your wife every evening and may not be able to go outing

Well you have to prevent any stupid act that will hurt your current girl because, if you do and she finds out, don't complain when she takes her turn on you

Gaggii:
Please advice, if you have done penis enlargement before, or if you know anyone that has done it.

Is there any side effects?

My babe is complaining seriously about my penis size.

Am considering enlarging it, but I want to be sure of the side effects.

There some annoying sounds I here when having fun with her, she says is because my dick is small.

You don't need to be told that those with small size goes into relationship with virgins, take care of her and stick to her

I hope you know the reason why

Candidlady:
noticed how water from the wc splash on your as$ when taking a dump?


how do you avoid such??

It's bound to occur especially if your poor is hard

The solution is, always flush your toilet very well before use

Generalwoodz:
she's my ride or die

Get enough fuel and ride on

Amudeneogu:

Ok, what about her child?

What's wrong with the child

If the father of the child later comes for his child it's left for the child to follow the dad or not

She will bear children for the new man and you will have your won child too from her

Most single women keeps their children because children are better off with their mum

Amudeneogu:
Is there any disadvantage marrying woman that already with a son for another person?

If every woman had kept a careless pregnancy, we will have many of them single parents

Being a single mother is not an infection and curse, it's circumstances that brought it and it can affect any gender

What should matter most to you is, has she been done with her previous husband, if yes the next question is

Do I really love this woman and want to be with her because she gives me joy

kingsgr8:
So i got a question about dating. I like this girl, she's 19 and am 25. We started dating but she's afraid of getting heartbroken again. She has a strict parent, most times i find it hard to reach her just because her dad is around. She often tell me she wants to know more build her self up. But i always felt there was something missing which is maturity. So should we put a pause on the dating?, Till she archive a level of freedom and get more matured?.

You can still put her through or guide her to maturity with out you taking advantage of her

Generalwoodz:
Where should I start from ?
My telegram has stopped working since yesterday. I got a message from them that I need to update my app.

I'm in sever pains now because the app won't just update, and I've tried since yesterday like a man trying to sustain an erection to no avail.

The app keep saying "pending" for so many hours on play store. I just can't update it.

How do I make it work?

How's my babe connected to this? Okay. I moderate a telegram channel for one guy from France, and he pays me in dollars weekly.

Now the app isn't working and babe says if the app doesn't work she'd leave me very soon.

Pls, how do I make the app work again?

You see your life

So if she leaves you, you can't breath again ?

EkehPraise:
Good evening dear Nairalanders,

There's this youthful and beautiful young lady I have been seeing close to a month now, we met in church, she appear s to be decent and homely and we started off as friends so we could get to know each other better, though I'm planning to settle down real soon but I don't want to be in a hurry so as not to repeat past mistakes.

Today I invited her over to my place so we could spend some time together and she could meet my elder brother since he's in town, she agreed and came around.
We spent quality time having different conversations, she even cooked for our lunch and I dropped her off at her place this evening..
Now ever since I got back home, I've been looking for my Samsung Earbuds and my Bro has not seen his wallet which we usually leave on the dining table.
I have called her twice and she didn't pick up the calls.
No one else came to the house except for this my new girl.
I feel confused. How do I approach this issue?

Pretend as if nothing happened, keep in touch with her and truck her home

Invite your brother but don't let her know that your brother is hanging around some where waiting for her arrival

Once your brother comes, both of you must confront her in an aggressive manner and seize her phone, ask her to leave until she returns all she picked

Meanwhile, don't allow her to be around your visinty till she do the needful

If you feel it's going to be an embarrassing thing to do

Block her from communicating with you and if she gets access to you, simply tell her that you loves her so much, but her first visit left you and your brother in Shame because she stole your ear pud and your brother wallet

After that just walk away from her and end it there, don't even give her room for any explanations

Timekeeper:
Honestly, he Sud wife that lady B4 another man take the fruit of his labor.. He knows the lady parental status B4 dating her and while dating her.. I don't understand his complain now....

If he is nt careful, he will be the one to lose... Cox the babe no go lose at all, after all antoehr man go come carry her and her life goes fine...

You are right on your contributions
I believe that he is afraid of the responsibilities he will automatically inherit once he gets married to her

But my question is why spending so much on her while he is yet to decide, if to marry her or not

yinkaOdutuyo:
Pls I need your advice on this.

Since have being dating my fiancee going to 3 years now, I have being doing almost all her parent responsibilities.

I was the one that sent her to school -ND1 and ND2, I paid all the semesters school fees.

I also paid her 2 years rent, when she was in the school. All her handouts and school bills were paid by me. Even till feeding.

Her parent are just to poor, that they can't even provide what they'll eat for themselves.

I did almost everything within my power to provide for her and help her parent atimes with some little I can afford.

Now she's done with her ND programme, am planing to enrol her for a professional Catering Job, which is amount to almost 250k.

At times she come to my place and spent like 2weeks, 3 weeks or even 1 week with me.

So of a recent her mom asked her to come home and spend some days with them.

She now called and ask me for feeding money, but I was angry and I asked her, Can't your parent provide basic needs? Like feeding, clothes etc. You'll be in my house I'll provide what you'll eat and when you're in your parent too, I'll still be the one to provide what you'll eat. Didn't your dad go out every morning to go and work?

I just told her, that if her parent can't provide basic needs, I don't think is proper.

And again she's the type that want to wear what other ladies are wearing and want to up to standard.

And I didn't send any money to her.

I just want to know if am wrong for asking her that. because her dad is alive and mom is healthy, but they're always broke and no money, that they hardly feed 3 square meals.

You know what, is either you drop this girl if you know you can't finish the work you started

Or you continue, you already knows that they are poor, you don't need to remind her why her parents can't afford anything for her and the rest of her family

Finally bear in mind that, once you are still having affairs with her, you must be responsible for her since you know that her parents can't afford anything for her

But let me ask you, all this your involvement and spending on her, is it for another man to marry her or you just want to assist her

Because all you have spent on her is enough to marry her and keep her at home as a wife

Well, the decision is yours, just make sure you don't complain of wasting over 500k on her

As for her taste and desires to be trending with her mates, you don't need to provide that for her, is not a necessity

Confidant010:
I met this babe in 2017 while in school. She was in Diploma program then and I was in my final in degree program.
Initially, she pretended to be everything any man would wish in a woman; obedient, submissive, helpful in house chores, etc.

I left for my national youth service the following year and I have been supportive through her thick n thorn with the resources at my disposal. Sending her cash for upkeep, supporting her during her dad's burial, sending cash to her mum occasionally, paying her dept without her notice, etc.
If am to take into account all that I have spent from her since 2017-date, 300k wouldn't be an exaggeration.

Recently, having helped her in Jamb to get admission into a degree program on scholarship, while I am in Lagos, trying to build myself. The girl is completely a different human being entirely. She openly tells me countlessly that the cash I give to her now isn't enough for her, that her ex boyfriend she dated used to give her more. Last month I sent her 6k, I was really stressed financially, when we had issues, she told me not to stress her bc of ordinary 6K. She flares over very minor misunderstanding.

Please what should I do guys?
She's planning visiting me next month.
I'm very confused bc I really love her.
Pls mature minds only.
Your input will be of help.
Thanks guys.

It's either you keep loving her and be ready to spend more to keep her and not allow her being snatched by another man

Or you use this her ungrateful character and drop her to go and look for a man she will milk for her pleasure

You can't be suffering for nothing, you can't, use your brain that's why it's inside your head

tammyf:
Hi ,
..this matter came to me by a girl and I'm confused how to advice her so I need matured ,experienced and wise contributions please ..

She is 18 going to 19.done with waec .... got impregnated by a guy 5months ago .d boy denied .she met a boy who assisted her ,tool care of her till she aborted the baby cos she doesn't like the guy.it was a mistake .

Now she stays with her grandma who is struggling to feed .the boy who helped her abort took care of her waec (2021 waec) ... the boy was just in town for a little job.

Her dad (biological ) raped and discovered her a year ago...she fought will all her might but couldn't over come him.she ran away and went to her mum .d mum didn't believe the step dad currently married to the mum made series of advances on her and threatened not to pay her fees if she doesn't give in to him.she told the mum n d mum sent her to the grandma to save her marriage .

Back to the young man that has been helping her ,they fe inlove.he has been looking for a baby .they agreed to hv a child together. Now she is one month gone.the man is back to his state cos job finished n he is broke .

Young man wanted to come see the mum but mum refused cos he has nothing doing and said she must abort it.she wants to take the daughter to the clinic to abort it .little girl is scared cause of the local abortion she did 5months ago for another guy.

Mumsy drove her out of grandma's house ,said until she agrees to abort it .the young man is broke. She is living n hanging with friends now .met me for advice and I said I will reply her in 3days time.

Mumsy has poisoned the heart of all uncles n aunties not to help her .mummies excuses are she is too young ,she needs to go to sch ,what will people say,she wants to make the same mistake I made....

What does she do? From her statement she rather commit suicide dan abort her baby who can help? Any gov agency or what? Any contribution?

The only hope she has now is to follow that guy who pregnanted her currently to his family, no matter how broke the guy is if she brings her to his parents that she is pregnant for him, they will not chase her out

Once this is done all the guys family need to do is to inform the girls family that their child is in his custody and will love to marry her meanwhile she is pregnant for him

She is just a child that is unfortunate to be moving from one man to another at this tender age, simply because the mum chooses to protect her marriage with another man at the expense of her daughter future

Pregift:
My husband has been sick for a month now. The problem started when he lost almost a million naira in a business deal. All of a sudden he lost so much weight, so I attributed it to the depression that he passed through as a result of the loss. After like 2weeks he recovered the money and since then I noticed that he became sick, he has being coughing for more than 3weeks now, he suffers fatigue, chills, severe chest pain and general body pains. We have gone for test and the result said it's pneumonia. He has taken Drugs but it's till like that. He till coughs and feels fatigue everytime. The issue now is that am worried and my mind is telling me that he might have covid 19. Please am scared. What should I do at this point.

Thanks be to God that he recovered the money

Well take him to IDC at yaba for him to be checked on COVID

Help2020:
Yeah.I didn't watch the full video before I made that comment.

Is alright

Help2020:
E be like say nan Nigeria this nonsense for happen. The people around and the song sound like Igbo. Damm how did we get here?

But if you listen to the nonsense idiot who wedded them he was speaking a non Nigeria language

We can't have something like this in Nigeria

The Igbos will never support it, never

Witnesstony28:
I am faced with the choices of staying at my present place of work or doing my bike business full-time.

If you remember I narrated how my place of work is under paying me (30k/month) and I was able to save 10k on monthly basis from it and I got a loan from my girl's mum and added to get a bike to ride after work (a secondary School).

I stay in the School compound without paying rent and others utility bills.

So on the 1st of this month the owner called and told me that because of the School reputation, they wouldn't want their teacher doing bike work and that it's either I resign from the School or drop the bike (alternatively I should find someone's going to do the bike business for me and bring me returns).

At The initial point I wanted giving it to someone, but on a second thought, I decided to do it by myself cos one person I asked to do it was telling me he will pay 1k/day meanwhile when I go out after work, I normally make like 2k - 3k from 3pm to 6pm and the guy is telling me he will remit 1k for working from 7am to 6pm.

Now I need advice on this. Cos I have been thinking of quiting and focusing on the bike work for the moment. I make way pass 6k on a good day but at that school we are paid 1k/ day.

My only challenge now is getting accommodation to pack out and focus on my stuff. I have also thought about entering into transport business since I started this bike work and I also intend going into delivery business too.

Pls what do I do?

Lalastica pls can you help me post to FP so I could get more opinions.

Thanks .

I think you should save enough money from the school salary, get a room apartment then start your okada business

You will be in charge of your income and have freedom too

czarr:
It's protruding out of my brother's hand, its like a growth that just opened recently and started growing out.

Once it drys up the blood, just use scissors to cut it off

It may regrow again keep cutting it off, it will definitely stop growing

Mrbright2sure:
I met this girl not long ago, and I need her assistance , only to come back to me said her mother said no.

You are calling her wife to be, when you just got to know her not long ago and you are already begging for assistance

She has to tell her mother and her mum will advise her as a mother

Stop letting yourself down, women are wiser than you think

lexy2014:
Did u direct any enquiry to him to no what transpired before u said:

At this his present situation, he has to forget about what is written in a vehicle and just enter the vehicle, so far he will get to his destination

After taking paracetamol for the Op issue, remember to rub aboniki