₦airaland Forum

adefitim:
Nothing wey no Dey happen in this world again

Honestly ❗

ebukajay184:
A lecturer with the Federal University, Ndufu-alike, Dr. Joseph Chukwu gifted his 37-year-old NYSC shirt to his daughter who is about to go for the NYSC exercise, IgbereTV reports.

Dr. Joseph Chukwu shared photos of the moment he gave the shirt to his daughter. He wrote;



https://www.facebook.com/1133912585/posts/10226354423983652/?app=fbl

Those days when they were using quality materials to sew youth corpers dresses

viviangist:
Source; https://dailypost.ng/2021/08/30/man-kills-another-for-taking-position-he-was-sacked-from/

Since he doesn't value his freedom, let him rot in Jail

Nwabetter:
I had to cry to you. I don't and never knew where my help would come out from .



Good afternoon fellow nairalanders. Pls I'm highly in need of your assistance. Please I'm stranded and would be homeless by this coming weekend. Currently staying with a friend in surulere after my apprentice in clearing and forwarrding industry failed.(the company folded up). I packed out after I couldn't gather enough to pay rent. Hav been staying with a friend here in surulere like two months now trying to fight my way up, but this man is relocating to Ogun state cos of he's new job as the current apartment has also expired.


I couldnt save much and was caught unaware of the latest movement as was revealed to me just yesterdy's Sunday.

Its only a tree that knew it would be uprooted and look away. Please sir/ma I'm left with no option than to seek your help in any capacity to sort a stranger like me out.


I'm just a struggling guy with B.sc in biochemistry. Jobs weren't coming after I left clearing industry few months ago, even when some jobs oportunity comes, i couldnt even afford to renew my driving licence (was a former uber partner driver) to take up some executive driving jobs to start with.

Life wasn't easy on me buh I kept my hope high and survives.


But to myself fulfilment, I'm currently learning in fast programming and graphics design and would be relocating out of the country by the Grace of god before the year ends or 1st quarter coming year if the plans I had could stand..


Pls sir/ma all I need is a space to to put my soul and head together..
I do menial jobs to sort my data and self management bills outs



Don't have much and can't afford a room here at my present financial state. I plead you please remember me in any capacity for humanity sake.


Please anyway and anything possible you can do for me. Please help me if you have. All I need is you assistance . as room cost about above 100k here . I don have this money and couldn't get this money from where I come from. . please if you have a room I can manage in any part of Lagos. Pls assist me. Thanks


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Are you from what state

How do you feed even if you get an accommodation

How long do you intend to stay

Freestainworld:
Why not relocate to your state and gradually bounce back again, no place like home bro at least for the time being.

You think it's easy

jonaifame22:
Well,this is coming at a time,when I'm seriously single like number 1, my place is quite comfortable, I have a DStv,a PlayStation 3,my room is always cold all thanks to my two horse power air-conditioning.

My ex gf left me like an evil spirit been cast out by a strong man of God,since then I've been lonely like akon's debut single.

I work my own business with my bus,and I can afford to give her 1k daily for feeding while she'll eat what she wants when she returns from work.she's quite sexy, and she has lived with me and my ex last year for some weeks.

The kind of job I do requires that I work all day and I have lots of customers, and jobs come for me on a steady and I earn well.

She's fun like an activity of interest,and she fits into something that could do well for me after a long days hustle,at least someone to talk with,I have prayed severally to God to help me find a lively girl,who CLD keep me company after work hours,this looks like an opportunity,I wanna take it, but I'm kind of drawing back like the hairline of someone suffering from frontal hair baldness

Feeding will never be an issue, but how about my ex,how will she feel. Hmmmmmmm

Whatever decision or any thing that comes out of her stay with you is not your ex problem

Follow your heart

emmanuelbrown26:
Mehnnn I never knew that we still have ladies with brain and sense. Let me just be your crush. U hv said it the way it is, if Op can't do what u asked him or her to do let them bri g money for the upkeep

Exactly ❗
That's it

Lostchild:
I disagree with you 100% because this is a question for men to answer

Let's wait for the men then

YourRealSon:
Hi guys one fateful day I got a text from a white guy saying he got my contact from a group or so said he's divorced and he's looking for a partner I legit thought it's those yahoo boys and thier silly formats we go talking Sha and he asked us to facetime and I told him I don't have an iphone and he said he's going to get me one had to go to Facebook did a background check saw an account with his pictures and some Nigerian picture too I screenshotted it and sent it to him and said shey you dey whine me ni lol and he replied saying he doesn't understand my English I now video called him and it turned out to be him we talked for like a minute thereabout and i hung up cause it was around past 12 two three days after he told me he was going to the apple store to get me the iphone he promised he also added a MacBook and sent me a video of the iphone when he was buying it and after he bought it and even added $5000 to the package and said he couldn't use dhl cause I think he said their closed due to the pandemic he used Emirates express delivery instead sent me the reference number and ticket of the package he sent Friday morning I received a text from Emirates saying my package landed at Abuja instead of Lagos saying I should come pick it up with my national id card I now told the customer service lady that I'm in Lagos she now sent me an agent number saying I should call him that he'll be the one to deliver the package to my address and I'll have to pay him 9500 before getting my package delivered to my address I'm having mixed feelings about this cause I went online and saw many people saying the same thing about this same Emirates delivery saying they'll pay the money buh they won't receive any package I just want enlightenment on this matter cause I no want make them run me Street

Simply tell them that you will pay on delivery, since it's their agent that is delivering it to you

These white men have joined those Naija guys abroad to swindle their people here in Nigeria

IPhone and Laptops doesn't come freely just like that

Sparklinglyte:
Thanks for the advice please keep it coming

Go to any of the prayer camps and mountains to pray to your God

Make sure you have enough money with you and don't go with any stupid thing to smoke

By the time you stay there for weeks, your spirit will reject such life for you and Good spirit will take over from you

Lostchild:
As a man, what are the challenges of marrying a wealthy Nigeria woman?

Base from experience ?

Just respect yourself that's all she needs

And that word respect yourself involves everything about marriage and relationship disciplines

Hassanmaye:
Story for the God's, sorry if you will say this statement till Buhari came out of power, I no go Believe. The amount poor divorce couple can't be quantified but a woman can endure to stay with a Man if he is Rich especially if she doesn't have a source of income

It depends on what the relationship is built on

Every relationship is built on any of the followings

Love
Respect
Fear of being alone
Money
Sentiments
Family values
Personality
Royalty
Trust
Friendship
Connections
Hardwork

Non is built on Laziness or sex
So define your stand

Hassanmaye:
Especially monetary

Not really, attention and love is what a woman will appreciate more

If you take away this two from a woman, she will be uncomfortable with the relationship

If you base the relationship on Money then, she is there for the money and once the money finished, the relationship melts away

overdrive:
Chai
If you follow women mouth na to kill them straight. Your best bet is to walk away that's what makes you a man.

Exactly, just walk away to save lives

Pinkzebra:
They have long stop having kids . The accommodation they are in us even the cheapest around here . Is not a flat

God will see them through

debbydams:
shay whala no too much bayi .wetin woman matter go cause for nairaland ehn

All because of you guys, lol

Pinkzebra:
We haven't really consider this option, I will suggest it. But I don't know if the parents will allow the kids do that . I was even thinking we could take them to a far cheaper school . The kids have never been to public school so don't know how this will affect their well being . Thank you

To me, you are crying more than be bereaved

If they can't go to public school, then they have an option which they have not told you of

Even secondary school leavers do teach in schools, they have a place there that matches her WAEC

They have to cut some things down till it gets better

Change school
Get affordable accommodation
Stop having kids this period

But if within you, you feel they were too good to stoop to
low standards,

You can raise them, you have the financial powers

MufasaLion:
All what you listed doesn't stop a woman from cheating. As long as the other man still have that car advantage she can still get laid. She's vulnerable!

Men too cheats more

2braithe:
Sure but telling her sounds somehow to me.
Like I'm a bodyguard or what?

You don't need to tell her, but put it into practice, she will understand the body language

grafixdon:
You lack experience to give advance on marital issue, so please shut.up

You don't have to be saucy to get noticed

Oluseunade98:
I have my car but my wife doesn't have yet and our routes are not the same so My wife's colleague used to pick her and drop her from work.
Sometime in January, my wife told me he asked her out but insulted him and stopped following him in his car. So this week she started following him again, her reason was the guy has stopped talking about it but I am not comfortable with it.
When i confronted her about it, she started ranting about how she has to take care of our 3 kids every morning and still come back to look after them when she gets home by 6pm. Saying what time does she have to rest after the house chores and work that she will now be following a man despite her busy schedule.

N:B she is not the only one the man takes to work

I don't think you have any need to suspect her

Treat a woman well at home

Help her in the house chores

Make love to her in a way that will humble her

Trust me, she will not give another man audience

Goodmarlian:
Instead of telling a Woman you lover her and a treat her right or you will do anything for her,just tell her she is safe with you that you will assure her protection from any danger because that's what real men do because she is the mother of you 16 babies...
I sent this message to some ladies i have being chyking and their response was crazy,one promised to visit me from ikorodu next week..

Looks like protection is what women really want .....maybe. .

Every woman needs a man that will assure her that she is well protected and in a safe hand

mardis:
I need honest answers and no lies please. You can as well share one or two experiences.

It's not as if there is a special pleasure

But a guys pleasure sucking a female boobs is,
Seeing her enjoying the fun and making her to moan

That alone is enough to ginger the man and gives him the believe that he is on top of the game

paulgabrielz:
I am a free thinker. I acknowledge a God exist but i don't believe in him

Ok put your trust in whatever you believe, that's where your help is coming from

paulgabrielz:
I have been having sucidal thoughts lately. Any one?

Relax yourself and talk to God

God is the only one to position helpers for we humans

seproperties:
Hello ,


I' m asking on behalf of someone.
She had a child for her Ex- Husband ,There was no Court/Registry Marriage between them, They had an irreconciliatory issues so they parted .

She already went to have a Peace talk with the ex- Husband's family on who to take the custody of the child between them ,The ex Husband and Family agreed the woman should take Custody since the child is not yet well grown .

She is already with another man ,they have two children now.

She wants to know, is there any step to take to have a Solid written Documents to show that they are not together anymore so that the ex does not come back in the future making a claim to her..

Remember there was no Court/Registry Marriage

Thanks for your comments

She has to move on

It's her life and that child on question belongs to both of them and good enough she child is in her care, so let her take the responsibility of the child

Wether the father of the child contributes or not

An irresponsible man, remains an irresponsible person for life

itumafriday:
i mate one girl online and i promised to marry her because I love her. Now she came visiting my place but unfortunately, she take in now am planning to go and see her parents, she told me that she has a secret to tell me, she told me that she has married before and has 3 kids for the man and was divorced. I just feel helpless and i don't know what to do at this stage. Help a brother am dying silently.

Go ahead and marry her, if you realy love her

Having a previous failed marriage is not a curse or stigma

If she us the type of woman you want in your life, go on

Every thing in this life is trial

larryking540:
and you believe na romance go make u last long with a man ,hmmmm,so if he became not romantic for a seconds,na to move go next project

If you are a woman, you will understand better

saintftm:
A perfect example of God's Grace. #togetherforever. Papa and Mama got married on 28th August, 1971. 50years of togetherness, through thick and thin. #goldentogether.

Only a romantic man like this can keep a woman happy for 50yrs

May God Bail you out of this frustration
Just give him your entire life and surrender yourself to God

mrsteel:
They will give her maternity leave when the pregnancy mature

And you think it's an easy ride from conception to three months

The first trimester is the most disturbing part of early pregnancy

AutoChick4U:
Thank you Sis

You are welcome