₦airaland Forum

MrBrownJay1:
go tell that to the billions going to church every sundays and still suffering day in and day out! god has done/does nothing for them, no matter how much they gove their life to this invisible man in the sky.... the only one that profits here is that conmen in robe taking these poor people's money.

God will soon make you invisible

Babara1994:
Real women don't deny men sex. Stop scamming us with "real men" talk. You too try to be a real woman.

Is sex food ?

mardis:
Have anyone seen, heard or used any of these type of sexual enhancers before? If yes, please shed one or two light on them.

I don't think you need an enhancer, unless you are just too weak as a man

By nature and your present age, you are expected to use your natural strength

victooman:
There is this girl l am presently dating now ,she have all the qualities l need in a woman, respectful , intelligent , industrious and have a good character, she seems to love me too, from her actions, The major problem l am having with this girl is that she allows me romance, finge her and give me the best blow jobs of my life, but to penetrate her for full sex is a big problem, she wont let me penetrate her, l have gotten angry and try to avoid her severally but she always comes back to me each an Everytime we quarrels, she told me is a resolution she had, after been in a sexual relationship with her ex not to go into it again.
Honestly l dont trust girls , so l have taken my time to observe if she is meeting with any man and there is no evidence, she have given me the password to her phones and social media, and we live in the same lodge ,(both of us are corpers serving in the same school) is lack of penetration enough reason for me to conclude that this girl is not inlove with me,? is she playing any games with me , please my seniors help me abeg.

Just make sure you don't Rape her
There is no hurry in love
Give her time and respect her wish
Sex is not a guarantee of love and happiness in a relationship

MagnificentPlan:
I need your help guys my girlfriend mom ask me to borrow her money that she will pay me back in 3weeks I don't no what to do as am confused should I borrow her or not as she told her daughter to ask me to borrow her what is your suggestion tho it's for the first time...
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I have been helping my girlfriend with money tho she works but she spends her money on her family leaving me to be giving her money every time she is broke now the mom is asking me for money what do I do

It depends on your relationship with them all

But bear in mind that any money you give to her, consider it gone

Mskrisx:
Hello Frozen. I’m currently on the island.

Ohh dear, just ask your neighbors, they may recommend a good mechanic for you

Mskrisx:
Good evening. Please I read all you wrote. This Mechanic seems incompetent. Can you recommend anyone to me as I am currently in Lagos. Thank you Sir.

Where is your location in Lagos

kingsolium:
Good morning house, pls I need your views and opinions on this subject matter.

Ok, I currently work with an FMCG Coy in Ibadan as an inventory officer where I earn N175k net on a monthly basis. It’s important to state here that I was living in Lagos prior to my getting this FMCG job.

So, I moved to Ibadan 2 months ago and currently put up with a friend in his apartment while I try to figure out how to move my stuffs to Ibadan on relocation basis. But along the line, I got a job with a big agricultural establishment affiliated to a multinational agricultural firm and I’m being offered N259k for a start excluding other benefits such as airtime(15k) which is different from my main salary.

Also note that the N259k is gross so my take home could be around N230k or thereabouts.

Now here’s the challenge. This new job is in Kaduna(the state capital) and I’ve not been to kaduna before. So, house what do you think about this. I need your candid, sincere and factual advice on this matter.

Thank you

For the money go to Kaduna but because of the crisis and crime there
Stay in Ibadan

Correct guy

Hardgun:
God punish this man

That was too harsh

He made a good sense

DubaiLandLord:
Chidinma no reach that kin level.

And again, nah rich person he kill, the family go dey monitor as everything dey go.

No b poor man pikin she kill o... I don't see her escaping this. She don ruin her life.

Yes, there is no escape route for her

Mavrick2012:
Good day house.
Please i need your help.
About 10 years ago i started feeling some slight headache and heaviness on my head.
This continued to increase.
I thought it was inside my head.
I went to the hospital severally and did several test,but they saw nothing.
Just some few weeks ago i observed it was actually my scalp that is folding and growing heavy as you can see in the pictures.
Please,what could be causing this?
What can i do to stop and reverse this.
It's causing me heaviness and pains.

I don't think it has any medical condition

But it's either you are putting on weight

Or it runs in your family

LOGICALKEN:
So I met this lady in 2019 through a mutual friend, after few weeks of getting to meet her we started dating. She is 29 and I’m 31. She’s based in Benin where she works and I am in Lagos.

The agreement was that after our wedding she will join me in Lagos which she agreed. Our relationship has been going on smoothly which made me do the introduction January this year and I’ve told her the wedding will be by January next year, which she knows I am making adequate preparation to that effect. I even had to get involved in a monthly contribution of 30k which is done in her workplace, I told her she should collect 2 slots so we can save enough for the wedding. She has never made any financial request that i did not grant.

Just two months ago she started acting all weird, I have asked her what the problem was and she would say nothing. She stopped picking my calls and told her parents I offended her, I called her to know what my offense was and she said I should forget. God knows I have never deliberately done anything to upset her. Just yesterday morning she called to tell me she is done with the relationship which left me so confused and devastated. I have already paid for cow and all the wines we will use for the wedding and now she has called it off.

Please nairalanders what could possibly be my offense? I have thoroughly searched my heart and I can’t seem to remember when I offended her.

Just relax, let your conscience be the one to decide for you

If realy you know very well you did nothing, relax and give her time till like a month

Don't call her, don't chat her

Let her feel the heat too

Nothing spoil yet, you can go to the cow seller, drink sellers and the rewti ask for a refund after tvat beak you are giving her

By the time she comes back to her senses, another woman has taken her place

This life is precious, don't allow anyone to determine your happiness

passionguy:
My brother is 24 years old. His entire life has been spent fucking up. The thing is he lies, cheats, gamble and steals. He has succeeded in selling almost everything in the house be it fridge, stab, pressing iron, electronic and manymore
Now he has extended it by going out to steal from neighbors and people.
He as been arrested so many times and been bailed. Now everyone in the family is tired of him mostly my mum she can't eat good food because of him because his becoming worse.
Pls Advice me on what to do.

Since he can't stop those dirty habits, he will end up in jail soon

Then everyone will rest while his suffering starts

MaryBaey:
That Title aspect is just a literary sense to attract readers , and also you think I condemn female gender ,lol why should I

Alright, I get the flash headlines

2special:
then, he will likely get it elsewhere

Who tells you that giving it to him constantly will make him glued to you alone

If a man wants to cheat, he must have his reason for cheating which may not make senses to you

If you are ready for sex, be with him anywhere that have four walls

If you are not ready yet, be in open places

You can't erect a barns of yam in a goat field

MaryBaey:
Actually I’ll stop posting here
You all are not getting this right ,I write about life generally ,I’m a writer and am a bit good at that
So most times I help people to write articles, Check most of my threads here it’s about people and most of the stories are stories I personally know much about that
This particular one is about my own favorite and close pal,I wrote this just as he told me to,infact he forwarded it to me before I posted here, I think he’s not on nairaland but he’ll love to share
Just get it right ,thanks

Now you are talking
If you had said that you are writing this for a friend it will be understood

But the title is about you

Anyway why did you Calum female are you one of the hermaphrodites

If both of them takes drugs, then it's ok, they will understand themselves perfectly with out a third party settling them

They won't even quarrel, once they are down, they will light up each other's wrap to be ok

Your story is the story of a man but your moniker says female

Which do you want us to believe about you ?

I think she should stop all these complains and deal with it as if it's nothing

Among all the women in his life, she succeeded in making him to marry her

Does it mean that he shouldn't see other of his children mothers, especially as they are not married

2face is a polygamous man and she should just accept it that way

Demigod22:
I was my grandma's favorite child before her death last year. Since her death I am the only one seeing her in my dream. She always visit with gifts and bunch of money and always advising me to be strong.

Since her death I don't go to her house again, last time she visited me in my dream complaining how I don't visit her house again, she said she came to stay with me in school, after her death, with multiple dreams of her giving me money, to some extent I started having small pocket money in school.

Last time I dreamt, I was frying sweet potatoes and she came to give me money. Sometimes, in my dream, she will call me to her room and gave me bunch of money to count, immediately I finished counting the money, she will smile and disappear before I return the money to her. She is always coming to give me money and gifts in one way or the other, she is always complaining that because she died that is why I am hungry that I shouldn't worry.

In the whole family, I am the only one seeing her in my dream since her death, sometimes I get really scared. Can grandma love her grandchild even till death? Can anyone explain these things happening to me? Could it be spiritual love? Please I need explanation.

She loves you dearly and probably you took after her

I think she wants to give you wealth that's why she is giving you money in the dream

It's time you talk to her and tell her what you feel about her
She has alot to reveal to you

She is doing everything possible to make sure that you don't starve

When next you see her, ask her why she keeps coming to you, knowing the fact that she is gone

Lostchild:
(Anonymous) on quora

I regret divorcing my 1st husband! I married him 3 weeks after I turned 22, I blame my immaturity and lack of experience on my reasons for leaving. This man treated me wonderfully, I was young, foolish and immature. I thought the grass was greener on the other side, it wasn't green it was burnt and fried. Karma has been repaid to me over most of the 20+ years since I left him. I'm no longer young, or neive, nor am I'm as immature and shallow as I was then. If I could turn back time I would have never left him. He told me I would regret it and I do!

Do you guys still communicate
If yes, keep on the communication

Let's start with that

DaddyRochie1642:
Despite the "Hate" and "condemnation" that people show this Bobrisky, he keeps going from strength to strength.

I wish him well.

He is a one man squad

Airforce1:
Ok so I've been dating my baby mama for 2years and we cool and planning for the future till my father called to question my ability to impregnate a woman.

He went as far as saying if I can't impregnate the girl he always see me with that I should bring her to him to help me out ..

I was like what tha Bleep??

So after that day, tmy mindset changed and I started diving in improtected and that was how I became a baby daddy of 2 beautiful kids.

You have proved to him that you are a complete man

Do the needful

DoctorDree:
Over and over again I don’t think the suya killed them

It's obvious the man and his family was the target of the poison
So for the fact that there are holiday makers at home, they have to join them to eat

Hence the massive casualties

I use to love that hospital in the 90s

They save my mum's life there
May his soul rest in peace

Saimeritus:
Greetings All and trust you are staying safe.
Please I would need your candid and mature advice on this issue.
Should I go for a 150k job in Nigeria or a Fully funded Scholarship for Msc in Malaysia that pays $1000 monthly plus an annual payment too.

School is starting October and would need your mature advice. Thanks.

Pls go and do your Masters and plan your future, you will always get 150k job in Nigeria

But when you get there, stay away from drugs once you are caught, death strait

Iyaebe:
He's already in the hospital

He must be on drugs and could be the kind of drugs one takes, then relax to get it deep and feel the effects in private then come out to join the family

Such drugs can be chewed so it's not about smoking

But if he doesn't want to open up on what he does for spending such hours

Then it will be revealed after amputation because who will drive him to the bathroom and spend such hours waiting for him

eniorisha:
This is a lie. One happened just 1km away from their part @ Igolo(Idiroko border) dt consumed several cars some years ago.

Is alright

travelwaka:
I have visited the Republic of Benin a couple of times, one thing I noticed is the lack of filling stations across the nation. So I decided on my next visit, I will look out for fuel stations. One thing is obvious, at every corner of the country, there are black fuel marketers selling fuels in gallons along the street. This can be seen in almost every nook and cranny of this country.
On further enquiry, I discovered most of the fuel was smuggled from Nigeria. After spending three days in the city and driving several kilometres. Finally, I found only three fuel stations. Out of the three, only one of them had fuel. It is because people hardly buy fuel from filling stations. They prefer to buy from black marketers. You will hardly see cars pulling over at filling stations to purchase fuel. Other residents who do not buy the black market fuel would travel from the Republic of Benin towards Seme or Idiroko border in Nigeria to purchase fuel, then drive back to their country.

It got me thinking, how can a whole country run on illegal fuel trade? It is a story for another day.

The Facts
The majority of the fuel used in Benin is smuggled from Nigeria
There is an organized fuel smuggling cartel that runs the business from Nigeria all the way to Benin Republic.
Locals claim These trades are aided by the Nigerian customs, police and immigration officers stationed along that route. They pay bribes to be able to ship through the route. Also, the Nigerian borders are so porous, people also smuggle fuel through some illegal routes.
These illegal trades serve as a source of employment to thousands of Benin Republicans who engage in this trade.
Fuel in the Republic of Benin is more expensive than in Nigeria. Buying fuel in Nigerian is cheaper because the cost of petrol is subsidized by the Government.
The Benin Republic Government is turning a blind eye to this illegal trade. This illegal business serves as a source of livelihood to thousands of residents. Also, it does not have any negative economic implications on their economy. Benin is a poor country and since the government cant provide them jobs, they rather just let the trade continue
The smuggled fuel in Benin is between 20 to 40 per cent cheaper than the official pump price. This illegal trade didn’t start today, it has been ongoing for over 2 decades.


Source: https://www.travelwaka.com/check-out-the-fuel-stations-in-benin-republic/

Funny enough, you won't hear of fire outbreak

Am just glad that he wedded her to fulfill that he actually married her

While her family is feeling the pains
Let the Pastor feel the shame he caused by himself and for himself