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tydi:
Kinda life I wanna live
Gat Ma baby mamas scrabbling for my riches when I might had departed

Imagine

They are actually hungry but they just want to respect themselves being that, they are visitors

burningspear:
Thanks for support. Please advise if it's safe to share their number here. We dont want her harmed.

She will be saved, worst case they rape her

Meanwhile don't share the kidnappers number to anyone except the police to avoid complications

Akinblogdotcom:
Popular Celebrity blogger, Linda Ikeji has recently changed the surname of her son Jayce from her baby daddy’s name Jeremi to that of her own father Ikeji as she celebrates him on his birthday.

https://www.akinblog.com/wp-content/uploads/2021/09/linda.jpg

Linda Ikeji for some reason changed the surname of her son Jayce to Ikeji taking the identity of his father Jeremi from it and even changed it in his Instagram bio and we wonder why.

For reasons best known to her, Linda Ikeji changed the surname of her son, Jayce to Ikeji, removing the identity of his father Jeremi from it and even changed it in his Instagram bio and we wonder why.

Some possible reasons why most women give their father's surname to their kids could be when the father of their kids doesn't take responsibility and do what they are expected to do as fathers or sometimes the mothers just feel like based on privacy issues.

But in the case of Linda Ikeji, we believe something might be wrong somewhere because she was using the baby daddy's name Jeremi for her son, Jayce but then has changed it all of a sudden which means something might have gone wrong somewhere and we are yet to discover it.

Linda Ikeji hardly talks about her baby daddy and now is trying to delete his identity from the life of her son Jayce by giving him her father’s surname meaning she doesn’t want to have anything do with him again until whatever be the reason is solved.

The poor boy is going to be the one who will suffer the most in all this drama since he would have to live his life without his father now that his mother is trying to cut him off in their lives.

https://www.akinblog.com/popular-celebrity-blogger-linda-ikeji-changes-her-sons-surname-from-her-baby-daddys-name-to-her-fathers-name-see-reasons/

That's the best decision for she and her son

Funflipper:
But she is not the only child of her father. She should learn (at least from her younger sister Temi) how to conduct herself like a lady.

She is the crazy type

Funflipper:
But she is not the only child of her father. She should learn (at least from her younger sister Temi) how to conduct herself like a lady.

She us the crazy type

Lessons123:
I have a wife and blessed with a daughter, I earn extremely high and I am in a debt of over 2m monthly as a result of paying for a loan monthly to set up a business for my wife which has gulped over 30m and still a failure though this is the second failure of business opened.

I decided to open the business as we both agreed she should resign as her salary as a teacher was the same salary with one of our two maids.

The issue is despite doing very well financially, my wife always gives me issues and there doesn't seem to be any love apart from me being her daily ATM.

There was actually a phase when I had challenges financially and she was the only person to mock me.

I need your advice as the quarrels are becoming too constant and the severe quarrels are majorly related to my brother in laws and sister in laws. Mind you my brother in law has been living with us and disrespects me and she defends him. Also before the marriage she was a very humble and tolerating lady until the business was opened. Sometimes I feel guilty as my dad had to sell his house in lekki and is in the process of buying a house in Ajah because he needed only 10m to complete his house in the village, which I could have easily provided if it wasn't for my indebtedness through my wife.

Mature advise please.

You are just being a gentleman and and she is just being the wild cat

It's time to make up your mind on how best to deal with her

Draw a line that for now, you don't want your inlaws visits or stay in your house

Next move, once it's now your family alone, give her the attitude that will humble her, make her to change from bad to good or she is free to leave the home

Take only action follow her, don't talk because any negative statements from you is a weapon against you

Stop whatever business you are setting up for her, if the business hasn't been yielding any profit, so that you can clear your debt

Her income is not even enough to feed the family so let her go back to teaching if possible, since her character changed after you set up the business

Reduce your domestic staff to just one and she will be forced to do some house chores that will keep her busy

You can go into plan B of any business to support the family or hold on and clear your loan debt hanging on you

Time will tell you what next to do, after thinking about all I mentioned

I think you are spoiling her but you were actually building her as a future back up

Some women don't know how to treasure a gold simply because they didn't sweat to have it

Jerewise332:
To me this lady is not even attractive

Her father's name is what makes her attractive and that's enough for her and anyone who wants to know about her

delzbaba:
Pls i'm a novice, is a three year old supposed to use braces on his teeth?

Some people teeths were not properly arranged by default, so bracing is a way of arranging them

AutoChick4U:
Hope u read and digested his post? Hope u know some parents push their kids into depression ryt?

If you read my comments well, you will come across where I say that, listen to her and pick the advice he needs

I did not say, he must follow whatever his parents tells him

Kobojunkie:
According to whom? Let me guess, your parents?

So many out in Nigeria would have benefitted a great deal from not listening to their parents.. it's the truth. Parents aren't as wise as many try to believe them to be. No , wisdom belongs to those who work at it and most Nigerian parents don't.

Wisdom does not even belong to the Old either. If the world in the west had listened to the Old, imagine where the world would still be today.

Irrespective of your thinking towards parents, it depends on your relationship with your parents

The way you relate with your parents seems different from the regular way

Don't spoil others mind

AutoChick4U:
Him picking is a wrong move cause she'll trigger d bitterness in him.

Anyone can call you and give you an advice
It's ip to you to take it or not
But at least, you have to listen to the advice especially when it comes from your parents

Lostchild:
She married the man for his looks.

If she is a humble person, she will treat the man with respect and kindness.

She is toxic

If the man is handsome, let her enjoy is looks
If he married her for her money, let him deal with it

finewoman:
Matured advice only, A friend of mine who happens to be my neighbor is having difficulties deciding what to do. Her husband who is a business man told her he is traveling to Abuja and when she inquired to know why he is traveling he refused to tell her, he bought flight ticket and left their home to Abuja and my friend dropped him off at the airport thinking maybe when he gets there, he will tell him why he travelled. Few hrs after the man arrived my friend called and was hearing women’s voice in the bar ground, when she insisted on whom he went to see, oga ended the call, she called back and oga picked but refused to talk. Maters excalated and a man picked the call and tried to explain to madam that nothing was happening and that a man shouldn’t be telling a wife abt his every move. My friend rushed and reported his husband behavior to his elder sister who he listens to and when his sister called, he explained to her that he went for business. But my friends anger is why will her husband not tell her why he is traveling. The next morning oga called and still tried to claim he was right but amidst the conversation and before they could resolve the issue the call dropped, and he never called back, it’s been 3 days now and he has not called my friend neither has my friend called him back. She needs your urgent advice on how to pass a massage to her husband that what he did is not acceptable. Was oga right with what he did? Is my friend over reacting? Note my friend is a house wife and depends on husbands monthly allowance to feed. Married folks pls advice her as I am not married and don’t know what to tell her. She will read your comments. Thanks.

Anytime a man wants to cheat they will be forming and claiming rights to cover up

Let's assume he went to see another woman, that means he has been cheating on her and now he has moved the game to another state

Tell your friend to relax and stop reporting him

Let her just make sure that, she makes crazy demands for the children and other home things to the extent that he won't have enough to give to another woman

Over time he will get tired of cheating

Men do cheat for no good reason

AdviseMePls:
Please someone should just tell me. I want to run away from these people. I want to do this in the right way.

I'm just a young man trying to do well for my family and myself.

You don't need to run away, plan for your exit so that you don't ever come back to stay with them

Anytime she calls you, listen to her and pick just the words that makes sense to you

Go low and silent anytime you pack out so that your achievements will be the report card that they will be seeing

AdviseMePls:


Someone should talk to me. My mum has been giving me mental troubles. Most especially when this goes sore for me. She has always been doing that.
And as a man, I deserve no stress.

I noticed, whenever I have, my family always want to be close to me. When I go broke, they'll dump me.

They want to have control all over my life and I'm not yet married. Now u think things will get worse for me when I get married.

Right now, I'm homeless, I lost everything. I'm planning so hard to fix up myself. But my family are making it difficult. My mum especially, whenever she calls me. I don't get the mothering advice I want from her. All she does is nag and complain over me not calling her.

The worst thing she did to me, when I was in the hospital dying, she and everyone left me. My mum visited and felt so reluctant about me. She was not moved. I couldn't pay my hospital bills to receive the right treatment. My friend have to borrow from his sis for me to be treated. She was not moved. Only a friend of mine who I'm squatting with now. Everyone dumped me. When I got back to my feet and visited. They started feeling entitled again. They started billing me here and there. I feel pain because I was just trying to stand up again.

My dad and I have never been friends right from time. When I visited his last two months and notice he's been passing through a lot that I never notice from time. I tried to embrace him and showed him some love. I observed my mum was pained about this. She has been irritated by my goods towards my dad.

I'm a man, I know she's my mum. I can't allow women to control my life. I feel I own my life as a man. She always wants me to take all her advice which I know not all the advice will help me.

I feel bittered.

Well it's written all over the wall that thru only need your money not you as a person

Start planning so that you don't ever get to beg them

Reduce the help you give to those who doesn't care about you among them

When you want to get married make sure you get her pregnant before introducing her to the family else they will reject her

Olivertwist1985:
My wife which we have been married for the past thirteen (13) years and have five(5) children, four boys and girl for me ,just left my house on Sunday to her parent house without informed me.

She left because we have little disagreement about monthly food allowance which I used to give her every month but I failed to give her this month when she requested for

She left with the girl which is six months old and a boy two years and left three boys for me.

Please I need your advice, should I go and beg her or I should forget about her and continue with my life. According to my family members, they said I should forget about her because of the manner she left.

Pls use your head don't get deceived

I will advise you go and beg her to come back and two of you will sort your differences

You alone can't handle those children, even if you bring in your girl friend or mistress, it will get worst so far their mother is still alive

If you then wish, when you have money, you can send her packing since she wants to go in the first place

But bear in mind that there is more to this report

Every family have their own problems and even the so called men that will advise you not to go and beg her are going through more difficult moments with their wives at home but because of shame they have decided to bear the pains and ensure it

Go and reconcile with your wife then deal with her later, when you find your bearing. If you think she is a bad woman

Mmadu2:
I bought a smart TV and everyone knows how costly a smart TV is these days. I have good relationship with my next door neighbor but though he's a very nice guy but he has a flaw which is that he lies a lot. He's single.

He had a small get together in his mini flat so he begged to use my sitting room cos its bigger. I let him and went about my job.

I rarely watch my TV cos I'm very busy with work and come back late tired, eat, shower, browse and sleep. So it was only a week later that I finally got the chance to switch on my TV and behold its damaged and can't display anymore. I never allowed anyone in my sitting room except the day my neighbor used it which is a week ago. I also live alone for a month now and never had visitors of any kind.

I'm filled with madness but don't know exactly how to confront him since he codedly never told me. My main worry is that he will outrightly lie and deny it even if I confront him.

What would you do in my situation??

Confront him, let him deny and if he denies
That will be the battle line draw

Repair the damage television and reduce your relationship with him to just good morning

owenseddies40:
My wife gave birth to 3boys and one girl for me,my last son scares me a lot because whenever I see him, it's like am before my father.they look alike,talk alike and behaviours too, it's really scarry

What's scary there, is your father Gene no longer in you

Lostchild:
O bobby.
You speak the truth.

A rich man will marry a poor woman and lift her up, but can't a woman do the same?

I just felt the woman she is not a good person.

Exactly, maybe she is not a good person

saphiere:
Congrats baby girl.

Who is going to take me out this night? I feel bored and bitter. I need to free up some thoughts.

My dear, take charge of your happiness
Give yourself the treath that you desire
Take yourself for outing, don't wait for anyone to do that for you

Havesomesense:
If you ride carefully and it is not your time to go 6ft below. You are good.

That's gambling, you can't ride a bicycle one a crazy road that all sort of vehicles are spreading on

Assuming the bicycle have a separate lane like BRT then every average Nigerian will ride one excluding minors

slan87:
Am not the seller ma,

Ok

I'm

Lostchild:
Is it bad for a poor man to marry a rich Woman?

By Arjun Armaan
A handsome poor man who married a rich woman really was humilated by her and her family member after marriage. I seen his suffering directly as I worked as a driver for that rich family. I don't know why she married him? whole family treated him like slave, not allowed him to work, just forced him to do house hold chores includes cleaning , cooking and taking care of his kids. His wife (my boss) many times insulted him and even slapped him in public places. He doesn't have any money for himself and he needs to beg her even ( less than one dollar ).

I think she married him just for house hold work, sex and making babies. Moreover he can't question her on what she does and where she goes. A selfish rich lady wants husband only for name sake …

You don't know probably if he married her for her money

As a man, don't ever put your mind in a woman's money when getting married or dating, you may end up with frustration

toyad1:
Price: 120,000 last
Location :Gbagada
Call or whatzapp: 08033928094

At that price, why not make use of it

Even if you have ine before, dispose that and start using this one

slan87:
I really wish I can madam

How much is the table gas burner

Havesomesense:
Why do many Nigerians no longer use bicycle as means of transportation.

It's very rare to see an average Nigerian riding bicycle to work, school or church.

What happened?

With these mad cows called trailer drivers and their crazy driving.?
Who wants to die a painful death ?

bigjackass:
I just got pears baby lotion this evening and on getting home I saw that the lotion inside is light pink which is strange to me because the pears I know is white . I don't know if I should throw it away or the light pink lotion is also normal

Go to a reputable supermarket and get another one, then compare both contents, for clarification pls

DubaiLandLord1:
Is Tonto dinner no longer a woman of god?

Why she go dey send her nude... That means say she dey fuvck be that o

Person wey never marry

If you read this very well, you won't see where they stated that she sent a nude picture

The stupid man mounted a secret camera

Read it again and again

Emaxwell:
Her registration number can be use to get email address from printing her venue slip

Tell them to print her examination venue slip on it her mail is there

For using last year mail and number it does not matter because the year differs operation/activity on the jamb portal is due to year so she would have to select this year before she can do anything on the portal.


But like I said earlier once you get the email to open the account go to jamb center since you said her Gmail can't be accessed

Thanks for these

Juliusdaughter:
Let me just start somewhere
Growing up as an introvert was difficult cos I guess my mum didn't understand my quite personality, she talks about how I am not 'sharp' how I am not fashionable and whatever else she cannot really relate to. I am in my mid 20s now and she still insults me when she is in the mood.
It's funny how I am the only child she insults so much, I am her first born. I left my former work place due to Corona last year and I've been home since. I have trained as a tailor tho I don't have a shop or customer base yet.

She insulted me tonight again for cooking dinner late, she said why should I finish cooking dinner by past 7? Called me names and all that. Its been over a year that she went to the market last because I now do that, I make breakfast and dinner, I don't keep late night, I barely go out, yet she finds reason to talk me down.

She has started to insult my fiancé now too, she says he is poor and cannot take care of me, what has he achieved for himself? And the reason she isn't much against us is because she doesn't know if he will have money tomorrow. He isn't even jobless, it's just unfortunate that government don't pay their workers on time.

I don't have a single emotional connection with her, I have tried and I have failed. I think it's time to move out of the house and start my tailoring business. I don't have the finance to rent a shop and a house separately, so I want to rent a room and parlor and make it both my living and work space. Is this a good move? I cannot function properly in this house anymore.
How do I build my customer base from working in the house?

If your boy friend truly loves you and you guys have plans for the future, seat down and discuss this with him

If you know that you have enough money to rent the room and parlour, then good so far you will not get broke before the next rent

You can still rent a room and start your hustling from there

It's a pity she is behaving this way

A time shall come, she won't be able to access you because she is already destroying the bridge that links both of you

SegZ24:
Happy Sunday to us all..

Doctors in the house, abeg make una educate me more..

When it comes to your health or diet, doctors and researchers advise/encourage us to drink lot and lot of water because of the health benefit it gives, rather than in take of coke and sugary substance...

I tried putting this advice into practice so many times.
First thing in the morning after devotion or before stepping out for work, I make sure I drink at least 2 glass cup of water..

But one thing I have come to notice is that, after drinking enough water before stepping out, the rate at which I use the gent (urinate) is quiet higher than when I don't even drink water in the morning.. Within 1hr, I would have make use of the gent like 3-4 times, till like 12pm before I return back to norm..

So I began to wonder, is something wrong with my system or do I need to go for any check up or that's how it suppose to be

I tried making some findings on google, but I could not lay my hands on something convincing enough.

So Please doctors in the house, educate me more,
Am I in good shape or I still need a medical check up??

I know se some fellaz go still yab me, it is allow..

You are just alright

The frequent urine is Asa result of two glasses if water

Stop taking it and it will reduce