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leetech93:
Hello my people, I am writing this post with a huge sadness in my heart, My longtime girlfriend of 6 years ,just told me we shouldn't waste each other time ,that she can't marry me and so we should call it quit.
I am presently 27yrs and she is 24, we both met on 2go while I was 21 and she was 18, that was long before I entered the University and she his presently a final year student of Ta sued, she should be done by now barring the corona pandemic, I just concluded my Nysc and am trying to establish my feet. Though, we have had it roughs along the line especially in her 200 level when a guy entered the frame( student of the same institution), we settled and move on, and since then it been pretty cool but bumpy sometimes. The moko is that I love her a lot and from what she said yesterday, she said she had been doing everything to make me see that we can't marry but I am just too loving and loyal, I am a confirm street guy that knows how to run matter but I am the type that don't know how to commit myself in two ways, so I gave my best and commit my energy one one front. Though, I have made up my mind to let her go for real boos I think she is taking advantage of the too much love I have for her, and the fact she is the only one. All my days in the university( OAU), I never engaged in any relationship bkos I can't commit myself on two fronts, and I lost two ladies that evidently love me on that ground. please I just need opinions on what to do, bkos some part of me want to let her go, but I love her too much , that am feeling like to convince her again
Please I want contributions from the experienced persons in da house. please, even if you want to insult me, no problem, just make a meaningful contribution

As painful as it is, you will have to adjust to cope with it

But she is supposed to tell you her reasons and observations why you guys can't continue the relationship

You need to have a heart to heart discussion with her and if her reasons are valid then let her go

She never took your loving nature on her for granted, women appreciates men who shows love to them

Unless the ingrates

God made women for men

So at any point in time, they must find something attractive in them

Kosiso12:
Woman Chained To Pillar For Ten Hours By Her Husband Rescued In Ebonyi (Photos)

A middle-aged woman, identified as Mrs Ngozi Chukwuani who was chained to a pillar for ten hours by her husband, identified as Uche has been rescued in Ebonyi State, IGBERE TV has learnt.

According to report, the husband who resides with the wife at No 1 Ike street in Abakaliki, the state capital reportedly fled with the key of the padlock.

Some of the residents who spoke to our correspondent revealed that Uche hit his daughter’s head with the chain while she was trying to stop him from beating Mrs Chukwuani.

Mrs Chukwuani was said to have been rescued by men of the Ekeaba Police division. The couple both hail from Enugu State.

The Special Assistant to Governor David Umahi on security and utility, the capital city, Mr. Nchekwube Saints Anakor, on Tuesday, who condemned the incident also instructed a welder to remove the chains from Mrs Chukwuani, adding that the suspect would be apprehended and prosecuted.

Anakor said: “This evening (Tuesday) at no.1 Ike street, Mr Uche Chukwuani chained his wife to a pillar in their building and ran away with the key. Thanks to Ekeaba police whose timely response saved the situation.

“I had to send a welder who cut the chain. One question kept on coming to my mind, what did this woman do to warrant being chained like a dog by her own husband. Does whatever transpired warrant such dehumanization?

“Always be careful in what you do for ignorance is no excuse in law. I am always on patrol till daybreak expecting to hear from you. The Neighborhood Watch is stationed in every part of the town protecting ur areas. Reach out to them for any challenges or call me,” Anakor said.

Mrs Chukwuani said her husband had earlier threatened to deal with her because his mistress is suffering.

Source : https://igberetvnews.com/1359858/woman-chained-pillar-ten-hours-husband-rescued-ebonyi-photos/

When women like me stands against inhumanity and maltreatment from men, you guys will say they are feminist

Tell me one good moral reason for a man to do this to a woman he sleeps and wake up with from the same bed

Yes it's possible love can go sour. If your mistress is being harassed by your wife, simply pack to your mistress instead of treating her as if she has no value again

I can't stop men from changing taste of women, but don't frustrate her because you found a fresh lover someone else will still appreciate her if she wants to pay back

Just walk away, it's the best option

Anyway it's still better than killing her

All women have the same taste drop the former one and get another one, it's the same taste with different look

Nonsense

lexy2014:
To begin with, u haven't even explained anything.

If nin is to identify ur financial transactions, what is d work of bvn? Is identifying financial transactions d original purpose of nin?

Am done with you

Xinox:
I started driving at 15 and became a defensive and trained driver at 19.Don't get me wrong, I am a graduate from one of the prestigious universities but my love for driving pushed me into a difficult situation. My Boss is a nice man and the wife will always want me in bed! How can I pay this Man that is so kind to me with evil. At 25 iam a mess if I can do this to a good man... I resigned from this job a week ago cos I can't tell the man this is what the wife is doing and the man keep asking me to come back to work. Please I am confuse, advise me.

You can go back to continue working for him and his family

But stand on your ground over the wife that you can't sleep with her

I will advise you don't tell your boss

But she may set you up, once you sence danger, run for your life

Fear that woman a desperate woman is twice dangerous

SirMichael1:
How do you think she'll allow a man whom she doesn't love to see her uncloth and then have sex and also make it PASSIONATE?

If you read well, you will see where I said that love and affection grows with time

Don't be surprise if it happens this public holidays

MhizJoyce:
A friend of mine told me she hadn't registered, yet she dialed it and got hers. You never know...

OK naw

Slymonster:
I tried it now myself. It worked, provided it is the same number linked with your BVN.

If you read well, you would have understood that op hasn't even registered for nin

Kizzygentle:
I don't even have an nin number.

Pls quickly do, that's the same thing that happened to op

lexy2014:
If nin is to identify ur financial transactions, what is d work of bvn? Is identifying financial transactions d original purpose of nin?

NIN gives you a true identity as a Nigerian and its link to your BVN

What other explanations do you need

Royalfurnitures:
Voters card, International passport are supposed to be equivalent to NIN



Your home is incomplete without good quality furniture, that's why we are here for you

The above two ID mentioned above serves two different purposes

But nin is to identify you within your country and your financial transactions

Kizzygentle:
Am I the only one that is ancient. How did NIN and transfer of money connect. Please can some one enlighten me so I don't get trapped someday. Thanks.

Every one's account is link to nin by default through BVN

They will give you time if you don't get your nin, you will not be allowed to have access to your account

YungMike:
If it's cash.... Transfer the cash via POS terminals na.

It won't even work for any form of transfer from that account

MhizJoyce:
Dial *346# to get it. It'll cost you 20 naira. Make sure you settle me if it works.

How do you expect him to dial that number and get a non existing number since he has never even registered for nin

It's not possible

sogodihno:
I need to urgently disburse some cash in Bank, about 5 million to some people, but I have not been able to do this due to lack of NIN number, the NIMC center is currently not functioning, so their is no way I can't get it. The bank won't accept other means of identification like voters card or driver license, only NIN.


Please, what can I do, I need to transfer the money before this month end?

You must have been aware that your BVN is directly linked to your supposed nin number if you had ever gotten any one before and since you don't have a national ID number, automatically you can't withdraw because time has elapsed not just for you but for every one in your case who doesn't have a national ID number

Quickly go to Alausa and get yourself sorted out in which ever way you can

Chinkos99:
Our company recently employed this guy, we worked in the same company before, then he was a manager and i was a junior staff.

I left the company years ago and joined another, so few months ago he got employed in my new office as a Director.

When he resumed, being that i knew him before, i started playing around with him, like when he was introduced to us, i was like oo, common, i hug him tightly and people were surprise at our closeness before i informed them that we have worked together before.

I am a jovial person, so each time i go around his office, i will call him boyfriend, my love, hope no girl is trespassing cos i will fight o and his subordinates will laugh and say you are not serious.

On the job, we get to work together at times cos i am a Manager now, we go for meetings etc, then some of his job includes doing some short production, even though i am not employed as a video producer, i told him i can do those for him personally, cos i recently learn those, he was surprise before but he decided to give me a try, i did it for him and he liked it, he became close and said i was helping him solve alot of problems.

Recently when he comes to my office, he will ask my PA where is my woman and that one will laugh knowing i started it but i just thought that was it though.

So last month when we went to the Palms Mall, to seek for permission to film their facilities in the short production work we had, we were together then he decided to do some shopping, i helped him carry the things he bought and just had fun, he took me to shoprite and ask me to shop, i just pick two things, drink and rice and he said is that all i said yes, he started showing me things, take this, take that i said i was okay, that it wasnt appropriate to come here and start shopping like its month end. So we left, in the car he said, you do have some very good attribute girl, i said like what, he said never mind and we drove off.

After that he started asking if we can have lunch but most time our lunch time dont sync, so i told him not to worry, then he asked for a dinner, i close late, im a workaholic, so most times i will agree but i will work till 9pm and he would have waited and get tired and left.

Finally i get to have a dinner date with him and he ask if we could do this more often, i said why not boyfriend jokingly, the next time we were having dinner, I said boyfriend let me greet that guy there, i really needed to meet him, he has a contact i need for work, he held me and said you call me boyfriend jokingly, i want you to mean it lol.

After i met with the guy, he started telling me how he loved me and how he will really love us to be in a relationship, he doesnt expect a yes and he knows its so wrong on all level because we work in the same place, but i can think about it and give him a response later that he will respect any decision i make.

I said thank you o, but since then, dude is so soft and nervous when he sees me, i can see the butterflies even when we are in a client meeting.

Even though he tries not to make it obvious at work, after work he is all over me

Last night we were together, i told him i am scared as he is almost 40 and not married, that i believe any guy who gets to that age, with enough money but has not married is a play boy lol. He couldn't say a word for like some minutes then he said, yes i am old enough to have been married and i had relationships, beautiful relationships with wonderful women, some didn't work because of my mistakes and because of things i neglected and some didn't work because it was not meant to work, but above all have learnt alot to be at least a better man and i am ready to make it work this time i promise, i have no doubt if you are the right girl because have known you for long and have never had a second thought about my woman, so forgive me for not making it work all these while, i want to make it right this time - MEHN THOSE WORDS RINGS IN MY HEAD LIKE KILODE, i loved the fact that he didnt put the blame on the ladies he's dated.

Now on my own side, I do not feel anything for him but i like him alot, i like that we should be hanging out, go out, do dinner and talk from morning tonight but i do not feel anything aside that. What do you guys advise.

Live grows with time and develop with affections

My concern is your job security, if its allowed to do so in your work place, which might lead to one of you leaving the job for another

Until you guys make passionate love to each other, you will not be able to measure how much you love him

Bigyusluv:
Hello good morning.

Late April during lockdown, my friend sent me a post, which was advertised by her mom customer in need of an accountant urgently, the job was for graduate and I'm an undergraduate, final year thou I should have graduated since 2018 but left school in my first semester 400l due to mental health issues I was facing which no one know( I can't read and comprehend as I used to anymore) got bored of reading and preparing for exams, set eyes on making money. Just too broke at that time.

I applied for the job with fate, and I was called, went for interview thrice before I was given the job. due to my experience of working as an assistant accountant in one big hotel and working as branch manager in another hotel, and not staying far I was given the job. The pay range was 35k based on my qualifications thou.

I started work first week of May, not too stressful but I'm to resume by 6am and close 6pm, daily allowance 2k and my salary ... I do make 50-60k weekly aside my daily allowance and salary.

Reason I'm thinking about quitting is, early June, on my way to work on bike, I had an accident with Keke, which the Keke man was clearly at fault for swerving without checking his side mirror, but then again, it was just the two of us (bike man and Keke man) on the road, same lane, nothing coming back or front of us, yet the accident.

I had a bruise on my hand and a kinda deep wound an inch from my ankle bone. (which haven't gone yet, used original honey to bring out the surface, thou I no longer feel pains, recently it has dried up).

During that accident period nor of my colleagues/bosses came to visit me as I was home for a week. But my colleagues kept sending my own share from the runs money.

Last Thursday on my way to work, very close to my work place, walking on the street that lead to my office and one man I don't know, was inside his shop/house, saying to me, oboy this your leg never go, na wa oh, them wan just spoil ur leg for you, that your place wey u dey work many don run commot there cause of the juju things wey them dey use follow their workers, better dey pray every day and when u enter office guy. I said thank you sire, while getting to the office tears dropped from my eyes as I prayed.

Next day being Friday on my way home, the bike I took we both fell down, falling to where my wound is, I had to be smart and quickly dodge the bike from landing on that leg... I paid the bike man and trekked to the bustop to get Keke.

This job has really changed me from that sad dude to happy dude, due to financial capability right now... I'm now free of debt and brokenness.

Please advise me, cause I'm not really a spiritual person but all these are making me prayerful (never believed in juju and attack before).

It could be a spiritual attack, either from the owner to renew her strength in her own world or from your home to ruin you

If you don't have time for prayers, create it and more will be revealed to you

LordNicvuitton:
Hi Romancelanders, don't know if it's right to share this topic here, but I'll do for now.

I'm Victory, from the East and currently a resident of Edo state. I came to this state, as an intern and thereafter, still served here and in the course of all these, I thought out and established a laundry business, which is just about 8 months old. This was to keep life going and to better bond well with the lady in my life currently.

While in Edo state, having rounded my internship & kickstarting service sometime around 2017, I met this Kiki Osemudiamen (Name changed), and it was nothing serious at 1st, cos I never really thought I'd date someone here, fact is that I never thought I'd stay beyond my service year. I met her while she was in 200l. We encouraged each other, she saw potentials and had faith in me just like I have so much faith in her. She is simplistic, encourages me to save and I in turn, encouraged her and guided her through some of her studies. She passed her 2nd MB.BS. and is currently awaiting lifting of the lockdown on schools, so she can start her clinicals.

Problem is that she came from a not buoyant family financially, and although both parents are alive, she struggles to survive/feed daily. Her dad supplies about 1000litres/trip water to households, while her mum sells at the local market. I on the other hand, came from a middle class family but my Dad is late since 2012, and I've been a sponsor of my education and that of my younger ones through the lil I inherited (which mum manages for now) plus my various endeavours. She depends on me for daily meals and other basic essentials, in fact I had to place her on salary in my laundry shop during this lockdown, so she plays the role of secretary in my shop too.

The latest challenge came about, yesterday. While she slept in the shop, I was out on errand, someone sneaked into the shop and stole her android phone with all of her e-medics textbooks (she reads mostly e-copies because she can't afford hardcopies), she has been crying all through and I really don't know what to do. Since I knew her, She'd been an appendage and an extra financial burden to me, I can't begin to list what I've done for her, although I kept reminding her never to not have entitlement mentality and she does appreciate. Out of desperation to ease her pain, I promised to sponsor her in getting a new phone. I have burdens, huge ones, I'm yet to acquire a diesel engine for my laundry (I use ponytail industrial iron which has higher voltage/current than normal ones), plus other related merchandise that I need to set up and I feel like she slows down my financial pace.

Honestly, I don't do all these for her, hoping for any personal gains, in the words of my daddy in the Lord, Prophet T.B. Joshua, He said and I quote: "We make a living by what we get and we make a life by what we give" but I am almost fed up and tired, especially when I remember that both her parents are still alive.. I am scared that that for the 1st time, I may fail her in that financial obligation because I honestly need money now, with the whole pandemic issue plus, I feel like she slows me down in life financially and a huge burden to me. Right now, she's so attached to me, more so that when I initially wanted to hault our relationship, it almost nearly affected her academics negatively. Please I need matured minds to help me think this through and garnish me with advice(s) because I almost feel so choked up and a rising urge to relocate from here, so i can breathe again.

NB: Advice from married couples and those in serious relationships, will be highly appreciated.

Modified: She went to her bank (First bank) this morning, only to be informed that about 20k (Her mum's business money) has been used to purchase recharge voucher. Her mum sends/receives money from distant customers through her account. Yesterday's scenario, all over again. Please folks, lock your SIM cards just as much as you lock your phones. Learn from this painful experience please.

Hmmm

My concern is, if you do all this for this woman, will she finally be your wife or you will leave her to go and look for her man or you don't mind losing her

Because to me, you have not stand well yet you are backing an able body

She doesn't look like a woman who is ready to struggle to support you

Just follow your mind

engrrichie92:
it's stressful, exhausting...not what I really love/want to be doing

My boss dosent like me...I can perceive my colleague see me as incompetent hence I don't have their respect

But then it pay this bills...that's the only motivation for me

I feel it shouldn't be that way...it should be more than money

I want to resign...

Just thinking out loud

Since you didn't give enough details to understand your lost if interest in the job, you can chose out of this two things

It's either you continue with the job, save money and plan what to do with it

Or you leave the job and start hunting for another job

The choice is yours

ikoroduarea:
Hi all,

I will really appreciate if moderator can help push this to front page.

Firstly, insults are welcome. I reside in Europe. Two of my friends they are biological brothers, they've been sucking me. I have been sending them money regularly for years, yes years, but I now realised that these people are not ready to work or learn any skill. Even their own biological brother in abroad reported them to me and doesn't take them serious anymore except their mum. Infarct, i used to send money to their mum too. But they just keep asking me for money everytime. Imagine I just sent you money when you said you are sick, two days after you sent me voice record asking me for money to rent a shop. Then the younger one who's chat bellow asking me for 100k for three of them as if I am picking money on the floor here. To some people in Nigeria who always think all nigerians in diaspora think we always think you're begging for money whenever you say hi just to hear from us, it is not the case. How about this too?

I am really tired. My wife who always agree I should help them have started complaining too. These two friends suddenly changed because I used to send them money even before they ask. It's like every week one problem must happen to them that require money. They will just send account number and the deadline time. They keep coming, coming, coming back again after giving. I have paid hundreds of thousands of naira for visa processing for one of them maybe at least they will stop asking me for money and one will be able to help his brother, but the visa was unsuccessful.

Few days ago one of them ask me to give him my sister's number that he just want to greet her since it's been years he saw her last. Behold, the next day my sister called to ask when did I hear from my friend last and did he mention about financial problem to me, I told my sister that he called me two days ago and asked of her number which I gave him. My sister said he requested for money to support his house rent and she sent him some money. I was shocked. Can you imagine guys? My friend. I am not saying it's a crime for him to ask my sister money but why lie to me that you just want to greet her when you asked me for her number? Whereas I just sent him money too not even up to a week.

See another demand again, see my reply, see his reply.

I know one or the two of them will start gossiping me around that I am proud, but they won't tell them about the good I have done for them, I have been doing. They won't. Some friends are not worth it anymore. I am very upset now that it's affecting me mentally and with my wife. Even my children were asking me last night "dad are you alright, you're not happy".

You know what again, one of them sent messages to my wife asking for mobile phone. I saw it but my wife didn't know that I saw it not until I responded to him myself and told my wife to never bother. My wife later sent the phone to him. Since then he's been using that opportunity to demand from her. Though he eventually stopped it but continue asking me only.

I have sent so much money but they just never stop asking. And I am not the time that take pictures and flaunt them on social media. I live my life on low-key.

I need your honest opinion.

Insults are welcome I promise I won't react to any insult.

I wanted to block them on my social media especially on WhatsApp but I had a rethink so they won't feel like I am proud because I am in abroad.

You have made yourself their meal ticket so you will remain so if you don't take a drastic measures

Stop telling them anything about you and your family, never

If their brother is avoiding them, how come you are the one they are sucking

Stop picking their calls and stop responding to their chats both from you, your wife and your sister

If you get a call from a strange number, just tell the person, pls send message am busy

Simple

Don't be surprise to hear that they have built a place from your gift

Be wise, even the country you are staying may decide to send you guys home due to immigration policy

Non of those two brothers will ever give you and your family a complete meal

Braintrain:
It honestly isn’t as Easy as said i am trying trust me mentally I’m lagging behind seriously I’ve never had that motivation to face life I’m introverted I don’t know how to connect with other people it’s hard for me

My dear brother

You must seat up, no matter how badly hurt you are

You can't remain an introvert, you need to be mixing up with people and free up yourself from anything that will give low self esteem and such will lead you to complex problems

Anyway, go closer to God and you will regain your stability

Braintrain:
Hey guys so basically I’m 24 yo in my finals studying a discipline in engineering in a federal university of technology
Right from when I was a child my father has always been irritated by me he has never seems to see any good in me I’m his first son and he doesn’t even act like it... I’ve seen my friends father-son relationship and I can’t but envy them my father hardly talked to me about life or About growing up he never cared to know what I do or cared to know who I hang out with I made a lot of mistakes growing up from 15-22 I got enveloped on drugs I had a tattoo on my forearm which till today he has no idea I’m not proud of it I had it when I was 16 I’m getting a laser removal soon I made a lot of mistakes growing up Mistakes that would have been avoided if I had some type of guidance he keeps up with the payment of my school fees and allowance and other financial benefits but it’s not all about that you know I’ve never been 24 before I don’t know what to expect but he has some sort of experience but he doesn’t share He was always quick to punish me as a kid and by punishment I mean flogging me with a hanger or with broom or with a tree branch he’ll flog me till I lose my voice from crying it was horrible growing up that the best moments of my growing up was when I went to the hostel away from home now he can’t obviously beat me so he switched to verbal assault he insults me at every opportunity he gets he curses me says I’ll never amount to anything he says things like I’m a bastard mind you he has been verbally assaulting me since I was little he calls me bastard as a normal insult I try to act though like it doesn’t get to me like his words don’t mean anything but deep down in my heart I’m broken I battled and conquered drug addiction on my own I was lost in secondary school sucked dick and was sucked but no penetration I’m not proud of this but I did it I’m mind you I’m not homosexual I was just bicurious and really Hot back then all this mistakes I made I’ve overcome and still trying to overcome them on my own I just feel it would have been easier if my dad had some sort of love for me
I see the way he is with my other siblings the way he smiles and plays with them he never did such with me he distanced himself from me on purpose as if he wants me to make mistake and end up a failure which I know I won’t
I did tramadol, ref and Lynn for close to 3 years I OD’ED a couple of times I had to fight my way out by myself I’m a good kid I found myself making friends with boys who had lost their dads and living life the way they want so I lived like them but I managed to realize myself by myself and cut ties with them

Is there anyone else’s who has the same relationship with their father or is just me

Is it possible that I’m not his son? Cause if I wasn’t he wouldn’t spend money on my education
Note that’s all he cares about my education he doesn’t care if I wear rags or if I don’t cut my hair or if I look like a hippie all he cares about is that I have the required textbooks or handouts or material for my course

You are going through a challenge thst will build you a better man, but the way you are going to handle it, is what will be the outcome at the end of your life

Now that your dad is throwing stones on you, gather the stones and use it to build your house

We have orphans and fatherless guys, yet they came out successfully

I don't want you to live a life of pity

Be strong and understand that you are standing alone and if you stand well, you will be a pillar to others

SIR0:
There's a girl in my neighborhood who I can refer to as my home sister. We're so close. We share feelings, advice & keep nothing from one another, our love life inclusive.

She has had quite a number of relationships and got disappointed in all. I've had one relationship too.

There was a time I told her about my feelings towards her & she said she would have loved to accept my proposal but she couldn't handle double-dating. Well, I felt okay having let her know my feelings. I understood her decision & I don't think I was ready to be kept as a spare tyre, too. We moved on with our friendship.

We talked both clean and dirty stuff. She would even tell me anytime she felt Hot & needed to see her boyfriend for sex. In short, we are now having mixed feelings for one another. It could no longer be hidden on her face, too.

As a lady, she's expecting me to make the first advance. Making the move is not my problem but the thoughts of some dirty talks we've had together. The most worrying part was a time she got drunk with her friend at a birthday party & she mistakenly called one of her Ex-bfs (who she loved most) over & he took advantage of the moment to have his way with her again. Though she claimed she was not sure if something really happened between them but she noticed she had no pant on when she woke up in the morning, blablabla. To me, the guy is not that reliable as he is into drinking & smoking. She appears too innocent to be dating such a guy & I gave my advice. She might not really disclose all that transpired at the birthday party. I kept thinking the guy could have recorded the act, knowing well that she's stark drunk. What if our relationship leads to marriage & the guy begins threatening her with sex-tape or he leaks any sex tape involving her, how would I go about it? Aside her other sex life, this is most worrisome of all.

My thinking/guess may be wrong, yet I do not want to be caught unaware, to avoid stories that touch later. This is a dilemma for me. I truly love her but my happiness matters a lot.

Don't hesitate to advise a brother.
Kindly overlook any grammatical blunders.

Thanks

Every one has a past

But most painful aspect is that they concentrate on women past more than men past

If you wish you go ahead with her and if you don't pls let her go

stanliwise:
That advice is what a timid person would take.

Why not tell her honestly that you notice you have running stomach when you eat her food. And after the confession you can reduce pressure by giving a suggestion as to the cause e.g maggi or you having a sensitive stomach.

From henceforth you can decide to accept or reject food.

You are not even matured enough to make contributions in situations like this because you lack experience

Homes belongs to women and you must respect every home you enter just because of the presence of the woman in the house

E bi like say women never show you pepper

Pray not to witness it

faithfull18:
Lol, @ you take your drugs.

My dear, its funny but its better to avoid family problems

missionmex:
have not really looked at it from that angle. You made alot of sense.

Thanks dear

bukatyne:
Hahahahahahaha!

That sounds funny

stanliwise:
so you keep taking flagyl everyday, what sort of advise is this

So he eats the same meals and the same reactions every day

You can find out more from him

Bapy:
Drugs are not chocolates!!!!You didn't even think of the side effects of taking those drugs regularly haba.

Is he a kid,
Is he staying there forever
Does he eat the same particular dish

Ask him this questions and advise him better pls

Sermwell:
I have cause to visit Lagos in order to secure the bail of a younger one who got into trouble. My cousin who stays in Lagos insisted I stay with him. He has a wife and 3 kids.
The problem now is that I don't think his wife knows how to cook!! I have had running stomach eating her food since 4 days ago. I tried to turn down her food last night but it didn't go well as she pleaded with me to eat which I did. I had stomach upset through out the night. I just can't imagine eating her food again till I leave.
Please how do I refuse her food without sounding offensive??

cc seun
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You don't really need to refuse her food

Just get tetracycline and flagyl on hand, once you eat you take your drugs

missionmex:
Whenever she just starts, in my mind I will be like not again but because I dont want to dampen her enthusiasm I just listen again and again. Is there any easy way to make them know that it is like the 100th time they are telling you this same story.

Women do more of this and repeating same story tells you how pained she is

I think you have to assist her in solving whatever the problem is

Most times its either emotional problems financial problems

chivera018:
What is so disrespectful about a man washing his own clothes that he would wear on his own body?
You better do fast and leave that house before looking for someone's marriage to destroy.

Exactly, his time will soon be over there