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Oracle55:
Please my fellows i need your advice, i am in between 2 choices. I have this land i just bought and wana build my house i have fenced it and out gate but i am thinking if to use the money i got to develop the land or i use it and travel abroad (uk ) for my masters pls advice me.

For those abroad is it easy there and can i get a good job after my masters or i should remain here in Nigeria and get married?

I will need to sell my car and properties if i am to travel.

Please help move to front page for more views and suggestions thanks

My advice is this

If the said land is located to where people are living already, pls out a room and parlor as boys quarter and put a tenant there to watch over the land

The fencing of land doesn't guarantee you that it will not be resold to another person especially if you don't go there every quarter of the year

Then take the remaining one and go abroad to study, work and recover the money spent on your studies

While you are abroad, it's upto you to either settle there or come back home after studying

This will show them that government is working already

You can't be miss behaving like idiots on people's children and expect to walk freely

Who doesn't know the pain of child birth ?

After human lockdown

This one na vehicle lock down

Let him be castrated to save the girl child

Jacqueline22:
Sure that is what I’m using

Good

Bleeze2:
Thank you so much

Thanks too, pls make sure it's at their direct sales outlets like Fouani stores, Google it and you will see the nearest to you, to avoid fake

RaiStar95:
Hello guys, i created a new account for this purpose. I need your advice. I am going to be 25 years old in a few months time but i am currently not in any relationship. in fact i have not being in any relationship since my former boyfriend broke up with me, two years ago. i moved to a new city early 2019, and have been working there now for almost two years, but no one has seem to pick interest in me. Sometimes, guys start to pick interest but the moment i show that i'm interested, they just back off. It gets lonely atimes and i have been tempted to get back together with my ex, but it did not last because i could not let go of how much he had hurt me in the past. I do not know what to do anymore, but i am scared, i do not want to be alone when i am 30. I am not desperate, but i just want to know if there are other ladies in my shoes. I don't really go out apart from work, weddings and church, i'm an indoor type. I have been advised to go out and hangout more, but that's just not me. Please help, am i the only one in this position?

Guys will not locate you when you lock your self indoors

Relax your mind and open it for relationship

Don't be desperate when you see one

Be willing to accommodate men and pick the one that may interest you

Even inside the bus, you will get one or even any where

But if you are choosy then you too have to upgrade to meet up

VicM6:
If you were scam online then what d fu*k did u want us to do now.... you did a transaction online with an individual you haven't met nd tinz went messy....Sis, we aren't detective here nd we aren't a fucki*g police officer.... so carry ur case alone and let we NL ride in peace

That was too harsh

Chukwumalinda:
Please help with this advice, my brother is in pains, he just realise that his ex-girlfriend start dating a guy he knew verywell, he ends the ralationship with her 2years ago for cheating on him, the girl have been begging and begging him to accept her back, the girl love him 101% but he said over his dead body to love her again, now he was angry to see a guy he knew was dating her, yesterday the girl came to our house with the guy to greet our mum, he dont love the girl, infact he hates her, his problem is for her to go away and never come close to him, but the girl have been coming closer, what advice do u have for him

So non of your family members can be bold enough to tell her to stop coming to your house, your brother is no longer interested in the relationship

Even your mum and yourself

AdonisT:
Please i need advice. My ex used and dumped me. How do i get over him?

For how long do you want to be eb brooding over it

Just shake it off and move on, learn your lesson and be wiser next time

It's possible he may come back, it's now your choice to accept him or not

Just move on because this is just the beginning

You may meet another character like him

So take charge of your emotions

You have us half story and you expect us to understand how you feel about her

What do you want us to advise you on

Long distance relationship has its on disadvantage

Just deal with it or open up to us

rasheedatt:
I don't actually have interest in men right from time up till now.
I don't feel bad about it because am not a lesbian in fact I hate lesbianism..
All my life I quickly get intrested in anything creative like finding out tips and tricks about Internet and technologies.
I even learn how to fix PC and phones both hardware and software ware a bit.
Never really have a serious relationship due to my lack of interest in men.
But I love to hang out with guy that knows about programming blogging things like that etc.
I don't hate men at all.
Is it bad or is something wrong with me?
Am not really into sex sex sex., I feel what a man can do a woman can also do it.
Note I don't belong or promote feminism at all.
Is it OK to be like who I am?
Am not a good writer ooo please manage.

Assuming you are still a virgin it would have been better to remain so and go to the convent

But if you have ever been sexed by a man and all of a sudden or from on set you don't have feelings for men

I don't think it's a good deed

Your body need that touch unless you were born without the feelings

Better still, if you don't normally have the urge then something is not alright

nams77:
Very considerate as ever.
You must have a heart if gold

Acknowledged with thanks

Bleeze2:
Please can anyone recommend a good brand of washing machine i can buy? Please it is urgent please

Go for LG washing machine top loader roller jet

You will never regret it and make sure you buy from LG accredited dealer

SirWhiteFish:
how much was it and was it able to power washing machine

I bought it for #260k yes it powers washing machine, pumping machine and all other appliances at once

I am enjoying it

jmaxjohn:
Don't need to, this isn't a debate

If you say so

Oha soup is exactly the same process with onugbo soup

Oha soup is one dish you will never get tired or eating

Best served same day it was cooked or preserved in the freezer

Regular warming though doesn't spoil the taste but better in freezer

The small leaves are always softer than the bigger leaves

Best with fufu, punded yam and semolina

jmaxjohn:
Are you through?

I am waiting for you to continue then I will follow up

jmaxjohn:
Pls don't heed this woman's tone of words. You will cause more harm in your marriage.

You have been giving too much in your marriage, emotionally n otherwise.
You need to start putting limits to what you can give. I mean have a conversation with your husband that you feel he doesn't love you enough to treat you better; that there are things he'd say or do and you'd either walk to some other part of the house than listen to the way he hurts you.
My point is your marriage is heading for a cliff, and if not turned around you may begin to resent your husband in some years to come.

Marriage is beautiful if BOTH PARTIES ARE UNSELFISH ENOUGH TO OUTDO THE GOOD OF EACH OTHER.

A man that his wife pays school fees, house rent, feeding and he does nothing but to dish order and control her.
What do you call such a man ?

This your advice would have worked better if its your biological sister that is the one involved

So that she will continue to labour and her husband will continue to control her resources without regards

You know we have marriage house help, just the way we have domestic house help

Nonsense, which woman is ready to suffer and not be appreciated, no way

Those couple should be turned upside down in a private room till that child is discharged then get them prosecuted

Megaflex:
I need advice on the best and natural way to handle asthma.

I got married in April this year and my wife is asthmatic. I'll seriously need advice on the best possible way to handle her asthma incase she gets pregnant. Please help a brother.

Mod please help me move this to front-page

Asthma can be managed if proper rules are taken

Pls follow her to your personal doctor to explain the does and don't if asthma so that both of you will be aware properly

It's a non transferable disease but can be inherited some how and can also develop over time

I think the idea of flying boats should be written off and banned, let's concentrate on ferry boats alone

It's a safer transport system to compare with the normal fly boats

chatinent:
Be positive, everything is not Teletubies.

u

What's my business with them

Vicvalentine:
They had to add it to spice things up, thunder go soon fire them.

Na wa.
We can never be sincere on this country

LosC:
Alright.



For students in tertiary institutions, the Governor said “they’ll continue to enjoy their online academic activities”, until the state takes a decision on physical resumption.


which online class?

The same audio one

gurunlocker:
So that's how this 2020 will just waste like that.....

So far you are still breathing, it's not a waste as you think

osamz007:
PROPRIETORS GO HAPPY EHN! WHICH ONLY SS3 ..

THEM GO SURPRISE SAY MONDAY MORNING

JSS1-SS3 GO RESUME FULL FULL.

LAGOS WEY I SABI

NO TIME.

That can never happen

iod69779:
I had planned to visit Nigeria and other countries from the US this summer on a short vacation, maybe for a few weeks or so, but the pandemic struck! Europe is out of the question for now, but somehow Nigeria is still on my mind. Just pondering. What do you guys think?

You better stay one place and stop taking risk

So does it means that there can't be a date without death record for once

Barristter07:
This is more reason we have many pretenders in this part of the world. Once you are honest about how you feel , People pass judgement immediately. In today's relationship most crush on another and cheat recklessly , but seems thats what people want , do it and dont let me know.

This one that spoke her mind may not even plan to cheat

She is just following her mind and it can lead her to anything

Adonis86:
Hello house, I'm a student in one of the universities In Anambra State. I live in Awka and I need your advice on this matter.
In 2017, I was running a program in a university in Awka, I needed an accommodation though don't have enough money to get a place to stay alone, so I resorted to looking for someone who needs a roommate so we could share the rent. I came across one of the posters on the school wall looking for a male roommate, so I picked the number, called, discussed the price, paid and moved in to stay with the guy. I was diagnosed with an STD a year before this incidence, but I had to keep it to myself to avoid stigmatization, though I was already on medics. Six months into my stay with my roommate, he fell sick and was diagnosed with Hepatitis C. He told me about it and had to travel for the family to take proper care of him. Few weeks later, I also travelled to attend to some family matters.
But the trouble started on sunny afternoon while I was at home, I got a call from an unknown number. The person introduced himself as one Dr. something... I've forgotten. He claimed he was a family doctor to my roommate, that if I know he's suffering from the above mentioned illness? I responded Yes. He went further to ask me if I live with HIV, that he told him that he usually see me taking a particular drug daily. At this point, I had to open up because, he told me he'll assure me of confidentiality. Afterwards he ended the call. I was troubled in spirit for everything, but I had to keep my cool till I returned back to school.
When I returned, my roommate was not back, days later he returned with a news that he's been cured of the virus, stating further that his parents was briefed by the doctor, that he also told them that I'm likely to be a gay since he has not seen me entertain a female visitor In the house ever since I moved into the house, I was just listening. He went further to advise me to pack out, giving me a deadline otherwise that his father is already threatening to storm my apartment with his brothers to deal with me for living with HIV and kept it away from him for all those months. At that point, I was not ready financially for a new accommodation, but I had to leave to avoid an embarrassment. So, I reached out to my cousin and requested for money which he gave me. But I asked my roommate about my remaining five months rent, he said I should forget it, that his younger brother will be joining him soon, that his family will deal with me if they visit and meet me in the house, so I had to leave immediately, which he helped me to carry my luggage and still gave me a parting gift. Though I never visited the house again, but we still talk on phone and greet whenever our paths cross in the street.
Then in 2019, I was on a social network 'Badoo' chatting with people when someone added me up and started chatting me, when I checked it was the so called doctor that messed me up a couple of years ago. He never knew I was the same guy he used to shine in 2017, but on my own side, I pretended I never knew him and was chatting him normal, until he started making sexual advances towards me. He wanted me to visit him and passed the night in his place. I was surprised he gave out his number and house address and started chatting with me even on whatsapp, telling me how much he wanted up to be together. Now, I don't know if to expose him as well, since I still have my ex roommate's number too. I'm thinking of visiting him and taking pictures which I'll send my ex roommate as well as the screenshots of all his rusty conversations. Please friends, advise me properly or if I should forget about it.

Also late last year, something happened in my office where I work. God's grace, I was able to secure a job in Unizik, in a department where I work. One day, a guy walked into my office because the university management informed all the overstayed students to come and clear their outstanding courses and graduate. So, as they were coming in and registering their courses on my table, this guy came in and was making case for her sister. He pleaded with me to find a way to help her graduate, that she is been suffering from birth complications and that their father is very frail and sick, that I should help her to graduate. When I inquired of her name to know how to be of help, lo and behold, it was the same family of my ex roommate. it was his elder brother soliciting for assistance on behalf of the elder sister. I asked him well and he confirmed everything, but I refused to disclose my identity, because my encounter with their family was not a pleasant one. As a result, I declined to assist, even when I know what to do to help him.
I don't know if I did the right thing also, but I just need strong piece of advice from matured minds... Thanks!
MOD, please help me push this to the front page.

As for the idiot doctor

Make a call and record all his stupid dirty talks, send to your friend to warn him to stay away from you

As for his sister, inform the broth what you went through with his brother and the so called threat from their family and let them know that your heart was broken and you demand an apology from the entire family

Another option is block the stupid doctor and leave his his sister to suffer her fate bu ignoring them and behave as if you never knew anything about them