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Men have refused to stop being violent on women, how many have we counted just this week

The moment a woman takes action, men here will crucify her

Gradually, women will understand when to walk out of a violent relationship

HomerTimpson:
SMH all this men & youngmen that refused to grow up...ITS SAD

They will grow up by force when they encounter real life situations

HomerTimpson:
LOL you said my mind,i guess he was saying his dad should have engaged the pullout method cos his mom is nigerian

Exactly ❗
That's why I focused on his mum

hashtagged:
Is it ok if some dont

That's about 1out of to men

EastanPower:
My wife is complaining that I demand too much sex. Personally I can have sex every day as I value it even more than food . She is saying that I want to kill her. What work do women do during sex? Is it not just to lie down at the very least while I sort out the rest?

What can I do as I am determined not to cheat on my wife but I am being denied. I am confused.

The state of mind, mood and emotions determines the
interest of a women in sex

Not every woman is a sex freak

It's either you reduce your interest or you engage your mind in with other things so that you will think less of it

You can still have a seat together talk with her to find out the way forward

Thelucifer666:
Useless girl wen dem day Bleep with gala and malt

Just the same method lucifer used on her

Charleys:
https://www.vanguardngr.com/2020/07/how-police-officer-raped-me-till-dawn-for-not-wearing-nose-mask-widow-narrates/

Just because of an ordinary sex, he will lose his job

This is someone that is supposed to stand against rape

Thelucifer666:
Your generation and future generation are are very useless for this statement you made.

Just the same way your useless mother gave birth to you and made you useless

mariahAngel:
Even as a married woman?
The only wrong I see is that the husband is not ready to share his password, otherwise there's nothing there.
Unless of course, they both have things to hide...but na wah o!

Imagine an issue as trivial as sharing passwords causing trouble in a marriage...

Now you are talking

If the husband is safe guarding his password for reasons best known to him, why won't he allow her keep her

Look, it's difficult to have or see couples who doesn't have a secret to keep away from each other

It's their right to have their privacy and should be respected

Even the phone we are using have a lock, so you make use of the lock for your own privacy

jawalis:
Get off my mention b!tch.

That's the highest a thief like you can do

jawalis:
You could have just mind your business

I wish you did same too

bukatyne:
@bold:

I assume you meant some:

Doesn't reduce the hilariousness of it though. I imagine such a man thinking of the next thinv to disrupt peace when his wife is smiling too much.

That's it

Once a man starts having complex issues, he harrases his wife, just because she is suffering secretly and smiling openly

GreatGod2020:
I'm in Ekiti presently.

Think twice

You only gave me one answer out of three questions

ZINIBANKS:
Women of this generation
Are the ones he's referring to

You are the one specifying that not him

He would have been specific not generalising

If he doesn't see anything good in women, his fellowers are doing gay, he can join them

Liposure:
chop knuckle

Thanks

AlphaMajestic:
am ashamed of myself...wat can i possibly say to him, my parents, am really ashamed of myself i dnt know how to withstand the shame..its not easy to take my life away but am really helpless ..you can see how everyone on nairaland wants me to just die..what will i tell the owner of the money, even if he forgives me i dnt think i can ever be useful again after wasting such amount of money on virtual not even a live game...am really fxckd up right now i wish i could do anything to correct this..i just feel that if they dont see me again i wont feel the humiliation..am dying inside me so fast and am so scared..plss wat shd i say..please help me even though am foolish and useless please help me..i have been crying since one week and i dnt feel hunger or tasty..i dnt even mind to remain poor for life but i dnt know who to talk to please help me please..am tired of life please am help me please am just alone..evrybdy i know is asking for my head already..am begging you please help me..am also thinking of where to steal 4.3mil from ..arresting me or chasing me away would have been easy for me to endure but the shame is too much..i wish i was never born in the first place am helpless..so helpless

What kind of help do you need

Because you are still neck deep on dying slowly

boyjo:
Have you or your brother or Sister done BVN before?

If you have done BVN before, then you have NIN number.

To view your NIN, you MUST use the phone line linked to you BVN and dial *346#
You will see your NIN

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That's interesting

That is a good move from the state ministry

Even if families can't help, let the state help

GreatGod2020:
I'm thinking of moving to Enugu ....Hope there is job or business opportunity there.

Why Enugu

What do you intend to do there

Where are you presently

Mraphel:
Shocking.

I rather move out of d house or divorce her than to raise hand on a woman.

Exactly ❗

Sirjames001:
you are right

Thanks

[quote author=Bennysam post=92263341][/quote]For the fact that you are a beast, the only thing you can explain about women is that they are useless

I know you have a mother who is a woman

So you are also referring to her because she is the first woman in your life

StacyO:
Why only women??

I just don't fancy 98% of some traditions here.

In the olden days, men made somany traditions to put women under their control and dictates, which made married women to be under their authorities

Men knows that they will always cheat and don't want any man to cheat on their wives, simply because they don't trust their fellow men

Now, all those things are fading away.

Children of this generation are born and raised outside their village culture and traditions and doesn't understand why all those silly traditions on women should hold in the first place

Men on the other side are not really faithful to the traditions their fore fathers set because it comes with some rules and they are not really ready to keep the rules

So it's a two way action

Sirjames001:
Please I need advice and also bashing because I want to make a decision of a lifetime.
I am in love with a girl who adore me in every sense of words
She is working while am still in school.So basically it's just true love.
Yesterday we had a conversation,I told her we have an age long tradition in my place ( Akwa Ibom State) If you cheat in your husband house, either you die, or your husband die or your kids.
She wasn't comfortable with it at all.
Her reason is because it only affects women not men.
Should we continue in this relationship or go our separate ways?
She suggested blood covenant that will also kill me if I also cheat.
Please I need advice.
Please note: I don't believe in anything diabolic or some tradition that regards women as slave but I know marriage unfaithfulness has consequence in my place.

You want her to know the consequences of being in an unfaithful marriage, in other words, you want her to be faithful, good

She wants a blood oat from you so that you too will be faithful to her and you are scared of it, good

My question is, within you, are you ready to remain faithful with just only her in your marriage?

If you are ready, take the oat with her and she will keep by the tradition of your people

If you know you can't help it, just let her go and get a woman from your town who understands the tradition while you have your freedom to cheat as a man

Mimiliciously:
Is it right for my hubby to ask for passwords to my social media passwords yet refuse to supply his.

This is a very dicey situation and I don't want it to lead to unecessary issues.

I love my privacy alot and hardly post pictures. I never post him and he never posts me too but he always blows out my not posting him out of proportion. He's obsessed with my social media accounts and I don't even care about his. I also feel giving him him my password will have him posting his picture at will, which I wouldn't like.

What do you guys think.

You have a right to your privacy

You can have so many social media accounts with different emails

Create one and give him the password and another one which is strictly for your eyes only

If you keep refusing he will keep suspecting you

Some men are naughty especially when they feel you are too happy being on your lane

ayinde2020:
of course I do. I never new I can be scam. I am a private school teacher just desperate to get something doing.

Sorry for the lose and I thank God its 4000

Pls you have to develop to see every human being as a suspect until its proven wrong

Those that offers sweet and juicy goods at give away prices knows that is exactly what people wants to hear

Be guided next time, consider that money gone

jawalis:
Forget about been a private school teacher sh!t. Everyone got his/her individual challenges. Despite, you must use your head. Boys are not smiling.
I know what am saying

That was harsh of you

Any one can be a victim that's not how to calm some one who lost money

Be polite it can also happen to you in another way

AlphaMajestic:
please i didn't open this thread to ask for money because i already know how foolish i am. and am very sure that am hopeless and nothing can really save me, but i want to know if there is anybody out here whose had any problem like this...

on January 12 2020, my brother left me with his betshop to manage for sometime since he has some things to take care of and he gave me 4.3 million for the upkeep..

unfortunately i developed a habit of playing virtual game and i have exausted the money...i really want to drink sniper and die now cos i dnt know what next to do...i cant even tell him how it happened but the staff will definitely tell him...am really depressed..am troubled

If you take your life, you just ended the problem on your side

What about the impact of your waste in the business you were trusted with and the effects on the owner

You have to go and meet your brother to and tell him what you did, you can go with a friend who's presence will calm the situation down a bit

You really need to talk to yourself, else you will get deeper into some mess in future

cococandy:
Thank you. You are needed and appreciated

Thanks, I appreciate

cococandy:
Lol but that’s exactly what feminists are.

You people have let malicious disingenuous folks get power over a noble title and attempt to shame you with it. And you try to dissociate yourselves from a name that’s a good thing because you’re starting to believe their lies about what feminism means.

Reclaim your time.

I am one of the women that will never give up on an abuse on women

Never

She has the full rights to chose a guy who is handsome but have a terrible attitude or an ugly guy with a golden heart

You can't eat your cake and have it

Thelucifer666:
god forbid I marry a nigerian woman.
They are very dull, imagine you try to start a conversation and all they say is "lol"
When I chatted with a white woman she talked like an intellectual but you see these nigerian women?
They are useless

You are talking from experience based on your observations on your mother towards your dad