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Even at 12yrs she looks malnourished

They should face it

SaAyomikun:
Hi Nairaladers,

I've noticed these acen-like spots on my face since around 5 years ago. Then, I didn't pay much attention cause I was erroneously convinced into believing it was caused by eating too much oil. Well, I cut down my oil consumption totally and those spots remain there.

The shocking part is they exist only around my eyes. The remaining of my face is smooth except around my eyes.

I have used several ointments including Ytacan and Funbact- A, still no difference.

Recently, somebody prescribed an ointment called "RETIN-A" for me but before using it, I wish to seek advice from the good people of this forum.

Please, do I go ahead to buy the RETIN-A or there's a better option?
I need advice, please.

I suggest you Google that Retina and see if it's useful for the purpose if what you need it for

But left for me, pls leave it, it's part of aging

Once you are close to 40yrs just over look it

It happened to my own brother and was left there like that

Some people have theirs lije black patches on the face

It's our gene that determines for every one

This is far better than being a terrorist

BiafranDel:
Hello guys
Please I want to know if it is still possible to graduate with a first class after been in second class upper in 100 level.

100 level first semester, I had 4.04 GPA then in second semester instead of going up, I dropped to 3.53 GPA reason being that I faced some personal challenges, bringing my 100level Cgpa to 3.83

I'm just happy that I never had any carry over in my first and second semester 100level.

Is it still possible to graduate with a first class from 200level to final year, 400level.
This has been bothering me because I really need a first class to source for full scholarship to further my studies abroad.

Please I need your inputs on this. First class
graduates, did you start getting first class from 100level till final year?

I want to appreciate your zeal to come out with first class and to say yes, you can make it, if you double your efforts

One score from each side, end of the game

Egungun don enter express

You have to follow this to the last bustop

Your cooker in under warranty for one year and they must either replace it or repair it

Get to their office meet the manager or whom so ever that is in charge and lay your complaints to him

He will be in the best position to handle your cooker problem

The scan frost I know have reputations and a name to save

Unless it's the type of Alaba scan frost which I know is purely fake

Remember, Jumia is just a sales point not a company that produces it

Let me see a picture of the cooker

When I needed to buy scan frost cooker, I knew there are fake and imitation ones in Alaba sold by my people, I have to get mine from their direct sales after seeing what it looks like in sapr, who are direct sales agent to original scan frost, I was happy I did

Though it a big one and I got value for my money
I have the pictures with me

I want to believe that it's the fake ones that looks like original scan frost

The original scan frost has their office at matori

Donhaywhy001:
Please, My Dad is always cruelty nd harsh on me everytime.
Any small thing like diz he will start to talk.
Nd his cruelty nd his harsh words sometimes always make me feel like killing someone.
I'm even thinking of leaving his house for him.
Or what do u think I can do abeg.

What makes you think it's just you alone, are you the only child at home and what about your mum

Do you think if you leave home you can cope, you have to think well

If you kill him or do something stupid you go to jail

Find out his does and don't and stop challenging his authority at home

Take exams get I to school, its another way of staying away from home problem

If you are not attached to your dad, get attached to you mother

Mothers are more softer to relate with than dad's

And if it happens that your mum too is facing the same thing you are facing then you have to appreciate her for enduring uptil this moment

It's time then for you to find your level, struggle and achieve success then you are free from his troubles

samworthyever:
Good afternoon friends. Pls I need your advice on how to guide and caution my 2 year old daughter. She cries alot uneccessary, hardly sleep, climbs chair up and down causing injuries to herself. Less I forget her birthday is this month what gift can I get for her. Thanks in anticipation.

Children at that age are always restless till they get to a certain age

Boys are worst and does double of what you just mentioned

Get a cain let her know that the cain is for her anytime she misbehaves

Give her the cain to keep by herself, once there is Need to use it in her, ask her to bring it out and make sure you use it on her palms alone please

Then keep advising her to be calm and quiet , get her toys to play with as she can't really talk well now talk more of reading

DaddyRochie1642:
That Woman That Will Cut Off My Penis Because Of Cheating Has not Been Born On This Planet Earth.

Because With My Last Strength, I'll also Cut Off Her Two Breasts too...if am Bleeding To Death, She'll Also Bleed to Death too.

I Dare Any Woman To Cut Off My Manhood

You are just bragging for nothing

Don't ever brag such in a live situation with a woman

If a woman can't cut your dick because you think you are strong or stubborn, she puts it into your meal to make you sterile

Will you even know that the problem you are having is from your woman

Stop boasting it's not needed

fineboynl:
we are just dating one kind and nothing really that serious about us, and she likes coming to my place.

here is the thread, I do not sleep comfortably facing any one. even if I do I tent to get tired almost immediately and facing back to the other side or the other way. I do not face the middle and if I have to it has to be only me on the bed. but once there is someone with me on the bed it's instinctive or inbuilt because most time I really don't know when it triggered me to turn the other side. it's something that's done all by itself before me knowing.

she always complained I am backing her. and the reason she don't like coming to my place again. there was a day she leave the bed and sleep on the ground taking alongside the covering. I was feeing cold and woke up and saw her and the covering on the floor.

she want me facing her and holding her, or herself put her head on my chest. I'm not a romantic fellow and don't want to be. I'm a serious and ethical being. I do not move by mere romantic behavior but by being realist and doing the right thing. if your mind is pure and clean you will be least concerned by things the other people do or live their lives.

now the question to fellows like me, do you back your partner in bed? or both of you back each other's? does this singular act causes trouble? do you feel comfortable facing each other? or you are comfortable facing the other side.

thank you

For the simple fact that you have acknowledged that you are not a romantic fellow is a fault in you already

Women love being cuddled if you love a woman deep you will hold her while sleeping if fa e her or even allow your body touch her in one way or the other

You said you are a serious person, who is not a serious person in the surface of this earth

Work on your romantic life pls let a woman feel you

Women are like gardens that needs the gardeners attention and who us the Gardner in this field, it's you

So learn how to water your garden and let the plants glow

XXLMANDIGO:
I woke up feeling awful, uneasy, bland and depressed. I am overwhelmed despite having a seemingly good Career, a daughter I love and cherish, I still feel some emptiness. Life appears static and uneventful for me and my bottled up feelings and emotions is at its brim. I am not proud of myself and I feel like I have reached the threshold of pain. I am very depressed.

To say I am sad is only but an understatement. I need to talk to someone mature, someone that has gone through this phase before and survived. I used to think I am strong but guess in my years of being around this terrestrial plain I have never felt this way before.

I was in the hospital for 7 weeks battling my life and ever since then my life has never remained the same again. I am going through trauma. I am alone and fighting off suicidal thoughts. I have paid my dues yet it seems never to be enough
Life is not treating me fairly one bit. So many things I wish I could share but I am pushed to the world,and to make matters worse I am alone and lonely.

I need someone to talk my plight to, before I finally lose it
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The truth is that you are the one fighting yourself

Your mind and brain are playing game with your whole body and your emotional being and you allowed it to happen

Take your child to your parents if she is not living with the mum or you, this period to look after for you so that you can be free from that end and concentrate on yourself

Get yourself a girl friend, start a relationship with her and make her a friend not really a sex partner

People are into relationships to have a friend and a companion

This life is full of troubles and loneliness so don't wallow your self into it even married couples are lonely in their world of marriage

If you can't open up and tell us exactly what is wrong with you then follow the above advice

@ op
Your write up was super good and well detailed

angelfallz:
That quote is quite childish. To prove my point let me rephrase it.
Best thing for men/women to stop stealing.
Best thing for men/women to stop killing.
Best thing for men/women to stop lying.
Best thing for men/women to stop looting.

If only we could just tell evil people to stop doing evil things. Life would be very easy.

We are talking about rape here not other vices

You said my quote was childish

You that wants people to stop stealing and lying and the rest

Will you swear you have never done anyone of those things you mentioned before In your entire life

I don't like your reasoning
I will stop this with you pls

sircatherine45:
haha
injection ke?
never hear that one ooo
except if the action is reversible


if you read my former posts, i said that we should all be careful of where we go to, to prevent something of this nature. as for me, na my house and workplace i know. even i sparsely go to the bar or gym these days

i know how to use a knife in distress. i was taught that

Good you have such knowledge

How many people do have such knowledge

Best thing is for men to stop raping

And yes you can be injected to be a eunuch

Those guarding the queen of England are eunuchs

They are well paid but the don't know what it is to get erection

Until you are done with the guard agreement

The federal government knows what to do but are atoll dragging feet until their biological child becomes a victim

sircatherine45:
castrate?
you think it's easy castrating someone?

i abhor rape and crime, but we need to defend ourselves too
carry a pepper spray or a knife, like i do
God no go shame us

Castration doesn't mean cut off
Just an injection and it's gone

For how long will one carry pepper spray

The state of confusion you will find yourself in during rape attack is enough for you to remember pepper spray

Have you thought of how to over power a guy not to talk about more than one guy

Mikelarteta:
Confusing reports everywhere,they will never speak with one voice. Issues like this is very sensitive and shouldn’t be giving conflicting reports. This country tire me sef.

Honestly ❗

ifytrik:
It will not be well with those dwarfs that invented corona virus

You are very funny

sircatherine45:
Defend yourself, so that you won't be speechless next time

Am speechless because government ought to have been castrating all these rapist

This thing called marriage no balance for everyone

Just manage and endure if you can or just walk away

It's still better than having someone's death in your hand

Just walk away, someone else will rush you and life continues

Coronavirus84:
Grandma will go and continue the rest of her life calendar in jail. At what age are dey still fighting each other. Mtchee

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If she really has a witness that the man brought the cutlass and she did it on self defense she will go free

Am speechless

He would have be trailed, gotten slapped to hijack that gold from him, assuming he is in my araa

Just follow your heart

Which ever way it comes out, you are still the one to handle it, not pastor or dreams

He has an ugly face but a good body

So the best thing is to off light and after it, you on the light

Only the matured ones will understand

MrBrownJay1:
dont you think you mistake PRIDE with INSECURITY?! only insecure men would see a problem with their wives earning more than them.
a man can be proud (of himself/wife/family) and let his wife earn more than him, with no problem in the world, so long as his ego isnt in the way of his common sense...

that man certainly doesnt need to "humble" himself.

reminds me the thread about the husband who earns 1m asking his wife who earns 10M to quit her job and move to his city.

I agree with you, they are all done out of stupidity on his on side

captainUzoJoe:
The argument is: can a man marry someone who earns more than him? Can a woman marry a broke guy?

Please click the link and share your opinion as it affects you!

https://lifestylemetro.com/inlove-with-a-boss-lady/

Men who doesn't have pride, marries women who earn more than they do and still humble themselves to live happily with her as a family

Men who have pride will find it difficult to accept the fact that their wife earns more than him and so will make things difficult for both him a d the wife

That's where his insecurity comes in

Ebus12:
Good afternoon nairalanders

My dad had a business misunderstanding with one of our family friend, and this has caused more issues in our family

The family friend, Timothy (Tho, not his real name), then reported the issue to my mum... Cuz she will be in the best position to mediate the matter

but this got my dad pissed off, which made him to sternly warn Timothy to take his hand off his family
That was the real genesis of the whole issue


When my mum heard of the latest development... she became annoyed, because it seemed he was accusing her of being in a relationship with Timothy

but this was not what my dad actually meant, he simply wanted to cut ties with Timothy because Timothy was trying to divided his family and bring disunity between him and his wife

I talked to my dad and told him to allow my mum be, since their is no kind of unhealthy relationship between them..

At first, he never listened, but now he has mellowed down
But my mum has refused to forgive...

My dad even begged Timothy, but still my mum is still not taking it

I have told my Dad to calm down and just ignore her for the mean time

I seriously don't know how I will settle this

My dad messed up... But at least he has realised his mistakes and is begging
So why shouldn't she forgive

as I speak right now... the relations of my mum seems to hate me just because I want peace


I also don't live with my parents, but with a sister to my mum

advice me please...My mum's sister is even angry with me

How do I resolve this


No one want to help

My mum's relations are the ones backing her and refusing to help settle the matter, while they all have peace in their homes

Don't allow their problems to affect you

Since she us defiant, just let her be and worst case is that her father's family is backing her so she has a strong backing

As for you dad, over look him, he will sort himself out with mum and his friend

Next time you hear anything about them, just act as if you are not aware for your own peace

Learn from their mistakes and learn to stay away from issues you were not ready invited into

If your mum is the queen of the house, let her rule

Stargurl20:
I've a very low self esteem, that everytime I'm being scolded about it, I always wish for death.
My low self esteem is killing me, and I feel this lack of confidence of mine, began from childhood when people would criticise my appearance. I hide my face from the world.



Something happened today that made my mum opened up to me that she isn't happy with me. We attended an event( more like a compulsory one for me otherwise I would have avoid going), and I hid in a coner throughout the party that the entire family was wondering the kind of person I'm. I know some thought I'm arrogant which is wrong.

I've cried severally today, that I wish for death....
I'm just a very young lady of 21year old.
This lack of self confidence also makes me avoid guys.

Isn't it time you come out of your shield or is it a deliberate action

I don't see the reason why you should have low self esteem

Even the most ugliest woman is still proud of her beauty

Well I will advise you always dress good and put on light make up

Greet people and mud up with people

If you continue to hide yourself, couple with depression, you will have a good reason to hate the world

onlyhope:
Nairaland family,

I created this account today so I can say my mind; I need your advice here.

I'm just few months shy of 34 years.

The issue now is that my mum is asking me to get married, (she's about conducting church deliverance service for me even).

Unfortunately, no job yet; I'm only hustling. Doing a few legal businesses to keep me forging ahead.

Now, I only have about 4.8 million naira; NOTHING ELSE!

I raised the money by working my ass off; doing only LEGAL businesses (graphics, web, writing), etc.

Now, the challenge is, business is not consistent because it's 99.9% online based.

But, I also wish to settle down now, in fact, before 35 years (when I was younger, I was hoping I would be married by 29). Alas! Life is not a bed of roses.

Also, I wish to further my education.

So, I need your precious advice:

If you want to advise me as your family member, close to 35 years of age, struggling, no job, but hardworking; do you think I should settle down whilst still looking for greener pastures?

Note: I don't have a fiancee or gf right now.

P. S. If you have any REASONABLE job offer for me, I will gladly take it as I am open for negotiations.

I can do any LEGAL biz or job, locally or internationally; including waiter, morgue attendant, etc, once the pay is 'comparatively' equal to the risk of the job.

Please, save a brother.

Having such amount with you presently is enough for you to start a family

But its seems you are more interested in making enough money before settling down

Just try and settle down on time as you are no longer getting younger

freethinker01:
This comment has established the fact that you're either 16 or below. You reason like a toddler. Like the guy has earlier said, you don't have anything to do with relationship let alone, giving advice on one. You're to naive, ignorant, immature and inexperienced to do such.

Wetin concern me and whats my business with you