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kuverah:
My baby of eleven months has been swallowing pieces of balloons last year December when we travelled for Christmas to his father's family house. We saw this in his feaces for straight four days. I became tired of picking pieces balloons thrown by children. It only stopped when we travelled back to where we are staying but all in all, he didn't react to it maybe bc I'm breastfeeding him that's what people say. The pieces came out the same way it went in, no changes.

Yeah because his liver is not yet strong to digest and shread foods

So anything he eats that is strong will come out so

You can try give him beans and you will see same beans out

Tyenergie:
Hello Nairalander,

My wife called my attention to some strange granulated particles she noticed in our baby's faeces ( she's fond of checking his diaper before thrashing it to the waste cellophane) this morning. After a close examination, I discovered those particles are stones he might have picked and swallowed.

Although, I've barricaded all the routes he might took to the same spot to avert further recurrence.

He hasn't shown any sign of illness, albeit. But, should I need to be worried about this? Or is there any drug that can be administered to him aside vitamin C and paracetamol to prevent him against residual bacteria and fungi.

Thanks.

Keep am eye on his poo, urine, skin, temperature and things that goes I to his mouth from now till month end

Loris576:
Who knows any igbo name that starts with Letter 'P' and the meaning
I need am
Pls lets move this to the front page

The letter P is silent in Igbo alphabets but you will see more of KP as OKPARA, OKPOPUTARA and the rest

evansjeff:
Recently I've been very bothered about myself. I'm a guy of around 30 but some things that still worry my heart is really disturbing. I will start like this.

1. Something embarrassing happened some time last year when I travelled home for visit. They bought a goat and was looking for who to kill it, me knowing I'm the most senior man at home jejely went into ghost mode, everyone started looking for me, in the end I had to come out but shamelessly told them I can't kill it. They had to call a 16 year old opposite neighbour to do it while my younger ones helped him hold the goat. I couldn't even stand the sight of seeing the goat struggling for life while receiving knife in the throat. I left there immediately.

2. You might think it's normal for goat until I tell you that I can't kill a chicken or rat, last Christmas, I badly wanted to buy a life chicken because I beleive it's more healthy, but who will kill it? Bae was around, I don't want any embarrassment so I jejely bought frozen chicken . There is a wall gecko strolling around my room for weeks now, but I can't kill it, it becomes embarrassing any time I have a visitor

3. The most recent is, there are two birds trying to build a house in my lobby, I kept destroying the house but they didn't give up, it got to a point, I felt bad for the poor birds, what if they don't have a house? what if I'm the one building a house with all my strength and government keeps destroying it? I had to leave them to build. My neighbour said he killed the birds that tried doing that in his house but me can i do that? No. i just tire.

4. Lastly, When travelling and there's an accident, people rush out to watch but I dare not else the trauma will remain for months, I can't stand the sight of blood and body cuts.

Any time I think about killing an animal, I ask myself, what if I'm the one being held by boko haram or killer herdsmen and about to be slaughtered? How excruciating the pain can be.

Any time I think about crushing a cockroach, I ask myself, what if I'm the one trying to cross the high way and dangote trailer crushes me?

So guys, am I normal? Do I need to see a doctor or a psychologist?

You are normal

There is nothing wrong with you

If you can kill a mosquito then
Start by using brooms to kill cockroaches, Wall geckoes and those in house pests

Your wife can't do that for you

m140:
Huh! You can't understand feelings. Its love ooo.
Lolzzzz! Werey don hit Jazz

Honestly

daveFBL:
Finally, I was able to capture a snake alive without hurting it. Its still small, not more than 2 weeks old from the look of things.

The specie happens to be House brown snake, they are non-venomous snakes. You can confirm... Its day 2 with it. But just wondering where I can get pink mice or anything to feed her with. She's a female. I checked for that also.

Hope its not a bad idea?

You are own your own

Of all animals, you prefer snakes

Liliantalks:
that’s why we need to be careful with these men , some ain’t mentally fine , u think men who beat women to the extent they bleed is mentally fine ? They’ve definitely not , but women leave the narcissistic signs in the relationship, and marry a these kinds just to hv a husband .

Seriously

Liliantalks:
supported

The thing tire me

I don't even understand how it goes too

But is like wondering about people who are albinos

Matrimonous:
Wow, do snakes get up to ceilings!?

Yes naw, haven't you heard of such

Anyway its common with new sites
They can be there for upto 6 months with our you knowing, especially their mother's

They can lay their eggs there and hatch them you will only know when you see their children coming inside the house more than once

Then you should know that their mother is there

Someone as brilliant as he is studying physics allowed himself to dine with the devil, even with his street neighbours daughter

Ohhhh, what a painful death upon rape, just die let's have peace

Olarewaju89:
You are right dear. Snake hates sniper because it kills them very fast

Yeah, instead of looking for people to help you at that moment incase you are alone

BolaAdenekan:
My wife is too insecure with herself. She is very shy and quiet, she’s doesn’t have friends and she stays indoors always. I noticed that she doesn’t like to take pictures of herself and she doesn’t like to take pictures with me or anyone, not even her family. She will complain that she doesn’t like the way she looks In pictures. I noticed that when we were dating she would always say negative things about herself, always calling herself ugly meanwhile she’s very beautiful in my eyes. Her low self esteem is affecting her behaviour and her interactions with people. She can barely look people in the eyes when talking to them.

Just two weeks ago I had a video conference call with our bible study meeting group at church. They kept on asking about my wife, but my wife insisted she didn’t want to be on camera because she didn’t have makeup on. I told her that her natural face is fine that she should just quickly greet my church members and that’s it. I put the camera on her face, and she snatched the phone out of my hand, threw my phone away and walked out of the room. Embarrassing me on the call, and I had to lie to my church members that she’s not feeling well. Ive noticed that she doesn’t ever want to be seen without makeup by outsiders, I don’t know what kind of woman this is. She will never leave the house without makeup, even if she is just going across the road.

Then just today I posted a video of her and my newborn on my watsapp status. Immediately she saw it she started screaming at me, that why would I post a video of her looking like that. That she’s added a lot of weight from pregnancy and she doesn’t like how she looks, that I should always ask for her permission before posting her. Every minute she’s always complains about her looks, and it’s affecting her way of life. It’s also affecting me as her husband because I don’t understand how a normal person can behave like this. I don’t know if I should start saving money for plastic surgery so that she can have self esteem because no matter how much I tell her she’s beautiful, she doesn’t want to hear it.

Advice her to prepare to go for beauty therapy and make up training

Explain to the shop owner why you brought her their is for her to learn how to make up and look good because she doesn't believe she is beautiful

But I think her problem is that she is some how timid and regird to herself

Designer123:
My doors are usually shut. Do you think this breed of snake is harmful?

Breed or no breed, snakes are very dangerous

Pls get someone to check your ceiling and let the person go with sniper, snakes hates sniper on them, it kills them

TheRealOwner:
Good morning Family Section. I came here knowing the maturity and experience that is unique to this section amongst all other NL sections. I greet you all. Now to the issue

I have a younger bro (the last born) who is slow in learning. And I mean very slow. He's 8 years old and in Primary 3. We his elder siblings were all in Primary 3 at age 6 but his was late for some reasons. At age 8, he can't do simple mathematics correctly without making some grevious mistakes. He can't read passages and stories of his class grade fluently. He stammers a bit when reading and if you ask him to narrate the very thing he just read, he'll stare blankly, meaning he doesn't understand or wasn't following the story he was reading. An attempt to get him to spell words leads to sadness. Before the lockdown started, his class teacher wrote to my mum that he's really behind in class and she doesn't know how to help him. I'll give some scenarios to explain what the situation really looks like.

Before the lockdown (February), I took my time to teach him what Prime numbers were and made him write out all of them from 1 - 50. 3 days ago, I told him to give me a prime number, he said 6, then I asked him to define what prime numbers were and his response almost made me weep. I questioned him further for the definition of Odd and Even numbers and he didn't get a single one right at once. The straw that broke the camel's back was yesternight when he had some Maths exercises given to him by mom earlier in the day. He didn't know how to solve the last two and didn't bother to say anything till she asked him late in the night. It was brought to me and I solved it for him step by step. I asked if he understood everything I just did and he said no. I explained everything again, solving it step by step. I then told him to do the very last step, which was a simple division. Remember that I had solved it few minutes before in his own presence. He didn't know how to divide, something I had taught him 3 days before. He didn't have a single clue how to divide a bigger Number with a small one . Then asked what was 4 divided by 2. He said 1. I really lost it with him and used my belt. He ran to Dad and Dad called me and told me not to kill his child. He then started saying I should remember how many lesson teachers he got for me & my elder sister while we were in secondary school. I then asked him how many he got for us in primary school. It caused further tension and now the whole house is tense, but that's not a issue.

To be fair, he has displayed some things that surprised me before. While teaching him in February, he was able to figure out the Squares of numbers from 1 - 20 using the system I taught him. He also remembers stories told to him by my mom with very good accuracy, a trait he shares with his immediate elder brother and I. Anytime I come back from school, I'll ask him and he'll start to narrate everything that happened at home in my absence. He likes cartoons and animated movies a lot, and can narrate the storyline perfectly and recalls the names of characters and specific scenes. But it ends there.
Dad has 2 degrees and 2 masters in finance and geography. Mom has Bsc and masters in English Education. Same thing with elder sis but she's still doing masters. Myself and my younger sister are both studying medical courses in 2 of the most competitive federal unis in the country. His immediate elder brother (12 years) is a prodigy. So you can see it's not a matter of bad genes or that there's no one to teach him. We are not just seeing him operating on the level his mates are and not seeing the results of teaching him as we ought to. He attends a very expensive School too, the same one his immediate elder brother attended, so it's not that the school is bad. Please how can I help this boy? It's becoming worrisome. Helpful comments are very much welcome.

To me, his case is different, if not that he is in school, his case would have been something else

Keep trying and let him finish primary school, by the time he gets to secondary school and can't cope, let him go for vocational studies


Start now to ask him what vocation will he like to do after school and you guys should work towards that

Don't be surprise in future he will continue his education

Pls you guys shou take it easy and one other thing set reading time for him and reduce his cartoon times

Scaredd:
I'm dating a deeper life girl, and we haven't had sex since I started dating her last year September.

It's a long distance relationship though, when I visit her and make any move for sex, she ends up saying she's doesn't want to have sex. But she can kiss for Africa which I don't fancy that much.

In one occasion, I took her to the guest room in a hotel, we kissed, she was turned on and started begging me to hold her nipples. I was like "finally!".

I told her oya let's get a room, but to my greatest surprise, she said No. That she doesn't want to have sex now, that it's been long she had sex and if she goes to the room with me she won't be able to resist sex.

Anyway, I let her be because sex should be mutual afterall. I love her and she's not the "give me money" type, rather, I send her monthly stipend at my will. Moreover, sex is not why I travel all the way to see her or still dating her.

I just hope am not being played like someone pointed out in the other thread.

It depends on how long you want to remain with her like that

MadeINchenzen2:
I know

Ok

TheEnlightenedO:
Hi All,

I've been a Nairalander for years, since 2008, I never signed up until now because I never had to post anything really, so kindly bear with my narrative...

I have been dating this Akwa Ibom girl for over 2 years now, she's relatively young 22 (still a student but obviously still in that dreamy state; spends most of her time reading novels, completely dependent on me, in fact the entire family is: I got them their 3 bedroom apartment, I send money to her uncles, her mom and send them monthly stipends for food; I most times even ask her to take home the food she stocks up for me in the freezer cuz I'm not going to lie I am lazy with having to get stuff out and microwave, I'd rather eat a snack cuz of my busy schedule, even bought everyone of her sisters the phones they use, sometimes I just send funds to her loved ones whenever I am sending money to my exwife for my child). For reference purposes; I turn 27 this year.

Sometime in November I met this nice Yoruba lady, 30 (intelligent, master's degree, works in an Oil & Gas firm, very dramatic). This yoruba babe had full knowledge of the existence of my Ibom babe from the jump, but we liked each others company and spent time together after work sometimes. I love our mature conversations, but you could tell shes been through alot, Daddy issues, heartbreaks and has a terrible habit of always threatening to commit suicide everytime we have a dispute; it's a very crazy chain of events when this happens, it goes like this: For instance, if we are physically together and we had a small disagreement over how perhaps my worker spoke to her, she starts to rant, I've been married before so I know to walk away when this starts cuz I no get time honestly, she usually either steps in front of me, does that yoruba style 'holding my hand that I'm not going anywhere stance' and if I proceed to leave, she would go as far as showing up at my house even if she knows the Ibom babe is there, all to ask me the same question: 'Are you breaking up with me?' I learnt the hard way to say No to this question after she attempted suicide the first time. I was out of the country and had to beg my friends to go to her home and make sure she was okay, this thing has taken a toll of my friends even... This babe is a standup babe however, amazing and pure heart of sorts but is very petty, she would fight me over posting my exwife who is also the mother of my child's photo on mother's day, all just to say Happy Mother's Day... That led to a 2 hour rant, I had to hang up, then she called my friends and vented about it to them, and threatened suicide again.

My dilemma is this, I love Ibom, but I have spent 2 years trying to build her into something she obviously isn't, I have been married before and my exwife showed me pepper even though we are on decent terms now. I invested alot into that, I also have invested alot into this too but I feel like I may be wasting my time. I am at a point where I have gained it all before, lost it after my divorce, and finally gained it all back, I have helped her and her family without complaints but I feel like perhaps she cant imagine the possibility of losing me in the regard of somewhat losing their breadwinner, truth is I dont feel sexually aroused by her anymore, I have to watch porn or think of someone else to be able to sleep with her.
Even the Yoruba one, she always wants to be on the phone, I am a busy person usually and cant be on the phone all day like I'm a teenager or a fresher in Uni... she expects me to simply dump Ibom and start having babies with her. Besides her always threatening suicide if I dont marry her or get her pregnant, she always uses things I tell her in confidence against me.

I honestly just want my peace... I need advise

You are in the msit of three women acting drama

Good for you

Just drop that yoruba girl, she is desperate for marriage and she is crazy, unless you are ready to manage her for life then you take her because of her carrier

The Ibom girls would have been good for you but all of a sudden you start Loosing intrest in sex with her only you knows how to sort it out
But bear in mind that you have to carry her family responsibilities along, if you don't mind then marry her

You are too young to tangle yourself with women

ken711:
I have been dating a girl for about 18 months now. Very pretty but my brothers, let me tell you...look before you leap when it comes to pretty girls.
From the minute I met this girl it has been one money request after another. If it was small sums I guess I wouldn't really mind, as I have always worked for blue chip companies and can afford it. The thing is, her requests are always very big!.....20k this, 20K that.....but my brothers, I have to tell you the one that has made me even disappointed in myself.

She lives with her parents and they are the most dysfunctional family I have ever heard of...Everyday one person is fighting the other, and this my girlfriend, as fine as she is, is the most arrogant, prideful, violent & rude person I have ever met. She hounded me everyday that I must get her an apartment of her own, so she can escape her home, and I agreed to but by saving monthly.

Would you believe, one night, when she was working at a bar as an usher for guinness, she gave her number to 2 different men just because of this apartment. my spirit kept telling me that she gave her number out, but she kept lying...only for me to catch her texting one of the men when we were at church of all places.......she even went as far as going to meet this rich man at a hotel, but the man ran away when she made that request, and I as a fool decided to finally do it for her. (I suspect she cheated on me that night and I always tell it to her face because she has cheated on me twice before)

I live on the Island and tried to get her to rent here as well, as I really want to keep an eye on her.....She has too many guys around her who live in that area and she is this kind of person who cheats out of revenge, even over small things.....this girl refused and threatened to break things off!....bro, as a mumu I sent the money to her to rent the place and for other things, about 400K.....

Ever since that money left my account, it's like my eyes cleared!!! I couldn't believe that instead of saving my hard earned money, I went and sent it to a girl that has cheated on me twice (or even more), lied to me, slapped me and done so many things.....but I just decided to leave everything for God, seeing as she was desperate.


The problem now is that the demands for that apartment is now becoming too much!!! The expenses just to get the place finished are such a burden on my financial and mental state...The worst happened about two days ago, she wanted me to pay 20k....Infact I just got so tired of bills that I kinda was stalling on it, but what happened next truly shocked me.. ....would you believe this girl started punching me, slapping me and even tore my shirt cos of 20k.....she even threatened to break my office laptop (working from home) until I sent the money, after that she left........now she is trying to apologize so that I will pay for bed and gas and the remaining things....my brothers, I know u will say am a fool!...I accept...I am a handsome guy, studied abroad, I just don't know why loneliness made me fall in love with such a sadistic user...my only problem is, do I pay for the bed and just finish what I started or just free the whole thing and the nearly 500K I have already spent...please help!

You have disappointed your self

Continue until you pack your things with polly bag

A woman is handling you like her puppet

MadeINchenzen2:
u know what I mean...


Typing...

Every woman is smart by nature, forget about their to timid look, just treat her bad and you will understand

MetalJigsaw:
3/4 out of 5 times I wake up in the morning with my middle man standing very tall. And I live with my mom and sis who know about it and look at me in amusement especially my mom. I'm sure I would have been lying down with a fully erect middle stuff before waking up. And I really get embarrassed and confused .

My mum might even be thinking of dream love making stuff but its not that.

It gets me embarrassed seriously especially when I'm going to the toilet To urinate (it usually comes with it). And I would have to pass by some onlookers who do notice in our compound.

Is this normal guys? I'm confused

100% Normal don't abuse it
It shows you are potent

bendaniel1616:
Hi friends, hope we are all good in this season, there is something I noticed in our girls and it's kind of annoying at times , they won't message you until I message even for 6 months they will just be on contact , except they need your help , even if you decide to message them that's when some will ask you for help or advertise their items what if I decided not to send a message too , can I call that a pride , because I don't think that is what friendship is all about . Pls ladies in the house no offense , I'm just expressing my mind .

It depends on your relationship with her

If it's on part-time then the call won't be regular

If it's on full time, the you you guys will keep a check on each other

It's like the relationship is not a constant one

Localemperor:
Its is no longer news that I have been declared insolvent. After all effort to maintain my liquidity level to no avail I decide to let her go.

Just as organization retrenched worker during periods of economic downturn in order to cut cost of operations, I sent her a massage expressing my regret and reasons.


I feed her
I pay money for hair dressing
I buy clothes
I take her out every weekend
I buy shoes
I do everything thinkable

She works and earns but I still wonder why she would want me to do everything for her. I compiled my income statement and statement of financial position for the first quarter and found out that expenditures have exceeded income and debt is on the rise.

So I wholeheartedly declared my self insolvent yesterday and decided to cut cost in order to protect my goodwill.

Wise decision

junior20202020:
Help Me Recover My Glory

THIS IS MY STORY

I started masturbating partially at the age of 19, I was a shy guy I don't have a girlfriend, everyone taught that I was a virgin. This masturbation became serious at the age of 24. I decided to quit Masturbation.

I said let me visit a prostitute, I paid her 3k, we started romancing each other, but I noticed that my dick did not erect. I was highly embarrassed, I thought because the lady was older than me, she was 33 yrs.

I visited 3 more prostitutes which are young girls in their twenties, it was the same thing, the dick did not erect at all.

Note: I normally have rock erection Even when a lady sit on my lap, early morning waking up I also use to have rock erection before I meet the first prostitute. From there I went back to masturbation again partially. At the age of 21 I made my first 1.5 million naira through business, but I noticed since I started visiting this prostitute my business collapse I could hardly boast of #200k in my account.

Around 2018 I decided to get a girlfriend, because all prostitute I meet my dick cannot rise to penetrate them. My first girlfriend was cute, I love her and she loves me. One certain day something led to something we got intimate, I romance her very well she was already screaming, she wanted me to put my dick inside but I noticed it was flaccid no erection at all. She noticed and got up and dress herself. After that day she started giving me attitude and that was how I broke up with her.

I got about 4 more girlfriend all of them broke up with me when the notice that my dick does not erect. After all this I felt like the whole world is gone, I finally got another girl friend. Anything that would lead to romance I normally tell her that as Christian we must not have sex until we are married. She would say that this is the first time she is dating a guy like me. That she loves me with all her heart. We have dated for one year now without sex, I promise her that we would have sex on our wedding night.

I am currently 27 yrs and I feel dejected. Does it mean that I may never have a child of mine own. I got tired of my situation I went into 3 days dry fasting praying to God to deliver me from sin and to restore my lost erection. ..

On the second day of the fast I was in a trance and I vommitted a lot of poison. I woke up and thanked God. After that fasting I don't normally have bad dreams of evil spirit pressing down my spirit. But I noticed that my erection have not yet been restored. Please I need help. I need God to restore my Glory. I would never use it for masturbation or fornication. Help me on what to do. I am in distress

You are hiding something that will lead you to have issues in your marriage when the time comes

You have to let her know what you are passing through because, if after marriage your dick refuses to get up, she will be disappointed and the next thing is to sort herself, will you blame her, no you won't because you started with a false foundation

You need to go and see a urologist, they are specialists in treating men sexual organs

She will be part of the treatment because you need her support emotionally

You see, if you marry her and it continues like that, your family will blame her for not getting pregnant whereas you are the major problem

Talk with her first and two of you will see a doctor

stormborn28:
good advice

Thanks

Climatology100:
Thank you sir, she's opening up especially today as she reveal a whole lot to me but we are yet to compromise on the way forward.
Whatever I do or intend to do, I will never jeopardize her marriage as she's the architect of who I'm today.
I appreciate your inputs sir.

Thanks, ma'am pls am not a man

Kestolove:
How do I go about having Tripplet? Cos i need it in my first pregnancy

Talk to God, he has listening ears

Jason404:
Pls help

Go see a doctor to treat you properly and next time use a condom

Netochi:
Please I need your help please. My Seven year old son behaves like someone that have inferiority complex, he get easily bullied even by little kids of 2years. It really breaks my heart to see it and even my younger daughter have started following that foot step though she is better than her elder brother. I don't know what to do to raise a stronger son who can stand up for himself. I plan to enrol him in a military school to harden him. Please I need your advice to raise my kids to be wiser, more confidence and brave

Your child is just trying to be a gentle man but he needs to step up

Seat him down and let him know that he is too quiet

Tell him never to allow his mates to bully him

Tell him that he is the first child and must stand strong to defend his siblings

Then any day he gets frightened by his junior beat him very well before his juniors or mates for being stupid

Give him a challenging task at home that will keep him busy

Enrol him in a boarding home where he will learn to start a life of challenging himself with others as you won't be there to speak or fight for him

Boarding home schools, gives you the power to stand on your own and prepare you for the future

Military school might make him to be rugged and am sure you don't need such

TiyTrip:
I wonder, is it right to call your child names? Names like mumu, fool, dundy, otondo alike. Even worst this starts when the child was just a little kid. This is what i passed through. I remember feeling so depressed anytime i'm called such names to the slightest mistake like droping a glass cup. I feel this can cause a dent in a childs life, most espesially when such comes from his parents. The thing is, it never stops. I'm scared for my life because now i feel like i don't no longer belong. Alot of times i feel so depressed.

Those things you mentioned are just the normal naija parents ways of spanking a child with words

If the names our parents calls us are working on us, we all will be roaming the streets by now

They are not intended to cause harm but its meant to caution you

Then as for you as a person, you have to find out why you are feeling the way you are feeling

Undilutedme:
Hello nairaland family.
I trust you guys are doing fine.
I have a little problem and I need a piece of advise on how to handle it.

I have a very wonderful mother. She's caring, sweet, compassionate, name all the good characteristics of a good woman, she's got all but there's this problem I'm still having with her. SHE NEVER APPRECIATES ME, NO MATTER HOW HARD I TRY. My mom will never appreciate me for anything I do, even if she does, she does it nonchalantly like it doesn't matter. She compares me with friends at every slight opportunity she gets.

There was something that happened. Momsy travelled sometime around this year and stayed for close to two months and she has a shop that she manages. The shop's generator has been bad for sometime and it's really stressful for her selling with dim lights but she refused repairing it again because according to her, the generator is consuming her money because of too much repairs every time. So I wanted to surprise her, I called a friend that fixes generator to come help me fix it so when she comes she'll see that it has been fixed. My friend came and fixed it. When momsy came back and I told her that I fixed the generator for her, she told me that, she didn't send me to fix generator for her and that she is not going to use it. According to her "I send you make you fix gen?. I say I nor wan use the gen again". I swear I was really hurt.

On another occasion was during the just concluded UTME exam. My friends wrote before me, a friend of mine had 330 so I told her, she was very happy. She was like, I pray you get something like this. Fast forward, 3 days later, I wrote mine and result came out. I scored 314, when she came, just happily told her, instead of being happy, she just hissed and said "You nor fit get reach 330?". My spirit just died immediately. She likes comparing me with my friends.

There are many occasions things have happened but I'll not bore you with unnecessary talks. It's really eating me up emotionally and psychologically. How well can I make my mom appreciate me more?. How can I please her?.

Ps: Please nobody should throw insults at her. I beg you in the name of whoever you serve. Thanks.

Am glad you said your mother is caring and loving, good

You want her to appreciate all you do but she doesn't do that.

Forget that aspect because am going to tell you why she doesn't appreciate it

She wants you to be strong and work harder

She doesn't want to spoon feed you

She doesn't want to pet or praise you and you expect that all the time

Just keep doing wonderful and your end results will make her proud

onobire:
my wife is pregnant and suddenly lost interest in food except liquid stuffs, and each day she reduce weight which and not okay with. we have gone to see our doctor who gave her some drugs including appetizer, the worrisome part is that she vomits any tablets or syrup she takes.
what can i do so she can eat and regain her body

What she is passing through is normal for early stage of pregnancy

Am sure she is in her first tremester which last for the first three months

She will be fine by the time she gets to second tremester which is the the next four to six months, every thing will be alright

Let her use bitter cola or white chalk called nzu in Igbo land to surpress the spits

Give her enough fruits as she demands and whatever she wants to eat let her eat it

She may gain weight at the last tremester which is seven to nine months

Enough rest and good food base on her demands