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Temptee101:


This is becoming worrisome.

The number of cases and deaths started skyrocketing after these Chinese people came into the country.

LearnITsmash:
I can't wait for us to hit 1 million infections so we can finally have sense and sit at home

Sunkanmiwise:
It's great that you care for your Son and this act of yours even makes you a very responsible parent.

Your choice of TECNO is also very good.

Well done Ma'am/Sir.

supercold:
Thanks ma. I can't really discuss this with them. I have to figure it out on my own

Ancientbeing:
Good day Nairalanders, am sorry for any disturbances i may be giving individuals on this forum but this my baggage have pass containment in my room so aff decided to pour part of it here .
I am able to share this issue here, (thanks to Seun for creating a faceless forum) due to my anonimity.
For somewhile now (abt 3yrs) i have been staying @ my elder brother's place. Sometime last yr, he informed me that he's fiancee was to spend sometime in his place, i was cool with it.
As a junior bro to him, i took it upon myself to do majority of the petty house hold chores which i dont see as anything but since his fiancee landed in the house, hell let loose!
I don't know if she does it on purpose, whatever i arrange , within minutes, its misplaced.
I still do all the cooking in my bro's place not minding that she's a girl but after cooking and cleaning up, she enters the kitchen and sprays heavy amounts of water all over(talk more of if she should cook).
Her room is a dump of clothes, she wears rumpled clothes to go out.
I'm tired of her.
So presently, i am confused .should i leave my bro's house or should i advice my bro against marrying her.
I have endured several annoying personalities in the past but a kind like hers , i have never seen. Help!!!

pstmikol1:
Seen, Am forever grateful for you ma. I just received the 2k alert, it will sustain me for some days. Thanks

pstmikol1:
Thanks so much ma, I really appreciate.
0064555369, union bank
Am grateful ma.

SultanOfAbia:
The Bible says obey your father and mother so ye shall live long.

What if you're father is telling you to do something you know is very wrong
Will you obey him or disobey him?

What if your mother supports your father in every negative thing he tells you to do?

Some parents are not wise and are easily manipulated by pastors and imams.

I think you should only Respect your parents if they are WISE

pstmikol1:
We have been ask to vacate the school since February. I am managing with my friends inside Sokoto which is far school because our school is far from town. But I have the picture of me inside school and near our library which you can ask your colleague to confirm if true.
Thanks ma, you can even called my Dad.

Bekool:
I thought food items are exempted from this lockdown?

pstmikol1:
Ok ma thanks.
Pls help me with your email address where I can send them to.

Xtdott:
Why does the wife of an Igbo man stays as home

ProphetofOdin:
Guys!! Please I will try to be very brief so that I don't waste much of your time. So I met this pretty girl during the lockdown around my neighbourhood, I asked her out and she accept.
While getting to know each other she told me she's in a relationship with a guy(which I confirm myself cos the guy always calls) and I told her I am in a serious relationship too, so it basically a fling for both of us.
So fast forward to Sunday she called me that she's coming to my house which I oblige. Thinking she will leave in the evening, but she decides to sleep over, Monday morning I told her I'm going to work, "so aunty if you're leaving just padlock the outside gate and go" only for me to come back from work and meet her, I was cool and didn't say anything and went to the fridge to get some stuff and fix us what to eat(since she's been here she doesn't cook I do all of the cooking even when I get back from work tired and she will sit down confidently and eat). The same thing still repeated itself on Tuesday up until today.
I've done everything on the play boy book to make this babe leave but none is working.
She won't even allow me touch the remote to watch news just because she's watching some stupid zee world movie.
she won't cook, since Sunday she's been here I would still be the one that will get back from work and fix us something to eat.
She even refuse us having sex, which is actually not a big deal for me though.
I have tried to ignore her, and codedly tell her to leave but it's not working.My main chick is becoming suspicious and I know she might just give me a surprise visit anytime soon, and I'm not ready for her drama.

Abeg wetin make I do biko nu......

supercold:
I wasted my years trying to become a graduate. If I knew that school wasn't for me I wouldn't have bothered and would have towed a different path. I've seen people go to school and succeed, even if they end up not using the certificate. Not me.
What can I do now?
Mid twenties,
no degree,
no skills,
no employment,
no money,
no friends,
no home.
Recently I've been thinking of ending my life. But a part of reasoning said I should seek help first. Perhaps there is still a way out of this mess that I'm not aware of.

DISCLAIMER: Someone suggested I'm here to beg for money. I want to make it clear that I don't want money from anyone and will never post my account details and expose my name for tokens at this stage. At worst I have relatives if I need tokens. I'm only here to see things from different perspectives.

bigmodo:
Guys, someone pregnanted my sister and denied that he is responsible. All this while she was pregnant the guy abandoned her and didnt spend a dime. She delivered yesterday. How can i get this dude to take responsiblity of the child? I know marriage is not by force, but i want the guy to do expenses. And i also want the guy to regret why he denied his act.

Vickiyxx:
I ave cut ties with all my family , I feel so lonely and bored but it is the best thing I ever had to do. Am 28 years old a single mother of 2 children by 2 different fathers ,uneducated, jobless , broke , 28 years old but I looked like a 98 years old. Every churches I goes to for deliverance they keep telling me my mum is the course of all my problems. She is using my destiny to be rich which is very true , my mum is rich , she has houses and all her extended family depends on her. None her siblings are rich they are all after her money. My dad on the other side is very arrogant, he is been treating me and my kids especially my second daughter like a piece of shit . Last time we had an arguments he called me fat cow , all am doing is getting fat and not marriage , got angry and insult him back. He kicked me and my kids out of the house. Luckily I Ave manage to get myself a place to stay with my kids , we are managing okay. As for my siblings , for my sister nothing good on her side too , she is also a single mother still living with parents , I don’t have a good bond with my sister because she has always insulted me and my kids calling them bastards or whatever , luckily she is also got pregnant and got dumped by her baby daddy now she is felt the pain I have been through y, she is trying as much as to get close to me but I keep rejecting her , I don’t want her , she was never good with me , now because she is in the same shoes as me , that’s why she is trying to be nice to me but I don’t need her. I love my younger so much , he is the best brother and uncle to my kids , he never treated them bad and is still at school studying computer science he is only 20 I strongly believe he will make us proud one day. I ave cut ties with all of them for one month now , I missed my brother a lot but I had to do it for my own sanity. I don’t need toxic parents or sister . Sometimes I cries but I don’t regret cutting ties with all of them. I don’t really know why I am writing this but I just felt like to speak up and get this out of my mind

bamidelee:
We thank God.
More blessing

bamidelee:
Your kids and everyone?

bamidelee:
Ma'am, how ya side?

aabdul7833:
Am in love with this lady and don't know how to approach her, thanks in advance.

hanniball:
Greetings everyone,

Legal practitioners in the house please i need advice on an issue. My Aunt's husband defaulted on their rent and as a result, a court order was given to evict them and sell off most of her husband's property to offset the rent, but here's the problem, her car was also taken. She had bought the car herself and all the documents are in her name. she was told to come to the court with all the legal documents to reclaim her car, all the legal documents were provided and she was asked to take the car but it wasn't in working order, so she was unable to take it with her that day.
Few days after, she got seriously ill and was unable to collect the car at the time. All these happened last year.

She recently recovered and decided to get her car back but unfortunately it had already been sold by the court. Please i want to know if this is right, and she's also involving a human rights lawyer. what are her chances?

AssistntBoyfrnd:
Dear Nairalanders.

My baby girl will be 1 year and 1 month in 2 days time and she hasn't started walking yet.

Whenever we try to help her with a walker or anything, she keeps crying.

Should i be worried or its normal.

Our first girl walked at 11 months, just 29 days to her birthday.

PS: She can stand and hold the chair or any object and be walking/leaning on it, but the thought of her standing on her own, she starts crying when we try to help her walk.

Ilerioluwa02:
Is it right for a couple to share their matrimonial bed with some relative?
Take for example, the husband or wife's family member visits and they leave their bedroom for this person.

I personally see it as a wrong move though. However, your contribution will be appreciated. Thanks.

OGand99others:
Good day Nairalanders
Please I need an advice, My Landlord is Planning to throw me out because I'm unable to pay my rent.
I'm supposed to pay on the first week of March but this Pandemic couple with hard times in this Country left me confused.
though I pleaded with him to give me a little time to get back to life but he refused and he gave me 3days to vacate or he will forcefully throw me out.

Please I need advice on what to do
You can also reach me 09080774195
Thanks

Note : I reside in ogba lagos

References:
https://twitter.com/rrslagos767/status/1258713882094448641?s=19[/quote]Homeless mother of four, how come she is homeless

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https://mobile.twitter.com/DefenceInfoNG/status/1258674882600218628

pstmikol1:
Thanks
I didn't not stay behind for fun. My school is very far from home so I decided to stay off k with my friends too whose home town is also far hoping that this virus won't take long so that I won't waste my TP money to and fro. I am schooling at Sokoto.
But the parks where I used to enter bus insist they can travel now due to the lockdown and now my foodstuffs is down.

bukatyne:
Funny article.

First bold was damn right hilarious!

Second bold answers your article: treat her well pre-fourty.

fulaniHERDSman:
Then I leave house for her ... But something must shift. Learnt never to waste 1sec around unhealthy situations.

Nobody owns me ... Not even my children. Make bad behaviour a habit ... then I show you the door.

akelicious:
When some women turn 40 or 50 years, something major shifts in their personality. They become bolder, more rebellious,more religious, more focused, more opinionated, and more emphatic about what they want.

Don’t be surprised when a previously obedient and submissive woman on turning 40/50 changes completely.Most especially when she had given birth to three or four children.

At this age, she may not go with the flow anymore, she may begin to question like is sex food?, some of your instructions and even the way you behave. She will also become more outspoken and will not be afraid to speak her mind. Even if care is not taking ,you will be doing dry cleaning yourself. At times you will prepare food for yourself to eat because she might take her more time before responding to your request.



There is something definitely special about turning 40/50 for women.
If she has never challenged or questioned your instructions, get ready to be shocked by her boldness and confrontational attitude.

The only way to avoid a total breakdown of Peace and Harmony is to become fair, objective and reasonable in your approach to issues at home or at work.

Bear in mind that at this age, she also harbours a lot of regrets about the decisions she has made in life so far … you may be one of them!

A woman at this age is a better Judge of character and will evaluate a man using very different parameters.

Men must start on time to prepare for this phase in the lives of their wives/partners/bosses/subordinates. What you put in is what you get!

If you have treated her fairly, then you don’t have anything to worry about. She will begin to appreciate you better if for any reason she didn’t do so in the past. On the contrary if you haven’t been nice to her, fasten your seatbelt, the ride is about to get pretty bumpy.

A Woman doesn’t forget those who hurt her, and by her actions and utterances you will know that she is out to show you that she is no longer that little girl you married.

https://www.akelicious.net/men-prepare-yourself-to-handle-women-when-they-turn-40/