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Joybeau:
uote author=Starz825 post=121712150]How many ex you sef get....

Whenever any of.my ex calls me...

Two of huna go dey ok

Just a few sir. Nothing is existing between us anymore since his emergence

I think this guy is already making plans to withdraw for reasons best known to him and not about being scared of marriage rights

Just give him up to six months and if he is not forth coming you zero your mind from him

Offpointng:
I don't know how to put it in the right words tho. but my Mum kinda have a past History with Igbo people that's making accepting my Girlfriend a problem. One of it was, when she had my Pregnancy, she had to work under this Igbo woman that maltreated her and did the unthinkable to a pregnant woman. The painful thing was, the woman's friends also used that leverage to insult, maltreat and do all manner of unthinkable things to her despite seeing how heavily pregnant she was. Before then, the nature of my Dad's job is a type that he only comes home twice monthly and my mum being a woman that wasn't trained to be idle took it on herself to keep herself busy atleast and decide to work at a Restaurant close to where she lived and that was the inhumane treatment she got. When we moved to the SW, we had to stay in this flat that had two Igbo neighbors. My mom actually made friends with them outta a pure heart but they just kept taking advantage of the fact that she a free giver. they back bite and do say bad things about her alot. The Yoruba neighbors on the other hand were more friendly to her and so overtime, she do have this distant relationship with any Igbo person she meet and that history is bout affecting my relationship with this girl. I would have said I'll go ahead with the relationship regardless but my mom don't want to tell you something and you disobey. it always come with regrets. esp me, anytime I do something she doesn't want me to do I always do regret it.

This have got me worried tbh. what can I do fam?

Make that sacrifice for her let peace reign in your life

Especially as you said you regret it anytime you disobey her

Fugitivetoto:
My conscience have been judging me, honestly it was out of highness, we both did this abomination, now I’m alone and no NEPA light, I was reflecting on it and it dawned on me that I’m destroying my life, his on WhatsApp telling me how sweet I was 😞, I feel dead inside for doing this, I didn’t know if I caused it, you know when you’re free with a relative, I wore just crop top and bum shorts not tight ones, I honestly had nothing in mind, I was on my bed and he came and put my head on his legs while he lay down we were both watching movie, he was petting my head, don’t know if is the highness, I feel disgusted talking this, we both kissed and made out, and he roughed handle me.. after it we tried to play cool like it’s normal but both our heart was racing fast. I’m posting this here cause I need both the insults and advice, someone to talk to, I’m loosing my mind thinking of it, maybe the trauma of facing a heartbreak from my bf caused this 😭

Dey play

Jozilinn:
Because of the rising cost of things and inability for transfer sometimes,it's really affecting my aunt's family cos they rear birds for feeding and sale...so someone mentioned that corn shaft can be mixed with their feeds, please I hope this won't affect the birds in any way,and please how much feed should be given to four broilers to save cost and how,an half bag only takes them one week,do you think the birds are being overfed? how can we save cost, how long does your feed last for you considering the number of birds you train? what else can be given to them apart from their feeds too? Please your advices are really appreciated. After starter feed what else should I start giving them grower or finisher?.
Nlmod.
Lalasticlala.
Frozen70.
Samae

In my own case, one bag is too much for them to finish in one week
Haba

Just get a nor mal drinking cup amd feed them one cup in the morning and one cup in the evening

The more they eat the more they poo

So feed them little to sustain them and save you cost of buying feeds

If you over feed them they wiibw over weight and it will affect their movement before you know it they will no longer walk so they can't reach their food tray and will die of hunger

Fmartin:
She is always complaining of lack of interest on coitus so I want to know if i can get any available and affordable drug in Nigeria that can help on female decrease libido.

Doctors in the house
Any drug

Drugs will give temporary solution but the problem is still there

She has to be in a good mood for her to enjoy sex

She must be happy having a relationship with you for sex urge to trigger

You would have been making her happy and keeping her warm for her to be in order

Sex in women is a different thing all together
That's why you see men initiating sex most times

Lastly women attach emotions to every thing they do, try and find out if anything is disturbing her state of mind

Galaxydon1:
they should stop insulting peter obi

He doesn't even respond to their ranting

MissSlimbody:
Dead, I guess.

The woman said "Emi nikan lo de ba" meaning, I'm the only one you came back to. "Baba e da, ko wa wo e" Where is your father, let him come and see you.

Alright I get the translation

Meaning she raised him alone

The father will appear at his old age when he is done galivanting

MikeofAfrica:
Opportunities like the contract that he got sometimes come once in a lifetime. Hence I will disagree with your opinion.

He should use the #2.5 million to establish a business. If he believes that UBER is the most profitable business in his locality, then that is fine.

The business will act as a pillar that will carry his marriage when he decides to get married. Getting married without a stable source of income is like building a house without any pillar.

There are men who got married at age of 25 but had their first child at 40. Hence we cannot fast forward our destiny through early marriage.

Once he has a lucrative business, he can use the insurance scheme of one of the banks to save the entire school fees of his kids even before they are born.

Ok naw

Bumber3:
I have seen it ma God bless you

Amen 🙏 and make a way for you to be comfortable in life

SyrusdeHansome:
If i find out the girl i want to marry has a mother that has a tendency of disrespecting the husband i can never marry such a girl. Nobody can tell me that she'll be different frm her mom. 90% of the girl child are naturally stupid. They tend to copy bad behaviours faster than the good ones.

What if you birth girls all through
Will you still reason like this

If you reason so, will you still blame their mum

And if you blame their mum then you did not do your job well being with such as a wife and mother of your girls

Galaxydon1:
Yorubas are foolish, we will Chase them out of Lagos and use Lagos as capital of Biafra

Stop this nonsense and plan for the of yourself

Hopemanfx:
I am 38yrs this year. I have been huzzling to get myself up. things have not been easy for me. I recently got a contract that pays me close to 2.5m. I am confused about whether I should go and marry since age is not on my side or if, I should invest the money on property like land or buy a car for uber?? need your advice.

I think you should get married and start raising a family while you plan of getting a car and buying a land

The last two can wait
But the first one can't wait because of age

You dont expect to keep paying school fees, especially university fees at 70yrs of your age if you don't settle down to marry now

SimpleGuy001:
Hi, What are the best residential areas in shomolu?

Anywhere is ok no particular best place

The crime rate is low because each street have their own naughty boys that their presence scares idiots who wants to come and constitute nuisance

kpaofame:
Good Day, people of Nairaland, I am currently facing an issue that is making my head to spin,

I moved into an apartment few months ago, and the first week I entered the light was cut by PHCN, I contacted the agent and the light was fixed about a week later with the promise that the property owner have applied for pre-paid for the apartment.

I was to pay for direct connection till the meter is out, fast forward to Late feb, the Landlady son came to tell me that they have fixed the meter and gave me the card, The card and the meter was old, I allayed my concerns to him and he reassured me that it is working properly.
I had light the day after the meter was fixed and assumed it was the unit that came with it, I recharged the card but was unable to load it to the meter, I gave it to (landlady son) and he also could not load it, he promised to fix it.

The next week when I came back from work, (landlady son) came to notify me that my light have been cut by PHCN that the meter was bypassed. “Oga who bypassed it” he retorted that it maybe the people who connected it, apparently they got someone else to do the connection and not PHCN staff, but he is claiming it is the agent that did it and there is nothing he can do about it.

PHCN is asking for a huge fee to reconnect the light, (Landlady is not around- based abroad), her son said he is not involved, I should relate with the agent, agent is claiming it is PHCN staff he used and don’t know it was bypassed. Over two weeks nothing have been done to reconnect the light.

How best can I go about this, I can’t continue to stay in darkness

You did not state the amount the PHCN are requesting

The PHCN should come and trace the bye pass to be sure it was not from your apartment

If you it's not from your apartment then you can't be asked to pay

But if it's from your apartment, discuss with the agent to inform the landlord,

who may pay or ask both of you to share the bill then you pay and deduct it from your next rent

Ammmy:
I and some friends are having an argument about if women really come or not. Do women really come like men ? Two female friends I asked said they really haven't experienced such. I have experienced such but only when I masturbate and not when I have sex. I don't come when having sex. Do women come during sex? Or re people really making this up?

Yes women cum and is called orgasm

Though if you have a good sex partner who will be patient and knows the buttons to press, you will experience that heavenly feelings called cloud Nine

fvck:
Now I met this girl whom we vibed for a while,I spent money on her back to back,so I pretended I was broke,na there she was assisting,but the assistance came with steady insult,name calling,phone monitoring etc... It was too much I had to stop the pretence and make I understand I've regained my finances,she started acting gentle,but she started making friend with a girl I once dated,they are very close, despite all I've told her to stay off cos that ex has hatred for me,now this girl is setting a game for me,she intends to dump me due to my ex brain washing her,now it's my time to get mean,how can I treat her f up?

I think you should just give her a long rope to hang herself

What I mean is, leave her to date herself, that alone is enough punishment for her

keeper303:
Please anyone who has installed water collector in his/her house should help with the amount to pay Installer for a 4 bedroom bungalow. I just need an idea of how much to haggle the price to pay.

The amount may not be the same because the building doesn't have the same dimension

So get as many installers as you want and go for the one with a fair price

Though it's sold per square meter

Then you pay for installation fees

Ochyes:
Who lies more, men or women? What is your opinion and experience? Yesterday I told a number of persons in my office that men lie more than women. I want to know if I was correct.

Men lies more especially when it has to do with coming home late and extra affairs matter

Hismercy20:
I am a guy 26 years old and turning 27 in June. I have never engaged in any sexual act before until around 2017/2018 when I started masturbating but I later stopped in 2019/2020 because truth be told, masturbation drains.

Now, I have a partner and we have tried to have sex but all to no avail because I do ejaculate just three minutes into romance. I have taken drugs, taking herbal mixture in fact someone even referred to me to a thread here on Nairaland to buy herb but all to no avail.Please nairalanders/doctors, help me. I don't know what's causing this problem.i explained to my biological mum, she sent another herb and I have been taking it for the past two months now and no improvement.This is affecting me psychologically, I cannot even concentrate on something else and my mum is also worried.

Please how do I cure this?

Just be calm, maybe your body is still on withdrawal system from mastubation

Freo:
I have at most 7m, and I'm planning on moving to the USA but also having doubts.. Please someone should give me a piece of advice on weather to stay here (Nigeria) and run a business or relocate to USA. I just do not want to make a move that I'll regret for the rest of my life . This one that some people are saying they're suffering there while others are having a 250m projects..

If you have your way to go to USA pls do

There is no way you will regret it

Alapogentle:
since he is yet to see it I think it will be beta proof of payment to ascertain you really send it

Meaning ⁉️

I do give away here steady and her own case shouldn't be different

If she did not get alert let her go and verify from 🏧

The details I saw there was the same details she sent

I did that because I went through her profile she is an old member not those random people that get registered and start requesting

greenermodels:
The couple met in their workplace and later got married, they earn roughly the same amount of salary, should they contribute an equal amount of money monthly for the family upkeep?

They are not into any competition
The man should know his role and his capacity

The woman knows that she is a supporter
But if it happens that they share it equally or she brings more

Dont ask me why her husband respects her and pay more attention to her

potent5:
The papa nko?

Behind the scene

Bumber3:
no ma, I'll let you know when I get it... God bless you ma

Amen 🙏

Bumber3:
1636303479 access bank Marvelous Yemi feyisayo thank you ma

I have sent it to you, did you get alert

Bumber3:
I need help to feed nth is working for me ATM

Send your account number
I am doing this because you are an old member,
Not those that will register and start demanding immediately

emiika:
you are right though, but not easy mehnnnn

Yes it's not easy and no one wishes for such after a joyous marriage celebration

heartleboy:
This school sefff

Always in a wrong side of bad news

emiika:
fresh air with two kids and not well paid job, single mother no easy oooo

Most women prefer to be a single mother rather than staying with someone that gives then emotional depression

That's why i said fresh air

bonnyhope:
Your type is not needed on this matter
You home breaker that can't even face small challenges

Wetin concern me

What do you even know about marriage

emiika:
many reasons if you care to know, you mean she should divorce him and marry another man that is more worse than the husband they’ve been sharing things together, yoi people don’t know anything, better make she dey manage her man than go remarry person wey go kill her, which good man dey outside now

If that is the case
She is not divorcing to marry another man

Its not a rocket science

Probably she wants to breath fresh air as she dey choke for the marriage

phidipe:
This is difficult to do i have tried it sir is difficult what can i do

You are not a man yet

Dey play

Every thing you told us here is 💯 pure lies