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In a case like this, wouldn't it have been better if Davido underwent vasectomy? You get to fvck as you wish, but you won't fertilise the egg.

See wetin TuFace don cause?

eepeepook:
Made up story. Only five percent or less of romance topics are truth.

Absolutely. The wordings are so explicit for a Nigerian female to write.

CuriousStudent:
Good evening sir,
Please can I send a PM?

OK.

Smartguyboy:
That how my ex then wanted me to sponsor her which I agreed but you will born for me first just in case it did not work out for us again the child will be my compensation. She refused she can’t get pregnant in school I said menh I can’t sponsor you the risky is too much and I has never seen anywhere or close to me it end well.

Next time, make it at least two children.

Even me sef felt shame while reading it. Na why African Americans, when outside the US, no dey like associate with black Africans before other races call them poor people.

I like food, but when in public, one has to behave accordingly. If not for yourself, for the rest of your kith.

Nehamo:
don't u get it? She is tired of the relationship, she has seen enough of u.. can't u move on ? Must u wife her?
Some men self

As in eh! I feel so irritated by OP's responses. It is disturbing to my soul.

saweide:
Good afternoon dear romancelanders,
My lover girl I met on Facebook just 4 months relationship of knowing each other sent me a shocking message to me on Facebook last night .
She is a single mother of two who lost her husband 3 years ago and when I met her I let her know that won't be a barrier that I will marry her with the 2 children and she agreed. Tho it was a long distance relationship and since we dated have travelled to meet her 9 times while she visited once and when she came she had to drop the children with her elder sister.
Three days ago we had little misunderstanding she cut phone on me I called her back never to try such on me and after that call she never call


This is someone that told me she has been going to the mountain to pray for husband that will stay in her life for the past 3 years ooooo

Ndi Red Pill, I am sorry for all the insults I have thrown at you people. Please forgive me.

cc: Raalsalghul Biko, you people should keep doing the good work.

Tadadobe:
You must be very dull to think you have the right brain power to disagree with the way I feel

When countered with data, you ran away with your flaccid tails down your smelly yansh. Nex time, don't pick mumbo-jumbo information from your buttocks and present them as facts. Nobody is here to make you feel happy!

Bluntemperor:
Na wao for unclotheness o!
Is this part of being relevant in unclothedness!
What legacy are these Celebrities handing over to their young ones?
Na their business but don't pollute our Society and tomorrow they will be saying they want to lead the Nation!

So if you go to a beach, what would you wear? Please give a pictorial example.

P.S. No young one should look up to celebrities. There are parents, guardians and relatives for such. It is not a celebrity's responsibility to impart values into a child.

Foodqueen:
Why the unclothedness.

She dey inside or near swimming pool na. What should she have worn? Buba?

Tadadobe:
Below are the edits of the statistics about how black women have been constantly rejected by white men , who they hitherto worship. Data also show that black women drop a lot of standard once it's a white male in the picture. For a white male, he can be making $34k a year, but as long as it is whiteness, black women wil marry him. But for a black male, he needs to be up in his games, make $200k a year and ridiculously good looking too.

Data also show that black women became pro black after having been used and dumped by white men. That's why you see statement like "black women only want to date black men" "black women enjoy black men". That's just a coping strategy

Where is the data? You just wake up and start spewing nonsense. In the same US, interracial marriage is below 20%. Black women have even been criticised for not dating/marrying outside the race. But one random Tadadobe says black women stick to black men because they were used and dumped by white men.

Here is the reality for you: ALL OVER THE WORLD, PEOPLE MARRY THEIR TYPE - WEALTH CLASS, ETHNIC GROUP, RACE, RELIGION, EDUCATION STATUS. THE AVERAGE HUMAN BEING IS TRIBAL!
https://www.census.gov/library/stories/2018/07/interracial-marriages.html

ednut1:
bros no be you be this in 2019 🤣🤣

Relocation aside, his scores are too poor even for academic purposes. What language was he taught with while growing up?

kunkelhanspeter:
If abroad is so glorious like poor people here in Nigeria praise it those people won’t come back to Nigeria. Why do rich people after study they come back to Nigeria

Because they are rich and have options. Unless you are rich, you can't compare yourself to them. So because someone like Tinubu or Adenuga returned, it means everyone out there should do the same? BTW, very few return unlike before. Return to what? A declining economy with one of the highest unemployment globally?

kunkelhanspeter:
As long as you are not an Ivy League graduate you will still live paycheck to paycheck unless you are lucky enough.

This is not true, please. There are some schools; by just studying mathematics, one is set for life. The fee for foreign students is a fraction of Ivy Leagues. The US' economy is too diversified and huge. Plentiful opportunities.
https://www.bloomberg.com/news/features/2022-12-15/school-of-quant-at-29-000-an-nyc-college-outclasses-princeton

Also, there are renowned universities with geographical regions that offer economic opportunities that are not just meant for Ivy League grads. As for debt, it is leverage. You use money to make more money.

God2man2again:
Life is not always a straight line journey.

Abroad, japa, travel out.

Does it mean that the condition in those countries will remain permanent forever?

Don't put your egg in one basket.

Try to have a sustainable skills before traveling out so that when things get bad in those countries you can comfortably return home with joy and start all over again rather staying there permanently with no hope of returning home.

So, like this, you think things would get bad in the US or Canada before Nigeria? Do you know how many first generation and second generation Nigerians are in developed countries with no plan of returning?

klawaaa:
Just leave him, let him dey everywhere on nairaland as the only GOD of japa. Everywhere has pros and cons. If they have it all in the glorify abroad they won't be looking for immigrants to come to their country as skilled workers. To get a full-stack doctor to be seen in the glorified abroad it's a difficult task, na so so physician assistant fully everywhere. Just don't pray to be a low-income earning in abroad, one would suffer for it. If someone like Prof. Yemi Osinbajo has follow follow go the abraod, he would be in the abroad working his ass out to meet up with a mortgage of 3-bedroom apartment for 25 years... Everyone path is differrnent!

Na because IELTS no favour you dey talk this one.

chikachike86:
1. Fear of STD's and STI's. So much junk out there. Sex in marriage is skin to skin and if you try am outside, na you know. The worse is infecting your innocent partner. That's the height of evil.

2. Emotional stress. Some bitch calling at odd hours.

3. Cheating is expensive. Waste of resources for few minutes enjoyment.

4. Stress of building a new family because of divorce. Etc.

1. That is one thing I dread. If I want to be sick, it should not be because of my irresponsibility. I like it skin to skin, but following random women and doing so is very dangerous.

3. Except for men who see cheating as a hobby that they can spend money on, it is an expensive venture to administer. The economics of cheating as a man does not make sense. It is a high effort/high input activity but has low output/result. Men spend so much for an activity that does not last more than 30 - 60 minutes. The ROI is very poor.

4. That is true. I follow the mantra "do unto others as you want them to do unto you"

tunwumi:
There is no government that is honest. Jonathan's government was not honest at all.
Oil went high to $147 and he met $50B external reserve, he didn't fix anything instead he was busy Sharing to fellow thief.

I don't believe in Buhari nor Tinubu nor 👿 Obi himself.

They are all alike. If you read animal farm by George Orwell, you will understand. It is merry go round

Amaechi, Fashola and Oshomole forced him to spend the money.

Flathead8:
Tony Elumelu is not Igbo Please This your desperate attach by force is sickening and nauseating

Stick with ur Cubana, Eze etc the audio/online billionaires

If Tony Elumelu is not Igbo, is Emefiele Igbo? What about Pat Utomi? Ngozi Okonjo nko?

Are those people Hausas or Jukuns?

ednut1:
Nigerian women are the still the best make we no lie. Many of the white babes and blacks that grew up here in Canada are mentally unstable and are not family oriented. I used to be team foreign too till i dated some of them and noticed the pattern. I am now team nigerian babe 🤣🤣

cc: SUFFERInSMILIIN

Come and see o, when I tell you that the vast majority of Nigerian men will marry Nigerian women for cultural reasons, you say na lie. A Nigerian man with papers will rather go home to marry than marry a black woman who was raised in the abroad. For no other reason than culture. It is the same way a second generation Nigerian will prefer to marry a black lady born and bred in the abroad instead of going to Africa. Again, culture.

IyaTola:
You are Nigeria with no power supply
Oppressed by Police
You suffering unemployment and you want to ban me in Australia,
Go ahead ban me!!!

This one that is in Iyana Ipaja doing ashawo work claims she is in Australia?

Na the mods I blame. Instead of Seun to be strict with how threads are pushed to the Front Page, he spends time attacking Obidients. Honestly, Seun is lucky he started nairaland when the Internet hadn't penetrated Nigeria like today. Na my generation and those in their 30s & 40s dey keep you going. I strongly doubt the upcoming generation would be so hooked to Nairaland. Instagram vs TikTok is a good example.

mployer:
You women has no iota of sympathy in you.

You are wicked down to every fiber of your being, reason I don't loose guard when dealing with women. I always prepare for the worst and stay one step ahead in the game.

Hakimi remains a hero.

Almost a thousand likes

Nairaland is unsafe for women o.

deathmen12:
you where just 26 with 75k salary, the only thing that enter your head was to get married to a young girl of 23years with a teaching job probably with salary of 30k, what’s wrong with you people? Instead of you to develop yourself more with your small 75k salary, you allow them to deceive you with usual talk of I marry my wife when I was earning 15k lol, you didn’t just marry oo you also rush born children with your 75k salary... until you finally became jobless, then God decide to give you a second chance by making your wife to go away with the kids so that you use that opportunity to build yourself and be stable financially, nw you came your to disturb us cos sex done Dey hungry you, if your wife was around who knows another pikin for done enter, Oga I feel like slapping you like this. Guy learn your skill and master it very well, then get back on your feet financially and go look for your kids. As for your wife na you know.

They will never learn...Ndi, My children should grow with me.

MrBrownJay1:
- why move in a 3bedroom apt?
- why should she pay everything?
- why doesnt she have a 3bedroom apt on her own, if she supposedly can afford it?
- why dont you ask her to tell you DIRECTLY what she wants?!
- or better yet, why dont you tell US what you want right now with that babe?

If you notice, he did not answer any of these questions. Not one did he answer.

Ndi Sigma male. I have read Alpha, Beta, now Sigma. When are we going to have Gamma males?

Assuming the tale is true and not one of nairaland's figmentation, the lady would use belly to tie you down for marriage.

In fact, I dare say it is not true.

Videocaller:
She’s paying the rent alone. I have properties already but I’m 25 and she’s 27. I just don’t want to make mistakes

talk2hb1:
Their is nothing like 50-50 relationships with a lady, know that and know peace.

He said he is a Sigma male, and she is an Alpha female. The moment I read those words, I knew he was not serious. I find it hilarious when Nigerians wey dey inhale generator fumes use those terms. You are battling with Danfo and touts daily only to return to a home with generator noise everywhere chanting sIgMa male and aLpHa female.

kad199:
Bro are there fully funded scholarships for Nigerians

Type the same question into the Google search bar, and you will get plentiful results.

It is your job not mine to search for scholarships for you.

SUFFERInSMILIIN:
The men are innocent

Sixth lie. So men who pursue anything in skirts including widows, university students, roadside hawkers, and domestic servants aka house maids are innocent? So, how come we have more Nigerian men held for sexual abuse and harassment in the abroad than Nigerian women?

[quote]but it is the women which are most unfaithful in the world not the Nigerian men you cannot control a wild horse. You can travel to the river which the donkey thinking the donkey is testing When you get to the river it is o

If Nigerian women are the most unfaithful in the world, then it is Nigerian men who trained them. The last I checked, it is the men they slept with, not themselves. They learnt how to be unfaithful from Nigerian men whose greatest achievement has been dangling their smelly preek in public. You stated it yourself - Nigerian men hiring young girls from other African countries. NIGERIAN MEN NOT NIGERIAN WOMEN. Nigerian men, not Nigerien men.

This is why when you go to Europe and America you find nobody wants to even date in Nigerian lady

THE VAST MAJORITY OF THE WORLD'S POPULATION MARRY WITHIN THEIR RACE AND/OR ETHNIC GROUP. IT IS NOT COMMON FOR PEOPLE TO MARRY OUTSIDE THEIR RACE OR ETHNIC GROUP! Brazil and the US ra perfect examples. There are no other countries more racially diverse than them. I posted their marriages rates across racial groups. None is up to 50%!

Admittedly you say you are a Nigerian number people start keeping their distance from you. I have seen it in North America and a lot of European countries including African country also nobody wants to mount a Nigerian woman because of their behaviour

If they become easily mountable, it is the same you who will criticise it. Now, they have become hard to mount, you are still complaining. Please choose a struggle. Also, if white men want to date black women (since Nigerians are black), they have black women all over the EU and US to do so. It must not be immigrant black women when there are black women who were born and raised in their countries and understand the cultures. Another reason many don't understand why Nigerian women might be unattractive is that the Nigerian passport is too weak. South African women and even Kenyan women are attractive to Nigerians, Zimbabweans and Somalians because their passports are strong. There is an economic benefit to be obtained if one marries a South African woman rather than a Nigerian woman.

Look, at this point, from your responses, I can tell that you have a hard time getting a foreign woman because if you so much despise Nigerian women, I don't understand why you are complaining about them. Leave them to the men who are interested and stop lying that Nigerian men or women are attractive outside Nigeria whereas humans regardless of their origins marry their types.

Dbestbrest:
French is another widely spoken language after English. You will go places with it as you will have advantage over others if opportunities come your way in any french speaking country

As a hobby? Maybe yes, but if you are on the hunt for economic opportunities, better Spanish as the majority of Francophone countries are terribly poor. Besides, it is easier to learn Spanish than French. Also, the knowledge of Spanish helps in understanding Portuguese. So two languages in the bag. French is just too useless. Even Asians strive to learn English, not French. So why should an English speaker learn a language which most speakers are poor?

MarketDispatch:
Learn German if you want to Japa and be serious with your life.

Goodluck getting a student visa from the German embassy in Nigeria if you don't have a first class degree which was issued in 2020 upwards.

Spanish because South American countries have favourable immigration policies with strong passports, affordable universities (some are also free and highly ranked), better economies than their counterparts in Africa, it is widely spoken in the US. Then Chinese because of China's economic clout. French is useless as the vast majority of Francophone countries are terribly poor. German is useless too outside of Europe. In fact, you are better off learning Arabic if you can't get into Europe instead of German. However, if you want to live places where there are enough economic opportunities (career or business), Spanish and Chinese.

seguno2:
The comment you replied didn’t talk about having any child.

Please re-read his full post. It was too long. Hence, I cut it some parts off. His third child is coming through without a mother in the picture.

His previous wife did him shege sha. I think his problem is lack of money, honestly. Men wey get women no dey complain like this. Olumide Aderinokun also re-married, but we never heard him complain of women's love for money.

Except he is doing this to promote his mumbo-jumbo podcast show.