₦airaland Forum

So many guys here are too money conscious. Their blood pressure shoots up when it involves money.

Urhobokwaleboy:
A nigga once said:am single cause am stingy..

And is it true?

DavSagacity:
Abeg help me ask some of this our men OOOoo.... If am the woman, honestly I won't cook anything else for him throughout the day. What nonsense! !!. All those mama put where he used to eat before he got married were they serving him on theor kneels...?. Instead of him to place a passionate kiss on her forehead for the meal and say thank you Honey...He quickly snap picture and run to social media to post trash. The man is just a stupid attention seeker . Simple

It's to drag the food and start eating abeg...no time.

As long as he cheats, what he feels for you is not love or respect. How does someone love or respect you and still cheat on you?

mofedamijo:
Read my post again, you missed the point, in as much as David beckham is rich, the wife is also bringing something to the table....yes some rich men love thier wives spending, and lavishing, but my dear thats changing this days, most don’t want a liability, maybe a drug lord would do that, cause he his scared of losing his babe, most druglords babe re usually hoes anyway.
Melinda Gates ( Bill gates wife) was working as a staff at Microsoft, and when she eventually married Bill gates she kept working until when she had to raise thier kids, thereafter She served as a member of Duke University's board of trustees from 1996 to 2003.[16] She attends Bilderberg Group conferences and holds a seat on the board of directors of the Washington Post company. She retired from the board of Drugstore.com in August 2006 to spend more time working for the Bill & Melinda Gates Foundation. Note she married Bill in 1994, yet she has a robust career........peace.

I get your point. Nobody wants a liability. I work but I spend his money

mofedamijo:
Typical, i was expecting such, the point is not loving money, the point is been smart enough to bring something to the table, no matter how rich i am, my wife needs to be active, not necessarily because i dont want to give her money, but that way she can understand the value and appreciate every penny.
Get her a Benz and she drives it like a truck, hell NO.
I have noticed career moms have a way of handling finances, they can be prudent because they relate it to how much they earn, same can’t be said for a shopperholick who as at the time she was picked up, her fathers ceilings were licking, now she paints the town RED, why? She aint gat value, she doesn’t know value.......

Some rich men take pleasure in making money and seeing their wives spend it and lack nothing especially the ones that are not stingy. Because there are stingy rich men.

That kind of husband is a demon. He should better eat what he sees.

Stanbic:
Also tell her you're Mad

You cracked me up so bad.

Ehiscotch:
That's how an overzealous religious friend of mine said that she wouldn't allow people call her son Davido if his name is David.

Aunty Tonto, there's nothing wrong with a child calling an older male uncle or aunty, it's just that you grew up and realised its real definition and all of a sudden you feel all too knowledgeable and exposed to let your child commit something so erroneous (in your mind).

In our quest for civilization and adopting of foreign culture we are slowly eroding little (probably unspoken) values of our own, like the "Community raising a child". In such instance everyone is like family and because of such bonds you cannot go to your neighbour's house and call his mother "Ma"; it would seem disrespectful.

Well, I am sure you also called Churchill's mother "Mother-in-law" and not mom, since you want to be so formal. Which explains a lot, really.

For me, it is just your ego talking because I think koreans refer to "Uncles" (older males) as Oppa. Language is so flexible and as long as the other person gets the message I really don't think there is a need for changing.

Anyway, your child , your business.

I don't think anyone should see being called "ma" as being disrespectful. That is actually respect. Some people even expect to be called daddy/mummy even if they are not your parents.

I actually use "ma", "sir" for most older ones rather than aunty/uncle... mummy/daddy.

TheGreenLand:
While she was swimming in the pool at home, this conversation ensued.......

Kofoworola Baker, are you having fun down there?

Yes Daddy, wanna join me?

No Princess.

Anything you say daddy.....Love You!


......some memories up there.
The noodles generation kids can never know what I just typed above!

Palace!!!

I knew every word of that conversation.

BenzEne1:
Well that's straightforward. Men get turned on by what they see, especially when it is indecent. This can lead to Zina (Illegal intercouse; formication or adultery) or even rape. These are major sins in Islam. That is why we take decency very seriously.

I won't like to go into the fact that this covering has not done anything to stop rape, molestation and fornication especially.

dokiOloye:
Fake Prophet MuhaMAD (piss and poo be unto him) was a serial womaniser,rapist and paedophile who was sexually attracted to and married 6 yr old Aisha and started defiling her by age 9.
Knowing how sexually active and paedophilic tendencies he had,he instructed his mumu followers to wear even suckling babies the hideous hijab

Well I understand your point though it was put in a rather offensive manner

maasoap:
Not everything about Islam, but just admit that that is only aspect that interests you. You only see what you wanted to see.

I saw what was posted. Not outside that. But how come you conveniently ignored the last sentence?

BenzEne1:
I don't know if you are a Muslim or Xtian. Everything in Islam revolves around decency and not provoking a man's desire. You should rephrase that to " why does everything I know about Islam revolve around provoking a man's desire "? Then we will direct you on reading and understanding Islam. Ma Salaam

I will rephrase it to everything about a woman's dressing.

But you didn't respond to my last question

Why is everything in decency in Islam revolved around provoking a man's desire. Women have to live their lives based on the men not "getting provoked".

Can't this men control their desires themselves?

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khalidx:
we are talking another thing you're talking another

No sir. I was commenting on the aspect of having to neglect studying and eventually sorting lecturers. So I am not "talking another thing"

Some guys will just keep dragging their feet and stringing a girl along. You have dated for a year, you should have a headway or let her go.

She probably doesn't want to keep wasting years dating only to be dumped and she has to start over again. If you are serious about her, what is the challenge? Or are you still looking around?

CAPSLOCKED:
CAN'T LET NO ONE WASH MY CLOTHES OR TIDY MY HOUSE. THOSE ARE THE EASIEST THINGS FOR ME TO DO I CAN EVER GET TO IT WHILE SLEEPING.
COOKING WASN'T HER THING SO IT'S EITHER I'M COOKING MY TASTELESS FOODS OR WE EATING OUTSIDE OR DOING JUNK.

THE POINT IS, FOR MANY YEARS THERE WASN'T ANY COMPENSATIONS OR ENCOURAGEMENT FOR ME IN ALL OF IT NOT EVEN SINGLET OR HANDKERCHIEF.

BACK THEN I NEVER KNEW MEN EVEN GOT GIFTS CUZ IT NEVER HAPPENED TO ME.

NOW I KNOW BETTER.

Too bad

tossie101:
What do u mean by that.. Did she lie

See them they always look for a way to bash women it has become norm on nairaland..
Smh

Someone else sees the good in Nigerian women and appreciates us. Don't mind this heartbroken guys. They'll get it later

A school like UI humbles people. When you see your results in 100 level you will sit up especially when you know you cannot sort lecturers.

In my 4yrs in school, I never sorted a single lecturer. Many graduates cannot defend their graduates because of this issues

kimbraa:
They offer you pussy 'cause what you mostly offer is your dick. A woman would treat you the way you treat her. With the way you sound, you're only worth sex and pairs of boxers.

You are mean!!!

He sounds like the kind that will ask if he is her father if his babe requests something from him and he wants to be flown to Dubai. They will fly him back to his village.

Saff:
You are not an alpha male if you have to say it 1 million times to deceive yourself. Alpha males are alphas from their presence, actions and confidence. They don’t Come online to rant and spill their bitterness, instead they focus on their craft and work towards improving themselves, and the success speaks for itself. Alpha males don’t have to make ridiculous efforts, and play stupid games to attract women, women are naturally drawn to their energy. I could go on and on... the point I’m trying to make is that 90% of you are in denial.

He is an Omega male

kollinzgee:
and an intelligent imalma or whatever you call yourself would just absord the content of the writeup rather than screen for errors unfortunately this is a dumb imalma .

Kollinzgee how come you are sounding so insultive today. It doesn't look good on you. Try to be more objective to criticism and speak like a learned man.

That error was in the first line...the opening line. You think I am grammarnazi that has the time to fish out errors.

ollah2:
Is the school a christian school?

Ok go to an hijab school

herkeem:
The International School Ibadan (ISI) and the Hijab Ban.

ISI is a secondary school under the control of the management of University of Ibadan. The school has been in the news in the last few days for its refusal to allow willing female Muslim students use Hijab on their uniform. The situation has degenerated to the extent that the Muslim students were shut out of the school among other unwarranted actions of the school as represented by the Principal, one Mrs Phebean Olowe.

I have read and listened to different opinions on the development and I am not sorry for the positions I take on the matter. Before I conclude with my positions however, I have a few questions for the Principal in question as well as anyone with position same as or similar to that of the school management:

1. Does the wearing of Hijab by the willing female Muslim students portend any danger/evil for their colleagues (who don't), the school or anyone for that matter?

2. Is it against the law of the land for the students of such a 'public' school to wear Hijab?

3. Does their observance of that aspect of their constitutional rights rub or deny anyone of his?

If the genuine answers to the above questions are NO, then I am of the opinion that the assertion that the school's reactions are borne out of hatred for Islam and the Muslims must be very true and this has to stop and stop NOW.

And for those who might be asking, does their not wearing Hijab portend any danger? Yes, it does and contrary to the opinions of those that know not, not wearing Hijab makes female muslims less Muslims because it's not a flexible commandment. If your wish is really not to make them non-Muslims, let them use what makes them the Muslims that they are.

I call on all the concerned stakeholders and well meaning people of the society to intervene in good time to allow our female Muslim students join their colleagues without any further victimization, molestation, discrimination or disdainful treatment of any kind.

Leyin aponle, abuku lo Ku o........... Tori a ko le wa sa fun keke lo kolu moto.....

Adesanjo Oyejide.

So how have they coped for the last decades? Is it that the hijab wearing is not as a mandatory as they now claim?

Can they not attend pro hijab schools especially Muslim schools instead of trying to disrupt a peaceful school? Or do they not have faith in their schools?

Future presidents

fishmillan:
9ja girls please learn ... Some will even gift you kpekus , like have you not been hitting this same kpekus ... I tell you they have nothing to offer ... Brainless scallwags

Have you ever flown your babe out as a gift?

Klinee:
Mumu what concern gay with anal sex? When it is male and female, that's my concern.
Am not promoting anal sex nor tell you not to condemn anal sex but stop equating it gayism, they are two different act.

As far as am concern guys who indulge in any type of sexual activities with a girl feel confidently discussing it with his friends so long as it's not gayism.

And on what basis of this discussion is it ok for you to call me "mumu"

Have I insulted you since we started this conversation?

You can please avoid mentioning me if you can't communicate like a cultured man.

savior22:
i think they are tired of dating Nigeria women but they can't date foreign women either because of yahoo yahoo boys so they are stuck with Nigeria women,that's why you see them ranting online.just saying tho

The truth is that they can't even cope with these foreign women especially with the ego and traditional/village mentality and mindset of a lot of the guys here.

They think she will cook everytime no matter what or wash their clothes and be bullied the way they want. Nigerian ladies are marrying white guys constantly but we don't see them whining here

Klinee:
A man that also like MouthAction is also a gay because mouth can also be found in males too, a man that like woman's butt(ukwu) is also a gay because butt can be found in males too.
A man that like breasts is also a gay because breasts can also be found in males too.
Can you take a cognitive view of the reflection of your sense.
All these are sexual perversion : kissing, caressing, MouthAction, anal sex, breasts sucking, vagina sucking , even anal sucking etc except penis-vagina sex which is only way procreation can occur.
But will we stop them (male and female) from doing so,?no, that's the sexual activities they enjoyed doing.
What of a female that demand for anal sex? Is she a gay too?
By your definition of gayism it means that a female can never be gay,lesbian or homosexual no matter the amount fellow females she lies sexually with because they does nothing like anal sex.
And also, if a man lies sexually with fellow man without involving the anus he didn't commit Gay.

Anal sex is not a regular sexual act that someone can probably discuss with his friends or talk in a church or mosque or even an intellectual gathering and guys that love it can easily be gay.

PSTEMMA1960:
she has already done that, bt the man has already made up his mind, my sister says she can't imagine calling her child that name or hearing another person calls him the name, knowing what it means in Ibo...

It is her child too. The husband doesn't have monopoly on issues like naming. She married a man that is not flexible or someone she can reason with, she has to carry her cross and call her son "destroyer" for the rest of her life or give him another name and call him that.

WinningEleven:
Why do I feel like you're ubunja?

Ubunja won't use "being" instead of "been". First observation