Celebrities › Re: 10 Eligible Celebrity Bachelors In Nigeria Now That Banky W Is Married (PHOTOS) by ImaIma1(f): 4:44pm On Nov 21, 2017 |
How is Whizkid Eligible mbok? With baby mamas hovering over his head. |
TV/Movies › Re: World Television Day 2017: Share Your Best Movie by ImaIma1(f): 4:34pm On Nov 21, 2017 |
I am obsessed with The Godfather...i can't stop watching it |
Celebrities › Re: Dencia Shades Wizkid & Jada Pollock, His Manager Turned Baby Mama (Photo) by ImaIma1(f): 4:31pm On Nov 21, 2017 |
Onijagidijagan: All females have lost their reputation in my sight..I can pick up 100% of girls in my car. married or not, older or younger, with boyfriends or with rings just for bleebing and throw away.
Guys that are having problem with girls are d ones that are truthful, innocent, thinks & act broke and and looks poor. (they are d ones quoting me now)
Do not hate on wizkid some of you here castigating my comment will do more than wizkid, flavour, fela, femi kuti, davido, mc galaxy and nice if you were in their shoes. Stop being hypocritical.
Meanwhile, If you hate this comment go and hug transformer. When it is call girls and cheap ones you roll with, you will come and start talking nonsense when you have not related with a girl with integrity in your life before. Well...as long as you add your mother and sisters to that your generalization, then i am fine. If not, pls borrow sense. |
Events › Re: Couple Wed: No Wedding Gown, No Cake, Rice, Wine, Chicken, Soft Drinks (Photo) by ImaIma1(f): 12:24pm On Nov 20, 2017 |
I feel smaller weddings are more classy. People just like to show off and want people to keep talking about how lit their wedding was. When you are the type that cares a lot about what people think or what they say, you will definitely do more than your level. |
Family › Re: Do Not Marry If You Do Not Have A Job by ImaIma1(f): 12:06pm On Nov 20, 2017 |
Acidosis: I have been reading/listening to this interpretation of the scriptures but I still do not get it.
To start with, Eden is not a workplace. God gave Adam everything he needed in Eden, according to the scriptures. He wasn't placed there to work. The idea of sweating and cultivating in labour began the very day a cursed was placed on Adam, Eve and the Serpent. Ideally, they were meant to eat, eat, eat and enjoy everything God had already created.
Adam did not DO any WORK before God gave him Eve.
Again, you talked about the incompleteness of a woman. Now you're very very wrong again. God created everything in HIS image. God did not create an incomplete human. Eve was a complete being before she met Adam. Reason is because (1) God never wanted Adam to be alone; (2) so man can multiply.
Anything that contradicts this message is pure HERESY.
There are lots of other bible passages you can quote to support marriage, okay?
Now, should a man without a job get married? Well what the bible says is: a man that fails to work should not eat. In Ephesians, it was stated further that "We are members of the same body. And so for this reason, a man shall leave his father and mother, and be joined with his wife, and the two shall become one."
So the first step, is the ability to leave your father and mother. Earn all you can, if you can't detach yourself from father and mother, then you CAN'T marry. That's the first instruction, not money. Will a man leave his father and mother and not have a means of livelihood since he is no longer dependent on his parents? For a man to leave, means he can take care of himself. |
Jobs/Vacancies › Re: How To Find Companies That Are Hiring by ImaIma1(f): 12:01pm On Nov 20, 2017 |
Nothing new here. Jobberman, Hot Nigerian jobs, Careersng usually post stale jobs. By the time u apply, you dont even get called but instead your CV will be distributed to those fake companies or GNLD people and they will be sending you invites.
Yes networking works and applying directly to the websites. |
Christianity Etc › Re: Daddy Freeze: "Pastor Said I Will Die In 24 Months Over Tithe, Free The Sheeple" by ImaIma1(f): 10:53am On Nov 20, 2017 |
Me77: So, all the million pastors we have in Nigeria, none till this time and date has the guts to challenge Daddy freeze with biblical verses concerning the tithing issue Pastor Nollywood Suleman that recently challenged daddy freeze to a public debate, has gone on ghost mode since daddy freeze replied back with the the offer Isn't that these pastors are afraid of daddy freeze or they don't know their Bible and Christianity as a whole?
Freethesheeples Not all people take him seriously and would want to trend with him or be linked with him. Freeze craves attention |
Family › Re: Mums Help!! Drinking Cold Water After Delivery by ImaIma1(op): 3:26am On Nov 20, 2017 |
You guys have been helpful. Thanks so much. |
Family › Re: Do Not Marry If You Do Not Have A Job by ImaIma1(f): 5:20pm On Nov 19, 2017 |
egopersonified: Yeah, and if he loses his job after marriage, leave him. Doesn't still mean he should not have a job before getting married |
Family › Mums Help!! Drinking Cold Water After Delivery by ImaIma1(op): 2:41pm On Nov 19, 2017 |
Hello mums/health practitioners please what is the stand on drinking cold water after putting to bed? People have said a lot about it not being good like it does not allow the womb to heal but some have also said it is not true. Please what is the implication? And if you have had experience in that area, please share. This hot weather doesn't help with drinking warm water at all. Please help. |
Christianity Etc › Re: HELP; I Can't Pray Any More. by ImaIma1(f): 2:16pm On Nov 19, 2017 |
Op prayer is simply a communication between you and God. How can you not know what to say? There is really no format but if you cannot pray, say the Lord's prayer.
It is like saying you don't talk to your dad or mum again because you do not know what to say. If you are truly a Christian, your excuse doesn't hold water |
Health › Re: 4 Facts That Might Make You Quit Swimming In Public Pools by ImaIma1(f): 9:16pm On Nov 18, 2017 |
I will still do my back stroke inside the poop or pee  |
Crime › Re: Roland Samuel 'Christ' Arrested By NSCDC For Engaging Followers In Anal Sex (Pic by ImaIma1(f): 9:11pm On Nov 18, 2017 |
thesicilian: I'd rather arrest his dim-wit followers and let him go free instead. Exactly! !! I blame the followers more than the followed. Can't they use their brains at all. Someone just comes and brainwashes them and they believe like IPOB noisemakers that cannot think for themselves. |
Politics › Re: "If It Is Nnamdi Kanu, They Would Say He Has Turned Himself To God"(PIC) by ImaIma1(f): 9:51am On Nov 18, 2017 |
I always saw igbos as intelligent and resourceful people but this is just dumb and the arguments of some here is even dumber. Is Nnamdi Kanu an oba? Who doesn't know that people bow before obas? Abi the lady should have given him a handshake? People that cannot say the truth in their lives. |
Celebrities › Re: Terry G Supports Wizkid After Clash With Davido by ImaIma1(f): 9:42am On Nov 18, 2017 |
Micheezy7: Wizkid Is Bigger Than Him .. With All The Hits, Wizkid Still Win Award Pass Am .. presidential welcome koor.. Ambassadorial Wlcom ni..  Abeg jor! ! Whizkid is just too much hype. Me that i don't really follow music like that...i know Davidos songs more than whizkid. Davido is singing better songs and making hits and people are hyping whizkid that is changing his style for international recognition. Before he even changed his style, his songs sounded alike. Davido or whizkid are not feeding you guys. Be objective for once and remove stupid sentiments. Who has better songs and more hits?? |
Romance › Re: Cleavage Photos Of Miss Sahhara, Nigerian Transgender by ImaIma1(f): 5:10pm On Nov 17, 2017 |
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Family › Re: She Said She Was Raped, But See Why I Didn't Feel For Her by ImaIma1(f): 12:28pm On Nov 17, 2017 |
Even if she entered his room and stripped naked and then changed her mind and said "No" and the guy goes ahead, it is still rape. As long as she didn't give consent. Let's not make it seem like it is rape only when the guy goes to rape her in her house or a neutral place. Yes some girls are foolish enough to walk.into the situation and give all the green light but even at the point of entry if she changes her mind and the guy still has his way, it is rape. |
Family › Re: My Friend Is Sleeping With His 13-Year-Old Daughter by ImaIma1(f): 11:57am On Nov 17, 2017 |
That man is just a biological father not a real father. A father will protect his daughter from any harm and not inflict it on her himself. This just sad  |
Nairaland General › Re: Nairaland Ranked Africa's Largest Forum. by ImaIma1(f): 11:43am On Nov 17, 2017 |
noblealuu: Owned by a faceless sumborri  A somebody that protects the Muslims and throws the Christian posts open. |
Family › Re: Woman's Before And After Divorce Photos by ImaIma1(f): 11:35am On Nov 17, 2017 |
terrezo2002: For this cause shall a man leave his father and mother and shall be joined to his wife and the two shall become one flesh. Marriage has a spiritual implication. If you know your marriage may not last, do not marry. You may not understand it unless you experience it. And don't be deceived by those who claim to be happier after divorce. Why I am bothered is because as God hates it I hate it also and I must do all it takes to fight divorce. Stay blessed God hates it but God would give permission to leave an abusive marriage rather than lose your life. I also do not promote divorce, however, i don't have a closed mind about it because of life threatening situations. Would you advice your daughter who came out of a coma due to domestic violence to go back and stay married? |
Family › Re: Woman's Before And After Divorce Photos by ImaIma1(f): 11:09am On Nov 17, 2017 |
Probably freed from bondage. It is a terrible thing to be in an unhappy marriage where you cannot express yourself or even be yourself. Some men hold their wife's destiny or progress down to subdue her.
Ladies please pray to marry a man that is a good leader who is not afraid to let his wife shine in whatever she does not a man that his manhood will be insulted when his wife is doing well. |
Celebrities › Re: Hushpuppi Hosts Daddy Freeze In Dubai As They Show Off Their Wristwatches (Pics) by ImaIma1(f): 6:56pm On Nov 16, 2017 |
Freeze doesn't know what he stands for. Anywhere belle face. |
Foreign Affairs › Re: Zimbabwe Coup Updates: Robert Mugabe Seen Moving Through Harare by ImaIma1(f): 6:34pm On Nov 16, 2017 |
It seems there is a new meaning for the word "hero".
Suddenly people are praising Mugabe even if he hasn't earned it. Just like the way people are quick to say good things about a deaceased that they wouldn't say if they were alive.
Please recheck the meaning of the word "hero". People that praise mediocrity |
Politics › Re: Nigerians Mock Robert Mugabe, Rochas Okorocha & "The Statue" On Twitter by ImaIma1(f): 1:39pm On Nov 16, 2017 |
Supersuave2: I used to think this Rochas get sense and would make a good president with the publicity of what he has done with his foundation even before he became a governor. Same way people thought Fayose would make a good president until he starting showing signs of mental instability. |
Jobs/Vacancies › Re: 15 Steps To Get A Banking Job by ImaIma1(f): 12:32pm On Nov 16, 2017 |
You do all this just to become a slave? Abi you don't know banking job is slavery |
Celebrities › Re: Anita Joseph's Face Without Makeup: "My Man Doesn’t Like Make Up" by ImaIma1(f): 12:09pm On Nov 16, 2017 |
You better do what makes you happy rather than pleasing a guy who might be chasing other women with makeup. |
Family › Re: How Do I Cope With Highly Insensitive Parents? by ImaIma1(f): 11:42am On Nov 16, 2017 |
Hi and babysit when you are supposed to be at work? Very funny.
Pls OP they are your parents, no doubt but if they do not act like they care about your wellbeing, you need to care for yourself. Limit your communication with them. When they call and start the trouble, just listen and say ok. But what you will do is in your mind. No need to argue or shout with them. With time, they will take dressing.
Do you have friends? There are some friends that are closer than family. Spend time with them and try to keep being with people that you feel good with.
I don't know your parent's reasons for doing what they do but you cannot keep condoning it. You need to start calling the shots on your life. Please take charge. |
Politics › Re: President Buhari Wears Isiagu (Igbo Attire) In Ebonyi by ImaIma1(f): 7:24pm On Nov 15, 2017 |
One IPOB supporter will still come and say Buhari didnt travel there...that he never left abuja. Disillusionment |
Foreign Affairs › Re: Zimbabwe Military Takeover Live Updates: Robert Mugabe Under House Arrest by ImaIma1(f): 6:53pm On Nov 15, 2017 |
DeutschJunge: This has the west sponsored written all over it, i mean the sacked VP already landed in the country in less than how many hours. I wouldn't be surprised if he makes a play for the position. part of the package, help us get rid of him and its all yours. It happened in Afghanistan, Libya, Iraq.. Will continue to happen till we wise up and stop being greedy..
classic western strategy, they have used it since slavery. Funny thing is centuries later it still works. So Mugabe should die there abi? |
Foreign Affairs › Re: Zimbabwe Military Takeover Live Updates: Robert Mugabe Under House Arrest by ImaIma1(f): 6:51pm On Nov 15, 2017 |
DeutschJunge: This has the west sponsored written all over it, i mean the sacked VP already landed in the country in less than how many hours. I wouldn't be surprised if he makes a play for the position. part of the package, help us get rid of him and its all yours. It happened in Afghanistan, Libya, Iraq.. Will continue to happen till we wise up and stop being greedy..
classic western strategy, they have used it since slavery. Funny thing is centuries later it still works. |
Family › Re: My Family Is Tearing Apart! Help by ImaIma1(f): 12:20pm On Nov 15, 2017 |
pato405: Some commentators might be wondering why I am taking my stance on this matter.
Hmmmmm...I really don't know where to start from, but let me put it this way, I have seen a lot in this my little world!
The story OP just narrated up there is an exact replica of what happened to a friend of mine over 25yrs ago! yes! you read right !
To cut the long story short as I do not have the luxury of time, both wives had 5 kids each, but the first wife swore to show the second wife's children hell on earth.
Then, we were both in JSS I think. I remember vividly that he had a younger brother in another class. They were both always looking gloomy, but very brilliant chaps.
I stumbled into him a few months ago and trying to catch-up on lost times, I asked what he was doing (tho I heard through grape vine at some point that he read med & surg). Today, he is an accomplished medical doctor and his younger brother is practicing Law in Michigan, USA.
on the other hand, none of the children from the first wife did well even tho they are all graduates today..many of them are even still searching for jobs.
I enquired about his step-mum, he told me she was bed-ridden with diabetes and things have not been too good with her kids. Guess what, he was the one they all turned to for help. He said he, at first thought of paying them back in their own coin, but later reluctantly decided to help. Now, he is the one footing all the diabetes bills and monitoring step-mums health.
PLS NOTE: This is not a concocted story! it's live
Lesson: be nice to people you meet on your way up, you might just as well meet them on your way down!
Abeg OP, make all of una calm down settle this matter.
My 2 pence. This story doesn't mean you shouldn't be objective about this case. Whatever happened to the characters in this story is peculiar to them. You can't say because you have seen things like this happen that you will not call a spade a spade. Why should the woman suffer for her husband's wandering pinis? How come you don't see any fault in the man's actions. Rather the woman is the one to blame? He abuses her and even flogs her with a cane, gets another woman pregnant and expects his wife to fend for them. Shouldn't the man be responsible for his decisions and actions. But you still blame the woman for everything. It is her fault he impregnated another woman...it is her fault that he cannot provide for them. What kind of reasoning is this? The man was comfortable and free living on his wife's money and even using it to pay for his irresponsible lifestyle and you still blame her. People like you will see nothing good in what a woman does. It will always somehow end up being a woman's fault. That woman is not responsible for those kids. They have a mother and she has her own children. If she decides to help them, it is her choice. The man cannot impose his mistake on her. I really hope you don't carry this kind of thinking to your home and have this entitlement mentality that whatever you do your wife has to accept it, live with it and even cater for it or else she will be tagged an "unsubmissive" wife |
Family › Re: Egyptian Woman Divorces After 2 Weeks Of Marriage, Husband Does All The Chores by ImaIma1(f): 8:08pm On Nov 14, 2017 |
Even if it sounds like a good deal for the woman, it becomes tiring after a short while. How can't she have a say in anything at all?? She should probably get a job that takes her out in the morning till evening. |