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skedman:
It is just like a night security ,the only difference is that you are an educated security I will advices you focus more on developing your career rather than doing this night shift .the audit in hospitality is far different from others .it is more like a witch-hunting game because your main work is to reduce people's salary of those that make mistakes .
Questions to ask your self ?
Are you going to be counting stock at night
Are you going to be recording at night
What is your primary assignment
I have work as an head of audit in one of the hospitality in Lagos .the only person that like me was the MD others will kill me because virtually everybody don't take full salary home and I have to do my job. You can feel the hatred

It's really beats me how some companies look for ways not to pay full salaries. Is it that they cannot afford to pay what they agreed? Or they are just looking for ways to make extra cash off staff.

swiz123:
Immediately I saw this post, I knew it was a woman making the statement. They are always hating and envious of each other. For her mind she is posting a cryptic message to actresses...

While others applaud her, I will condemn this foolish cowardice. Say what you mean out instead of hiding mouth. Hypocrite! That's what most people are...

Most of these actresses are just lucky to be dating rich men. 98% of women from poor homes will fall for a very rich man. Who doesn't want to escape economic hardship? Some of the foolish guys bashing them here would jump at the chance of dating a very rich sugar mommy if the opportunity comes. Abi da garri wey u dey soak never do you?

I actually don't think it's about hypocrisy. Biodun Stephen is a movie director, with a lot of good scripts. A lot of these actresses feature in her movies. I understand her sarcasm.

whisper88:
Sorry to stray off topic, but what's the update about Jeff's travel to the moon

Check the travel section.

Greatest of the greatest Uites!

Great!

Haaaa!

With all the James Bond and Jackie Chan his lawyers were doing, I thought he was going to walk free in no time.

He was just released from police custody and he is back there. That's obviously where he belongs.

Klass99:
I like your mature outlook on life and take on life issues, it's an attractive quality don't ever lose it. Your moniker drew me to this thread.

The thread where you said, you and hubby didn't let go of your friends because you got married and marriage is not a cage or meant to be a cage, tripped me to pieces. You're a sensible somebori.

Lol...I hope I don't disappoint you one day

BamBamK:
you dey single??
abi you don marry??


either one go prompt more questions

Married

Did he really know her or he married her because she was a former beauty queen...as per trophy wife to match his status.

Biyi and Bena's gist that can be easily accessed on Twitter is what you are posting link for to read your blog.

Falomo211:
If the guy had given her a heavy fire ladden slap which she deserve dem go say domestic violence

It's good he didn't. So that she doesn't have an edge over him if he wants to press charges.

Besides, if his slap sends her to an early grave, it will be a different story altogether.

Falomo211:
You see this generation of feminists fear them

Very fierce and heartless..

tesseract:
These guys have been trying really hard to rope in her mother in the crime. The mother is totally oblivious of what her daughter did if not they would have escaped from the scene.

So let me get some people straight...a child commits a misdemeanor and the next thing is to accuse the mother? What sort of "Nigerian Police" Mentality is this?

Some punk was even saying the girl should be killed...seriously

Emotions are running high... Yes. But let's be objective; if you have dealt with children before, you'll know that Satan can minister to them sometimes...I'm not in anyway absolving the girl, I'm just saying there is no crime by proxy in this matter...at least not yet, until the girl comes out to say my mummy told me to do it.

I can't say the girl was sent by her mum or that she is possessed with something or even sick.

My concern is...where was the mother when the girl wondered away to start the fire? Even when she was watching from afar to confirm it was burning, she was still alone. Who allows their child just wonder away especially in this times when people are very careful and wary of kidnappers.

CsRockefeller:
Perhaps I used the wrong word. She's just a normal average Nigerian lady learning a skill or in school that decided to trade something for something which many ladies do, same ladies who are in relationships, some are even well respected at church or work.

My dear, whether I call her call girl or my girlfriend, it doesn't make any difference.

Exactly! Call girl or good girl, protect yourself.

Ishilove:
Yep. Incel, not redpill. The OP is psychologically disturbed and needs help, FAST.

No need to bother yourself about what's wrong with him. He will outgrow this phase with time. They always do. This phase usually comes after puberty with this present generation of boys. He will be fine eventually.

Offorgerald15:
There are good women out there that are faithful

The op can never meet them. He will keep attracting the unfaithful ones.

CsRockefeller:
Had a HIV scare last month. Slept with this call girl without condom after the first round.

Never will I go down with any lady if I don't know her sex history, HIV status and STD status. Infact, I jettisoned one invite last week because the lady hasn't done these tests.

Skin to skin will not kill you. Call girl? You are your problem my brother.

I think it depends on the friends you had; if you were really close. My friends didn't change, neither did my husband's friends. I had the same friends an attended their weddings (the ones that got married after me, which was most).

There's no rule that says you have to lose your friends and focus on your spouse alone. Because after a while, you become lonely.

I still visit my friends and they visit me. We still hang out when convenient. Marriage shouldn't be a cage.

mariahAngel:
Na wah o!

Wahala for who go marry last born!

Abeg o. I be last born. Me and my sisters get sense. We are very close o...we have sisters WhatsApp group and all, but everybody respect themselves.

akpunda86:
Thanks sis.funny she been sending insultive text messages but my best option is to disregard her.before she got married knows dat hubby's job outside her base.I was never against her coming but her timing pisses me off .sometimes I see her car thru my gate I pass my house to beer palor.can chew Gum and make irritating noise in palor upon her sis have told her I hate it or licks soup making noise.
Infact I thank God she stopped coming. Brings kids and househelp to my house well happy is over.
Making orders in my own house while my wife her sis obeys

Thank God she is out of your hair. I don't like people like that who don't use wisdom to do things.

CharisEleos:
You want to break the sisterly bond between them and you finally did.
Congrats, Mr Me, my wife and I."

The good thing is you love your wife.

Too much of something is bad. How can you be in someone's house from 7.30am? Or be in their house every single day and not give them privacy. If she had common sense, she would have known that she should give her sister and the husband privacy.

Well, some people don't have common sense to read a situation and act accordingly.

obonujoker:
Naoomi Mark was a better option, but some people get near success syndrome

Esther had a better voice and she clearly deserved it.

See all the serious wahala only few minutes of pleasure has caused you. You said you have a calling to answer. Yet you did not answer that calling when you both were having sex?

Are you sure you should be a pastor? Because you are not even done with your training and you have already impregnated someone that was looking up to you. What will happen when you have a church full of women looking up to you?

I think this was a test for you.

BRATISLAVA:
Yet men can be incredibly selfish and perfectionist when they want to love.

There's no specific way a man or woman is to act about money. Everyone is greedy and selfish. It's not for women to be frugal or men to be frugal. So there's nothing like she has to help him save money and other such stereotypes. It's not a relationship red flag if he wants to spend or she wants to spend. People come from different money backgrounds. If they understand themselves—fine. Not that women must be money pinchers otherwise they are evil and should be cast off.
A Nigerian stereotype that has no meaning.

People come from different money backgrounds and it's not for women or men to be frugal. That's what you say.

Two people that have come together in agreement to get married have an obligation to show consideration towards each other. If the money is available to be blown is a different case. If they both have the money to work together, even better.

But when the person who doesn't have money to contribute starts making exorbitant demands and doesn't seem to be sensitive to the intended spouse's pocket, it's a big red flag.

So...yes, she has to help save the money that they would both need after getting married since she doesn't have money of her own to live on.

JovialJune:
She is his baby mama, he has to consider her first lol, two dysfunctional people, if she narrates her own side of the story, I bet hers will be much worse, they fit each other.

I guess so. His baggage is too much.

Crossalpha:
Oh, really?
Well, she's number 3 and last in my list for a reason.
Someone with cognitive reasoning should see that.

Her inexperience, age, lovey dovey mentality and seeing relationships in real life like in the movies are all turn offs for me.

Good.

And I wonder why number 1 is even an option with everything she has done.

Aliyu007:
Legend has it eze ego never allowed his kids to step a foot outdoors and that his wife always roam the compound naked in the dead of the night .

This seems to be his only picture. It's the one every story about him has.

Whatever you do, please leave that 20 year old girl alone. Don't use all your baggage to mess up her young life. She as a virgin will now end up with you that have over used yourself. Please release her.

mrblessed:
Sometimes, it is not actually a situation of loving the husband less, it's usually not being reasonable enough to spend with the confines of the man's purse. And, there is this peer pressure on some young, impressionable ladies to have a "loud" wedding irrespective of their prevailing financial situation.

Then they should fund the wedding according to how big they want it. You cannot be making big demands when you don't even have a dime to contribute.

Dabronze:
My question if it was a boy that is the minor a matter like this do you think the woman would be charge for defiling the boy.

Would the boy be pregnant too?

Haven't you seen countless cases of teachers and older women defiling underage boys that they are being charged for.

Don't make everything a gender issue/war.