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staphcures:
Take it easy now

A lot of guys on this forum like to run their mouth when it comes to Nigerian women, like they are better. The ones that have that mindset have nothing to offer. We dash them to foreign women; let them be humbled.

Shezkid01:
No. Just my flatmate my siblings and I and the Johnson

So how can you know that Mimi is a nollywood actress?

Shezkid01:
Yes
Yoruba movie right?

No. The English ones

As long as the husband and wife are in agreement, the family's disapproval is background noise.

Shezkid01:
I swear to God I never watch her movie on africamagic.

Do you watch nollywood movies?

clickbankboss:
Hi, good day everyone.

I have a friend who is very young, although he is 38yrs and plan settling down any moment.

So we are debating about something:

Can A guy of 38yrs old settle down (Marry) a lady of 28yrs old?

Is she not going to be older than he after she gave birth?

Is it not wise for him to settle with a girl of 24 or 25yrs?


Or Can he go on to marry the 28yr lady? Is she not gonna get older fast?

Thanks in advance.

So as the girl is growing older, will your friend be growing younger? Won't he be getting older himself? Or you think aging is for women alone. Let him marry a 12 year old na.

IneedSugarMumy1:
I save 100k weekly aside feeding, bills fueling and car maintenance

Airport trips is the best but it doesn't come at ease

Attached is picture of what I see this week between Monday till yesterday Friday 85k
Including bolt commission and fuel money oh

Bolt commission is 20%

Fuel money is 4k daily in 5 days it's 20k
The rest is mine

How come you save 100k weekly when you say you make 8k daily? Do you mean monthly?

Because if you save 100k per week, all of us will leave our jobs and be bolt drivers.

No serious relationship there. We talk on the phone once in a long while. I don't get involved with son and mother bond/relationship. When we see, we try to live peacefully mostly because I make myself scarce and talk less.

Initial experience with her made me maintain my distance...starting from not wanting the marriage, and threatening not to attend.

We are not enemies but we are not close. I am not the kind that pretends or does eye service, so it doesn't help matters.

She was really encouraging when I didn't conceive as early as I wanted. She kept calling and telling me not to think too much or worry myself. So she's not actually a bad person. But she can be troublesome and can turn people against each other. I don't like wahala, so I just maintain my lane.

Lostchild:
Jesus said, (John 15:18-20 ) if the world hates you, just remember that, it has hated me first. If you belonged to the world, then the world would love you as its own. But I chose you from the world, and you do not belong to it, that is why the world hates you.' If people persecute me they will persecute you too

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Imalma1. Your question jolted me and gave me memory's of 16 years of tears and persecution and I must answer your question because I am on this forum just to talk about myself.

I only saw my earthly father twice in 13 years when one of my nephew ignorantly brought him to my former place in 2013, I asked him why he came to my place. He told me he has been looking for me for the last 5 years.
Why? I asked. He said, he misses me. He told me he has asked everyone to tell him where I live, but they lied to him that I have left the state. He was surprised that I am still living in the city.

He was humble in his speech as he almost plead, asking me to come and see him so that we can talk. He wanted to ask, for my forgiveness. He wanted me to forgive his past deeds over me. He told me he is a change person and things will not be like the way it was.

He pleaded, asking me to give him my phone number which I reluctantly did and assures him that I will put his words into consideration and come to see him in his compound.

This man heavily torment my life for 16 years, and when I look back now, I always see that God constantly intervene over me for those 16 years of persecution, pains and sorrow

This man blindly allowed the devil to used him to persecute me for 16 years, it was God and will always be God Intervention that took me from him, for he almost destroyed me.

He also allowed his evil idolater wife to persecute me and persecute my brother to his early gave

He allowed evil spirit to used him to persecute those that will take care of him in his old age.

After he left my place, he waited for me to call him of which I did not, he came another day but I lock my door and walk away because he cannot rectify our past. He cannot bring my brother back to life.

The evil veil has been removed from his eyes. He can now see clearly that he lost a child

I can't give him another chance, I cannot allow him into my life anymore

Why? because I am his L☆st ch́◉ld

I see. It's a pity what you went through. I actually asked about your dad because you seemed to be criticising only your mum who single handedly raised you.

It seems you have allowed all your experiences overwhelm you and shape your mindset. You will have to let go and move on.

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Lizboh:
Its not about low self esteem..my husband is my best friend and I'm also his. We get well together. We've been together for 25yrs now and our fist child is 20yrs now. So its not moimoi. Giving in to his demands is tactical for me, I've developed strategies I use in dealing.

But a man that loves you would be more concerned about your well being and feelings and not just pound you everyday because he feels like it, and you are his wife.

I have been married for close to 6 years. My husband and I have been friends since we were teenagers. He is also someone with a very healthy libido but his major concern is always that I am fine. And he's not selfish and inconsiderate enough to just keep having sex even when I am sleeping or pretending to be asleep.

The fact that you condone it even makes it wrong because obviously you are not ok with it. And he doesn't care as long as he gets satisfaction. Does that describe a man that loves or cares genuinely about his wife?

Rather than advise the op to condone it like you have, let her and her husband come to a compromise for her physical and emotional wellbeing. It takes two to tango. Sex is not food and it should be enjoyed by both parties.

saphiere:
God is own your side baby girl.

JUSTICE FOR CHIDINMA

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It wasn't a hotel. Secondly, she knows it was sex but she wasn't in the mood at that point in time. The man forced himself on her. Took advantage of her drunkenness. He might have drugged her.Who knows. I don't trust men. They can do anything for sex.

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No human, I repeat, No human especially a woman would kill his/her benefactor.

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She actually said those things under duress.
Watch the video again. This time around, pay a close attention to her lips and body language then compare it to that of that criminal who killed the Akwa Ibom job seeker.

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She has a good lawyer who is her cousin.
I've been following the man up. She WILL be freed.
Thanks for your logical reasoning. God bless you Calitoscassius

Oh now it is a rape claim?

God is on the side of justice.

Sometimes you should learn to think and reason objectively, without bias or prejudice. It's not everytime you support the female folk blindly.

This is what happens when a husband sees the wife as a sex object.

When an op posted that her husband demands sex every single day, people were saying it's her duty to him. But people are here saying something different.

Sex is great in marriage but it is not food. A husband that has to have sex daily whether his wife is fine or not is selfish and inconsiderate.

[quote author=Ambeed post=103677566]What happens to walking away from a toxic relationship?

Toxic here can be emotional abuse like a cheating partner, physical abuse etc.

I don't believe that one can kill one he/ she loves dearly for an offence like cheating.

What most people call love is actually lust.[/quote]

And obsession...

Waper2:
I view you with one eye ��

Please use two eyes o

DrFunmisticGlow:
I am not advertising landmark beach because I am not a travel agent. I'm advertising romance in the romance section, not the travel section

Hian!!

Then you should not have posted any pictures at all

Lostchild:
I will not want to repeat the mistake of my mother because I already learnt a hard lessons from her demise. I also remember her last question to me.

Nyne. It is good to have children, but suffering after having them is not just for me.

What about your father?

Juicewrld27:
Everything seems to be going wrong for me this year. I might just end everything

Very typical these days to threaten with suicide/depression.

Juicewrld27:
i am traveling from school to delta where i have been working since my year 1. It not like i don't receive help from my parents. Of course I do but i don't call them for every little thing i need. I am in entering into my final year. I Ave project and seminars to do. Me giving them that weight to carry together with my other siblings would be too much for them

So you prefer to put the burden on strangers, rather than the people who brought you into the world.

josen16322:
There is a sayin dat good sex makes a good home dont take dat 4 granted

Good sex, not everyday sex.

She was even ranting about not being called "aunty". Ranting for someone over 10years older. The fact that she thinks she deserves to be called "aunty" is the annoying part. The fact that the MIL supported her disrespectful attitude is a big problem.

Aunty kee her there.

Not advisable. If we really have to meet aline fo discuss business or something very important, it should be in a neutral place, preferably in public.

Candidlady:
When you say water is bad ...


Hard or soft water q

Like the ones that don't look very clean and clear or that come with a funny smell.

eveninnewspaper:
Take off number 2️, pls. Just because some men do it doesn't mean they all do.
A father could get custody of his daughter depending on the grounds of separation/divorce.

Living apart has got nothing to do with a person's moral stand. An abusive parent would still abuse their child (given the chance) whether together or separated

God help us.

I don't know why people are quick to assume that fathers will sleep with their daughters.

BKayy:
They should release the innocent girl.
The stupid TV CEO dude fed her drugs and did unimaginable styles with her in the hotel room.
The man should either defend himself or they let the girl go.
Lets be reasonable for once.
BTW, what is even super about the man?

This must be sarcasm.

Candidlady:
For serious ?


Swear am just hearing this ..

Yeah I heard it. Even for my kid, I use disinfectants once in a while. Probably if the water is really bad. It's not good to allow the body get used go it just like medicated soaps.

My lecturer tried this, we didn't obey o. He was a new lecturer from LASU, he didn't know UI was different. He said he would not collect our assignments until we knelt down and raised our hands.

We went away with our assignments and headed straight to the Head of Dept office. The rest is history.

Op do you tell your parents every single thing that happens in your life? All the people you meet or date? When you hang out with friends, go out on a date, etc. If you are answer is no, then you are part of the issue you raised.

Then how can they see every single thing you post on your status? Not everything is for their consumption and knowledge. It's not irresponsibility, it's discretion and wisdom.

Inspiration007:
This long gist only one picture.


Mtcheew

As in, I was disappointed.

After reading and getting confused with all the mixture of past tense and present tense and the repetition of "turns out", only how many pictures...

Op DrFunmisticGlow landmark beach has a lot to offer than what you are showing us. What about the cabanas and beautiful furniture? Nothing to see here.

Babes are attracted to beautiful things. When they see that your place is comfortable with all the necessary appliances, you will have to chase them out because in their minds, "I die here"

For me o, I liked my own bed and never felt comfortable sleeping on another that wasn't mine. So, to go my house no dey hard me.

Judolisco:
yeah.. Not all Muslims though...

It's a Muslim tradition. Except the person is not a real Muslim.

"Burial is usually within 24 hours of death to protect the living from any sanitary issues, except in the case of a person killed in battle or when foul play is suspected; in those cases it is important to determine the cause of death before burial. Cremation of the body is strictly forbidden in Islam"

Judolisco:
sure now but have u not seen people keeping corpse in d mortuary for several months jst to Bury later? Like I said it depends on d guys wishes before he died

Yeah my cousins kept their mum for a year before burying her. But was actually because they are all based abroad. They were around to bury their dad. When they went back to base, their mum died and they couldn't come immediately.

But not muslims. They have a stipulated tine when the body has to be buried. I don't think they embalm.