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Peter should move on with his life and forget the babe. He is bad news to her and her family. Giving her a condition to get pregnant first was already a big red flag.

However, he should continue to push to be in his child's life. Sooner or later, she and the parents will give in and allow him access to his child.

pocohantas:
Even the person that created the thread was engaged to be married, maybe e done marry by now.

Typical redpiller. E done tire.

Make I find that mumu thread sef. I dey come.
Seen...

https://www.nairaland.com/4295146/which-gender-worst-affected-widespread

Very useless thread. It's even more useless right now than then.

I don't take all these redpillers seriously. They will eventually outgrow the childish behaviour. Besides, a lot of them just form alpha on NL meanwhile they ain't nothing in real life.

I remember when some Nairaland guys were raving about sex dolls and how they would use it to replace ladies.

They realized that they can do without their Nigerian women

sapphiere:
Men rape their daughters. I have proofs.

All men? Did your father rape you?

seborrhic:
This is the main grudge he has with him.
I bet the brother buys foodstuffs for the house atimes and even gives the op lift when he sets out to work sometimes.
On the average,the utility bill will be N10k-15k per month.
If the brother buys foodstuffs and beverages atimes,I bet that won't be less than 25k-30k per month.The lift he gives him may save him another 5-8k.But one wouldn't know this because the bill does not come at fixed monthly intervals.

Na wa o. Allow the op give the information. You are already adding and subtracting hypothetical figures.

PlayMaker14:
It is a very good thing that you have lectured your brothers on how to accept slaps from girls and walk away to their room to cry.... But keep the lectures to them alone.

Thanks.

Good luck with beating all the women who provoke you.

Biglittlelois:
Men will never accept this as fact, especially the nuisances that has been quoting me baselessly on this thread.

Most of them are still young lads with youthful exuberance. As they grow older, it will be clearer to them.

PlayMaker14:
Different strokes for different folks...

A man's natural response is to react; react because of his need to prove that he's not weak, because of his ego or because it's a woman. But it takes deep thinking to refrain. Not many can do that unfortunately.

Funny enough, if it were a man who hit him, he would think twice and size the man up before hitting back. But since it's a weaker vessel, he has to show himself. Many men that hit women cannot defend themselves when it comes with fighting a man like them.

PlayMaker14:
I find it disgusting how you ladies are quick to defend your fellow gender involved in assaulting the other gender physically, emotionally and otherwise....


You should be advising your fellow gender not to raise her hands to assault the other gender in order to avoid a more deadly reprisal assault or the slap that would send her to the great beyond.


I say it again, any lady that slaps me unprovoked, will get a full dose of that slap.


You nor fit Piss for my back tell me say rain dey fall...

This is not me supporting the female gender. It's the same thing I would tell my brother. If she happens to die, that one minute of provoked action will not be debated.

Because I can't imagine my brother wasting away in jail for something he could have avoided especially when it involved a foolish lady.

PlayMaker14:
So if I get you correctly madam, if a lady slaps me unprovoked, I should just rub my cheeks and go home right?


I am not the violent type, but I will definitely slap the hell out of the crazy girl who cannot control it.

A word...

It can survive if the man is the one with the problem (in most cases)

The people accusing you of being unfair and reasonable have all kept quiet after you divulged your brother's status.

I think your brother is the unfair one. He wants to keep using "older brother" to exploit you, and refusing to be responsible.

It makes me wonder if some guys on this forum are like that, from their reactions and comments.

PlayMaker14:
So only ladies have the monopoly to assault a guy?


Any lady that tries any physical assault against me will get it from me with equal measures.

I nor be gentleman like that...

One serious slap from a guy can aend a lady to her grave. At that ppint, no one will be concerned whether she hit you first. So it's better to resist the urge to give back

kayuseful:
Just cook beans and support with garri

Beans is currently more expensive than rice.

Vision101:
@ImaIma1
I like the grinding stone but I have never tried using it. There are some women who grind with grinding stone in one of the markets i go to. I pay extra to have my pepper/ tomatoes grinded with it.

But to sit down with grinding stone by myself, nooo. Even my husband will frown at such extra stress, as I open my eye no marry traditional minded man.


@me
You like it and pay someone to use it but you don't want to learn how to use it. See ajibo.

Traditionally minded men are the sweetest. You must serve me correct pounded yam.

Why go through that stress when I can pay someone to do it if I want it? I have learnt from wives older than me that doing those things don't add to my star as a wife. That if I can pay people to do things to reduce stress, I should. Because as I get older, it will tell on me.

I don't even have a mortar at home, not to talk of pounding yam. My husband kuku hates that kind of stress; he says that if it is him I want to pound for, he doesn't want

His voice is terrible and his singing is lazy.

Call family meeting first and let them tell her her responsibilities since she is unaware. Let them talk sense into her. If she still remains the same after that, then you can start talking about more serious measures.

Are you both even friends at all? It just sounds like an official marriage; like do your own and let me do my own. Are you guys both in sync, on the same page? Do you do stuff together. Or you are forming alpha, redpiller and she's omega.

chatinent:
Best friends ko, best friend ni.


Another excuse to flirt.


Whatever happened to seeing your partner as a best friend.

Gender wasn't specified. You read best friend and what's on your mind is opposite sex.

richmond500:
Oga its not sleep paralysis when u are neither asleep nor awake.

This is pure dream where u know its a dream and looking for a way to wake up, I can't explain it, but u are conscious inside an illusion, ur mind is not in the real world, u are seeing urself in the dreamland just like every other dream, but the difference is that in this one, u are conscious of the environment

This is really scary

Orubebe01:
Congratulations to him. Why his tie be like this na abi the photographer and his best man no dey see road

Anyway, waiting for him to write on 10 things to do in bed after getting married

Lol...you are right

illicit:
There's this feeling sometimes when u sleep, u really want to wake up but u can't
It's scary

That's sleep paralysis

Where I used to stay, the parents of cultists used to brag with their children and use them to threaten people.

I like the grinding stone but I have never tried using it. There are some women who grind with grinding stone in one of the markets i go to. I pay extra to have my pepper/ tomatoes grinded with it.

But to sit down with grinding stone by myself, nooo. Even my husband will frown at such extra stress, as I open my eye no marry traditional minded man.

He has recruited another yellow sisi.

SweetCuntess:
So u went outside your relationship to eat raw? You even knack ur gf raw knowing you have gono? Stupido

Wickedness

Janesouthall:
It's normal for babies to want to explore... Let him be Biko.... Una sense no be the same... No mata how you try to correct him for now...

Until he gets stuck somewhere.

After deflowering her, she's no longer good for you. What if you had married her as a virgin, would you just run or you will try to work it out?

That is one virgin less. I hope you find what you are looking for.

So the man cannot open his account himself and handle his atm. Why is he accepting this kind of treatment from his wife? Does he have a skeleton in his closet that she's blackmailing him with?

Why should the wife have the power to turn his children against him? Doesn't he have a relationship with them?

Too many questions.

What else is he lying about?

Winneygirl:
Take some time.
Have a heart to heart talk with her. So you ask the questions that are burning in your heart.
So you can know if your marriage is salvageable...
That is the first step.

Was she thinking of him and the marriage when she slept with another?

From the OP's narrative, she's not even sober or sorry. She threw it in his face. She obviously doesn't respect or value him and is not interested in the marriage.

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