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125yrs. Who's counting?

EmekaBlue:
Happy Birthday

Thanks a lot for the wish

Zane2point4:

Thats exactly what many men go thru to please women the only difference is that the guy took an odious method to do his.

Many guys here will even go to uncompleted building after moulding 500 blocks and earning 3500 they'll give there babe 2500 and take home 1k smiling like a sheep. Then go home to take tramadol blc of back pain.

My room mate in futo even stole my newly bought polo and gave to his girlfriend, i now had to show her pics i took with the polo and collected it back frm the bitch.

All blame is reserved for the man. Why is he dating a girl that he has to steal for and do things to please her?

His wife, the Deputy MD was the major trouble for me aside other issues of salary delay, lack of staff welfare, etc.

She was always disturbing me for my vision, passion, calling, etc. I told her that I would prefer to keep it to myself. Then they were both micro-managing me till I left.

Patrioticbreed9:

I had intentions of marrying her!.
I had intentions of growing old with her.
We love ourselves, but i wasnt too social for her liking.
We dated from our second semeste year one till finals!

I cant stop shading tears.
Uwa why na!

She called me this money with a sobbing voice "n........i i have hiv am so sorry i left u...e is a bastard"

Am down!

Had she stay with me.

At least she met a more social person.

...and it is "shedding" not "shading"

xpressionx:
He's suffering from ignoramus stupidities

Him plus the church members that were making donations for the Lambo.

doggedfighter:
Religious folks will blame him now

Didn't your Bible say ask anything in his name?


Religion is a deadening deadly disease.



This man is a true lover

It has to be according to the will of God. If God gave us everything we asked for, we'll all probably be dead.

Lostchild:
A woman can be rape by a man but that doesn't mean every men out there are rapist.

A woman can cheat on her husband that doesn't mean every women out there are unfaithful to their husband.

I hope you get my point?

The topic wasn't about rapists but about unfaithfulness but I get you.

Lostchild:
When a woman is rape does it mean all men are rapist?

I don't get your point.

Rubbiish:
Lol

Family bond good night

Rubbiish:
If your siblings can't freely use any of your property without fear of embarrassment, then u are not different from a stranger! It obviously means the bond is very poor! Some families are like that. Even when they want to eat, they take permission before entering the kitchen, each individual can't dish food because they are use to taking permission. I presume yours is like that!

It's ok to feel your family is special because you guys share your clothes, pants, bras, boxers round including your parent's own.

Enjoy your family like that while I enjoy mine that share things with sense.

Rubbiish:
Lol go through my comments on nairaland
Friends drive my car, not even siblings!
No woman on earth can dictate what property of mine my siblings will have access to! Them no go ever born that woman! My kid bro wey i love pass my life? I am not Adam wey eve manipulate & landed everyone in this mess we are today! U just got into a family, not yet married & the first thing u are already planning is to cause division? Daughters of Jezebel!

That is you and your women. I won't buy something for my husband and his brother will come into my room to take it to wear it. His brothers have sense and respect.

Rubbiish:
Read what u wrote??
What is bond without sacrifice??
What is blood without sacrifice??
If your siblings can't access your things as worthless as clothes without your permission, where is the bond?? Where is the blood?? I can imagine how u people relate in your family! U don't know there are families where brothers & sisters share things?? Let alone brothers & brothers? I know u ladies don't love that!
Because when a man is close to his siblings, it becomes very difficult for u ladies to manipulate him! First is to weaken that bond & lead him astray!

Bond, sacrifice means wearing things without asking? Brothers and sisters share things everyday. Your family is not special. But it is done with common sense and discretion. That is how siblings develop entitlement mentality.

Would you go to your father's wardrobe and pick any of his clothes and wear, whether special or not?

Bonding and loving is not all about wearing each other's things. And some families are contented with what they each have that they don't always have to "chook" their eyes on the other's things.

Not everybody has respect and they try to justify it with their many theories and reasons.

Rubbiish:
You are still a kid!
Siblings bond in different ways!
If the bond between u & your siblings is loose, do not use it to rate others. Using your siblings belongings doesn't bespeaks disrespect, but love! If he doesn't love his brother, he wouldn't wore his clothes. I am very sure he doesn't go about wearing his neighbours clothes!

You are the kid here just ranting like a loose canon.

So because I want to bond with my older sister or brother, I should just go right to their wardrobes and wear anything without asking?

So love makes you wear new things they haven't worn before? That is just you trying hard to mask covetousness and greed.

Such a person will see something he likes hanging on the line outside and wear it and expect to be patted on the back.

frozen70:
Why e dey pain you ?

You carry Op matter for your head, go and hug transformer

How won't the comments pain him when he's one of those who wears people's things without thinking.

Evolutionlove:
The Usual stuffs between both genders here naw, I Just have this thing of respecting married women because I believe you are more responsible now.....

The gender wars are just pointless childish, and many will get to realize that later.

Rubbiish:
The bold only bespeaks how selfish u women are! So if I buy a car & yet to ride it, my brother can't ride it? Now I see how u ladies turn siblings against one another, it is due to selfishness!

Oh please! I am a last child and I should know about respect your older ones and their things. Why would I in my right sense drive a car my older or even younger one (if I had one) just got and hasn't riden it? How does that make sense to you?

I never wore things that I knew were precious to them, new or given to them by their bf/gf especially when they hadn't had a chance to rock them.

If you are the kind of person who just wears whatever you see without a thought of how the person would feel, then that shows how thoughtless you are.

Evolutionlove:
Me and this Babe use to lock horns In the past, You know I had to back off when I realized you were married with a Kid.....

So why were always locking horns?

And why did my marital status make you back off?

So, is open grazing constitutional?

Why are men like this?

dominique:
My cousin joined her husband since 2012 and they've been waxing strong with each passing year. When you leave the good girls and go for slay queens and retired runs girls, na like this your story go be. Besides it's only in uncivilized jungles like Nigeria that an oppressed wife is expected to remain submissive. Even the police that's to protect her will be preaching submissive. In saner climes you're all hoping and praying to run to, if you do anyhow you'll see anyhow

They only choose to see the bad ones. That's what makes guys here happy. Meanwhile some of them have sisters, aunties, cousins that joined their husbands there and the marriages are doing well.

Some of these men absorb themselves of all blame. When you are in Rome, you behave like a Roman. They probably carry their traditional Nigerian mindset there.

Ever8090:
Nigerian girls don deserve abroad...they are supposed to be left in the village after marriage to help mama with farm work while the husband travels back to obodo oyibo, marry a white woman and forget her to clock 40 waiting for the husband to come back.....those bleeding species are wicked...one little opportunity and Lucifer is left speechless at their level of demonism

Because she's a prisoner that cannot find a better situation for herself. It's only a fool that will get married just to be used as a farm worker in the village while her husband is abroad.

If you know how many people have serious money problems but are still struggling to stay alive. But you are here threatening to kill yourself and leave your young children to what fate?

It seems the new trend is asking for financial assistance with threats of suicide attached to it and it's getting rampant.

But there's no where on the post that says there were going to get married in a few weeks.

There was probably no assurance for the babe. Before you know the Yoruba guy would have come to say his mother is against their getting married because she's igbo. That one no dey hard them.

Hathor5:

I'm just looking for trouble

Mondays and Fridays

What kind of trip is this? And how come he could not find a bus from Edo to Delta from 9am until 11pm? This story is somehow.

Joel3:
what more does nigeria women offer?

Ok. Then look for women from other countries and let Nigerian women be.

Joel3:
i"m not really asking for Good luck for nigeria women issues. It's a burden on itself.

And Nigerian men? You guys are perfect right? It is easy to be blind to the log in your eye while you attempt to remove a spec in another person's eye.

wunmi590:
I'm not saying what his brother did was good, but why is he just raising his voice now, just because his girlfriend not even his wife made a comment about it....

What of if they are twins what would the girlfriend have said?

Not a family matters girlfriend should put mouth... She's still a girlfriend not a wife yet...

The fact that he is reacting because of his girlfriend's comment about it still doesn't make it right. Even if he's a twin, the twin should have the sense to know boundaries.

You can't have sense and wear somebody's new shirt that he hasn't worn before, let alone the one his babe bought him. It's just common sense. But some people lack it.

People just come up with falsehood. How does a child take care of the mother and abandon the father? Where is it done? Which family? Op is this also peculiar to your family?

My father was cared for, same way as my mum. Let's stop spreading lies to feed a narrative.

Lostchild:
Micholawoye

In my state (Delta) a man set himself- burnt himself to death because of his faithful wife. Yes he killed himself because his wife was faithful and true with another man dick.

Why dont you wait for 20 years latet, then come and tell us how faithful your wife is.

Then we will believe you (all) as you say

In that same Delta state where a man killed himself over an unfaithful wife, there are faithful wives living with their husbands. Let's not generalize unfaithfulness.