₦airaland Forum

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His money, his life.

Showing off always ends in misery because of all the leeches, hatred, envy it attracts. I still don't get it. The policemen that allow themselves to be abused regularly by these civilians bear most of the blame. Your job is to provide security not be a houseboy.

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Once you marry, awon womb watchers will show.

After two years of no pregnancy, the question will be about offsprings not happiness (nor love).

By the way...who asked the senator?

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Nigeria is gradually heading the way of Zimbabwe.

N1m == $2300 only.
N1bn == $2.3m


Who knows? At a point in the near future, $100 will be == N1m
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Hundreds of universities, polytechnics in Nigeria. Yet they can never come up with squat. What a shame of a black nation?

Do I blame Nigerians? No. If not that I am a mere mortal, I would have blamed God for leaving the design and build of Nigerian brains to his apprentices without proper oversight and supervision.

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Without the old men, most Nigerian youths can never afford a girlfriend. It is up to you to believe that all her expenses are covered by her parents.

She tells her suggardaddy that she is too sophisticated for immature young men. She tells her boyfriend that she is too good to date a wrinkled old man. The old man believes her. The young guy believes her. Everyone is happy. Afterall what you don't know cannot emotionally hurt you.

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MizJaY:
In an office, there's usually that one person that quarrels with everyone am I right? But I end up being d only person that dat person doesn't quarrel with cos I try as much as possible to avoid quarrels that's just d kind of person I am. Calm and quiet.

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All I know is that those that seem nice at work or in public are usually devils at home while those who are tigers online are usually cats in real life.

Just saying...

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Dictators and tyrants last in power because there are people doing their biddings and worse, there are people cheering them on.

Hitler, Abacha, Idi Amin, Buhari, etc were not out there killing people.

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festacman:
Racism is difficult to erase as it is usually put in the minds of people from childhood through racial slurs, stereotyping and prejudices. This engraves enduring sense of race superiority in the mind. It is the same thing with sense of ethnic superiority, which is common here in Nigeria.

However, extreme racism comes from feeling of combination of superiority and benefactory. A son of a millionaire will rarely treat the child of gateman as a mate or equal. The sense of superiority is there. But all that will certainly change if in future the son of gateman achieved success and wealth to operate on the same frequency with the son of the rich man. Respect is earned and sense of superiority disappears.

My point is Nigeria and Nigerians will continue to be rated and viewed poorly by Chinese and other such countries until we elect visionary leaders, install basic infrastructure that are taken for granted in other countries, upgrade our economy, import less and produce more locally and stop dependence on economies such as China for goods, services and developmental loans and grants.

As far as we remain a hopelessly unproductive import-depedent country known largely for a medley of mismanaged oil wealth, corrupt leaders and systems, runaway doctors, good footballers, youth emigration, online frauds, drug trafficking, etc., don't expect to be treated like a giant when you are actually a midget.

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How much respect do you have for the man that keeps borrowing money from you and others?

Be honest.


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The major thing Gates has going for him is being a whiteman. Africans love them. They came with gin and radio as gifts from friends. What did Africans do? They rounded up their best and healthy men and sold them to them as slaves. It is always about receiving. Be philanthropic to Africans and they will sell their unborn children to you. Even the politicians and pastors know this level of gullibility in the African mind.

Some argued that since Americans have rejected the vaccine, Africans should accept it because Gates has been philanthropic to Africans. Can you just believe what you hear sometimes from educated morons? It is not about sitting in class, taking tests and getting paper certificates. In the global arena, most Africans (especially the quasi-educated) are idiots.

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nyzeo:
I am 33 and I come from a state from the south south. I met a girl in Lagos 4 years ago who is from the south east and we have been very good friends ever since then.

I have developed very strong affection for her over time and we started dating. We really love each other now and we have have finalized plans to get married anytime between this year and early next year.

The issues now is that my parents are insisting I marry from my state, somebody who speaks the same language. It has caused me to have issues with my mother because she is the orchestra of all this tribal bigotry.

Please lala and house memeber make una advice me abeg. I have found someone who truly complements my life I really sincerely love this lady. Thanks

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Interesting times!

It is usually the other way around.

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The best and lethal tool to give to the Whites is an educated African. I am surprised FFK is not following the abhorable pathway. They are the kind that explained with graphics that MMM was the best financial ingenuity because the books they read said so.

Less than 6 months of coronavirus and they are coming out with vaccines. Decades of HIV and there are no vaccines. Yep! People will believe anything they are fed. If you are a believer, just take the vaccines and leave us alone. The saddest part is that WHO and CDC keep shifting the goal post every week to the point that nobody knows what to believe anymore. To err on the side of caution is the best approach.

Remember this kind of commercial and I believe in a few years it will go like this--"Did you or your loved ones take the covid-19 vaccines? Call the law offices of XYZ at 1-800-SUCKERS. You may be entitled to financial compensations". Only those residing in US will understand the import of this commercial that usually comes handy after drug trials.

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CanadaOrBust:
Oh we have no quarrel with anyone applauding her. We are only pointing out at same time that she is a THIEF

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Name one Nigerian politician who is not tainted. Even when they pretend to be upright, we goad them to steal.

We are not advocating against looting anymore because it has become our culture.

We only ask for the basic amenities to carry on with our lives.


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doggedfighter:
With So many deaths of the prominent members of the society.
It's shows how heavily they rely on foreign hospitals.
There maybe many deaths of the unknown that we don't know about that's if it's covid related

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Their access to foreign hospitals was shut. They had to rely on the dilapidated structure they left behind here.

Will they learn?

Let's hope the ones who said doctors are free to leave do not fall sick this period.

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The sad reality of Nigerian politics is that if she doesn't give 1 kobo, there is nothing anyone can do. That's why the least we can do is applaud her generosity. Afterall some folks are comfortable with hoarding all the content of bullion vans to themselves while his hungry supporters beat drums and gyrate to the melodious tune of inglorious death.

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He did wedding for the public...

..but died for his family.

Those who seek for validation are bound to end up horribly. To impress who exactly? The memory of the best or worst wedding does not last more than a month.

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The f00ls will always be amongst us.

They will continue to pay.

No need beating a dead horse.
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No way!

I thought all women are angels who could do no wrong.

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Preciousgirl:
My 30 year old brother is going to marry a 43 year old woman. The woman is never married before and has no kids but been in 7 different past relationships.

I am not endorsing this, what do you advise?

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Go marry your choice then.

Are you going to live with them? Will they be dependent on you? If No, then mind your own business. Just the arrogance of you believing that your endorsement matters is nauseating.

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Soldier
Policeman
NSDC official
Boy scout
Bloody civilian

Whoever has the gun is in-charge. An unarmed soldier or police officer who runs into operation by civilian armed robbers is just a sitting duck.

It is all about the GUN. The soldier is an idiot.

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Good
better
"best"

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DigitB:
That is not true.
I'm not from Ebonyi.

Some of you look down on them and call them derogatory names. They are developing very fast.

Their governor is better than the female APC puppet we has as governor in Enugu.

If those guys stop farming for one season there will be food shortage in the east.

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I don't know about Ebonyi state as a whole but I was invited to Abakiliki during Sam Egwu's tenure. I was amazed at the serenity and cleanliness of the city. Most people talking down on Abakiliki (Ebonyi) have never gone beyond Enugu. So learn to excuse their ignorance. Abakiliki is one city I will love to live in.

There is a hotel supposedly owned by Sam's wife. The best fish peppersoup I ever had.

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Sammy07:
I'll Always be Ọmọlúàbí
They are silent Achievers, no media, no noise.

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No need to blow trumpet. They didn't have to start life over with £20. Therein is the difference.

By the way, they only raised(aka borrowed) $10m seed fund. Will they make it? Only time will tell. Venture capitalists are waiting for their returns.
Allow them to invest the money first, turn profitable before chestbeating on another man's triumph. You have one head also. Right?
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How did they cross all the boundaries until they got to Cross River?

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Ndeoma:
Their is this lady I have come to develop feelings for. She is a graduate and intending to go for service before November... it's just this pandemic
that is delaying things. She is also a member of my church and serving in one of the service units. I have been observing her for a while and in the course of time grew feelings for her.

I took courage and approached her and she told me she is engaged to be married this December but the problem is that after that our chat she has been tailing me. She always comes around me to sit close to me during service meetings. Some times she'd be starring so much at me that you'd wonder. I'm beginning to think wether she actually told me the truth about her relationship status earlier or she is just trying to hold on to me as alternative just incase here marriage plans with the other guy goes south.

Please friends I need your sincere advice on what to do as am confused. I really love the lady and would like to marry her.

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Try again.

Remember that 3rd time is the charm.

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The thread is really unnecessary.

Anyone in doubt should visit Nnewi.

Some people typing two pages in disagreement have never gone beyond Ore going SE/SS. Why bother?

Afterall the only way some people became accidental landlords was by taking possession of abandoned property. Their sons and grandsons couldn't do any better either.
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alexsoftwork:
Very very Good from the dunamis pastor, yes! This are what we want from this men of God. Weather church open or not, you should be able to impact your society.
Church are met to lead the pace so that others can follow( GOVERNMENT).

Oledepo(Mr tithe) oyakill-omen(Mr masturbation is not a sin) and 5G is Antichrist. Adebo-ole. The man that said "God is trying to flex his muscle through this pandemic.

This is your priority, this is what should be your focus.

Between, I hope this is not a scam by just showing pix and putting it on social media.
I don't trust Nigerian churches this days oo.

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It is tithe refund

...just like tax refund.

It is very nice of them to give the people some of their money back.

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sarrki:
Every other state or region learn from Lagos


Lagos is the leader

Any political leader in Lagos is the head of modern day leader

Argue with prove from your region or state of origin

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Those who claimed Lagos in the 60s are mostly dead today. Lagos continues to exist. Those claiming it today will still leave Lagos behind. If you claim Lagos, keep it. Let peace reign. But beyond bragging about something you have no control over, the most important question is: HAVE YOU EATEN TODAY?

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Buhari and Osibanjo should continue in hibernation.

I am glad that Nigerians are learning the hard way. They have realized that a leader coming from your zone does not spare any set from bearing the brunt of maladministration. The home state of Buhari has been run over by bandits. What has he done? Let them keep voting dolts into power and expect him to turn into a messiah overnight. Everyone is equally carrying the cross and I am loving it.
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Banditry in the North na brotherly love.

E no concern us.

Let them enjoy their Presidency and Vice Presidency. If your son is the President or the VP and you are still suffering with us, if not worse, wetin you gain?

The first to implode loses.

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Be informed that the power women exert in US is a farce. It depends on the man as well. Sue me and I will wear you down with cele prayers, Enugu-Ezike jazz, orisirisi, appeal, ofo na ogu, just to mention a few.

But then, prevention is better than cure. Before marrying anyone to bring to US, ensure that your exit strategy is airtight. Know exactly when to pull a stop loss. As inter alia stated, prevention remains the best strategy.

When she says "I love you", have fun with her and pay her off. Get your emotions in check. Your Nigerian uncles and aunts pushing you to tie the knot do not understand the risk involved. It is your life. Live it.

If you have a lady in Nigeria on a monthly stipend of N200k, you will be better off. But the question is: Why?! Last time I checked Vaseline doesn't cost that much.

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lefulefu:
lol its better yu just marry the devil u know than to be going back to naija looking for a bride.many yankee based naija guys who went home looking for homebase wife to bring to US have sorry tales to tell.if u still insist on marrying homebase just marry her and keep her in nigeria and be sending monthly upkeep then visit her during easter and christmas....but there chances she will codedly have a lover while u over there cos she go need man to warm her bed during the cold lonely nights.

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Don't say that.

Some people have to be used as reference points from which others will learn. The folks going back to Nigeria to marry? The fantasy rarely lasts long.

I love to watch train wreck.

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Networth is a tricky calculation.

The reality set in to those who invested in real estate but when the pandemic hit, the banks frooze their equity line of credit. In other words, on paper they have money but in reality, they ain't got it.

Think about it. You have N100k in your account. The banks are closed for two weeks. No ATM is paying out and no business around has POS. What good is the N100k?
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